Don’t know why I’m asking you guys for relationship advice but every now and then y’all come up with some real thoughtful shit. My gf and I used to have fairly regular threesomes with her bff who was also our room mate (pic related it’s the bff room mate). The room mate a while back ended up moving across the country so th threesomes obviously stopped. Well about 6 months ago my gf ends up finding a bunch of nudes of her bff in my phone that I wasn’t supposed to have, she got pissed and we almost broke up over it. We’re good now and our sex life has returned to normal and I want to start having three dimes again but I’m not sure how hot bring it up to her without pissing her off or hurting her. I love my gf and don’t want to date anyone else but sexual monogamy isn’t going going to work for me do you guys have any advice on how to bring this up to my gf?
Don’t know why I’m asking you guys for relationship advice but every now and then y’all come up with some real...
Let's start with how old you are
sure it can work for you...you just dont want to admit it.
just do it. tell her you love her, but you arent monogamous. you miss sharing women with her. if she isnt cool with that, move on.
A threesome won't feel the same to her anymore, she's going to be jealous this time. You fucked it OP.
Make her come up with the idea. If you guys watch porn pick one with a threesome. Next time you watch a movie, pick one that has a threesome in it. Just subtly let the idea come to her. Point out hot women to her but without talking about their hotness "oh look that girl has a nice dress". Just keep projecting the image that their's a need for another women that's missing into her head. If all else fails, get her drunk, go to a place where she'll find women that are her type and turn her on towards them
just be straight up with her, now post moar of the bff/ bffand gf
I’m sure anything could work for me, doesn’t mean I want it to
how did u hook up with bff the first time ? who's idea as it and what happened?
I mean there’s got to be a way to get her over the jealousy right?
We were all staying in a hotel together on a road trip in the same bed gf and I were messing around while the bff slept. Gf told me she wanted to se me fuck the bff, so she left to the bathroom while I started basically sleep creeping the bff, luckily th bff was cool with it as she woke up and then the gf came in and joined us.
What you want to see
I've only had to deal with jealousy twice, and both times there was no recovery.
Post threesome pics fgt
No you idiot, you fucked up. It is not about jealousy. If that was a problem she probably would not have had the threesomes in the first place.
It is the fact you hid the pictures from her that bothers her, and the fact that you likely got them behind her back. That is a trust thing, you can never fix it completely. you fucked up.
kek your relationship is already ruined bro
trust is ridiculously fragile
Never took pics during the threesomes
This is the type of thoughtful shit I was talking about, not at all what I wanted to hear but still real shit answers
fuck yeah thats hot man, what happened when gf came back in? did they hook up with each other too?
i dont think its going to happen for you OP. maybe if shes weak and easily manipulated or you are a lot higher than her in looks and social standing, or at least she perceives that. but youll still feel guilty for making her do something you know she doesnt want to do. shes hurt because the fact you saved those pictures in her head means you have split your love of her with the other girl, when she thought she had it all. shes a retard of course for letting another woman in her bed with her man and not forseeing the consequences, but then again all young 20 yo women are retards
just cheat on her for as long as you can get away with it. any whore who will participate in threesomes is not worth keeping anyway
Not the first time no, they took turns between riding my cock and sitting on my face. she ended up having sex with her alone a couple weeks later and they did hook up in later threesome experiences
When’s the last time you got laid homie?
just a good green text description I guess :(
got more pics of the bff OP?
thats great man, how did their pussys compare? did friend cum?
Yeah image upload is fucked again though I may dump all of em I have and some of my gf as well if it works soon
The bff was way tighter then my gf (obviously didn’t tell gf this) not bragging or anything since you guys don’t know me anyway but I’ve gotta pretty big dick so I’m sure if I fucked her really regularly it would have stretched out after a while she also had a landing strip which was cool her pussy tastes amazing as well. Honestly I was way more compatible sexually with the bff but she was kinda fucking crazy, if not for that I probably would have left my girl for her. And yes she did cum
thats hot dude. do they have innies or outies? what was your usual threesome routine?
how long did you fuck them for? ever try to get gf and her to hook up again without you around?
