Good evening, user. How's things? Feeling sad again? Need a hug?

Good evening, user. How's things? Feeling sad again? Need a hug?

Let's talk.

boobs my dude, boobs

I'm OK. I've come to accept the meaninglessness of life.

Yes sàve goofy kill donald

They make the world go 'round.

That's good.

What?

Evenin'

real demfage here, trumps offended my shitholes

wat do?

I dunno. What do you usually do when something political starts to go in a direction you don't like?

get slightly upset and butthurt

watch public response and gethype drama too

watch response to immoral event

>time passes

no action happens

>more time

more bitching about thing, slowly tapering off

some new or different news takes place

>event forgotten

think to myself, what was dems/myself supposed to do to stop/change event from happening?

>continue to wonder

I don't think there's anything you or anyone else can do about it. So, does it matter?

am drunk
getting emotional
on the way to becomming an german engenneer
never being a true german engeneer
klv with an age of 20
have friends but still feel lonely

Maybe you'll feel better about it in the morning, but nothing will be different. Why will you never be a true engineer? Do you not believe you can do it?

there is one thing technically

action, obviously. but the amount of action required would be enormous, like quit your life and decide to pursue politics kind of action

like the one thing that is almost always wrong with protest is that, mostly, people are not reminding you, and asking you to vote or change your vote, or vote for local politicians, or organizing people to call or write their congressman

remember the 1% rallys years ago, people got their voices heard some, aaaand not a single thing changed
not a fuck was given.... because they satisfied their emotional need to protest and be dramatic and nothing else

Why bother though? Is it even worth going to that much trouble to change? Just accept it and move on. Focus your efforts on changing something more important. Live your life as well as you can, even if it's within boundaries that you don't like.

but the greater good, we are spinning in circles talking about racism, when in reality

if people knew and understood the real causes for human disagreements and simply understood and could be taught that we are created emotionally to clash with each other we would be more equipped at reducing human suffering, instead of arguing about racism, which is just chasing our own tail

What greater good? What greater good is there than your life and the lives of the people around you? The big picture doesn't matter. Human suffering as a whole can't be reduced. Do your best in your own little bubble, and that is enough.

Let them argue about racism. They won't get anywhere. At least they're not causing any more harm than usual.

math class is killing me
also its civil engineering
already have to extend my studie time from 5 to 6 years because i failed math
never be a true german engineer becauce i leak the creativity to create something new. All i will do is create things within norms

But creativity can be cultivated and built up over time, user. You can increase your creativity with practice, and as you absorb more content over time you'll have more material to synthesize in your mind.

Math is hard. Math is why a lot of people drop out of engineering or mechanics. Keep at it though. If you keep trying I think you'll get it.

not if you can push people towards understanding/tolerance

Yeah, but that's not possible. It's never going to happen.

There are more important things to worry about.

the problem for me is that i cant start. i allways find something else to do like csgo fittnes or friends
when start i have no problem making progress for houres
its the first 5 minutes that are killing me
and you are right. i survived the first sortingwave in university they are sorting out with math and physics

I know exactly how that is. I'm the same way. When I get going on something, I can do it easily. But getting started is really hard. Can you make yourself a more rigid schedule, with defined times for the things you want to do and the things you need to do?

no one is talking about utopia here
racism wasnt just fixed forever with obama

but youre arguing that trying to help doesnt help

its like saying rosa parks didnt do anything for race or mlkj didnt do anything to forward race relations

Two of my online friends tried to commit suicide last Monday. I had to comfort them and comfort all of their other friends while they were recovering.

This morning I had to comfort a friend in Hawaii because they thought the Ballistic Missile alert was real and I someone had to convince a friend they were about to die to nukes.

Now I have to convice those same two friends that everyone likes them

I'm just tired.

But does racism affect you directly? Is it causing problems in your life? Are people hurting you specifically because of racism?

Damn. Long day. You're a strong man, user. You're earned your rest. When can you get some sleep?

When they're doing crying in the voice chat, then I'll be able to rest. I just need to make sure all my friends get through this.

it hurts people in my country and is a detriment to my country as a whole, emotionally, monetarily, quality of life

and frankly, trying to give people reasons to not hate each other would be a good thing

and at the end of the day, even if i can ignore it, it does affect me. so why not be helpful?

