Could you ignore the bad choices of a woman that made in the past if you really like her?
I'm not talking about over exaggerated shit but some shit like "i was with my friend , i got drunk and we fucked " . I feel like it's poor judgement for a woman.
depended how much i loved her and mostly contributory assets like how much weed she provides
Yes I could forgive that. I can't forgive you for starting this thread though you 12 year old autistic fuck.
100% of all women have made bad choices in life at some point
If she's truely changed and matured, if her life is in order, yes.
Otherwise she's gonna get back to falling off the wagon in short order.
This makes sense .
what kind of bad choices are we talking about here?
Did my share fare of fucked up things, sexual and drugs, stealing, vandalism etc in my youth. Who am i to judge someones past?
From my analysis she changed a little bit.
Also is it true that almost all single woman have a fuckbuddy?
Yes. I made a ton of bad choices too. The only things I cannot ignore: incurable disease I could catch, psycho ex's she did NOT tell me about, and the fact that she is a close blood relative who knew that about us before we got involved.
OP, you sound like you've never left the house. I make worse choices than that about 6 times a day.
>Also is it true that almost all single woman have a fuckbuddy?
lol no
Absolutely not.... If she does it once she'll do it again. You couldn't trust her anytime she went out because she might "accidentally" fuck a dude. Also NO. if she loves you, you are the fuck buddy!
where the fuck do you hear these common sayings
dont put the girl on a pedestal, shes normal just like you
I'm not judging. She was like , I got drunk and I fucked my friend because we were at a bar together. Another one was when she said that a coworker kinda insisted and she gave up and now they are fuckbuddies .
The point is that from what i get from her , she's just very good at making a choice not based on emotion. Like what the fuck you just gave up and now you fucking him?
Every one makes bad, dumb and retarded choices. It just comes down to how much of an adult you can be, look pass all that shit.
>Absolutely not.... If she does it once she'll do it again.
What the fuck are you even babbling about. She had sex while single, big fucking deal. She might do that again? My goodness let me clutch my pearls!
girls love to fuck too.
if she's single why not.
If she takes initiative in fixing the situation, sure
Relax freak I'm high af I didn't know this wasn't OPs girls. I stand by what I said.. but not if she did that shit while she's single
She's not*
is this about reberto?
>Like what the fuck you just gave up and now you fucking him?
Let me translate for you: She was just fine fucking him, but didn't have a huge crush on him or anything that made her pussy drip for it. Afterward, she found that it was actually pretty good sex, so she decided to do it again on the regular.
Your girl does sound like a dumb whore, OP.
But there's nothing really wrong with being a dumb whore, if that's what you're into.
yes you pussy. don't judge people. you have done much worse than she has
The problem for me is not the fact that she had sex while single. Is what made her lead to that. I understand when women are horny they just go out and will find someone to fuck in no time. But read my posts above please , is the fact that she got drunk and had sex and now kinda regrets it . And because a guy just lean on her to have sex and she gave up , this tells me she is not very good at getting her point across and will eventually give up.
You don't own anyone. The times have changed for men's role. They are no longer needed to breed with females as a couple drops of celebrity sperm and they're golden for the century. Remember that faggot.
I'm already in the process of forgetting her and move on bro.
>But read my posts above please , is the fact that she got drunk and had sex and now kinda regrets it . And because a guy just lean on her to have sex and she gave up , this tells me she is not very good at getting her point across and will eventually give up.
This is just shit she tells you because she can tell you're looking down on her, or shit she tells herself because society tells her she should be ashamed of being "loose".
She had sex with those guys because she wanted to, end of story.
Not really sure how different it is than her having sex with YOU because she wanted to. So just enjoy getting your dick wet.
None of your examples show that this girl is a cheater. Just that she likes to fuck. It's not the same thing.
Would you rather be with an uptight prude who hates giving blowjobs?
If she made reasonable mistakes, sure, if she made pornography while criticizing my own life choices, no
nice reddit spacing faggot
I've been on Sup Forums since 2005 and I'll space exactly how I want to because I don't give a shit about your weird autistic screechings about it.
