What exactly makes a good relationship or even marriage work?

What exactly makes a good relationship or even marriage work?

Heterosexual family values and prayer in the classroom. And semi annual cucking.

money.

love

Too many things to answer. Compatibility is different for every person.

Honesty and intelligence. These traits are required in your partner as well, though.

What would you define as intelligence in this context?

Problem solving ability & the ability to understand/empathize with other people. Basically, the ability to understand the position of another person in a conflict, and to work out a solution without screaming, fighting, violence, and other anti-social behavior.

You should also have the intelligence to recognize whether a person has these traits, and avoid committing to people that don't.

love.

A lot of the time it doesn't work. Love makes it worth keeping.

going on dates

Communication, understanding one another, and future together

Being raised outside of the kike's influence

Making sure she's not a nutter.

Jesus Christ leaf.

The man having a higher value than the woman, to prevent her restless brain from feeling "Is this the best I can do?"

>didn't mean to post so many times
Oh good, you almost looked like a crazy person there.

Wouldn't you have the opposite problem then? "Is she the best I can do?".

If you've met your soul mate, the rest will follow. You'll know when you do and that is the only truly red pilled relationship.

Believing in a common higher ideal

Are you guys kidding? She's sharing a photo of her dead baby. Have you really never accidentally posted the same comment multiple times? It happens to me all the time. If she was like "hahah, sorry for posting so many times I just REALLY wanted you to know that my princess was born an angel" maybe it'd be nutty, but it was an error that she explained...

Wow.

at least two shared interests and fetishizing each others' races

Most men are easy to please.
Just don't be a cunt; cook decent meal and do not say you can't cook unless you're illiterate. Just follow a recipe online, you lazy bitch. And last, know when to shut the fuck up. Stop witJust don't be a cunt; cook decent meal and do not say you can't cook unless you're illiterate. Just follow a recipe online, you lazy bitch. And last, know when to shut the fuck up. Stop the mind game.

compatibility

sex and sexual attraction

I think the fact see dress up her unbborn baby as Snow White and took a picture to put on facebook is the nutty part.

I know that text doesn't properly convey sarcasm but c'mon.

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A good judge of character.

Believe me, you'll need it.

lol

Finding a woman that votes for Trump.

Woman should be smarter than man.
Man shouldn't know about it.

communication.

Do opposites attract, Sup Forums?

Is the secret to a happy, stable marriage really the Yin and Yang philosophy?

A massive power difference between the people involved in their chosen duties. This way there's few arguments over anything important since one or them is in charge of what they do and the other has only passing knowledge. Stay within your class and attractiveness so you can relate and won't tempt infidelity beyond a fling with an attractive outsider. When you have a symbiotic relationship where you literally cannot function without your partner you can be pretty good to each other.

That kinda goes under the compatibility that a few other anons above mentioned. Every divorced couple probably had sex and a level of mutual attraction.

Finding a partner you dont love but tolerate.

t. grandson of 52years married grandparents and son of 33years married parent

Respect, communication, honesty.

Alternatively, subservience and a drastic difference in power between genders.

quintessential redditcore

/r/cuckold is worse though

Jesus, nightmare food right there.

>look at grill's family
>see your future with grill

>polyamoury

Not even once.

yfw no patriot qt with slav blood to make lovely white kids.
why live ?

it would be fascist to answer such question

also your picture suggests it is "man" + "woman" which is offensive

family is an obsolete form of patriarchy and sexual oppression

soon robbutts will be producing children in the most effective way possible

Loyalty, something women lack due to their nature. Woman's modus operandi is hypergamy so she is only loyal to herself, she will stick around as long as she doesn't have better options. The nuclear family is a recent and artificial construct and that's why there is so much conflict and high divorce rates (even in the old days there was a lot of divorce it was just hidden, hell even the cuck of England split a religion so he could divorce). The proper family unit includes everyone in the family, uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins etc. All of these would make a better environment for everyone.

sexual attraction is not the only requirement, but it is a requirement for me, a baseline

To understand it's not all fucking puppy dogs and ice cream and takes a fucking shit load of give and take between the two. It's not easy, but it can be great if you can both understand that you are both people and neither of you are some sacred Messiah that will make all your problems go away. Too many expect their relationship to be "God" and then they end up disappointed.

