>Forever alone virgin
>Finally get GF
>She invites me over to her place
>Feel like things are going too fast
>Too nervous get an erection
>She keeps trying to put it in but I keep getting soft
>She starts crying asking if I don't find her attractive
Well robots today was the worst day of my life. How was your day? Also any veterans have any advice for me?
just fuck mate
and his mouth is a good Answer r be drunk when you should do it
if you feel like things are moving too fast you should tell your gf that. As for the getting soft you probably need to have more foreplay (making out and rubbing with clothes, then without clothes, then oral, then stick the dick in)
and tell her that you are just nervous and that of course you find her attractive but with better wording
kek, performance anxiety
Dude, forget any imagry of her being some innocent girl. She ain't no madonna, and even if she were, it wouldn't matter because girls get off on being used. That's why they all admit to rape fantasies.
Tear that pussy apart and do it selfishly. She gets off on you getting off to her. That's what good sex is.
Thinking about whether you're going to be able to get hard will ruin your hard-on 100 times out of 100.
As far as I know, the only way to get yourself to stop worrying about it is to do it a bunch of times to get confident. Just be honest, tell her you don't know what you're doing and it's going to require some patience from her before you get it right. And in the meantime, do stuff she likes that doesn't require a hard-on
this is what I had to do with my gf. had to remind her that she's beautiful and I would fucking plow her if I could but I would just get so nervous I lose my hard-on. it all comes down to confidence, user.
Also, just so you know OP, because you didn't fuck her and give her validation, she just went and fucked that guy you hate.
Goodnight.
Thanks brahs.
Normally I don't have any problem getting hard when jacking off, but I was pretty much having a full blown panic attack and wasn't even thinking about sex when she was on top. And yeah even before I met her tonight I was worrying about being able to get hard because of all the other stories I've heard about nerves killing hardons.
I'm seeing her again tomorrow. Trying to figure out if I should try again or tell her I want to go slower. She told me sex is very important to her and she has a high sex drive so I don't want to go too slow for her.
That girl sounds like trouble.
you are a beta
If she really thinks that all guys just get erections willy nilly then she needs to learn about guys.
I've never been able to get an erection the first time I'm with somebody. It's just a nervous thing.
you sound underage, m8
but also just tell her you were nervous and got performance anxiety. you find her SO attractive you started over thinking it because you didn't want to mess up, and it backfired. it's a compliment and it's the truth, which is easier than a lie.
Fap to porn less, let her know where youre at, do something chill that you enjoy like watch a movie together, so you're not focused on fucking.
Could always just try getting her off with fingers and tongue, and see if that gets a rise, at least she'll be getting something out of it.
>High sex drive
>She got fucked by someone else when you left.
>She's gonna cheat on you and get fucked often.
>Better off not to bother with this girl.
Might be the condom, they always fuck with me too
Dude, this happened to me too. It's fine. Just make sure you're chill before and don't worry so much. The more you think about "nerves killing your hard on" (it does, that's why you relax), the worse it'll be.
Don't think too much. Can't get hard? Play with her. Make out with her. Do non-penetrating things until your dick gets with the game.
It happens sometimes. Just wait til you get older. I'm 40, I'm lucking if my dick gets hard once out of every 12 opportunities for sexy time. Smoke some weed and relax. Tell your girl to chill and play with your balls until you relax and get hard. The expectation on us as dudes is that we should just get hard and perform while the broad just lays there. Nope. That ain't how it works.
Oh, this is a good point. Condoms can really make you lose your erection unless you're used to them. You may want to practice getting hard and putting one on before the real thing.
Just be like listen bitch this is my first time slow the fuck down
Unless its not and your story is untrue
>robots
gr8 b8 m8
I mean I was used to condoms, it's either something they're made from or the elastic on the base of my dick cuts circulation
You're trying too hard. Relax. Smoke a little, tell her to relax. Watch a good flick, something with some hotness to it. Spend time playing with her. It'll happen when you stop focusing on your dick.
If you're wearing too small condoms, that would definitely kill it. For me, it's the loss of sensation. It's why my gf and I do it raw.
Smoke some weed and do a line of coke
>be opiate addict
>no erection or never cumming is frequent
>gf gets more and more upset each time one of those happens
>same thing, 'am i not hot enough!!?@!?'
>one day don't take any opiates until i'm fairly far into withdrawal
>have sex
>dick is so hypersensitive i cum instantly. literally stick it in and cum before i even get one pump in
>'see, look how hot you are'
>get dressed and leave
no more complaining