I'm 43 years old

I'm 43 years old.

Literally all of my dating options are girls in their early 30s who are nothing but used up sluts looking to settle for a beta male provider.

They all have this deer-caught-in-headlights desperation going on. Every single girl I've dated over the past 3 years has always had an obvious agenda, doing everything they can to manipulating me into proposing marriage only to get furious at me when their efforts fail.

I've had my clothes burned on my front lawn. I've had my trucked keyed. I've had a brick thrown through my window. In each case, my egregious offense was merely ending the relationship. In every instance, they acted like I was some sort of dine-and-dash candidate, like I owed them a return on their investment and was skipping out on paying the bill.

I don't know any woman in my age bracket that is marriage worthy.
They're either divorced, a single mom, or both. Every single girl I've dated in the past 3 years has a roast beef, beat up pussy. The mileage is as obvious as looking at a 1995 Honda civic.

And somehow, I'm the asshole.
How old were you when you realized that you're never going to get married?

Glad your bitter ass is never going to have kids..

Idk. I dont lile sluts which is basically 99% of females. I decided at about age 16-20. Somewhere around there. 23. Give 0 shits about it but this other thing is eating my soul.

>tfw when you let a woman think she better than you

Find better women, you're not gonna find any quality at that age on tinder or in bars. I met my 34yr old gf 6 yrs ago at a coding meetup.

She looks 10yrs younger, doesn't want kids and her pussy is the tightest I've had. Plus we have the same interests since we met at an interest group so we have stuff in common.

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Shit nigga I’m 34 executive, divorced, smoke weed everyday, wear a tracksuit to work and I date nothing but high quality alpha type career women. I put literally no effort into dating, they ask me out and pay for dinner about half the time.

Assuming you actually want to get married and have a long term relationship.

Take a trip to Japan. They have plenty of women who are over 30 who are college educated, with no kids/never married, and have jobs (so they dont need to live off you).

Your problem is that you're looking for women 10 years younger than you.

Thirty year old men dating 20 year old women is sort of expected. The guy is at a stage of his life where he's finally working and is starting to have some decent cash flow. Women in their 20's are just starting out and don't. Guys in their 30's aren't yet smart enough to know how to save and spend for their lifetimes and still walk away with some cash, and they're looking to get some fresh puss and will happily toss money at it. 20 year old women can capitalize on that.

But by the time the women are 30, they want to get married. They are realizing their childhood dreams are slipping away. They want a house and kids and they feel they've already been working so hard to get it and it hasn't paid off. So they change their tactics, going after men with even more money (men in their 40's who are learning to save and spend wisely) and trying to snare them at any cost. But now they're trying to nail that with a decade of baggage attached...while still thinking they're just as appealing as they were in their 20s

You have 1 of 2 choices. Start dating 20 year olds again. They will cheat and be dumb as shit, but the fuck will be good and they're not oing to need as much money as you think they might...as long as they never find out how much you actually have (in which case they'll wind up using you as an ATM while they fuck black guys on the side)

Or you can date 40 year old women with careers. They've figured more shit out. They don't care about your money as much bc any decent 40 year old woman prolly has some of her own by now (and if she doesn't, watch out.) They're not looking for a million fuckbuddies on the sly and they're not as invested in the whole marriage just to get married trap. They actually want a relationship and are wise enough to know why they legitimately have that as a goal: to be in a relationship and not just to satisfy their puzzehs or bank accounts.

And they're super tight

Someone make this into a meme.

How you can date a woman younger than you? I mean look at those kids nowadays, even if they're like 2 years younger than you they still weird and fucking brainless kids to you. I can't imagine even speak to people that younger than me.

You sound like you could afford a holiday in Cambodia with tight young girls so I’d do that. Or join the yakuza.

Around 20
And i had pretty good options comparatively
Women are shit

Women are gold diggers. You are hard pressed finding a quality companion. Luckily for me, I don't have a fucked up personality (i.e. i don't want to bring life into a fucked up planet). In my eyes, reproduction is THE most selfish thing a person could ever do.

What's your problem? Sounds like your standards are too high.
I'm only in my 30's but I'd pretty much date any girl that pays me, pays for some of my stuff, or gives me gifts or stuff I want.

>gets date with anybody
>so happy

This. I did this 9 yr ago and am beyond happy.

The only thing that makes a woman valuable is her womb.

Since girls in their 40's are barren, they're worthless. Barely even classify as human.

Sad but true.

weak b8 m8 try again

I'm not trolling.

If she isn't capable of continuing my genetic lineage, she isn't date worthy.

Maybe some of the experiences you're talking about are true because most women who are that age and still single and still playing the dating game have enough things wrong with them that raised red flags for guys when they were back in their twenties.

Having said that, maybe you're part of the problem yourself. I mean, you are 43 and there aren't many girls in their early twenties who are going to see you as a good catch either.

