My fellow Sup Forumstards, lend me your insight

My fellow Sup Forumstards, lend me your insight

>be me
>23yr old long haired dude
>be stuck in Nebraska in a town of like 200 people
>feel like Im the only person of my kind in this shitty ass backwater state full of dead dreams, drugs, and conservative christain values
>goes days without talking to people because theres no one here I can relate to ( that or I get severly misunderstood and shit on more by everyone )
>trying so fucking hard to get my shit together but can't because a state this boring and tiny your mistakes follow you everywhere
>want to fucking leave and just start the fuck over but lack the funds atm
>slowly going fucking crazy and I have like no one to reasonably talk to about how I feel because Im so fucking midunderstood around here

Pretty much whats the best way to cope with being forced to live here when you feel like an oberly ostracized alien and no one to count on but yourself?

Figure you guys out of all people in this world could give me a more real answer than the fake fucks I am forced to be around everyday
>Inb4 too edgy

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>long haired dude

Souce?

Shameless self bump

Also more pr0n so ya know

Source?

>be poor white trash in the middle of bum fuck nowhere
nobody cares faggot

Search "Pixie Bitch" and you should find it

Sorry man but you're not forced to live there you're making excuses. I moved to my capital city literally without a penny to my name, you could and would do the same if you wanted it badly enough. You'll either take a risk and it could send you down an adventure like you've never experienced, for better or worse, or you stay where you are and die there around the same people you hate.

Thanks fellow user! Any input helps!

Just move. There's no other way. No funds is not a good reason to live in a place that you hate.

Ive considered that thought a lot honestly, the fear of the unknown always seems to hold me back though.

Any tips if I were to say fuck it and hit the road in hopes for the best?

Bumperoni

Sure. Get some semblance of a plan, don't just see where life takes you. Find work IMMEDIATELY even if it's shitty, firstly to give you a safety net and second to avoid employment gaps in your CV if you're career focused.
Be open to new experiences but don't expect some movie where the stars align and you strike it big and get a 10/10 gf (doubt you're stupid enough to, but I fed :/). Also be aware that the whole world is full of pretty shitty people, having access to more of them just allows you to have a better selection, so choose your circles wisely. If you move there and make friends with losers you'll become a loser.

Hope that helps even a little.

Biggest advice: do it!

Not OP, but here

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Thanks fellow user. Im pretty aware that life wont ever go according to plan. Just gotta roll with the punches I guess. But seriously thanks for the kind and real words. Shit means a lot

What's keeping you there? Also, source?

Get a job that pays well enough so you can get a place of your own elsewhere. If that means you quit Job A to move and need a Job B, make sure you have that planned BEFORE MOVING or else you'll get fucked back to where you started

>>feel like Im the only person of my kind
no shit, did you really think old farmers who listened to Paul Harvey would be into Sup Forums? heres what you can do:
1) get a job and save some god damn money
2) research exit routes or bags
3) go somewhere else
4) gain perspective

just so you dont think im full of shit we were poor white trash, living in a trailer outside of Grand Island. Now im in CA and cant wait to gtfo. So many fucking junkies everywhere

A bit of it is just fear of the unknown. The other is waiting to get my liscense back from some traffic violation legal shit

go steal a baby and sell it to the clintons

Hey my friend, I'm from a small town in Alabama but I live near Atlanta now. Life is dramatically better here. Perfect? No. Very good? Yes.

Every moment you stay in a backwards place is another moment you're depriving yourself of opportunities and you're continuing to suffer.

Do anything you can to figure out average rent in a better city and then find 1 or 2 jobs and get out.

Whatever you do, get the hell out. I couldn't until I got out of college and the only way to find a good paying job in my field was to get hired here (or other major area) but looking back I was miserable until I got out.

Also, my choice of women to date and friends to have were INCREDIBLY small compared to howitzer is now. Now I speak Spanish and dated lots if girls, plus have cool friends and I'm in shape.

All the people I know who are still back home are depressingly fat, work meaningless jobs, and look horrible.

Please take my advice and get out ASAP. good luck! Remember you're not alone in how you feel.

You're welcome user, best of luck! Always best to move when you're still in a good headspace. I waited until I couldn't stand it anymore, and had just had my heart broken, made it 100x more difficult. Definitely get out before you reach breaking point.

If nothing else, I guarantee you'll have some awesome stories in a years time!

user steal a baby and sell it to the Clinton Foundation. that is you ticket out

OP, what is your age?

Cut your hair.
It's the best start

Sauce?

At least this: get a car or get in your car and fuck off on a Friday evening every second week and fucking go somewhere for the weekend. Stay in a motel. Go somewhere...anywhere else. See things. It'll help you make plans.

This, you fucking hippy.

Actually a good idea. Getting exposure to life somewhere else.

