Sup Forums i'm already in love with my girlfriend but i'm finding out that she used to be a huge slut...

Sup Forums i'm already in love with my girlfriend but i'm finding out that she used to be a huge slut. should i stay with her or not

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Fuck the titties off that bitch and shit in the corner!

>was
do you really care about her past that much?

used to be*

get over it.

Some super sluts settle down eventually, the rest you know already from being a fucking mess. Ride it out, see what happens.
If you can't handle that she's already had a lot of dick, thats on you user; man up.

Get married and cheat on the whore. And in 10 years leave her for a new slut while she is a brockeb down cum dumpster

She still is a huge slut, you just don't know it yet.

sort of, she fucked 4 of my friends and one of them was in a linen closet at a party. didnt know about that. and she used to do a bunch of coke. and just be a general thot. has that repuation

youtu.be/FlYZnd7dEPw

just watch this man. who gives a fuck about her past, you're not dating her old self, you're dating her now.

thanks, i needed that

The head of my penis says stay with her.
The head of my body says that she's not fit to be a romantic partner given her tendencies.

I used to do a gram a night
doesn't mean I still do. doesn't mean shes still a slut

god damn i dont hate her

I'm glad to hear it, i had the same issue years ago and another user posted it in response.

just save it and whenever you feel insecure and want perspective just watch it again.

Sarai Keef? lol

if pic is your gf, i came down her throat at a truck stop in florida lol

leave her, idiot.

It's not an "insecurity" thing, if she's promiscuous, she is likely to cheat.

Also, women with a lot of previous partners statistically make horrible wives (should you two get that far)

swallow the redpill, user.

>tfw i'm a 26 yr old oldfag that is out here saving lives.

the answer is always yes

Cum really deep in her pussy without a condom then leave her

Fuck off OP thats Busty Sarai shes a porn star

so you're saying people can't change at all?

You're the same person you were when you were 15? 20? 24?

fuck out of here with your ignorance.

Is this a pic of your gf? If so what’s the context is that guy you?

inherently, yes.

People grow, but don't change, per se. Also, previous partners mess with a womans hormonal profile. Even if she becomes a born-again Christian, biological damage is still done regardless.

but please, keep cursing at me edgelord.

look up sarai keef dude lol

Once a thot, always a thot.
Not long term material.
Move on user, she will get bored of one dick and crave different dick. You'll be left or cucked.
Unless you leave first.
This wont end well.

except you're not my current gf had like 8 bf's before me but she doesn't cheat

Wise Old Fag here -
It's better to love a woman who slept with 100 men and loved none of them, than to love a woman who loved 100 men and slept with none of them.

Oh got it haha. Well how about pics of you gf then? Even can block facee if you want?

how can you grow without changing?
mess with hormonal profile?
have you ever been in a biology class? Seriously get out of here with your ignorance or educate yourself.

literally the most retarded thing i've ever heard.

Let nigger gangbang her infront of you.

shit's cash bro

>used to be
>pic related

If you can get past that nose, then you can get past anything

im not opp. if the pic on op post is his gf then i banged her lol not my gf

>being this insecure

must suck

Yeah you know me

If you haven't fucked yet; move along.
If you have, you have now slept with the people she slept with.
You're a slut as well.
He risk factor just became yours.

???

look, im gonna be honest here
1. that was her then, your dating who is she now, people can and do change

2. if she still parties then she is definetly cheating on you in the "i cant control what i do when im drunk" way

3. unless you are an alpha chad with a big cock, you will never ever be the best fuck she had and she IS faking it for you.

thats my advice

>hey bro if u fuk dat gurl ur fukkin all her ancestors partners too fucking whore

that is you, that's how retarded that idea is

if she's clean hes good

If you don't get it, you aren't going to get it

so what your sarai bf? lol

Depends on if she tried to hide it from you or lie about it to you. If she was completely open with you then you may want to give her a chance. If she lied then she'll hide other things from you and you'll never trust or respect her no matter how much you care or love her.

well with hypergamy and pair bonding and her having a huge cock count.... ehhh it's got no long term thats for sure

>It's not an "insecurity" thing
Yes it is, you're spazzing about some shit in the past that's not even your business anyway.

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You'll go back, just like her.

As long as you're OK with knowing that your friends WILL talk massive shit about you behind your back. My friend Matt once dated a chick that six of my friends (me included) had fucked. None of us said it out loud but all of our actions towards the guy clearly showed that we lost respect for him. After all, you're dating someone they would only pump and dump know what I mean?

