Have you ever had sex with a bubbly, high spirited, cute girl like the one on the right...

Have you ever had sex with a bubbly, high spirited, cute girl like the one on the right? They seem to not exist outside of high school and early college. Why is that?

Because jerks like us ruin them

Also, the bubbly cute girl usually ends up putting on a lot of weight, so they become the bubbly girl.

However, there is the rare occasion where the bubbly tubbly girl in high school gets her shit together and goes to the gym and becomes a late-term bubbly cute girl. This is the real gem.

Lolol westwood NJ??

MOAR left

yes if you swoop in, then bubbly cute for much longer

But Flatchested girl on the left will stay with you long time and is less likely to bubble up to fat.

Because they have sex with older guys who treat them like shit.
Source:
I am an older alcoholic guy in a college town who fucks bubbly nice girls and by the time I'm done with them they aren't so goddamn bubbly anymore.

Kek how do you approach them?

Radio Flyer wagon

Former overall drug addict who grew up in a small town, this guy is 100% right...they loveeeee the older guys.

>also dating my 19y/o gf, I'm 25. I've showed/taught her a lot, some good things, some base things. I've just had to show her how the world really is, anyone becomes a little more dead inside when they see how the world really is, and what "life" is really like..

It's not hard post 30.
I have a few friends in town who are the artistic type and live in a art collective(read: hippy house). Their political conversations fucking suck but they're cool enough people, and fun to drink with. Being artists they always have a gaggle of college freshman/sophmore girls around.
They usually just approach me and get high/drunk then we fuck.
I usually keep them around for about two weeks which is long enough for them to realize that I'm a piece of shit just using them for their tight bodies.
I am monogamous when I'm with one of them though.

Had some success with tinder.
Less at bars but it does happen sometimes.

Seriously Bros, keep yourself in relative good shape, be attractive, and even a fucked up loser like me can get it done once you hit that old but not creepy old stage of life.

We should banish the word "creepy".

I only see one girl in that photo, and she isn't on the right. Who's the little azn ultrahottie? She clearly needs my penis in her baby chute to fully appreciate life.

Because life sucks the joy out of living.

this is true, but of course there's more to it. Teenage girls do want "bad boys", who are usually older. They aren't really being victimized, that is what they want.

After a naive fling with a "bad boy" they will be more jaded. The same happens with guys, which is often how they become "bad boys".

But there's also the shift that usually happens around (here) 19-24, where she becomes a adult. She starts wanting money for more than just weed/cigs/alcohol. She gets a job. She becomes more aware of socio-economical hierarchies, looking for a richer higher status male. The tables are turned and thus the "bad boy" won't cut it anymore. This doesn't mean she stops being a turboslut if she was one before, just that who she is attracted to is different.

(cont)
You can categorize men as alpha, beta and omega.
The alphas are the not only the jocks who do well socially, but some decent looking aggressive guys who do well in school as well.
The betas are the more quiet submissive guys, the fat guys, the really ugly guys, the low self esteem guys... etc.
The omegas are the outsiders. They're strong enough to not be a submissive beta, or directly bullied, but they don't fit in.

Alphas will always be successful with girls if they try, often with girls from their school/classes.
Attractive betas can have some success but will always be the second choice, and will have to spend more money and time for what they get.
Omegas won't be popular with girls from their classes or job, as they're obviously ousiders. They do however have decent chances with younger girls, who might live further away, go to another school, etc. They'll see them as exciting.

Iam that Iam I am the alpha and omega...

so god was this total omega in his old universe, and he thought that sucked so he whipped up this universe so he coudl be the alpha bro.

I was quiet because of yellow teeth since my parents withheld toothpaste and told me I was mentally ill for wanting to brush and floss regularly and eat healthy. After spending thousands of dollars on teeth repair, I have turned into a violent, aggressive man who gets pussy finally, after years of no pussy, no friends, no dignity. I wonder what I could have been if I hadn't had yellow, crooked, chipped teeth from early childhood through early adulthood.

Reality of the real world sets in.

Always dated younger girls from out of town throughout high school and early college. I know I was a weirdo

Because life sucks your soul

You mean “the real world”
Guys don’t ruin women. Women ruin women.

One of my favorite sexual experiences ever was with a girl just like this.When we were seniors in college I lived in a 3 bedroom 6 person house and one of our housemates who was my direct roommate graduated early so for the second semester we had to fill his spot. We get some random assigned to us. This guy was nice enough but strange as fuck. After all, he was the kind of person who had obviously not made enough friends for the first three years of college to necessitate him needing to be randomly assigned. But a couple weeks into living there he tells us his sister is in town to visit campus cause shes gonna be a freshman there next year. We assume she's gonna be like him. She is not. She's easily an 8/10. Tiny little cheerleader like body and attitude. She's super tiny but with amazing tits and a pretty nice ass for a girl her size.