Well if you have a car, just leave. I used to live in Nebraska and everyone had the same excuse you did. They made up a million reasons as to why they cant leave. Why not just... leave? What are you waiting for? Things to get better? They wont. Leave now. Live in your car if you have to for a while. Just go south a bit to Colorado where everyone is hiring, get a job, get an apartment and you're good.

Sauce my dude?

Do what I did in the past and about to do in a bit once my curre t job runs out. Become a merchant marine. I have a room in very nice little house in the middle of nowhere. Basically no bills, great pay if you're single and I get to travel.

got dat sauce?

Sauce please

Also I'd say the best course of action is to find a job and save.

Go get a baby and sell it to the clinton foundation

got dat sauce??

head towards drugs and or conservative christian values

>Just go south a bit to Colorado where everyone is hiring, get a job, get an apartment and you're good.

wait for financial situation to turn better, then start new life somewhere else and meet people, maybe change of style is somewhat interesting. otherwise, live with it and learn to be happy on your own

Tribe-like towns like that suck so much. Move away. The only perk is your vote is worth like 200 californians who are economically contributing 400 times as much as anyone in that shit town.

stop feeling like an "Oberly Obstacized Alien" and listen to music that makes u happen and like yourself. Smile more, care less of what others think about you or your past, you're not living in the past

Seeing all of you guys say the same thing is ridiculously encouraging and is helping out trmendously like you have no fucking idea. You have all seriously helped me the fuck out big time. I had the plans that you're all speaking but seeing how many of you are saying the same thing is truly a wake up call and reassuring as fuck.

I definitely dont qant to be one of the dead end fuckers in this state so thanks for the push forward anons. Y'all are some real ass niggas

rolling for something else

>californians who are economically contributing 400 times as much as anyone

>fear of the unknown
will allow you to stay in
>smothering dullness
until you are
>55 and full of regret
It's time to go NOW user.

See

See

>Y'all are some real ass niggas

I say that shit ironically. Plus kinda fell into the NE stoner scene for a bit and that shit just rubbed off on me sadly

Get off Sup Forums, Dane! and get your ass back to Missoula some time.

>Hello Darkness My old Friend

Its 4th grade level math. I know you may struggle, as you type on the internet with technology you dont understand and could never replicate.

Sauce for this specific video?

I live in a town of practically just elderly people and families, best solution is to become a shutin op. Can't remember the last time I willingly talked to someone outside of obligatory instances like shops, pharmacy etc

I live in the city and feel the same, except I realize the grass is always greener, there is no 'promised land' that will magically fix your problems and instead of conservative Christian values we have violent niggers and pollution.
If you're a sad loser in your small town, you'll be a sad loser in urban areas. Surrounding yourself with like minded losers will only make your own flaws more apparent as you see them in others.

>Pretty much whats the best way to cope with being forced to live here when you feel like an oberly ostracized alien and no one to count on but yourself?
Just get a haircut faggot

I used to be in your situation op. I manned up, enlisted in the army, and escaped my boring life. Met exotic beautiful foreign women. Drove a fucking tank and killed iraqis. Spent a lot of time in shithole foriegn countries. Now, no matter how boring my life is, its better than it was getting shot at. Its all a matter of perspective.

OP here, not gunna cut my locks. Shits too fine

Pic related

>that hairline
It makes more sense now

NOT MY BEST PHOTO JUST THE ONLY ONE I HAD GAWD DAMMUT

Here....this ones kinda better I think

You have only one option OP, become a trap.

Look for friend online.

Look at this faggot's picture. He's not joining the military.

>bussy

Haha thanks but I'm not gay.

Fuck no dude. Plus I couldnt even if I wanted to. Got the same disease as Samuel Jackson from that shitty M. Night movie. Military don't want a glass boned dude like me

Assuming these are real...OP is actually a qt but that long hair ruins it. Also, wash that dye out of your hair.

Whats the appeal of having your balls sucked? Seems like a good way to get a torsion.

if she wasnt making that stupid fucking face it would be an amazing scene

As a European... How can anyone even get so stuck as you seem to feel in the USA? You're basically free to roam all the states, live and work where you want and everybody everywhere are fluent in the same language. If I were you, I'd go full trailer trash and save up for a mobile home. Go to places that seem nice and just take jobs wherever.

They are indeed super real and thanks. First time I've been called anything but a devil worshipping drug fiend in awhile :3

I live in Nebraska and want to leave too but also don’t have enough money to move anywhere else.

Literally half of the Americans only Speak spanish and this country isn’t as free as you think

Becoming and adult I've discovered that people absolutely judge you on your appearance, in particular the way you dress. Being a good looking dude in good shape, you're totally wasting your potential, dude. Get a short "Federation" cut like you'd see in Star Trek and dress smart casual with some slacks, a nice button up, a belt and shoes and people will get out of your fucking way. Trust me, dude. Look like you have somewhere to be and somewhere to go.

