Hey bros just wanted to say life can change and you can get better! Last year at this time I was a shattered man who was overweight and depressed as fuck, consuming cannabis all the time. My ex eventually dumped me because she couldn't take it anymore. My attitude was shit after traumatic experiences. She told me the only good thing about me was my dick, which actually stung after she dumped me.
Now this year I'm finishing college and back in shape hitting the gym with a salary that makes people's head spin. No love in my life except my family and friends,but everything else is falling into place. Got a few women I talk to, but I tend to push them away.
Anyways you can do whatever you want if you're willing to try new things and you have the attitude of a boss. Don't take shit from anyone and do whatever it takes to succeed. Stand out and be the freak who gives no fucks about what others think,if they aren't paying you their opinion isn't worth shit.
Julian Torres
Ps:don't waste time on here. Dont watch TV. If you're not working out you should be figuring out how to get ahead and innovate in whatever it is you're good at.
Jacob Gutierrez
Alright guys I'm going to bed. Clearly you're all too defeated or set in your ways so you aren't ready to find out what it means to be in control.
Enjoy grinding, being poor and tired all the time until you die.
Or fix your attitude and be the best version of yourself you can be. This is your life, you only get one. If you want to be a sad sack of shit you can, or you can start taking over and grinning at everyone because the game is yours.
Connor Cook
>able to get gf >she said you have a good dick wow it's like you were already doing fine thanks for the epic advice mate, what's your idea? >"just b urself"?
Gavin Martin
She was just good looking. Relationships are really a waste of time. Focus on yourself and what you're good at. Think about how you can change the circumstances of that niche that you fill with your unique characteristics and connections. Also my advice is don't give into depression or fall into using substances. Except shrooms, those are pretty useful if your attitude is toxic.
Exercise, think hard, get sunlight, and minimize useless activities.
I want you to succeed and be as happy as you can be.. If you have more specific questions go for it.
Jeremiah Foster
I wasn't doing fine, I was borderline suicidal and totally obsessed with sex and getting high. My life was entirely unsustainable and I did horrible things for revenge. I was petty.
Now I am only building myself to be essential. My life has real purpose and I'm not living to just consume and fuck.
Alexander Wilson
I like what you said! Thanks for the motivation mang!
Adam Taylor
it's pretty hard to think your advice is applicable when your worst moment is better than my average day
Samuel Jenkins
op is a shitted faggot
Elijah Perez
You can do it man, I promise. So many people are willing to accept shit lives it makes it easier to rein in prosperity if you put your mind to it. All these barriers to entry are artificial, you can make those concepts antiquated if you innovate properly. Be indespensible. You are the only one determining your future. Never say "oh well this will go wrong and then it will just be over." no matter how bad it looks, you can turn it around and you will get another chance. Just seize it and move on the next conquest. Always look for a way of promote yourself.
Landon Ross
It's not about how low you can go. I got a shit job that fired me after my ex dumped me, then got arrested on my birthday.
You can turn it around. Just get up with a grin and do it again. Means a lot from a dipshit who likes Kevin hart. :) how's that soggy bread?
So basically nofap right? I think people start to turn their life around when they start spewing out sperm and watch porn. Do you still fap now and then?
Angel Reed
LOL umad you stupid racist? Your life isn't going to be very meaningful. Good luck being an angry loser until you finally check out. Ya no fap is definitely a component for me. I was a sex addict so I basically can't have sex without wanting to go again and again. My ideal relationship is if I can have two women so I can get off five times in a night.
Jaxson Watson
How old are you, OP?
Benjamin Lewis
That's only if you're not mentally ill. Depression won't allow ppl to be like that
Brandon Sullivan
26 honestly, I was mentally ill.. I was living dillusionally. You can overcome it. Most people are mentally ill at some point.
Jack Miller
What's your salary and what work do you do?
Also, what are your PRs in the gym?
Brody Bennett
I just want to say...you’re a faggot and should Kys. No one will ever like you.
Joshua Wood
by the sound of things, you were already more or less functional before you collapsed mentally you seem like you already had a passion/plan for the future in mind, since you're finishing college this year it's easy to say you can turn that situation around, since you're just getting back to a point you've already been at and continuing from there to build up a life from nothing, when you've never had any great joys or hope for the future, living each day only because your family told you they'd be sad if you died takes a lot more than just "the attitude of a boss"
Kayden Flores
Consultation and a tech business on the side. Salary for this year will be between 200-400k. (probably upper end , also I'm getting inheritance but it's not important to my plan.)
I dont know what PRs are, but I do bis shoulders abs and lats, then next day I do tris delta and back on the other days. Also I really like the calve workout machine.
Tyler Nelson
>▶ tldr - still a faggot
Robert Kelly
That's too much for tech consultation. My mother's partner works at one such firm and his pay isnt over 4000 euros, would be about 5000 dollars a month. 60-70k a year.
PRs are personal records when it comes to basic strength exercises like bench press, deadlifts, squats etc.
Jace Gray
please help me OP. Im at a good college but im so depressed im about to drop out. I hate being around these people, I never go to class, I can't make any friends and I waste all my money on drugs to make myself feel better.