Really think it through though.

Is this English?

5 years clean I don't think so

Once a worthless slut, always a worthless slut. Ja feel, bruv?

OP here that's sort of what i'm worried about, they're all my fraternity brothers too

As a maybe even older fag, I respectully disagree. 4 guys turned out to be at least 30, as she admitted after getting caught. She also admitted sex wasnt great for her and she used it to get stuff. Like a complete newfag I gave her another chance...which she then used to lure me into a mediocre mff threesome to kill my grounds and then leave me.

Shes remarried, and I'm super nice when I see the dude, because he wont wanna know the truth from me, but when he finds out it may wreck him (kind of neckbeard like I used to be). Sticky, broke, and confused is no way to go thru life son.

Tl;dr dont matter if she had lots of men, just dont stay with a liar anons

OMG this

she was totally honest about it

If she's over her slut condition, she's OK

Cuck

No, only a beta bitch stays with a girl that has gobbled cum her whole life.

Ok. If the sex is powerful, and when its over you still want her there, then hang in. Youre not gay, who cares what dudes think, its up to you.

Oh, to prepare you- the answer to "hows my dick taste" from your buddies is "Small."

I'm going through something similar right now op.

>been with current gf a few months
>sex is crazy good
>says she loves me and wants to be with me only
>found out she's been with a LOT of guys

The relationship is good. I have no doubts she means what she says, but it's pretty fucking hard to put her past out of my head.

I'm still not sure if I'm going to stay with her. No man really wants to settle down with a chick everyone else has had.

what about your dad? or did he run when he realised he fathered a sperg

Then if she doesn't have much baggage besides sleeping around, it's not necessarily a bad thing to give her a chance. But if you want to sleep with other women then be upfront about that and see where it goes. You'll look down on her sometimes for being a slut but you honestly won't care if you're able to have other women.

>:^)

In my experience once a whores, always a whore.

My ex tried cheated on her new bf with me after she cheated on me with him and other dudes.

She is designed to receive a ton of cock in her, not only one, I now believe. So I treat her as a friend with benefits now ;) she's such a slut for cum shoved up her birth control implanted pussy and asshole lol.

Maybe move to another town with her?

Whore* screwed it up, oh well.

This. I bet this happened to every ex boyfriend of hers

How many dicks has she sucked?

You should make her fat and then dump her

Dont be an insecure fag, justo fuck her a couple of times and then broke with that thot

Listen man, you know all the nuances of the relationship, so it's totally up to you. However, you are going to lose respect from your friends and that's a fact you're going to have to live with. Especially if you get into an argument with these guys.

Quick example, two coworkers of mine were really tight with each other but one of them fucked the other's wife before they were together. Fast forward and they got into some heated argument in front of everyone. Inevitably the "I fucked your wife" comment came out, and every male in that office OOOOOOOOOOHHHHH'd. He was undoubtedly emasculated, doubly so when the guy STILL had pictures from back when.

In short, you landed yourself a small town whore or at least someone who sullied he stomping grounds. That says little about her character, so you just have to be honest. Can you live with the stigma.

37 dicks

The bottom line is that women's choices reveal their personality and character, and shape who they become. Just like men.

So if she's spent her 20s sucking and fucking all kinds of dick with no commitment, or even serially hopping from one relationship to the next (branch-swinging), then it shapes her personality. Even if you don't see it, and even if it can be overcome by proper leadership on your part.

Her values, her future decisions, her ability to deeply pair-bond, her propensity for future hypergamy, etc, it's all affected by riding the cock carousel.

If you don't agree with that, then you don't really understand what the cock carousel does to women. Sex is harmless; getting pumped and dumped by an alpha dick, however, is not. The baggage she accrues adds up and gives you a more jaded, cynical product. If she's had many men buying her shit and bending over backwards to fuck her, or all kinds of cool club dudes wanting to give her these super high excitement experiences like partying / drugs / etc, then it changes how she perceives reality.

It slowly ruins her ability to be satisfied and fully sexually / personally fulfilled by a monogamous relationship and feminine role in the house. How's she going to start dedicating herself to the endeavor of raising kids or building an education/career or being a great housewife when she's used to the unbeatable excitement / validation of being "that" free big city girl?

It's not that she's a bad person, and it's not LAW - you can find exceptions to any TRP rule. We're just saying, hey man, if you're going about your search LOOKING for the exception, then WTF are you doing?

