ITT Sup Forums gives advice?
So, I'm nearly 40 and have very little sexual experience outside of hookers. I got laid on Saturday.
> Picked up a woman on the street (around my age), went home with her, and fucked. Of course, it was with the help of a former roommate that was visiting (he is married, maybe having a midlife crisis).
> I offered to eat her pussy (she hadn't shaved it, even her legs were stubbly, so I assume she wasn't out looking for dick), but she said "maybe after we have dinner". Sounds like we are gonna see each other again, right?
> Anyway, in the morning, we exchanged phone numbers before I left. I know the number is correct, because I tested it in front of her.
> I texted her on Monday afternoon/evening, something to the effect of "I think you said you might be in my neighborhood this week. If you are around anyway and want to get together, let me know."
> Got no response.
Now what? I know we aren't compatible and there will not (or should not) be a serious relationship. But, I'd really like a fuck buddy and a confidence boost.
Do I contact her again? I've decided yes.
Her friend texted her 15 times the night before, since she was supposed to let her know she got home safe, but she never did. So, perhaps she is bad at following up on texts.
When do I do it? This weekend? The following weekend? A month or more from now?
Do I call or text?
Hypothetically, if I text, what do I say? I think I need to be more direct, but I'm not sure if I need to suggest a traditional date or just more sex. Some options:
1.) Dinner tonight?
2.) Let's hang out tonight.
I will wait until Saturday, at least, to give her a chance to contact me on Friday. Is waiting too long insulting to her? Did texting her the next day seem needy or just polite? Will I come across as desperate if I contact her soon-ish?
tldr; Help me get laid again, Sup Forums!