Innies on both, and the usual way it would happen is that we did Molly together pretty regularly, I would pop i a viagra cialis or what ever I could get ahold of. It would start with the three of us just touching and rubbing each other then they would sometimes start kissing and it would go from there. The go to moves were one riding dick and the other sitting on my face while making out or hitting one from behind while she went down on the other, I would occasionaly get a double blowjob which great for the spank bank but doesn’t feel that great in real life. It wasn’t usually anything crazy that we would do but thanks to the Molly it would always be really loving and passionate. I’m thos moments it was a lot like having a three way relationship
Sometimes twenty minutes one time when I couldn’t cum it went for like three hours. And they hooked up once with out me when I was out of town
its natural to be jealous. i have no idea if this was an experimental phase of her life but i wouldnt bring that shit up unless she does.
be happy ur fucking and backburner that shit.
I fucked up with the pics on my phone but I was happier when we played with BFF.
>That fucking simple.
just do it
did the girls ever make each other cum or was it always on your cock? did u use a condom or swap between them raaw?
Raw dude I’m not in highschool,and I think they mad each other cum with fingers but both em came much easier with something inside them. My gf had talked about getting a strap and Eiffel towering the bff I really wish that coulda happened
dump sets OP
let her fuck your bff, you still get 3somes and she will be happy
its only fair that she let you have hers
we're they ok to take turns on your cock after it had the others pussy juice on it? where did u usually cum?
closest thread I need some advice
>M 18 in HS
>with my gf for about a month
>been talking to her for damn near 2mo
>love each other
>inb4 it's only been a month
>sleep with each other when I'm at her dads (were both in HS)
>play with her boobs, kiss them and all that shit
>grab her ass
>try fingering her but she pushes my hand away most of the times
>told me she doesn't like doing sexual things
>because she was almost raped when she was 14
>she managed to get away from the guy but he already had her pants off
>what I'm asking is any way to like coax into having sex?
>I don't wanna flat out ask cause it could get awkward but any advice?
TL;DR GF has sexual abuse past and doesn't wanna fuck but I do, any advice?
I me a they went down on each other so i don’t think the juices being on my cock would bother them
Yeah, frame it like this OP.
>Want to have a MMF threesome?
There's your future 3 some at this point.
I’ve told her if I was drunk I might be ok with it but she has no interest in it. She’s very bi and was with a girl before me I think she’s actually more into girls then guys
dump her and get a real gf without mental illness, cmon user aim a little higher than the bottom of the barrel
they ever eat your cum out of the other ones pussy?
Run dude it’s going to take a lot to get past this for her. You are ein your sexual prime right now and so are the girls around you. Take adavantage of that young pussy while you can she’ll get over it eventually but unless you already are in love with this chick it’s not worth your time
Naw I would always pull out gf hates cum the bff would let me cum wherever I wanted though
nah I'm not that kind of guy she's been through a lot and really the only person in her life who means something to her
already fucked a freshman last year but that's another ordeal I'm not getting into I'm not gonna leave her it'd kill her but anyway to coax into doing something because I know if we have sex she'll move on from the past but I don't wanna pressure her either (she's a sophomore btw)
enjoy your sexless life, bro
whatever makes her happy right? right?
OP give us more of the best friend
Here's the seed that will get you what you want. If she can fuck her alone why cant you? Make her guilt out nigga
So ur cool with only fucking two girls your whole highschool career? Are you planning on going to college? Unless you two are going to the same school and you are willing to give up your social life for a girl you’ll have been with for less than 6 months so you can live together it’s going to end anyways. I know it’s not what you want to hear but it’s going to take a long time to get her past this. You aren’t going to be able to coax her she’s already made up her mind that she’s not ready, and if you do get her drunk or something to where she is down I guarantee it will end in tears. My advice once again is to walk away from this. Or just straight up give her an ultimatum. You have like 5 months left of it being socially acceptable to fuck 15 16 And 17 year olds just run through them as many as you can while you can. Unless you are straight up small town white trash who plans to never move away this relationship won’t last anyways. You are going to change a lot as a person over the next few years and I promise you will not regret moving on.
Holy shit your a genius
>Holy shit your a genius
Holy fuck you are an idiot.
If you love her, then you don't manipulate her.
If she is just a warm place to rest your dick who is open to letting your rest your dick in other warm places, then you manipulate her.
I gotchu bro
Fuck up cunt manipulation is what keeps women happy. They want a lovely simulation. You ever even had a long relationship?
Sarcasm you idiot I told her that I wanted her to fuck other chicks, it shouldn’t be different but it is
Most girls aren't that stupid.. if my boyfriend started showing me porn and movies with threesomes in them, I'd pick up the hint fairly quickly
Then guilt her you fucking cuck, she can cheat but you cant? Are you fucked in the head?