You are a pasta
kys faggot
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youre not in a relationship with her yet. she has her own life and she can do whatever she wants until youre in the position to talk about it. if you love her, you should love her mistakes. idem ditto the other way around. it only matter what happens IN a relationship.
dump her
As if you make any good choices.
Upfront honesty beats any fuckup. Because you know she won't hesitate at telling you the shit that's going on. It's the ones who are afraid to tell you they want to fuck some other guy that end up cheating behind your back. I'd rather a GF call me and tell me she's going to fuck another guy rather than tell me in an argument 3 months later.
GF made a lot of drunken “I didn’t want to. I don’t know why he thought i wanted to. What was I supposed to do? I don’t like him like that”s . It was called college
depends who the friend is. if its someone that her other friends or my friends dont really know and someone that she didnt really see often at all i guess it could be ok. if it was some guy at her work then yeah thats a bit much.
feel like a cuck now.
I've given up on treating women (or people for that matter) as companions and human beings
they're just temporary entities you entertain long enough to get access to their butt stuff
Nigga with blond hair lol
>I've been on reddit since 2005
Doesn't matter if they fucked before me, what matters is how loyal both are to each other after. I had a girl who fucked around so much that we broke up due to her urge to fuck with multiple guys at the same time. I didn't mind it at first but I grew tired of the constant fucking around.
Ever consider it was actually you who was the side bitch you delusioned know nothing retard?
So many cucks itt
I've made some really bad choices so no
wtf? you let her fuck other guys? literal cuck
I can, provided that:
1) She acknowledges that what she did was pretty stupid/wrong and she feels some form of shame or negative feelings towards what she did. Sucking dick on cocaine at the age of 16 is one thing, but being proud of it or downplaying it like it's not that big of a deal is a red flag for degenerate immature cunts with bad social circles, so just stay clear from any serious emotional engagement with them and wear a condom.
2) What happened in the past, stays in the past. If you keep in touch with fuck buddies and exs, if you still go out with those friends that are always trying to get you drunk and drugged, if you're still going to those places where you got drunk, high and fucked so many times - then the past is no longer in the past, it is part of the present and that means I have to deal with it. So if that's not what I'm looking for into a relationship, either one of us has to go.
I don't have anything against being a slut honestly. I appreciate women who stay true to their true intentions and I get along with them just fine. It's those "I'm really looking for a serious relationship, I'm a romantic kind" of people who take in 3 kinds of dick every week and wonder why no guy ever takes them seriously that piss me off.
All men do this regularly. I regret most of my hook ups. I lost my virginity under regrettable circumstances. I've had a lot more bad sex than good sex in life. Not everyone day spent hunting is good day. It's the same for women. You want to get off, you take what you can get. It's not always like that though. You'll know when it isn't. Even after you're a couple being cheated on is not the end of the world. It's conditioning. Fucking is fucking, it isn't love or intimacy. Do youself a favor and accept that monogamy is not a natural state for humans.
Beat her fucking ass. If she stays, she's yours, if not, she never was.
If you are that much of a slave to your instincts that you can't hold back from just fucking the first piece of meat you encounter sometimes, taking into consideration all the pornography which is available as well as how easy it is nowadays to find people to go on a proper, meaningful date - then you are nothing more than a beast whose poor judgement should not be trusted beyond basic expectations, simple as that. If you lack the emotional and mental capacity to develop a proper conduct for yourself as well as others in order to decide who it is that is worth trusting with your most intimate secrets, then you will naturally not only treat monogamy as a weird, abstract concept but you will also be prone to be deceived by others who are happy to be be slaves to their basic instincts because they have not developed an advanced moral consciousness capable of elevating their behavior past that on a common household animal.
bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
-ghandi
This. If she tells about her bad choices, at least she's open and honest about it. Which is better : to have somebody who have made bad choices and tells you about it or the one who doesn't tell about them? And eventually, no matter who you choose, there's real possibility that she is bad choice for you. Being alone, taking the risk, your choice.
Pretty much this.
Girls are exceptional at making themselves seem like innocent victims when they want to.
hit it at least.