Can someone who's had "fuck buddies" or "friends with benefits" explain how you can fuck a girl and not develop...

Can someone who's had "fuck buddies" or "friends with benefits" explain how you can fuck a girl and not develop romantic feelings? I just don't understand how you can be fucking the shit out of a girl one night, but carry on the next day like you two aren't a thing. To me, if I'm banging a girl, I have to at least have some feelings of love for her beyond "we're just friends". I realize that this is usually an issue that comes up from the girl when she starts to develop feelings, but I'm a guy who legit never wrapped my head around how "no strings attached" booty calls and flings are so common.

Other urls found in this thread:

youtube.com/watch?v=U2bNXrVubrE
twitter.com/NSFWRedditVideo

guys with fuck buddies are almost always guys who are largely successful with women. when you have fucked lots, you'll notice the difference between someone you just want to fuck, and wanting to fuck someone you really care about

guessing you are very inexperienced

Think of women as objects, not people. It's really easy then.
>inb4 the edge

Yeah, I have a girlfriend, but I've never had a fuck buddy.

I had sex daily with one of my best friends for like 6 weeks before she started getting serious with someone else.

We had been great friends for many years and everything i would ever consider sharing with a human being (not revealing the extent of my power level of course), i could share with her.

When we had fucked for a few days we talked like we always do, with all cards shown. Declared that none of us were in love, and that we did not wish to tell anyone, we just wanted to fuck.

In a way it makes sense, as fucking is the ultimate form of intimacy. I guess that's why you might fall in love.

Anyway, even tho i would not want to be in a relationship with her, and im not in love with her (i do love her), it still somewhat feels wrong in my stomach knowing that she is with someone else.

I think that you basically have to not like the girl that you're fucking. I guess you should stand her, but if you could see a legitimate future with her the odds of you falling in love might be high.

Also fucking does not have to be intimate on an emotional level. I've fucked a fatty whom i did not think was attractive at all, i just had to fuck.
When fucking with her i did not share any of the emotional bond that i would share with someone whom i loved.

I had literally hundreds of FwBs over the years. I’m married so would focus on the following types:
1) women that are married, like me. This one is obvious.
2) single mothers - usually divorced. They don’t want a relationship but they need to get laid.
3) women I actively dislike. Women like Stacy cheerleader, or lesbian SJWs. We don’t like each other at all but the sec is hot.

Thanks for the genuine answer.

>Can someone who's had "fuck buddies" or "friends with benefits" explain how you can fuck a girl and not develop romantic feelings?
Ive caught feelings
Loads of them
And still love the bitch
...
....
.....
Then again Im sure she is a whore
So nothing of value will be ended up with at the end
Cheating bitch is fun break from day to day grind

fuckin gigachad over here

Dunno about everyone else, but I had a warped childhood. I'm more comfortable having sex with someone than kissing them, sexual attraction was something I felt and was accustomed to prior to regaining most of my emotional range, leaving Sex and Love as two wholly different beasts.

when my first real girlfriend dumped me, all of my feelings to forming a relationship with any women went straight out the window. It took a lot of wandering from girl to girl before I found my girlfriend I have now and she's fuckin awesome. Most of the friends with benefits I had I don't necessarily regret, I'm just not proud of. its not as great as it sounds because you two will eventually stop talking because it'll be time to move onto to something greater in life.

Source?

I have had the same fuck buddy for over 10 years , why is it so hard to understand that you might find a person physically attractive but feel their personality is so different to yours that you could never actually live together?

She and I are the best of friends ( hey, I suppose you could call friendship a feeling) and we help each other out all the time but we will never be more than friends

It's harder when you're young because you're more driven by irrational emotion than logic. If you can separate sex from love in your head, then you can do it with your body too. Having "feelings" for a girl usually means feeling possessive and not wanting her to sleep with other people, but of course those feelings are also accompanied by all the other mushy things that go along with (usually) finding an intimate niche with another person. If you don't boil everything down to in/out of a relationship and don't concern yourself with being in control of the girls you are interested in sexually, you'll have a lot more fun and you will be a lot less disappointed when things don't work out the way you see them in your head.

most importantly, sauce?

I think it's Lia Marie Johnson, it's not a short from a porn video or anything.