Its a mental/finnancial thing for me honestly. If I had a bit more perspective than "the good ole midwest lyfe" Id probably be a bit more grateful and daring

BUT ALAS IM STUCK IN THESE CORNFIELDS OF PAIN AND BLANDNESS

Ya same I was born here and there aren’t any jobs that pay well

I don't want to though. Like I know its contradicting to bitch about what people think and do the opposite of solving the bitching (aka an appearance/style change) but I don't want to. I dont wanna look like another "sheep in the flock". I just blame this state for not accepting my rad ass style and locks

>pic of me when the h8erz judge

I'm also from Nebraska OP


Add me on Snapchat : mopplethewhale

OP whats your discord username? I can really help you out with some serious advice with me and others from nebraska.

I dont have discord. The only thing I really comminicate with people thru is psn, Skype (rarely) and like fb :/

Get a discord account, it takes 3 minutes. I'm serious I can really help you

move, no other way out.

you a poorfag, what do you do for a living, i might have a tip for you.

Help AS IN??????

Cuz unless the shit is ez money or a rando lump sum of money I dont really care my dude no offense

That was not a request, you are destined to be a trap, and take it in teh ass from men far superior to you.

I can give you like $3,000 but thats about it

>faggot
There's your problem

wow, not sure if your shitposting but thanks man, my discord is greatfool just made it

there should be a #0000 at the end of that username. a hashtag and four numbers

get a job you lazy cunt

Don't be fucking retarded... the fact of the matter is every faggot edgelord and their mother wants to look 'unique'

I get that you grew up with these traditionalists around you, but the real rebels are the modern era are traditionalists.

Trying to look like an edgelord will only bring you suffering and pain until the only people you fit in with are blue-haired fat extremists who hate you for being a white male.

Put on some nice clothes, get a haircut, and stop being edgy. What you want from people is respect, that's what we all want, and you're not going to get get it by being 'unique and edgy' you're going to get it by being honest and righteous.

Every one wants to be the unique guy, but to be respected, you don't play that weirdo in the background of a movie, you play the hero. You play the guy who learns and grows as a person, not the one whose character is 'unique.'

All humans (europeans) are fundamentally the same, we all fundamentally want the same thing love, respect, acceptance, community. Be a part of that, and you'll get what you want, fight it, and you'll be left with no one but broken people to call your friends.

>Become the man you DESERVE to be.

greatfool#2656 hit me up man

I sent you a friend request

Op, have you considered Jobcore? Its free Tradeschool, they even house and feed you during your enrollment. Look up your nearest center and go to an orientation, look at the trades etc.
>Personally I think welding is the best thing they have but supposedly they just got shit load of new funding so they may have better stuff by now
Most importantly once you gone through the orientation you can CHOOSE where you want to go. Each state has like 4 or 5 different campus's
>granted your counselor will try to convince to go to your home Campus but just tell them that you feel like you no oppertunities in your shit town/state and they'll go ahead and let pick a spot

that guy has a nice dick but that shit is so fucking corny

Don't listen to these fools OP. They think that their own taste is the only one prevalent in the entire world. Plenty of men and women love long hair on a dude as long as its kempt. I personally think everyone owes it to themselves to grow out their hair and beard at least once in their lives if they can. It's what I've done, and you know what? I'm famous now so I get more pussy than any of the "cut your hair" faggots in this thread. Funny how life goes sometimes.

By the by, that is most certainly not me. Some poser just imitating my ass. I aint gunna get a discord unlesd you for sure gunna give me cash

Source? please.

If you live in small town Midwest and look and dress like that, have a room like that it's no doubt you're in the same situation many in the region are. Cut the hair, get nicer clothes, and present yourself better. Nobody will give you the time of day to examine what's in between your ears if you present yourself this way.... much less a classy woman (and pickings are slim in a town like that, I would know).

Not saying you can't have your hobbies and interests but you gotta present yourself better and work on yourself. School, fitness, career and personal life. If one of those is lacking it is easier to gain it when the others are being fulfilled.

I am from small town Wisconsin, was much like yourself. I didn't fit in so I cleaned myself up, worked some shitty jobs and took online classes. Ended up moving to Milwaukee and got a job in a call center for low but reasonable pay. During the struggle, I inadvertently met a lot of people, stumbled upon a gf that held me together and kept my focus on improvement. I finished my degree at a state college, moved to Chicago and have a fulfilling sales job and a decent apartment in the city. When someone sees me now they would have NO idea I came from Hickfarmville and played vids constantly and much less, browse /b regularly.

Life is much better now. You can do it. It sounds silly but you just need to do it.

Thanks my dude. And yeh I know. I do like the perspective believe you me, but the only way Im gunna for surr follow is my own. Sometimes some guidance and tips are nice tho :3