Honestly? People grow and change. Not everyone loses that when they grow up, but a lot of people feel like they have to.

Ignore all the bullshit "ruined by chads" explanations here. Be a good, affirming partner to her, and it'll come back.

Such spirit and lust for life only exist in those who have yet to truly experience life. Life is a soul-crushing slog. For some, it doesn't start until after high school...for others, life sucks all joy out of your soul by the time you enter high school. I'm 30 and I haven't been happy since I was nine years old.

So we get to talking in our room. Shes crazy outgoing. Talking 100 mph. Typical incoming college questions. Whats the school, campus, social life life etc etc. Her brother is there for this conversation so it remains pretty PG but hes getting his stuff ready to leave for class. Now he's weird as fuck, but this even caught me off guard cause he'd never said anything remotely sexual before. As he goes to leave her turns to her and says just wait here for him and he turns to me and says if you guys hook up just dont do it in our room please. I literally snort. I think hes making his first joke ever but hes not. Hes dead serious. Now i'm usually pretty good at keeping a conversation going and preventing awkward silence, but as he leaves im at a loss. So we sit there in silence for what felt like forever but was probably just like 30 seconds. Suddenly she says i wont tell him if you wont and just starts making out with me.

Clothes start coming off and things start progressing and shes literally still talking throughout the whole thing. Like oh my god i cant believe im doing this already im not even in college yet. I can't wait for college though if this is what its like. I swear i'm not a slut but i really want to get the college experience. Literally like a full conversation with herself basically because i'm not responding. She gets on top and I slide into what is to this day one of the tightest pussies i've ever felt. She immediately starts moaning and screaming like we're filming a porno. Mind you this is about 2 pm on a friday afternoon and i have roomates home. I should tell her to keep it down but fuck it i pick up the pace. I don't even care.

pickup is one one word

I end up getting close a lot faster than I would have liked. We're probably only 5 minutes in to the actual fucking. She has been very vocal the whole time and i finally say the first thing ive said in like 10 minutes i mutter "where"? without skipping a beat she hops right off and puts me in her mouth to finish me. I immediately realize that she has that move down very well and this is definitely not her first rodeo. Starts to click why her brother just assumed a hookup was going to happen. This has probably happened before. I don't care. She goes down the hall to clean up a bit and comes back in. When is my brother's class over? We have about a half hour til he should be home. She asks, "Soo do you wanna go again"... round 2 commences. Thankfully lasted a little longer this time. Switched positions a few times and wound up finishing on her face per her request. Shes literally wiping my cum off her face as her brother comes in the door downstairs. Luckily he didnt come upstairs for about 10 minutes providing some more clean up time. I'm pretty sure that was intentional because he was unusually noisy opening the front door.

The next night she ends up going upstairs and fucking one of our other roommates. I could see just a little bit of her brother's soul dying as he watched them walk upstairs together. After that I tried to relate to the guy a little more. I felt bad for him. Had to be hard to have a sister that hot and that slutty and be so painfully socially awkward yourself.

We're all dead inside, some just don't know it yet.

what a nice girl anything else?

A thicc bubbly girl has been really into me for years now

She's pretty basic though, not much going on upstairs. Golden retriever type personality. Long black hair, had some belly but also had huge tits Actually she'd probably be a great fuck.

Too bad she's a christfag and I have a gf

not with me and her. haven't seen or talked to her since. didn't really keep in touch with her brother after college.

my current girlfriend is bubbly and high spirited. I like to try and provide her with an environment where she is capable of being that way. Its all about facilitation put simply. if you play overwatch at a high rank you will know that the backbone of the team is the tank, its their job to mitigate damage and protect the lower health pool targets of their team mates. its the same principal, you have to manage being firm and standing your ground with what you want/need and controlling potential emotional threats as well as providing a safe space that she can feel comfortable in. now get out there and utilise this knowledge to your advantage!! you've got to be humble in your approach but confident, you also need to appear as a protector and provider as early as possible with your relationship, its also extremely important that you need to build a core friendship first before taking things into a more committed relationship. build your comfort around each other, be yourself, show her you are there for her but are also willing to stand up for yourself (on this note don't act like a wanker all I'm saying is you need to make sure what you want/need is clearly communicated and nothing more). just go make a friend with a girl, show her you are willing to look after her and provide a safe space for her bubbly personality to exist within.

Christian girls are willing to have premarital sex