>fuck buddy for over 10 years
Nigga you two are in an open relationship by now..

sauce me nigga. i know who she is but where the fuck is this from

whats the difference?
she comes over, we fuck, she goes home.....just been going on for many years...she si too busy to find anyone else and I am too lazy , it works for both of us

...

Gigachad in this thread my man

Honestly, it only works (in my opinion) if you have more than one woman at a time. If you're putting your dick in the same place every couple nights, then yeah, you're going to catch feelings. If you sleep with 2 or 3 women a week, you don't worry about losing one of them over some bullshit.

EVACUATE THE THREAD GIGACHAD IS COMING FOR YOUR SINGLE MOTHER WIFES

a moment with lia marie johnson

Cos I know none of the girls I'm fuckin now I want to end up being my long term partner. I'm waiting till 30 for that shit.

That being said, I still get feelings for girls I fuck, it's just, I'm aware and I make sure they are aware that feelings or no feelings it's not gonna be long term (specifics, e.g how long we see each other for, discussed also with them. And such things as can we sleep with other people whilst fucking each other)

BASICALLY BRAH, there are many different ways humans can have relationships with each other. You can fuck a girl and not want to be with her. It still feels good, right?

because she's a butterface

/thread

There comes a point where you're tired of emotions in relationships and you'll break off the FWB before you get anymore serious

Or you only see them once a month when youre drunk af

Because we’re not beta males and can get pussy from women and know we don’t have to wife the bitch up, it’s all for funsies

It works best with women you like but really aren't what you see for yourself as a long term partner. If you can see yourself having a future with them, don't settle for FWB because you're gonna have a bad time...

When I was 19-23 I had a LOT of sex with women in their 30s and 40s. This was pretty much just all of satisfying our raging libidos, everyone understood it ended when I finished school. (It took me five years because I was in a BS-MS program.)

I didn't have my first real girlfriend, in the sense of being in a long-term relationship, until I was almost 30.

Sex is like that, user. Some advice: don't confuse being horny for someone, with loving someone. You can be horny for someone who's REALLY BAD for you.

I'd call edge if you weren't right.

i have had both, what the fuck are you on about. one of the two is always building feelings retard.

wich one?

Easy.

I have (had?) a friend who is really hot, both were single, liked to hang out together, get drunk and fuck. Maybe she wanted something more, but her priorities and interests in life just didn't meet with mine. So never any real feelings, other than friendly affection and sex.

They're usually not all that attractive and it drastically reduces their relationship potential that they will fuck without being in a relationship. At least how it worked with the 2 girls I FWB'd with.

you just have to think of women as objects instead of equals and then its pretty easy, you aren't looking to waste time and effort on someone's feelings you're just trying to get off

I mean obviously don't be a dick about it to her and keep that shit to yourself, but yeah just look out for yourself and get your dick wet

and from their point of view , you just have to think of men as objects etc etc , maybe they don't thioink of you as marriage material and they're just trying to get off as well

im in a dry spell tight now, i used to be an emotional little bitch with women...once i started sleeping with LOTS of women. 1-2 new girls a week i stopped getitng attached. I relaized theyre nothing special and once you can eave them more than they leave you, then you have the power. But when youre not getting laid its easier to get attached, you dont actually liek the bitch you just dont know whens the next time you'lll get pussy so you'll hold onto it make excuses to yourself sayign shes special, shes different etc when in reality subconsciously it'll be because you have no other options and shes nothing special

get dumped, realize nobody really gives a shit about you, realize any girl worth having has had 100 dicks in her already and is incapable of loving you, stop caring yourself

>a moment with lia marie johnson
good fucking lord
thanks friendo

Sex between fuck buddies is just sex, nothing more. There's a huge difference between getting off and having sex with someone you care about.

Nigga we dont love these hoes, thfuck you thinking.

Easier as you get older. There's some girls that you know you have zero chemistry with and you would make a terrible couple, but the pussy is good. You just fuck each other in the meantime until someone find someone else.

If u have more than 1 girl on the side, it will come naturally.
The fact that u are even asking this question shows that u need to find more girls who are dtf like her. Just ask ur fuck buddy for one or have a threesome with one of her friends so u pan out naturally.

Also sauce

sure, if she is ugly a f

Its called being a man you little bitch

youtube.com/watch?v=U2bNXrVubrE