>butthurt perpetual single-fag detected
Nice rationalizing, faggot.

30

Do what i did:
get in shape, dress properly, be an alpha and fuck 20 year olds for the rest of your life.

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MGTOW dude, relax and enjoy your life, remove the frustration. Get horny onde in a while use porn or an escort, then go back to what you want to do.

What a great relief it was walking away from that unending bullshit, now life is better and I can keep and use my money for what I want. Think about it

It sounds like your the problem.

If you meet one asshole today, you met an asshole. If you meet a bunch of assholes, YOUR the asshole.

All your failed relationships have only you in common.

>not trolling
>"genetic lineage"
>4channing b4 9AM

They also have women in common.

They also have being alive in common.

>be 30
>dated heaps of girls around my age
>Met 19yo non western girl wow what a difference
>married her
>best two years of my life

So much beta

Be alpha like a true thulean man and get a 17 years younger wife.

Like, if you are meant to spread your genes you will find a girl even if you spend 90% of your time 4channing in a locked room for 18 years and researching Nordic Paganism.

Money sucker woman spotted

>The mileage is as obvious as looking at a 1995 Honda civic.

Fuck I needed that giggle, thanks. Have a bump, upset roasties are always hilarious.

>pissing on the 1995 Honda civic.

Nigger I will fight you.

James?

I am 37 and married, kid on the way
in fact we live together since 2007

the fact is women should never get the sexual freedom they have right now, I still has to come back to norm after sexual revolution, I'm not saying the system we had for centuries was perfect but way better even for the women than what we have right now
because women always look for the best available mate and basically discarding 70% other males they use to ride cock carousell in college years then try to settle and raise a family only realizing it's 15 years to change attitude

just look at the fucking dogs, they're having better relationship most of us will ever have

Wize words, user
I don't get why people nowadays still want to get married
better being alone then with someone you don't fully like

Are you implying you would be happier dating other men?

go older then, wtf. One of the best relationships I had in my 20s was someone 17 years older than me. We dated for 5 years, and then just moved on.

Im 46 and have been married for the last 20 years and have 3 kids. You should kill yourself. Its too late for you to have any kind of meaningful relationship with any woman and god forbid you ever have kids. I'd hate to see what kind of geniuses they would grow up to be assuming they didnt have downs syndrome. You have grown old and bitter i think its time for you to just end it. Im conclusion: kill yourself. Seriously. Do it.

i can deal with a drinking problem

> 1995 Honda civic.

Probably because you have a drinking problem.

Although a harsh delivery, this user makes some valid points. I wouldn't say kill yourself, but stop trying to pretend that you're in your 30's.

Age of the father is not important. If he finds a wife in her twenties the children will be alright.

Well, sounds a lot better than OPs situation, or just your average American divorce "equality". Fuck i'm glad i'm not living in the US.

Get back in the 20's. I'm 43 as well, same issue. My ex (now 26) wants to get back together. Going to make that work. 30+ year olds are all nuts. And fuck 40 year old women- I've got nothing in common with those old people.

You're the piece of shit in this thread.

true. women are nuts but the fact that more than one woman he dated acted crazy, gotta wonder if he's not telling everything, that he's playing a part in provoking them.

Yea ok buddy

This. So much. Get a life doing stuff. You'll meet a woman there.

>so much beta

Nope, sounds like he has his shit together. It's 2018, if you think meeting your GF at a Coding group is beta, go back to the stone age. This is the age of technology, faggot.

>And fuck 40 year old women- I've got nothing in common with these old people
>is 43

You're just delusional and/or in denial of your own station in life, m8. I'd get back with the 26 year old ex if I were you before it's too late.

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I thought I was the only one going through this. I’m dating a 22 year old who keeps asking me why I haven’t proposed to her and I’m 49. She is hot but moody as fuck. I know I have to leave her soon and when I do I’m pretty sure she is going to look to fuck up one of my cars or make scenes in front of my house. When I tell her I’m not looking to get married she starts to cry and starts slamming doors. She’s a fantastic fuck and easily a 9/10 so I have that otherwise I would have left a long time ago.

How did you score a 22 year old 9/10 if you're about to be 50? She must have serious daddy issues. How long have you been together?

I'm 45, and to be honest, I never felt women were more available to me than they are now. The woman I'm with now is 31. But I have all my hair and still in pretty good shape. You remind me of the male version of the bitter divorced single-mom who expects every man she meets to ask her to marry them and then rages when they don't.

Even if your reasoning is true, why are you lamenting the fact that you'll be single for life? Maybe because you don't want to be single and you're making excuses for why you are? Try bettering yourself and enjoying life for a change, maybe then the women you want will come. But I suspect you're fat and sloppy and blaming women for being too old.

OP is a manchild. 43 years old dating 20 year olds. You like babysitting, huh?

Angry breeders sad their wives cucked them with the ball and chain that is children; go to local thread so they can feel manly and accomplished for blowing their load

Date younger or older or single mum.