They don’t like it but they do need it, shifting blame won’t help me here I need her to want to do it not feel like she has to
>sexual monogamy isn’t going going to work for me
just kill yourself you degenerate monkey
How’s it cheating if I told her to?
This ^
Thats some nickelodeon level manipulation
How is that degenerate the only reason monogamy exists is because it’s no longer acceptable to kill someone for trying to fuck your girl. Every cell in the male body is telling you to go fuck as many chicks as possible and spread the seed
You told your girl to have sex outside of the relationship. You litteraly got cucked by a chick. Youre beyond help.
With another girl who we already fucking together... again how is this cucked? I’d rather have my girl have a sexual experience that I can get off to hearing about then watch porn or get it from some dude when I’m not around.
>women getting over jealousy
thanks for the laugh OP
if she really is that special to you... go slowly. reassure her you love her and wont do ANYTHING she don't want to (repeatedly).
And then just caress her. kiss her. adore her. pet her. find out which body parts are problematic and avoid them for a while. focus on boobs, neck(girls Love that) as she is obviously ok with that. if she doesn want anything inside her, maybe she would be ok with you kissing and licking without actual penetration, or jus playing with her ass? you know there is a lot of pleasure besides 'dick inside and move on'. She can touch you, or suck you, or maybe only watch you first. whatever is comfortable for her. Be patient. tell her she is beautifull and perfect. she has to know she can trust you. she will probably test it out few times, be prepared to stop, and cuddle her afterwards.
basicly get her to the point she feel safe with you. You make the sex amazing, so she is so excited, so turned on SHE wants more
Dudes trying to get with a highschool rape victim not an adult woman. This won’t work for her if she doesn’t know her self sexually how could he? It’s waste of time
The fact that you kept pictures of the other girl and hid them from your girlfriend is you betraying your girlfriend's trust.
The fact that you have just told us that the other girl is sexually superior to your girlfriend means you clearly prefer her over your girlfriend. You do not deserve your girlfriend's trust again. From what I can tell you'd break it in a heartbeat just to get your dick wet, regardless of the repercussions.
i don't know man, she wasn't actually raped it was just close... you just have to replace the unpleasant association with sex for an amazing and positive one. It's not like people with bad experiences somehow loose all the sex drive an hormones and shit.
Is it easy? hell no. maybe in some cases doomed to failure. but he obviously cares about her it's not just a casual fuck. ans she doesn't reject all his touch witch is a good sign
but yeah, i'm just a voice on the internet
you shoud consider a good therapist not ask Sup Forums
sounds like a good plan I think she's starting be a little more comfortable it's just a working progress ig
she was almost a rape victim she got away in time or she tells me
Hate to be that gal but speaking from experience I found that I needed time before I felt comfortable doing some sexual things.
One of the things that was a big problem with me was oral sex because of what happened when I was younger. Only a year ago did I start to get more comfortable with it and I'm now fine doing it.
Deep down I wanted to have great sex but sometimes when I was trying to overcome it I would freeze and tears would fall down my cheeks from sudden fear and terror - it's not you, it's trauma.
If you love her, give her time and emotional support. Be on her terms.
Quit being a whiny little pussy. Get a career, marry her, put a couple babies inside her and take on some fucking responsibility. You guys are all a bunch of perpetual boys in a circle jerk. Fuckin fags
she has a bad past and I have no doubt she has trauma but idk who to get her to trust me sexually and whatnot without seeming pushy or just a guy wanting to get laid and plus I'm enlisted in DEP (going air force) and have less than 8 months too
Gotta good career don’t want to have kids will get married when we have the time
Girls can't even share.
good luck and don't get discouraged because it goes slower than you would like. the inhibited chicks usually go WILD when they finally open up and then want to try everything...
there is nothing sexier than a girl that begs you to fuck her. just make her so horny she can not resist
also seriously consider therapy. talking about trauma makes it less scary and helps resolve the issue
ok, it was the last time i tried to give someone good advice here...
you seemed like you care, but now i see you have a time limit to get her to fuck you. you just care about fucking her and you will just fuck her up. it's sad but it's not my problem
get lost faggot and stop wasting my time
she doesn't really talk about it but she told me about it today and I'm doing my best to take it slow
no I don't care about just fucking her but it'd be nice to do before I leave for the military cause I wouldn't see her again in like 2yrs and no if anything I made her life much better
>no I don't care about just fucking her
>before I leave for the military cause I wouldn't see her again in like 2yrs
Yah OP end it.