Who else is depressed and embarrassed about everything they do?

Who else is depressed and embarrassed about everything they do?

Weak baby people

Not me: I think I'm better than other people.

What are you so embarrassed about OP?

I used to feel like this but not lately. Probably the lack of sex

I just over judge myself a lot. I never know when something is good or not when it comes to work because I'm a perfectionist. Nothing is good enough. I set high standards for myself but I've never done anything great before. Plus I don't have any friends and have terrible social anxiety. I just want to quit, I have for years but I care about my family too much

Ah, I see.
Well, that’s actually not so bad and pretty common I think.
I was thinking you were going to say you’d killed someone or you’re addicted to something illegal.
How old are you?

>playing with dolls
no wonder your depressed

Whenever I laugh I cry because of how pathetic I must be to be laughing alone.

I had a porn addiction but it's died down and almost 21

I laugh alone often myself. I stress and have anxiety attacks all the time for being alone.

Yeah that’s pretty common as well.
You’ve still got quite a few years before you get a grasp on life imo.
What are you passionate about?
Anything?

I love these threads....ask b/ why they are depressed...how stupid are you?

Music is something that's a big part of my life inspirations been a bit low lately though. Hby?

If you're able try to see if you can get on medication for depression and anxiety. Usually a treatment for one helps the other, but some people need something else for it. Needing meds is nothing to be ashamed of, the only time it even becomes something to look down upon is when someone refuses to seek help when they know they need it. And even then it's not like they're doing anything bad, the only bad thing is denying them a happier life. Nobody deserves to have a cloud hanging over their head 24/7, it'll rain sometimes, but the sun always comes out again.

Ok cool
I’m a actually a professional musician
Myself.
My advise is to practice your ass off and be a cool person.
Don’t talk shit and be humble.
You’ll eventually make progress and get work.
Also work on your physical appearance ie work out, jog and dress with style

Thanks for the tips guys. It's always nice to come to a shit hole like b and realize there are some good people in the world. I probably should get evaluate and getting healthier wouldn't hurt either

Hang in there bro
Remember the more work you put in, the more reward you’ll have.
Just keep on going and eventually something good will happen... ;)

What do you do for work currently? How would quitting effect your family?

I've worked in the same retail job for nearly six years and it's had a pretty big impact on my self-esteem. I'm a bit of a perfectionist myself (but not to the same extent as you might be from your description).

I wouldn't say my job is hard, but I've never received any positive reinforcement for the hard work I put into it.

It's gotten to the point where I can’t take a compliment and I don’t believe people if they say something nice about me. I think they are just saying it to be nice or because they feel sorry for me. Otherwise they say it because they have an ulterior motive and want to manipulative me to do what they want.

Anyway, I share a place with housemates so that is what keeps me from quitting. I want another job but because my self-esteem is so low at this point I don't think anyone will want to employ me so I don't even bother trying to apply.

Everyone on this site.

People are worthless, deal with it people. Either way you're above them or equal so you're just trying to set standards for yourself but are getting bogged in the pragmatics of achieving them (make them goal based, be active in their pursuit, rectify why you're feeling in a state of non-activity - could be the things you do, diet, past, mental, physical spiritual, emotional, are you connected? Overcome the obsticle once you reflect and find what it is). For me, weed solves all this shit. Just need a safe place to light up.

I meant quitting life. I live at home with my parents. The jobs not bad but it requires a lot of talking. I've been told im good at it but ivd just faked it till i made it. then they ask me to help out with things that could be the publicity for the job i work at and I feel like I fucked it up

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Well if they keep asking you to help out you mustn't be so bad at it? Perhaps you should take this advice then Seems like you are overly hard on yourself.