It's normal from their point of view when they are in their early 30 to want something serious, their biological clock is ticking.

meth?

Got married at 27 years old. I am now 38 years old. Fly to Pattaya Thailand once every year. To hell with western women

>tfw my girlfriend is an older chick who makes way more money than me
Keep crying bitch ass nigga

Im not sad though. I love my wife and my kids. Honestly we never got rich but life turned out pretty great for me. We are about to move into the empty nest phase of our lives and that kind of worries me. I actually liked raising kids.

Teach her. It's fun to act as a Pygmalion.

he prob likes tight puss

James Wang or Wong?

43 year old here too.

Have you tried dating younger, like early 20's? They're less nuts but exhausting. Unless you date a fatty. But hey, we're 43, so we can't exactly be choosy.

god fucking damn op i married one of them. way to make me face reality..

2 step kids one that we had together.. lucky i had a son cause one of the two step kids (2 girls) hates me

Well OP, I can certainly feel your pain. I ran into the EXACT same type of women but in my mid 20's. Now I'm in my 30's and married. Had to find a girl much younger than me but had the same interests I do. Also a girl that doesn't like her family and their habits so she is bound and determined for it to be her and I against them.

Keep your chin up, rent a hooker, keep looking. Some are single moms that are honestly trying to do good in this world. At 43, that's what you're going to have to settle with. Becoming a Step-Dad. If she's older, doesn't have kids, and is single, she's broken.

Most of women see mariage as a way to get more than what they would have had by themselves (background, education, job).
When men refuse to play that game, women feel feel cheated and go nuts.
To me, if a woman is unable to accomplish something by herself, like a caeer for example, she's just a fuck hole, nothing more.
37, 2 kids, married to a slut who's also a partner in a lawfirm.

>Every single girl I've dated in the past 3 years has a roast beef, beat up pussy.
>2018
>still believing this bullshit

He has to be trolling. Or a complete virgin.

This

This is what gets me off.
I'm like a succubus regarding youth.

I'm 21 and always lusting for 16yos.

Can you imagine the MASSIVE mental difference?
The thing is: you can profit of the energy and enthusiasm a teenager has, and she can profit from you knowing how life works.

nope. age of father also very significant in psychiatric things (although less than of the mother, but still)

You're like the weird autistic kids who hear a word and have a tourettes glitch attack, saying it over and over again without context.

>Shit nigga I’m 34 executive, divorced, smoke weed everyday, wear a tracksuit to work and I date nothing but high quality alpha type career women. I put literally no effort into dating, they ask me out and pay for dinner about half the time.

perhaps a combo of both. Soon as he mentioned high mileage lippy vagenes I saw a red flag. The legitimate convo that followed leads me to believe that lots of people really are that stupid and think how that shit looks externally has fuck all to do with how tight they are

har har. that guy. "barely human"
types the 23 y o betafag who wanks
more often than he reads the newspaper

this. you didn't even make the effort of finding a long term relationship this last 20 years, so it's basically your own faurt for waiting so long

I'm 44 and I've started dating women in their 50's and 60's.

These old whores are absolute beasts in the sack. It's like fucking a 10 year old girl except when they shit themselves, it's due to elderly incontinence instead of a PTSD reaction.

So you're bitter and single. Yeah you sound like a real catch you salty cunt

You're too damned old to raise kids, life is picking out somewhat younger women for you.

Find somebody your age and commit to not having kids.

LOLOLOL
genetic lineage

>16
too old my friend
go younger

We're glad you're not here either. Don't ever visit.

>tracksuit to work

Do you work on Staten Island or something? Or are you russian.

>21
>knowing how life works

sorry user you’ll have to choose one or the other.

>21
>knowing how life works

Cringe

Western women are a fucking tumour on a man's life. I don't even care if this sounds like a beta thing to say. Ever since the 1970s, the worth of any woman born west of Germany has dropped dramatically. Instead of raising children and working in the household, they're instead trying to plug their arses into every field of work, and have developed such individualist personalities that the only thing they are good for anymore is sex. What's the point? No fucking wonder our birth rate is declining.

Who wants to actively choose a life with a soul-sucking husk of a person who will drain you of everything? The future is traps, get with the play.

Date outside your race. Period. What you described are white bitch problems. I ended up marrying a mexi. Best decision I ever made. She loves the fuck out of my fat ugly ass. The whole time we dated she was amazing and nothing changed after we got married.

this indeed. OP never wanted to face reality with getting older, and now -surprise- he's to old to find a long term partner

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why would you want to get with a woman that looks like some kind of alien?

>How old were you when you realized that you're never going to get married
i was never under the illusion that marriage is natural or necessary. people can just keep dating indefinitely without chaining themselves together with a dark ages ceremony for transferring wealth

if you were that much of a catch you'd still be able to fuck 20 year olds