I'm glad you've met your soul love, mate.

I've never met one who has doubted or regretted it. It's a beautiful thing.

Basically what I'm trying to say is that women do not have the concept of loyalty they can't grasp nor understand it. They follow whoever is stronger and will always monkey branch up to a better mate. Traditional marriage and nuclear family is socialism for beta faggots. A pussy redistribution agenda to control men and make them into disposable worker drones.

>why live ?

dank memes and a trump presidency

WINRAR

Thanks, dude.

A functioning society with morals and values. Now put everything back as it was.

The male must be authoritive and confident, the female must be supportive and dependent.
If the male is neither of those he's gonna get cucked, if the female is neither she's gonna get neglected.

b-bad goy!! thats sexists and racists! what are you, hitler?

Im fucking a white male according to aids skrillex

I don't know and I don't even plan to know. I'm not planning of raising a family when there's internet to immerse me to anime, games, VNs, and youtube.

I didn't even know my beautiful queen had a daughter.

I might as well end it now

This. The last generation fucked things up, there's a reason things were the way they were. They weren't being prudes, they were preventing western civilisation from going tits up.

The reason that bitch is smiling is because she got railed by the milkman that morning and tomorrow it's the pool boy's turn.

Yeah, but it's not until the next generation after your own that you'll be able to knock about it other than by huffing the insides of rubber tires.

Keeping your woman on her toes while not being a scumbag. Letting her know you have options so if she fucks up you'll get strange pussy elsewhere. Treat her well but let her know if she tries to pull stupid shit you aren't afraid to walk away.

90% of posters are not going to have a clue what a good, healthy relationship even looks like.

Dating, marriage, and romantic love are largely fucked beyond repair. There really isnt anyway to fix or salvage the sexual marketplace for men.

Women have always have a huge advantage when it comes to dating and chosing a partner but now they have been slowly voting for more benefits and government programs to increase their value and decrease the value of men. Men pay higher taxes while women collect far more benefits and are virtually powerless in court against a woman.

Basically, you are fucked. Its really just a fools delusion at this point to find true romantic love in a woman. It may be possible but you are taling maybe 5% of the female population are actually worth it. Which means if you are older than 32 and havent found a girl yet, you probably will never find a good one since they get snatched up in their early twenties.

I really dont know what to tell you. Ive never had a good girlfriend in my life so I dont know if its possible to find one.

>asking a bunch of single neckbeards
>on a Croatian yodelling-enthusiast website.

Welp, I think I found your problem.

dont let her use the internet or tv without permission
make sure that bitch is occupied doing something productive throughout the day
take her out for ice cream if she behaves good

This.

As soon as she knew for sure i was "hooked" she started losing interest.

When i was in alpha mode and constantly reminding her shebwas replaceable she did everything she could to please me.

a cousin of mine is getting a wife in about a year despite the 30s.

Don't get your hopes down. She's pretty cool, which is why we respect him.

So if your 32 just find a girl in her early twenties or even late teens. Besides stigma from jelous older women it shouldnt be to hard if you are fit and financially stable.

Compatible personalities which is mostly genetic. Plus a good dose of luck.

>A young pretty woman dating an older man with money
>This is true love and not your everyday hypergamy in action

Dont make me fucking laugh. You are one of those suckers that gets his ass ripped apart in divorce court.

Please dont fall for that meme. Find love young user. If you are already older and have no choice then I suppose you can go for it but just be careful and dontthink with your dick.

I did find young love and it lasted 5 years until she was infected by liberalism in grad school.

You dont have to show your wealth i would try to keep that relatively modest and dont go for the "smokin hot" type bit the cute and quiet type.

