>girlfriend buys fallout 4 for the ps4, GOTY edition >has to download the updates >shes out of the room, decide to just put in the DLC coads because it has to be done anyway >she comes back in the room to me doing it >says to me she didnt want them downloaded because she was not ready to play them yet. >ok cool, ill just delete them from the hard drive >goes full retard on me "why are you deleting them!?" >because if i don't then they will be on the game, and you just told me you didn't want them so, ill just take them off >she says "why would you delete them if you already downloaded them" >...like i just said, if they are downloaded, they will be on the game, and you dont want them on the game, right? >right >ok so im deleting them >"but why" >at this point im done, i know what she wants, so im just doing it and will explain after its done. >I start taking them off, note, the code is redeemed, she just has to download the expansions she wants when shes ready to play them >I am about ready to show her how to download them >i turn around, shes crying >"you just dont listen to me" >uh, i am, and i did, and heres how you download them when you are ready >turns away as im explaining it, i just keep talking, put down the controller, walk out of the room >she turned off the lights, went to bed mad.
like, am i an asshole? or what.
Connor Rogers
not playing fallout new vegas in 2018 lol
James Carter
No, your gf is clearly a fucking retard who doesn't understand how things work.
Hunter Gomez
story of my fucking life when i had a gf. they are wonderful, but so complicated
Jace James
thank you
Tyler Williams
You're not wrong at all. She is behaving like a 4 year old. But if your girl wants to be a retard like that just let her. why go through the trouble of trying to be nice? You could have already just said ok fine and left the dlc there the first time she said 'why would you delete them' and this whole situation would have been avoided...
Really though if she's that fucking dumb maybe think about finding someone else lol
Chase Howard
I keep trying to but it won't fucking work without it majorly stuttering all the time like sometimes i will look in a certain direction (near cottonwood) and it'll drop to 1 fps
Hudson Anderson
Console
Nathaniel Turner
She's being dumb and the whole issue is asinine because she just wants to be right.
That being said I'd kill to have your problems OP.
Dylan Peterson
>at this point im done, i know what she wants, so im just doing it and will explain after its done.>at this point im done, i know what she wants, so im just doing it and will explain after its done.>at this point im done, i know what she wants, so im just doing it and will explain after its done.>at this point im done, i know what she wants, so im just doing it and will explain after its done.
gg ez
Alexander Parker
This guy is right, she's making a big deal over nothing. Not ready to play a dlc??? What does that even mean?? It's not like because of the dlc you'll be thrown into difficult situations.
Yeah she's retarded
John Cruz
Sounds like its about your general behavior or something else she's mad about got triggered. If you act dismissive and not worried when shes acting weird it could feel kinda distant. Either way, if she's not a retard she knows what was literally being said was ridiculous and was trying to say something else.
Hunter Jones
She probably thought that deleting the DLC would mean you can't get it back and would have to buy it again. You should have explained that to her right away, but it's still really immature of her to get mad like that.
Lucas Smith
No, she's just retarded
Angel Collins
it has more to do with the fact that he dismissed her concerns without addressing them first
Connor Turner
Daddy control issues. Your girl is a nutcase, sorry. Go easy on her.
Gabriel Perry
kick her out, she's nuts
Joseph Evans
Dafuq you mean? How does one go about explaining why something isn't a big deal and address the issue without seeming like you don't think it's a big deal? Fucking normies
Mason Campbell
I was addressing her concerns but she didn't expect me to. So when I did what she wanted with ease, she was upset I could do it without problem. I explained how she could do it how she wished to do it, but because she wouldn't listen to how it was to be done, she essentially covered her ears, blocked me out, and just wanted to believe me to be intensive and non-understanding.
Easton Watson
see 'she's just being stupid and hormonal so i'll just continue and explain later'
the problem is you didn't address it before doing it
Elijah Brooks
>I dont want the ad-dons >im going to delete them >why >because thats what has to be done >You are wrong
I'm not wrong, and i'm doing it . I did it. And that's what happened.
Ethan Harris
not an asshole you're more a fucking beta dunce
Henry Cox
wow, you really don't listen well do you? your girl was right
Christopher Johnson
thought I was quite alpha.
Josiah Richardson
explain.
Cameron Brown
saying 'i'm not rong, and i'm doing it' shows an extreme lack of empathy
Gabriel Walker
So if he'd stopped, then talked it out, she might have acted like an adult? OP did something thoughtful for her. She didn't like it, so he fixed it. Then she's mad he's fixing it?
The only rational explanation for her to be upset outside of OPs gf being 12 is that they have some kind of data cap.
James Taylor
Empathy for what, the plight of the vapid cunt?