Damn I love that movie

You're a better friend than I am.

But does the country matter? What's going on in your life that you can change? You can't do anything about the country. There are other things that affect you more, that you can have a bigger impact on.

It's a fun one.

Awsome picks OP bin a long time sins ive looked at that manga

Easily my favorite. Worth reading again.

Feeling sad again? I legitimately can't remember a time where I wasn't sad. Probably back in my teens but it's been so long I don't know if it was real happiness or just nostalgia. I've never felt so hopeless and kinda just wanna off myself. Hows your day been?

I'm sorry to hear that, user. Do you still function, or is it a crippling sadness?

My day went pretty well. Slept in late, spent the afternoon with some friends.

>Do you still function, or is it a crippling sadness?

I don't know. I mean I exist but I have no real ambitions and am only really here to work/fap/browse this site and sleep. It's kinda I'm tired of living but scared of dying sorta thing.

the state of my country arguably affect me more

like the subject of trump isnt an everyday issue for half the country, with or without physical change occurrung, the real subset of racism increasing effects peoples lives, moral is a huge part of life and such subjects have palpable effects

Not the worst situation to be in, but far from the best. I think that if you really want to change and start believing in life again, you need to build up enough drive to change things and keep them that way. Not sure how to begin though.

But how does all that affect *you*? I'm worried that you're getting out of touch with the world around you and getting too caught up in "people in general" and "the greater good" and "the country". What are some of the real problems in your own neighborhood?

Heroin is probably causing more trouble than racism. But what can you do about that?

for me its often like (csgo) 1 pm i will start learning
1:01 okay 2pm
...
6pm: friend: want to come over?
me:sure (i will learn tomorow)
repeat
1 semester later...fuck

i just want to play games hang out with friends, play piano and drive motorcycle

i even have friends in similar filds or my father to help me

maybe i shoud learn in a specific spot so i dont get distracted

getting slowly sobber now. thanks for listening. it realy helped me a lot

Aye, I see. You've got to force yourself to say no sometimes. Maybe every other night. I don't know. Something will change, user. You'll get it.

Take care of yourself.

You're here every night with a different anime pic. I really appretiate it

anime is gay

I can't make it every night. But I'm glad you appreciate it, user.

I just realized after 10 years of zero contact, that i will always love her.

thaks dude. justs thaks

How about you, user, anything you want to talk about?

What made you realize it?

I don't have anything to say.

I was smoking a cig and listening to music and a memory just crossed my mind. It was about a shower i took with her when she was my gf. Somehow that was the happiest moment in my life. That moment is like a point of reference when measuring my happiness, but i've always been kind of skeptical about it. Now that i'm alone and can be honest to myself, i can tell how important that moment was, and suddenly the feels werw overwhelming.

is my english bad? sorry about it :/

Your english is very good. Having a "highest point" always constant in your memory is a good thing. Don't let it change or drift away, but always be ready to let it slide back to make way for another higher moment. Maybe someday you'll feel even happier than you were then. Maybe not. Keep looking forward to it.

the last post was for you, i misclicked

I don't think your emotions are wrong, it sounds like a very memorable experience and I think you should treasure it.
Probably best to not use that as a point of reference, it seems disingenuous to quantify happiness, gives you reasons to be unhappy. I think you're better off keeping it as a good memory than something you want to obtain again. Good things in life shouldn't be forced like that.

Also you're English is good, I couldn't tell you were ESL.

the point is that i'm starting to feel like nothing will ever compare to that "highest point"

Feels like you have a "high score" in emotional life, but you are now old and lazy and slow to even try to overpass that score

So, hold that moment dear and settle for something a little lower and more sedate. Or strive to surpass it somehow, and make your life a wild and dangerous adventure. I don't know.

How's everyone doing tonight?

i think you are right, but the only thing i find outside that experience is the waiting for another one, which like i said, was 10 years ago. I try my best though, to do what i can with what i have :P

Could be worse. How about you?

I'm doing fine. What do you mean by "could be worse"?

I feel that, every now and then I feel happy and I try and take a moment to reflect that I'm happy and it's kind of profound.
I find that with these kinds of things, and many life experiences, they're much more enjoyable when you don't have expectations and just dive headfirst into it. When you have expectations, it 's easy to get down when they're not met exactly like you envisioned.
So chin up, go through life confidently and don't try and make the good times happen, just go into things with a positive attitude and you'll find you're having a good time.

hahahaha it seems like you are describing two situations: marriage or psychedelic drugs. Its funny but is this is the case, i think i go for the second.