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See, as she ages, she'll be filled with these memories of how great she felt to be desired and dicked down by some cool Chad. She won't go quietly into her middle ages, she'll be causing drama and having mid life crises because once she lives too long on the carousel, she cannot ever really leave.

She won't grow out of it, she'll only ACT like she's grown out of it. She'll even believe it; she'll be that good reformed slut until some guy comes along that makes her feel that same way she did when she was 22.

Also, because she's used to wielding influence over men / using sexuality to get what she wants, your relationship will have more drama, more shit testing, and more necessity for dread game. I don't know about you, but I don't fall for the common male trap of "if a chick is higher maintainence / harder to keep, that must mean she's higher value."

More potentials for negative outcomes, more package, harder to maintain, usually more opinionated/cynical/jaded/"I think I know everything because I'm a big city girl with all this experience", and not capable of pair bonding as deeply and completely as a low n count girl. More accustomed to branch-swinging/hypergamy, and less likely to thrive in a feminine role.

All in all, it's just a bad bargain.

Thots (dumb sluts) are for ONS, decent personality sluts are for plates / fuckbuddy / FWB type relationships because you do enjoy their company, and the rare girls who are BOTH high "Relationship Market Value" AND high "Sexual Market Value" are the best for LTRs.

It's just a general rule of thumb that some asshole on here will always feel compelled to prove wrong a la "look at me guys I'm wifing up this high n-count girl and she's so loyal and feminine!"

Don't be that guy.

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Here you are. OP. Don't be a cuck.

what do you love about this girl? honestly

you'll probably never meet someone this hot again because you are a neckbeard or whatever. just be a cuck like all the other beta faggots on here.

Of course you should what the fuck you want with a shy virgin type
Nothing better than a good clean slut

she settle down so what'S the problem ? if you can't handle it go get as many pussy as she got dicks and then you'll be equals

no

I hope you dont believe its that low a number? Try over 100 if she is giving you the 30s mark especially a specific number

all those thoughts are just in your head. Give it some time (for me it took a year) and you'll eventually become numb to the idea of how many guys shes slept with. It up to you to determine if the gorl is worth that time of mental suffering

#insecure

No. Not the same dude, but what he says is true. You're either a dumb whores who's upset or some pussy ass dude about to get boned by his gf and her male fuck buddy.

Unless you have been with a similar number of girls, get the hell out of Dodge OP

all confirmed cuckolds

Nope unless it's all rumors

Not op
Like I'd give a fuck what my friends think if I loved my gf. My friends are all losers compared to me. I have a bigger dick, make more money, and can kick all their asses.
that being said, I can't imagine being comfortable with a gf that used to be a slut either.

> she fucked 4 of my friends
This is the biggest problem. Now you're going to be the guy in your friend group whose getting serious with group bicycle. A friend of mine did this once with a girl we used to call "Handy Sandy" due to her affinity for giving us all handjobs. They aren't together anymore.

I dated an ex-slut for two years. If she USED to be a slut, she's either changed or changing for you, which is cool, plus you get the benefit of an experienced sexual partner. win win.

that is where I would draw the line. 99% of western bitches are sluts, my ex banged over twenty dudes before I met her and we started dating. i can overlook it if i am not constantly reminded of it, but if I knew em I would have a huge fucking problem. no dice imo

If you see value and she's otherwise a trustworthy person then yes. If she slept around before but she's clean and with you then consider that she has changed a little already. To add on, someone's sexual history is private and the fact that she admitted it to you is a sign of integrity and responsibility. It's up to you but strongly consider it. People can indeed change but they also don't. The "once a whore always a whore" mantra is shortsighted jaded thinking that is greatly fueled by confirmation bias that can hurt your relationships. If you're not comfortable then you're not comfortable, but such a thing takes great thought. Good luck, OP.

>26 years old
>calls himself an oldfag
listen here kiddo, i chew kids like you for breakfast, I dont swallow, just chew and spit out.

>99% of western bitches are sluts
[citation needed]

top kek

Best advice so far. Not great. But best.

>changing for you
maybe her cum stained underwear. But not per slutty disposition.

Were she not a slut, you'd have ditched her for a slut. Enjoy the slutfucking while it lasts, dumbass.

>all these triggered whores mad, probably venting on Tumblr now on their side feminist blog when Sup Forums makes them cry

Once a whore always a whore, people just don’t change you know

Fuck off roastie

In a row?!