80 20 rule in dating - does it exist?

examiner.com/article/the-80-20-rule-theory-explains-a-lot-of-today-s-problems-among-dating-singles

Is this true? Do 80 percent of the females really only go for 20 percent of the guys? How is this fair?


>Let's say a professional matchmaking organization got one thousand single heterosexual women together and transported them to an island where all of their living expenses would be covered, and they would never be in desperate need for anything crucial to their survival, such as food, beverages, clothing, and comfortable living quarters.

Now, this same professional matchmaking organization has identified one thousand healthy single heterosexual men and transported them to this same island. All of these men have expressed an interest in finding an ideal woman to spend time with romantically and sexually.

>Conventional wisdom says . . . . within a matter of days, weeks, or months, the men and women on that island will transition from 2,000 individual men and women into 1,000 happy, loving couples.

>The mythical '80-20 Rule' Theory of Dating and Relationships says . . . . within a matter of days, weeks, or months, approximately 800 of the 1,000 women are going to be competing with each other for the attention and companionship of roughly 200 of the 1,000 men on that island.

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Life isn't fair, user. The best thing we can do at this point is not give in to them when they go to settle for you after they've already aged and let them die miserable and alone.

It's not like a law of the universe or something it's just a general observation

People are still people after all but it depends on the situation, what the pool of men and women on the island are like, cultural influences etc.

>people try to get the best partner they can

Groundbreaking study, user.

kek Hilarious. but true.

There probably is some truth in it. Why do you think arranged marriage was a thing for so long?

If people were matching up and living happy lives on their own, there would be no need to pick mates for younger people.

Now that arranged marriage is no longer a thing in any significant way, people's short term happiness might be higher but their long term happiness is much lower.

In general though: Why would a man really care about sleeping around unless he was trained not to sleep around from a young age?

Why would a woman want to mate with a low test male under any circumstances unless marriage was something expected of her from a young age?

One night with an alpha beats any amount of time with a lesser man.

>Does it exist?

Well, fucking does it? Nice thread, faggot.

Makes sense ehh
Why go for some autistic beta

God fucking DAMMIT I want to spray Gronks pecs with cummies

marriage was an agreement men made in secrecy to allow undesirable men in their society a chance at having a woman.

1 man to 1 woman (at least for public appearances, behind the scenes anything goes) keeps the most desire able men from hoarding all the women to themselves.

In a world without marriage, men that are actors, successful businessmen, etcetcetc would have many women living with them in their luxurious mansions.

No seriously.

"Hey random whore, want to live for free in my huge mansion where you can play and swim with other random whores all day? Only stipulation is I'm going to fuck you sometimes"

>marriage was an agreement men made in secrecy
>t. 12 year old fedora

80% of the females want the 20% of guys, doesn't mean they will get them. Logically if they don't want to be alone or competitive, they will settle for less than what they had wanted.

But are you really okay with your GF settling for you but wanting Chad? Unfortunately for many men that is the reality. The top 20% probably is 6"0 and above, in shape, and at least 8/10.

Chad?

>taking in some cavernous cunt after she rode out her best years on nigger cocks

Are you fucking dumb dude.

Look at times where men were more primal, like just past cavemen level where we lived in tribes.

The chieftain gets all the women, with few exceptions made for his most elite warriors or honored men in the tribe. No one else gets women.

Sometimes over half of all new births are direct descendants of the chieftain of a tribe.

> Facts make you a fedora lord

>bring back le arranged marriage
>here user, marry this ugly bitch, her parents are LOADED with money

Alpha men and good looking women mix.

Beta men and ugly women seem to date, but are more further support from eachother if they makes sense. Beta men and ugly women have higher chances of not breeding.

>VIRTUAL REALITY

it's on its way boys.

What I find interesting about this whole argument is that 80% of women are not worthy of the top 20% of men. You would think it would be something like 20-20. This just confirms women are delusional.

This.

One generation and we can show all the young women of the next generation why not to be an old spinster.

its either that or you won't get laid

personally I'm getting laid. And a party girl can turn into a wise, awesome mother because she has massive social experience.

You know, unlike you

The difference is our natural behavior unconstrained by social constructs like monogamous marriage trends more towards (desirable) men having several different female partners at once and women being willing to share the most desirable men, which is why literally every polygamist society on Earth has worked this way.
Reproductively, it makes sense. If a woman gets knocked up she's "busy," so to speak, for 9 whole months whereas the guy who knocked her up is ready to go again in hours. A woman with a sexual stable would be pointless because she can only get pregnant from one of them and that's a whole lot of reproductive potential going underutilized.