Evening was going pretty well, then I had a conversation with someone I hurt pretty badly a long time ago. Turns out I actually am not a very good person. Could be worse.

You do you, man. Do it with friends though. Don't get into trouble.

You have to give it meaning.

Ouch, that hurts to hear. Have they forgiven you?
I may not know anything about you, but in my opinion the fact that you've made a thread to care about others makes you a good person in my book.

Nope.

You are incorrect. But I don't think many people will object if you continue believing that.

Don't worry about me. I'm invincible. But that's the problem.

huh, you dont think my country effects me, and i cant do anything to change though

offering to change is useless so dont

b-but other things that arent that, user

im not having a problem with other things, my neighborhood is fine

want to help with social issues
>but dont
dont?

if you cant help, than just say so

wow, thank you for the advice, really. It may seem cheap for others, but that hit me deep.

I think happiness, as love, is only a "giving thing", maybe you only can give it to others with the only expectation that once in a while you get splashed with that love or happiness...

This is a humble thinking, but i feel it true and comfortable :)

>Turns out I actually am not a very good person
Not with that kind of attitude.Learn from that experience. Maybe you made some poor decisions, or your personality led you to do some regrettable things. You're only a bad person if you choose not to reflect on that, learn from it, and change for the better.
I'm gonna assume you didn't absolutely ruin their life, they'll cope with whatever you did, learn from it, and move on, that too is part of living. If you continue with that kind of attitude that you're not a good person, you'll only hurt other people more, and most of all, you'll hurt yourself.

Hey, I can't help anyone. Why do you think I'm on Sup Forums? Because I want to help people? Pfff.

Good luck.

No actually. I didn't ruin anybody's life. I just don't have any substance that isn't bad. There isn't anything good behind the front.

Yup, you hit the nail on the head.
It's a dangerous road to be compassionate with the expectation that you're trying to receive something back. To me that's cheap and it'll drive one crazy.
There's happiness to be found in unreturned, unappreciated kindness. I'm no believer in altruism, but I do believe in that.
Glad I could help!

>Hey, I can't help anyone. Why do you think I'm on Sup Forums? Because I want to help people? Pfff.

Good luck.

>OP:Good evening, user. How's things? Feeling sad again? Need a hug?

Let's talk.

the fuck?

whatever user

Bullshit on that, everyone has a good part to them. You do too. Either your pitying yourself or you're delusional. I can't help you on the latter, but if it's the former, then chin up.
Willpower is a special thing, believing in yourself really can go a long way. Your own perception of yourself really changes how you feel and how you live your life. Holding yourself in a low regard is going to put you in for a long, miserable ride through life.
It's not egotistical to think you're a good person, or to even think you're an okay person.
Start with the basis of being an okay person, and think about what you can do to be better.
You'll have to be consistent, this has to be on your mind every day, with almost everything you can do.
I think everyone should be striving to be the best person they can be at every moment in through life. Sometimes it gets rough, but it's worth it hundreds times over in the long run, and you'll thank yourself for it.

You're an apathetic person that's empty inside. I'll assume it's the crushing loneliness that makes you make these threads so you can have a conversation and feel something; feel some worth to others, to the world and maybe to yourself. Am I right?

Even if I were an okay person, I still wouldn't have the willpower to "chin up".

I'll look as good as I can in all the right places. The face will be just as good as ever. But I'm not going to try to be any better than I am behind it.

Nah. I quit the threads a few months ago and started spending more time with friends in real life, and it had a huge positive impact on my emotions. Now I'm back. Dunno why.

You can guess all night.

Sure you do, everyone has.
The first step to being able to do it is to stop complaining and making excuses.
Every time you say you can't do something, you're shooting yourself in the foot.
Start small, just don't say you can't do things, the less you talk about it the less you'll think it, and the less you'll actually believe it. If you actually want to get better, that's how you do it.

Other user in the response here. To the Chihayanon, leave him be. You're shouting at a wall at this point. He's stated that he's not looking to better himself.

I don't accept that, he's my friend and I want to see him get better.

