I have an extreme foot fetish to the point that I can't really be aroused by feet that don't look like this.
I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two years now, but I'm not attracted to her feet. I struggle to obtain the desire to have sex with her, and she always asks me why, but I can't tell her it's because her feet are ugly.
She knows about my foot fetish, but not the extent of it. Our relationship is deteriorating but I don't want to lose her.
Get rid of all your folders of feet; stop looking at them. Start with regular vanilla porn.
Cooper Rogers
Talk to her about it. Ugly feet can be reclaimed through care and attention. Hell you can even recover from skin fissures on the heel. If you care about her enough, then tell her and work with her a couple months.
Jaxson Diaz
That doesnt work. Its a fetish.
Mason Watson
Having thousands of images of feet at your disposal won't do any good either.
Leo Sanchez
does this excite you?
Austin Bailey
wouldn't matter, it's not that they aren't cared for, it's just not the "foot type" i like. it's an anatomical thing, can't be changed.
Nathaniel Ross
i have a fetish for getting fucked in the ass by a pantyhose mistress but that doesn't mean i can't fuck my girlfriend normal
is right, you gotta start from the ground up. once you get the confidence to be attracted to the parts of her you're biologically attracted to the pedicures will come after and you'll be back to foot fuckin
Parker Foster
I know this feel dude. Some of the sweetest girls i've ever known that were actually interested in me have ugly unattractive feet, and since sex is kind of important in this one and only life we have, they just were not compatible with me. Sucks that such a simple thing can destroy a relationship but happiness is more important. You're gonna die one day. Do what you need to now to be happy.
Hunter Parker
the fetish is extreme. it's not just a fetish but it's like it literally has replaced "vagina" in my brain. i am indifferent to vag.
Asher Perez
It might be time to call in the pros. Make an appointment with a therapist. It's sounding like this fetish is interfering with a healthy sex life.
Benjamin Anderson
Well you have to dump the GF. Find a cool chick that has hot feet. As long as she's not disgusting you'll be good.
Alexander Rogers
listen, love, you'll never make it work. accept it now. sooner or later you'll grow to resent her lack of aesthetic feet. you know this already.
Anthony Gray
for some reason i find that generally traditionally hot girls have uglier feet. and less attractive girls have nicer ones. pick your poison
William Thompson
I would go even further and I would suggest stop watching porn completely. Few days without jacking it off and you will fuck her brains out regardless of your fetish. And it's not hard to not watch it.
Kevin Evans
tried it. went like 6 months no jacking off, didn't do anything. it has felt like my "sexuality" ever since i could remember, even as a little kid. never wanted vag, always liked feet.
Isaiah Flores
Take her for a pedicure... how bad are her feet really? They can do a lot to soften and cute them up
Noah Gomez
yum
Hunter Ward
they're fine, taken care of. but they're too short/stubby for my preferences. can't be changed.
Anthony Phillips
true OP what are we working with here? Absolute fuckin' talons or can they be salvaged?
Jason Rodriguez
>they're fine, taken care of. but they're too short/stubby for my preferences. can't be changed.
Xavier Myers
well fuck son sounds like you're never going to truly experience what you want. If you have doubts you already know what to do. Show us the kind of feet that you're looking for in a bitch
Ethan Lee
Damn. Six months. That's fucking impressive. Well then that's a pretty extreme fetish. Not sure if I can help with that.
Well, since you seem like the most qualified person I met so far - I was always wondering... What about feet exactly gets you going? I never really understood feet fetish. I can understand most of the fetishes, but never understood this one. I mean I don't judge or anything, I just don't see anything sexy about feet. So I was wondering what exactly gets you going. Is it shape or something else? Is there some higher reason?
Christian Price
not OP but have a fair amount of experience. The foot fetish is super fucking subjective and everyone likes something different. It's hard to explain because it's just an ingrained thing that probably happened during puberty or earlier. Some people like chicks sitting on balloons, some people want to be fucked by a sweaty man in a motel wearing a wolf costume.
From my point of view, I find them aesthetically pleasing from an all or nothing perspective; soft, taken care of, clean feet drive me crazy. gross feet make me want to projectile vomit.
i'd say for most people it's something between goddess worship, taboo fetishism, and associating feet with arousal.
/OC
Alexander Lewis
lol my first ever heartbreak turned me into a pathetic scrub that's how i lasted so long without it, wasn't even interested. i was a dumb kid tho.
and to answer your question, i don't even really fucking know myself. it just triggers that shit in your brain, i guess the same way a hot vag/body would traditionally. i still feel in my mind like "damn i wanna fuck the shit outta that girl" and my cock wants to thrust at something but that's mostly mental - when it comes down to it it's not traditional sex i want.
it's different for everyone but for me personally, i like bigger feet, longer toes and nails, and particularly painted ones - they have to be painted or i can't be turned on. i feel like for me, i've always been really attracted to very feminine qualities, and to me that's just a really feminine thing? idk, hard to explain.
most research suggests it's bc the representation of the genitals is next to the foot/toes in the brain, and there's like "cross-wiring" where you're turned on by both or just the feet.
Nolan Hughes
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Eli Anderson
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Christopher Wright
am I the only one left
Anthony Collins
i'm still here lol
Brody Myers
r e s s u r e c t i o n
Justin Ward
i was never into soles for whatever reason
Henry Collins
how bout this
Isaac Peterson
oh def. favorite color too
Landon Sanchez
nails a little short for my taste tho
Luis Long
throw up your top tier shit
Jordan Harris
Thank you for your answer guys. That makes sense, I guess. For example, I was always into anal, I mean REALLY into it. But what made me going was idea that it was something taboo and something unusual that we're not supposed to be doing. Didn't see anything like that about feet. But your explanation makes sense. Though I understand that fetishes are hard to explain.