>Implying most of Sup Forums wouldn't jump at a chance to get their dick wet
>implying it's not women who get sold out to rich men for huge dowries.

In an arranged marriage society, if you get arranged with an ugly woman, it's because your family was poor.

Tfw you are checked by a VR Chad anyway

Every girl is Daddy's little princess.

These posts sum up the ultimate crux of any man with standards today, thanks to feminism and this bullshit "women's lib", which was more or less a eugenics program (just imagine how many men and women would've never been born if women weren't forced to spread their legs to survive in history, the state ensures they survive today).

You have a situation where dating looks like this:

Women that are 1-4/10 (gollum's sister):
- Probably have a large collection of sex toys
- Many still are audacious enough to make online dating profiles, typically with feminist bullshit on them because they're insecure and need to drag the world down
- Fuck a lot of niggers on Tinder

Women that are 5-8/10 (average hypergamist hoping for Chad):
- Online dating profiles all over the place, as she's realized that when she goes out in the real world, she's just average, but when she gets online, suddenly she has the 9 and 10 perfect males from a 100 mile radius all trying to fuck her
- Stupid enough to think that the tall, rich, handsome, 9 or 10 guy will settle for her subpar looks, especially considering looks is all women have in today's world since they don't want to be mother's but rather "helpmates who work."

9 and 10 females (Stacy Thundercunt):
- God forbid the guy who marries this broken carousel addict. Thanks to women's lib and how much dick these women have had, I'm surprised there hasn't been a joint-venture between private surgeons and truck tire manufacturers to monetize labiaplasties so these roasties can make some extra makeup money for getting their curtains trimmed.

Men dating prospects:
- If you're a 9+ on looks, congrats, you were born into a world that is your harem, download the latest dating app
- If you're 5-8: Good luck "making it" financially, but she'll never love you, even if you get the nice car, you need to accept women only started looking at you after you got everything ELSE, while she fucked guys with just looks before you.

Women are biologically programmed to be hypergamous, it means they lack loyalty towards their man and are always looking for the next best thing, even when in a loving realtionship. It's essentially a lack of loyalty.

The OKCupid stats show that men generally judge womens attractiveness across a statistical distribution which is a typical bell curve about the mean. Most women are judged to be average attractiveness about 50% of the women are above this average and 50% below.

Women rate mens attractiveness as 80% of men being below the mean average, which doesn't mathematically make any sense and demonstrates that women have completely unrealistic standards.

It's also true through analysis of genetic history (studying DNA) that about 80% of women in the past went on to mate and have offspring where as only about 40 of males did.

It's not fair but then life isn't fair.

Ofcourse it exists. The 80/20 rule is back into play since societal standards and agreements around morality and arranged marriages are gone. They call it "female liberation" for a reason: women are allowed to fuck freely 'cause the agreements faded away on the altar of 'progress'. In fact this is not progress at all because our birth rate is declining

-> BRING IN REFUGEES

See were this is going. It's an entire fraud. We should hang the people who enabled the sexual liberation meme

>poland defending cuckoldry

Yeah, I don't stand a chance in competing with other males, I'm just not desirable to women. Even in the hypothetical scenario that a woman would want to be with me, there would be billions of males that she would rather be with before me. I will remain a virgin for life, I've accepted this fate a long time ago.

In other news, WATER IS WET

I don't have the chart with me, but the same data that points to the 80-20 number for women shows men ranking women at an almost perfect bell curve.

I've fucked a dozen or so women in my life, so I'd say these numbers are close.

How to be in the top 20%

>be white
>be at least 6ft
>be relatively /fit/
>be at least 4/10
>have a hobby or play sport
>be rich
>or appear to be rich to fuck sluts

It's not that hard.

>tfw you're the 20%

Tbh I understand why some men who don't get to fuck don't get fucked. Thirsty pajeets, people without emotional self regulation, men who would sit by while their house got sacked etc, the men who unironically comment on porn boards, people who fall in love on the first handshake, etc. People who think having A means they should have C even though they have no relation. All people who rightly wouldn't move the world forward.

inb4 mad omegas

Just stick to your anime and ponies and stay off facebook and stop commenting on porn videos.

this

woman is an awful creature, only few of them is really human being

im not edgy virgin, just observe the universe

This is certainly a first. I think we found the one Swede living in Poland.

>be white
fug

Hey man, working sucks, I'd probably do it.