Dominic Baker
At that point she is clearly fucking stupid. All you have to ask is, "Okay, so what do you want me to do?" If she has no clear plan call her out for being a vague cunt and argue her into the ground until she is in tears. Once she's emotionally unstable comfort her. Trust me it works.
Levi Hill
OP said she bought it. It was hers. He decided what was best for her (even if it truly was) without considering her (possibly incorrect) opintion. onion. whatever.
it's her sheit, let her do what she thinks is best
Brody Clark
That's a retarded cop-out
Kevin Miller
I showed empathy by understanding her wants and making them happen. She didn't understand the process, but that's okay, because i'm going to fix it to how I want it.
Honestly, shes the one that lacks the empathy. I acknowledged I did something she didn't want, and fixed it.
I did call her out. I told her, "Do you want the addons on or not, she said no, so I deleted them.
> without considering her (possibly incorrect) opintion. onion. whatever. it's her sheit, let her do what she thinks is best
And thats why I did what she wanted.
Dominic Carter
>conflict resolution is a cop out
have fun being right all the time
Isaac Martinez
Girls want to talk about things Boys want to fix things >you dun goofed
Brody Thompson
now you have to rape, kill and rape her again. no choice.
Lincoln Hall
I don't think I'm right all the time but that doesn't make one ounce of sense. Jesus Christ, I guess I'm autistic of something, but still.
Juan White
>she didn't understand the process but i did >empathic
Dylan Brooks
This is a terrible place to be asking that question.
Julian Davis
this
Wyatt Rogers
post her nudes
Henry Butler
The NV had stuff going for it but also alot against it, c'mon don't kidd yourself
Henry Collins
I think what she meant is she didn't want to waste time downloading dlc if she wasnt ready to play them rather than just getting the mandatory updates and being able to play asap.
Hunter Flores
learn what the word means first.
Aaron Hall
I explained it 2-3 times. I took the time to go step by step to help her.
I felt her frustration, and corrected my mistake, and showed her how to install it when she was ready. But i'm wrong right?
Connor Davis
Okay, Guru. Tell us how you'd have played it out.
Samuel Wilson
Does your gf happen to be 8 years old?
Josiah James
Ring a ding ding baby you and me are gonna swing...
Jayden Rivera
you drop the fucking issue and do whatever she wants to do with it, even if she's wrong because it's her shit. just because you're a fallout4 autist and everything has to be JUST RIGHT doesn't mean she feels the same way and you should respect that you shitlord
Carter Moore
Nom nom nom
Eli Brooks
again, the problem is that you dismissed her concerns B4 addressing them and convincing her you were right
Jaxon Harris
Nice try Dean b.
Ryder Hughes
>and do whatever she wants to do with it
im going to delete the addons >Why because thats what needs to happen >but its already downloaded but if its downloaded, then the addons are there, you dont want them >right, I dont want them on the game yet ok sorry ill delete them >why delete them if they are already downloaded because I have to if you want them gone >I dont understand well ill just fix it how you want it
~IM THE ASSHOLE~
Brandon Ortiz
see
Gavin Richardson
He was installing fucking DLC so she'd have it ready when she wanted to play it, retard. The argument was from a fatal misunderstanding of how digital goods work. >shitlord LeTrashMan.jpg
Jordan Stewart
Your a faggot Dean.
Christian Reed
>complicated I think the term you're looking for is mentally challenged
Nathan Adams
Once she said don’t delete them you should’ve just said alright however that’s only because you two clearly have deeper issues than these dlcs I mean she just started crying and said you never listen to me like that clearly indicates it’s not just one instance. You seem to be on the verge of a breakup tbh
Jack Howard
you fucking beta cucks.
Austin Baker
>>I dont understand >well ill just fix it how you want it
stop and do the dinosaur because right here is where you needed to persuade her
Dominic Johnson
Dean Benjamin (op) is the only beta cuck here
Alexander Allen
kek, cis women. transgirl gf master race. No kids no money loss no rage. get on my level.
Christian James
Dont worry about it dude, some women just don't seem to understand things when you clearly explain them. You were right, and you aren't obligated to keep attempting to explain it until she finally understands.
James Reed
You'll dig it, baby. It's the tops.
Isaac Morris
No OP, she just decided to be a massive cunt. That's all.
The key takeaway to notice is how attempting to reason with her did not diffuse the situation. The reason why it didn't is because your cunt of a girlfriend wasn't looking to be reasoned with -- wasn't even looking to be pleased, or to be happy for that matter. She was trying to emotionally tool you.