Im talkin girls that lived with her parents through (community) college and never really had a boyfriend. There is all kinds of untapped potential you can unlock in these gals.

Communication and constant investment in the relationship.

Sorry about that user. Ive lost my gf of five years last year too. It was very hard.

>You dont have to show your wealth i would try to keep that relatively modest
If you show even a decent amount of money, you are going to be above the men her age since the men her age are ten years behind you.

Age itself is status and authority. Im very weary of women that like older men. It really is not a positive sign in any way.

>and dont go for the "smokin hot" type bit the cute and quiet type.

I really dont bother with the """""""alpha""""""" women anyways and vastly prefer the homely shy types but even the shy cute ones are much worse than you would expect. I had a gf in college with clinical depression and social anxiety. She broke up with me and was into three other relationships that year.

Even the shy ones are in and out of dating. Modest wome arent really a thing anymore.

>im talkin girls that lived with her parents through (community) college and never really had a boyfriend. There is all kinds of untapped potential you can unlock in these gals.

This sounds like a male fantasy to me. I dont think ive ever seen or heard of a girl like this let alone one with strong morals, average intelligence, and decent looking.

Like I said, even the most shy girls are getting dates all the time without effort. Whether you blame women or not for this is up to you but I dont want men to charge off blindly thinking they can find the love of their life if they just try.

The fact is, coincidence plays a huge role in finding a good girl. Sure, you can go to places where the type of girl you like might be but its still going to be a numbers game that will likely take years to find her.

And thats if she even exist. There are many more rich chads then there are good women. You simply may not be able to even compete.

What If I met my soul mate, but she is leaving to Korea?

Will Worst Korea be a bad experience enough to come back to Costa Rica?

Simplicity
Compassion &
Patience

Good sex. This of course means that if you are of the European or Canadian persuasion you had better hire a top quality bull to keep your wife happy unless you want to be cucked for alimony.

Most men don't define themselves from their relationship to the same extent that women do.

>t. country whose men are universally recognized as sexual failures.

Love. Fidelity. Long term thinking.

This is impossible though. Women already have all the natural advantages I'm the sexual marketplace and in the legal system.

With continued pressure and laws for more """ equality """" it's likely we will see them simply being paid more than men for the same jobs. They already make more at a younger age, get hired easier, pay less taxes, get more gubmint support, and every natural advantage of being a woman.

In short, the average man simply cannot compete. Yes men finally get the upper hand in their mid thirties but women have about 15 years of dominance until then.

There is a reason why so many men keep saying that the game is rigged.

I havent totally given up ive seen a few of the unicorns ive described i will admit they are very rare and under the thumb of their parents which means i have two other people to placate which may be more difficult.

in my neck of the woods ive seen decent lookin girls with good morals but they often are lacking in intelligence, something i have considered sacrificing. I know i could curse my offspring with dumb-dumb genes but that could be blessing. Intelligence, as any one who has it knows, can be a curse.

I once fantasized that my ex hadnt completely degenerated but places like this have destroyed such hope.

So i guess i should be off the phillipines i know some guys who had good luck with moral and loyal women from there or i can go to Utah convert to the local cult.

There are other boards to talk about that with. Sometimes you have to give up on your old dreams and start new dreams.

Or else why even live

>why even live
I didn't asked for these feels

Thanks for fucking up my day.

What if the wife works longer hours and earns more money? Should the husband cook then?

fuck off chink lover.

Plebs not intrested in truth.Still a generous try.

co-dependency and good chemistry

this has to be fake

The comments are gold.
>find a poly or kink friendly therapist
>hurr are you (at least) happy for her?

These fucks just don't want to accept that cultures with a huge emphasis on monogamy have conquered the world for a reason. A strong nuclear family, with one mother and one father, raising children that are for certain their own, provides more stability and a better foundation for growth than zis and zer's crazy kinky "I've-convinced-myself-this-lifestyle-will-make-me-happy" sex life.

death

Women have to worry about their kids, if she trades up her offspring trades up. Her first responsibility is to them

this...
and money