>"Hey random whore, want to live for free in my huge mansion where you can play and swim with other random whores all day? Only stipulation is I'm going to fuck you sometimes"

That's more or less what the world is today. Feminism made the world a harem. It was women who chose that "getting stuff and toys" was more important, when they -- quite vocally -- decided that a job in the corporate world was superior to the full-time job of being a mother, a home maker, a wife, a developer of life (children).

Women actively voted and pursued a life of becoming cum dumpsters. It is the dream of every young girl -- not to capture a good man -- but to capture semen in her mouth from countless niggers and Jews and other random fuccbois of random races.

honestly you just have to stop waiting for bitches to come to you

i've seen 4/10 dudes who get hoohaa because they make an effort and are outgoing

I don't get any cause I just wait for people to talk to me

>>tfw you're the 20%
>telling-the-truth.jpg

Okay, user

Had a go with a HTC Vive in our office the other week.

Shit's insane. It will fuck a lot of people up.

pls leave and stay leave

>be rich

ITT: A bunch of lonely neets.

Girls aren't much different than boys when it comes to do dating. Different tactics and advantages, sure. But most women are often just as nervous or self-conscious as all of you autismos.

Pic semi-related.

It's true, but there's nothing wrong in it.

We need to bring back alpha harems. Shitty men and women have been breeding for too long and that has resulted in a catastrophe.

Depends. Are they degenerate American whores or culture Japanese women

Yeah! I scene since I was a kid. Women aren't really attracted to alphas. More like assholes.

>Biology is a lie
>Female and Male humans have the same thought processes and mating strategies

If this is true, why are so many ugly people together?

Almost all couples I see are in the basic/average/ugly range. It sounds like the "80" that make up this mythical group are just mad that they can't get a 10/10 so they claim no women want them.

Its all bullshit desu. There's plenty of women out there for everyone if you adjust your expectations. You guys sound like Elliots rn.

solid post and jesus christ that bitch sounded like my ex wife

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>jewbaby

More like a 1:17 ratio, 1 man becoming a father for every 17 women giving birth. The rise of the 80-20 phenomenon roughly coincides with the last haplogroup bottleneck during the last ice age.

researchgate.net/publication/273631580_A_recent_bottleneck_of_Y_chromosome_diversity_coincides_with_a_global_change_in_culture

German summerfags on holiday in Poland detected

I'd have to be a top 20% guy for this theory to be true and I'm not. Stop being spotty teenagers and women will flock to you. You are just late bloomers.

It's evolution working.

Losers should not breed in significant numbers.

pol once again is always right

>i'm a lonely virgin because women only go after chads

You'd be lucky to be paired with a daughter of a wealthy family. In most cases, she would be going to a privileged member of society; even if she was ugly.

Yep, but a top 20 male would fuck a lets say barely top 50 % women (or even less) if she is the best woman at that moment. (just fuck, being with her is another thing). That ocasional fucking makes them think they deserve or have a chance with the 20 top males, even when it is dellusional (she was just a fuckhole to release the poison).
Thats just biology, in majority of animals thhats how it works, testosterone ridden males are the ones seeking bitches which doesnt feel that sexual urge but have to be selective to get the best male that approach them

Girls only need one night with a alpha. To get the best of them

Isn't this natural competition.

I just don't understand modern straight guys. You weren't always this whiny.

If you just try to be better men, (and stop fishing in social sewers for females) you will surely get better women.

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Successful middle age Manlet here: be successful and not autistic and it will all work out.

Really, if you are a bottom 50% male, you are better off without bottom 50% girls. They are doing you a favour. You will just despise each other. Bottom 50% girls are TRASH.

>rich

>ugly

You do realize she's rich, right?

nice bait thread kike chan

Really makes you think...

This is what Supreme Gentleman actually believe.

This is only accurate if you have no personality. I noticed long ago in school that women are attracted to men for reasons other than looks, because some ugly motherfucker could pull 8/10 qt3.14s.

Bottom line is, being rich and good looking will get you laid easier, but making a woman laugh and being able to make her feel like a little girl when you touch her, being confident and aggressive will get you any woman worth your time.

I have my pick, and I always go for personality over looks, because I tend to become good friends with the women I end up having a relationship with. The other ones I just fuck.

Makes sense. After all 80% of men are single and 80% of women are in relationships. I can only see there being good empirical for such a claim and I mean, sure, my initial reaction is to go: those are the idiotic ramblings of a insecure loser with the self-awareness of a block of cheese. But this guy is using percentages and that means he's got facts on his side.