Liam Turner
lol i don't feel like pulling stuff up but for an idea of what i like, pretty much anything by "goddess grazi" or "lissfeet" is my ideal
Adrian Murphy
I mean you're on the right track with the anal-ogy. We don't know what the fuck we're doing but if we can get a girl to embrace it, it's the shit.
Colton Rodriguez
Dude us simple, if she does not gewt you going get another girl! There are many women out there and a lot think similarly!
Here are my wives feet, which I come on daily.
Benjamin Hill
>Our relationship is deteriorating but I don't want to lose her. if you're breaking up over somthing like this than she definetly isnt for you bud\
Dominic Miller
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Oliver Long
i'll throw a couple actually
Jaxson Roberts
Go see a therapist jesus christ.
Dylan Edwards
bold move. good luck with that shit.
yiss me son the fetish has so many variables gotta see what people are into
Isaiah Morris
That's for sure. Well, I am pretty happy with my ass fixation. I mean when girlfriend wants to have sex, the only thing she has to do is to shake her ass in front of my face and well, that's really everything I need. Anyway, gotta go. Have fun with feet, guys.
Christopher Lee
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Colton Wood
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Adam Nelson
It's like my liking for feet.. only if they're detachable from a girl
Have her wear socks with pictures of nice feet on them
Michael Stewart
milf feet vs teen feet lets gooooooo
Hunter Nelson
Is that the fabled vajankle?
Liam Rivera
may need a new thread
Wyatt Russell
I do not discriminate!
Adrian Thompson
*SNIFF SNIFF*
Connor Jackson
Up
Hudson Johnson
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Kevin Howard
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Landon Turner
My first gf had like size 8s with crooked toes but I still loved them. I'm going to add a vote to dropping porn, sounds like you just have ED. Just get your gf to send nudes or take photos, and whenever you need to fap, fap to her. This will get you a lot more attracted to her and will help with endurance in sex. Stop being a beta cuck and love your girlfriend. Lol.
Also, if you have been with your girlfriend for two years and aren't yet having kinky sex with her feet shoved down your throat then it sounds like you aren't comfortable around her and should either rethink the situation or break up.
Gavin Rodriguez
seconded. you wastin' time fantasizing in your half-assed comfort zone. either make that shit a reality or break out and move on to someone who'll embrace it. You're missing the fuck out
Oliver Ortiz
i don't have ED, no problems there. i'm just not interested in anything but feet. and like i explained before, we don't do that stuff because i'm not into hers in that way, i never will be. they're not my preference
Leo Baker
Gonna need to see what you're working with here bro. Can't give advice if I don't know what she has.
Are they hooves or something?
Thomas Flores
at least realize that this is the most counter-intuitive shit
you with this girl because it's comfortable and easy or what's the appeal here? what's making you stay when you already know what the fuck you should be doing?
Aiden Cooper
nothing wrong with them really, just not my taste. they're small/stubby, and i like big/long toes
Luke Reed
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Grayson Russell
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Leo Bell
I speak from experience here, and for me it wasn't fixable and it will come down to sexual needs vs this girl. And sex is a big part of a relationship. So maybe you'd be better off friends and you should find a girl who has the right match because your fetish is forever, bitches ain't.
Carson Powell
if you ignore that advice there's no helpin ya love. this man speaks the truth.
you're always going to resent the fact that she doesn't meet your fetish standards. The relationship's already dead, lad.
Aiden Stewart
I ended up cheating and that just hurt everyone.
Mason Foster
if the sexual chemistry isn't there, it's not gonna work. gotta find that freak who embraces your shit
Nathaniel Morgan
This. I later found my wife. And it made everything worth it.
Like Trent reznor said,"love is not enough"
Godspeed OP. Life is too short to try and fit the square peg through the circle hole
Nathan Perez
I think OP is long gone and does not share our sentiments. Good talking with you fellow degenerate. Now let us wait for a 14 year old to accuse us of samefagging
Chase Reed
Is it summer already?
Lincoln Brooks
I'm actually still here believe it or not lol
Daniel Jackson
I used to know a girl with those foot tattoos. Are her initials NF? Also, she's a redhead.
Jaxon Scott
well goddamnit you swarthy fuck tell us what you're gonna do about your situation. we need closure
Logan Wilson
lol tbh I was telling a friend of mine about this and they posted this "for me", then I was interested and started replying. didn't really need advice as it's kinda obv. the hardest part is how to diplomatically tell it all to someone you love
William Campbell
don't fuck around and rip that band-aid off. leave the fetish shit out though or else they may get stuck with a complex about it.
Nicholas James
yeah that's what I figured. just be honest and say I don't feel sexual chemistry anymore I guess
Isaiah Baker
good luck soldier. post what the fuck you're looking for in girl's feet and then memorize + find that shit.
Jaxson Cook
I've had it before, but typically it's been one or the other (sex vs love). haven't had both really.
Lucas Carter
Bro its about the shape and structure of the feet not the condition they are in
Brayden Wilson
post a pic thats closest to your ideal partner's foot aesthetic so we can understand what you're looking for
Jason Powell
what you posted is really close tbh. also see:
Josiah Foster
Tell her straight about this.. Maybe she'll be okay with fucking her while you have the feet pics or whatever you get off to up. I mean if not ya gonna lose her anyway the way you've said it. Fuck maybe she'll even look to improve her feet who knows
Benjamin Campbell
how you feel about jewellery AKA slave anklet chain attached to a toe ring on a long second toe?