The way you respond to that caliber of bullshit is two parts:
1. Exactly what you did. Calmly, and like an adult, leave her to keep on acting like a child.
2. What you need to do now is completely remove your presence from her for at least a few days. Leave the place, no texts, no calls, no communication whatsoever and let her stew in her horse shit -- she's was clearly out of line by all reasonable standards. Then, after 3 days, talk to her like nothing happened at all. If she brings it up, say it's in the past and brush it off. Remember, there's no reasoning to be had here. Reasoning doesn't work against emotional manipulation. The only thing that has a chance of working to curb this type of horse shit is negative punishment, but it's far from a panacea.
Dominic Perry
>Playing a shitty game >2018
Liam Gray
thank you, norman. i'm glad i'm not the only one here with a basic understanding of women
Nathan Allen
and how would I do that
im not ready to play with the block on the box >you have to remove the why >because its what you want but the block is already there >let me understand, what do you want I want the block to not be there >ok im going to remove the block but the block is already there >yeah i know im going to remove it because thats what you want but it is already there >okay, so do you want the block gone or not? yes >alright im gonna take it away no >what? why? because its already there >but you dont want it there right >and you are upset I put it there correct >alright sorry, ill remove the block but you already put it there >right, so im going to remove it and ill show you how to put the block back on the box when you are ready I don't wanna listen >oh, well, im gonna say it anyway because you are goingt o need to know >-crys- oh.. ok..
Juan Kelly
(op)
Matthew Turner
what did you expect, she´s a woman.
Angel Price
>Fallout: New Vegas >Shitty game. Pick one.
Gabriel Thomas
Shitty beta beard, try hard chad, douche cap, smells like Mountain Dew and micro penis
Grayson Allen
Trolls or retarded.
Cooper Long
Find a grill thats not a bot, user. If she is at that level of stupid, nothing can be done. Bail before you get her pregnant with a bot baby.
Xavier Robinson
fuck the op, let's see the girl
Jonathan Stewart
how much time have you spent justifying this shit to me? and then compare how much time you could have spent justifying this shit to the person who sucks your dick
Zachary Parker
All bullshit aside OP I fucking hate more than anything when people invade my personal shit and take things while Im not there then proceed to play around with it before I even had a chance to.
basically you stole someones Christmas present, opened it and played around with it then shitty-wrapped it back up and gave it back to them.
Isaiah Adams
Let's see the OP fuck the girl.
Jaxson Turner
my gf had the first amiga in her village
Levi Butler
thats what happened, and i explained it to you, and she went to bed, like I already said.
are you retarded?
Nathan Phillips
that'd work as well, unless she's fat
Michael Cook
Should've gone in there, apologized even if you didn't mean it, and coddled her like a child.
Landon Walker
Did you not read the OP?
He DID justify his actions to the grill and the grill was flipping patties anyway. No amount of cleaning was going to get char dust out of that clam shell.
Elijah Rodriguez
no, lol.
Adrian Ward
OMG I that was my girlfriend I'd never treat her like that I'm a nice unlike you.
Xavier Turner
This is why women shouldn't vote.
Dominic Davis
how was i not nice. explain.
Parker Harris
Ready to see you
Jordan Myers
>who sucks your dick kek. sure she's sucking such an alpha male.
Owen Jones
sigh
he gave up reasoning with her and did what he decided was best at this point you give up because it is not your game
fucking kids i swear
Evan Russell
Why would you encourage that shit?
Angel Diaz
what does that mean?
Jaxon Wright
you, i like
Liam Sullivan
She would probably still be pissed he downloaded them. Seems to me like she just wanted to throw a fit.
Juan Scott
Now, I'm all for treating women with respect as individuals and not reducing them sex objects, but I've got to say that the decline of our nation started with the suffragettes. >Women can vote >Muh feels > your reals >Democrats getting elected >women get educated >Democrats panic >blacks can vote now too btw >more Democrats get elected >blacks get educated >Democrats in full damage control >illegal immigrants can vote just use this dead persons identity btw don't tell ;) >legal immigrants no like-y >Donald Trump.
Samuel Harris
Hail hilter
Alexander Jenkins
I'd like to punch her in the face.
Jeremiah Bennett
No no no.
He was reasoning with her all the way up until she decided to immediately turn away and then shut of the lights when he left the room. That's not him "giving up," women are adults too. Communication -- and respect -- is a 2-way street. There was *nothing* respectable about her behavior here.
The fact that you have such little respect for yourself that you're willing to coddle a grown-ass adult doesn't mean that's the right move or even a good move.
Juan Lopez
Oh yea we all crave the excitement of entering DLC codes and waiting for downloads. Your missing the point on puropse
Gavin Davis
fuckin hell
Colton Cruz
Only needed to take an external HDD, move the dlc files on it and telle how to copy them back to the ps4 when she feels ready to play them...
However, if she fails to cet the basic grasp of using a playstation, which is a simple device made to be used by the largest (and up to the dumbest) demographics... I wonder how she ever managed to get through puberty and teenagehood withojt lethal incident