I'll salute your comradery, I think it's very nice of you, but I'm speaking from experience when I say it's nigh impossible to change someone when they don't want to.

I agree with you logic, but I can't sit by idly when I believe I'm in a position to help.

Me me want hole

That's very admirable of you. Godspeed then, chihayanon. Maybe luck isn't one of my strong suits.

Such is life.
Take care, user!

>Good evening, user.
Hey
>How's things?
Why the fuck do you care?
>Feeling sad again?
What the fuck do you know?
>Need a hug?
Fuck off.

>Hey
'Sup?
>Why the fuck do you care?
I don't.
>What the fuck do you know?
Nothing yet.
>Fuck off.
Okay.

You too, my man.

Is OP still around? Feel like he might've been chased away with how forward some comments have been.

Oh, never mind. He's still around. Hey, OP.

Hey user, feeling prety shitty right now....could really use a hug

What's wrong?

Hey user.

*Hugs you tightly*

I'm sorry to hear that, user. Any specific reason for it?

Theres this one person who I cant stop thinking about, an ex who I'm still close friends with and....well I'm still in love with.

>Again
Implying I stopped at some point. Go jump off a cliff faggot.

How long have you been apart?

But it's dark outside.

Maybe things will never change. Maybe they will. What do you think?

It's been...god alomst four years now. I went home for christmas leave here a few weeks back and we got to hang out quite a bit, and it just....felt like nothing had gone wrong....that we never broke up and I actually had a reason to be happy again.

Can you text her and get together again? It's possible she feels the same way.

She's with someone else now....there was a time that they broke up....we got to talking about stuff and I told her that I had a text written out asking if we could try again but got so afraid of her response i deleted it and.....she told me that she did the same....but now....i dont know if anything is left of that spark in her heart. I know it never went out in mine.

Got a date and a hangout canceled.
>Probs going to cry myself to sleep again.

Hmm. Only one way to find out, user. You've got to ask her.

It happens, user. Can you reschedule? Got other friends you can hang out with?

Maybe being sad for a night is the only option here. *hugs you tightly*

Having a porn banner at the bottom of the screen just makes me feel worse.

How to masturbate beautiful woman on public without getting caught? As I am in new city for 5 days and there are lot of beautiful woman in this city.
How to get girlfriend I don't have one.
I am male.
How to get woman as a friend? I am 18 yrs old don't have any friends
I need a girlfriend? How can I find one?
I am stalking woman on FB. I don't have any friends.
I love to stalk every woman from 17-26 on Internet. I am doing this from 2014 and I was 14 age. I do alone secertly
It is my favourite hobby. No ones knows it even my parents because if they find out they won't be happy :)
Stalking a woman is the best as long nothing cross limit

How to get a gf on internet? I am single 18 years old don't have any friends.

What is dumbass? Are you a dumbass?

What is sexually frustrated? Am I sexually frustrated?

What is poo and pee? Are you and me both or them are poo and pee?

What is Linux?

What is Operating system?

What is Firefox? am i Firefox?

What is 64-bit computer?

What is dumb?

What is Opera?

What is chrome?

What is firefox?

You have a gf for males or bf for females? Both of you should pee each other.

Fat woman are so ugly even beautiful fat woman are ugly too.

You have to be patience.

You should pee yourself in pants.

What is masturbation? I think i do 3 times a day

What will happen if the person is unable to pay his/her debt?

How to get a gf. If you dont know about this so go pee your partner especially if its gf for males or bf for female

Do you poo and pee everyday?

I appreciate it user.
Sadly I cannot reschedule, I have literally one friend and a girlfriend.

It wouldn't be a problem if I didn't have to spend every night of my lonely existence alone.

If your internet or computer is slow you can reload the page, then cancel the reloading before it loads the banner.

Good.

I just don't think I could take it if she said no....the only times I've honestly put on a real smile in four years were the two days we spent together.....she is the only thing holding me together anymore....without her....i'd probably just give up on everything

My girlfriend is younger than me and cannot go out as much, as she can't afford it yet. My friend and I have an awkward relationship, but we hangout and game and stuff, but she lives with people.

Most things never change, but when things do they become something worse.

>it's dark outside
It's safe in the dark. Get burned by the light if you want. Those fuckers aren't going to catch me again.