Ignorance the post.

>80/20
Yeah, it keeps supply and demand on pussy in check.

There's truth to it but 80-20 is just too extreme to be accurate.

I'm divorced with 2 kids but keep up the assertions and shaming tactics because you have no argument

>hover hand for the boob
>intimate caress for the bois neck
disgusting

women are super fun and nice to be around, I have no idea why these manlets are always putting this r9k / kike chan bait up

I sympathize with the concept, but:

Even if I had money, a car, a villa, the looks, everything,....

I still could not pull women.

Or I could pull them like literal whores... which I could also do earlier.

This was actually confirmed from Tinder data, they found that 20% of men were getting a significant amount of matches while the other 80% were getting few or none. For women, it was the opposite. 80% getting a lot of matches, 20% getting few to none.

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Jon has just been taught a very valuable lesson. Now he can finally start acting like a man and none of this will ever happen to him again.

You seem to think an arranged marriage guarantees you someone over 5/10.

Geez

xojane.com/sex/i-cheated-with-my-ex

Y'all need Jesus.

Idk I consider myself a top 20% male (6'1" white software dev and 7/10 face) and don't get too much attention from females desu. I do have a gf though maybe they can smell that.

>literally white privilege

ironic

What do you mean?

Outside of trump generals, this board is r9k.

We're really going to use tinder as a way to gauge the dating habits of our entire population. aren't we?

It's not shocking at all that it's like that on tinder. The whole point is to shoot as high as possible and gamble on getting a hot hook up.

>a woman getting fucked once a day by a guy for 30 years is cool

>a woman getting fucked by 35 different guys once over her lifetime will make her vagina spill out and will stimulate labia growth

Found the virgin. Your post would be ok were it not for the 8 year old's understanding of basic fucking biology and lack of common sense.

actually women's sexuality is a lot more complicated than men's

>authored by "Hollywood Men's Dating Advice" columnist

throw that shit out the fucking window user

80/20 does not apply to relationships (sidenote: lesbianism), but to fucking, access to sexual ressources.

In the OK Cupid study, 80 % of women went for 20 % of males, ranking 80 % of males below average on looks.

Yeah, about that...

>you will never fuck sluts with gronk and tom brady
i wanna die

>I do have a gf though maybe they can smell that.

Women are like jobs, it's easier to get a new one if you already have one.

>facts
>fedora lord

Marriage was spawned out of fucking morality, whether by culture or religion (typically both), not because of some secret shady deal by men in secret.

You are either an actual retard or some femacunt numale faggot. In either case you are most certainly nigger ignorant

Just be rich.

You haven't been on the internet long enough if you haven't seen enough actual dating profiles of women, and tweets, and other bullshit, where they all actively shame guys who are "manlets", which in their world is anything under the 6'3" Jolly Green Giant of Netflix and Nail Me.

If you were a woman today, you wouldn't settle either, knowing you could just get on a dating app that would ping out a hundred miles radius and men who are significantly above you in all areas are willing to meet you, despite that they just want to 'meat you', you'll keep telling yourself otherwise in hopes you can catch the prized bass and boost the fuck out of your ego when you feel like superwoman parading around a guy that all of the other girls want, that all of the other girls say "how did she get him?"

And if you really think women care about your personality rather than other women hyping you up, you've probably never been outside. The prettiest girls are the best example, as they don't have time to get to know you, and rely almost exclusively on the perception of you from their social circle and others around them who think you're the shit.

It's for all of these reasons that -- despite there being a lot of bullshit in "game" over the decades -- all of the game and redpill shit always included social proof as a key component.

Rollo's "Plate Theory" and spinning plates bullshit perfectly sums up the very best successes I ever had up as a man, when I was on, when I was busy in life, pursuing goals, I completely fucking ignored women, and look what happened? These women don't want you, they want what they can't have.

The dream of a woman is never to catch a prized bass, but rather have the prized bass on her line, while other women are envious that they didn't catch it. And, if she ever fully reels you in, if she ever fully gets you, she'll throw your ass back, because you're a loser for letter her have you completely.

then why are only women "shooting high".
The same was found in OK Cupid and other apps.

In the real world, alphas dominate; women flock. Very simple.
Why do you think the inherently weak Jew invented the monetary system?

Nah, it doesn't even make sense at all. Just sounds like some bullshit theory on the same tier as the stories KANGZ and SJWs make up.