I'm smart and used to do well in school, but I have no passion for an academic career. my only goal is to get a minimum wage job and rent an apt so my parents wont be the ones to find my body when I kms
Daniel Brooks
Oh really? All my friends would disagree as they say I'm the best friend they've ever had. I improve everyone's lives and brighten up every situation. As I said before, your opinion is worth less than shit since you have no money and you're just spewing filth because you're jealous. I hope you find a way to make yourself valuable. No I wasn't functional. I was high all the time and hated going out because I thought someone was going to break into my shitty apartment to steal my worthless belongings. I was afraid of death yet I wasn't truly living. Irony.
Also I do three sets of 50-60 pushups every morning, rotating between elevated and regular each day.
Cooper Murphy
stop feeling sad for yourself you fucking cunt. How come you never hear any refugees complain about depression having lost their everything? Respect your college and work hard
Zachary Stewart
yeah but having never experienced being a refugee I don't feel that motivation to succeed. I worry I'm going to finish college and feel as miserable as I do now except I have to work forever doing something I hate
Tyler Mitchell
You're just sad. Get better. I didn't say tech consultation. We offer all sorts of services! I'm a scientist. The tech business was just an idea I had and it's taking off. I don't do that much weight just high reps and then I spar for fun. Generally do 30 reps for most workouts except 50 for squats and push-ups. You need to become comfortable with who you are. Try taking shrooms with your friends and then in a different event try float therapy. Set goals higher than surviving. Your time is invaluable. You can do it bro. Visualize who you really want to be. I know you don't just want to exist. You were given your unique circumstances so you can apply them to your greater purpose.
Nolan Carter
oh, I see you just came here to brag and feel superior because if other people have shitty lives, they just aren't trying hard enough "you can do anything you want guys you just have to really want it" "attitude is the only important thing there are no other factors" keep your empty platitudes to yourself
Leo Evans
Not at all man. I'm not even that exceptional. My point was that regardless of where you currently stand you can achieve great things beyond your current periphery. Don't be so negative. You can do better, we all can. In fact, some of you will achieve more than me if you apply your abilities and go outside your comfort zone. This is your time to shine.
Caleb Thompson
then stop eating, stop doing anything.
die in a ditch or some shit. Get a firstborn and latch onto the welfare state.
Or if you want something smaller, go be a fisherman in a village in cambodia or some shit.
men and women want money to finance their destructive obsession with food and sex.
Jacob Wright
positiveness movement: accusing people of feeling negative, ergo negatively impacting you. Shaming people for it. Using social control to put people in a box, including yourself, and viewing the world in a black and white tint of feeling good or feeling bad.
Please reconsider your NoFap /r/edditor mentality and don't mistake fad sciences with real men's success
Caleb Cox
Op here You're not acknowledging what hopelessness feels like. It is crushing. Try to get out of the situation and engage in new situations. Then don't do something you hate. Find a way to do what you love. Create your own path.
Jonathan Myers
>Don't be so negative. >You can do better, we all can >This is your time to shine. >Find a way to do what you love. >Create your own path.
>keep your empty platitudes to yourself
Camden Stewart
Ugh I never said anything is black and white. You're the jaded one. the key to success is sacrifice. If you are masturbating all the time it is a good idea to stop or reduce it severely. Nutrition is also important. I hope you find a way to not be so petty and envious when people try to help you.
Nolan Morris
neither you nor that silly college life of his are actually helping, because that college wants to rule out any people who will waste their resources and you don't understand what you're talking about.
If people believe there's something going on mentally, they should consult a psychologist who's not green behind the ears. Only they can tell you that you have depression, because depression and that hopelessness arising from it are more serious and rare than you might believe.
The words most of you socially isolated failures are looking for is discomfort. A high level of hectic and disorganized discomfort. A challenge level above your skill levels. Sort yourselves the fuck out.
Isaac Brooks
ty for answering. Ive only done shrooms maybe twice (both with close friends) but I prefer acid, dropped maybe 15-20 times in the past 3 years. I know who I am, tripping helped with that, but I'm just worried Im incompatible w normal life and I don't know where else to look.
Cooper Sanchez
Same fag. Get help man.
Anyways I'm going to bed.
To those of you that want to be happier I hope you consider that there is more out there than what you see.
There is a future for you where you're happy.
Goodnight.
Eli Hughes
Op here Ya how's that low wage life working out? Your attitude is shitty and useless. It's not as simple as working it out. You need to communicate your needs with people that care about you. Don't do acid.. Do shrooms.
Kayden Gomez
wrong. I am: People are living in this self-help era of delusion, where they misinterpret the many services people help others with and believe they can do everything with all the self-improvement books out there that feed off of that endless need to want to be better. For example, you mentioned doing high reps at the gym(why even have a gym subscription for that). Having myofibril over sarcoplasm and improving the muscle-mind neuro connections through weight training improves your explosiveness in the gym. Consult a personal trainer.
Having your diet on point means you dont have to go on fad diets. Consult a dietitian.
Having NoFap teach you that masturbation and sex is wrong, because you overindulge clearly conceals something much deeper. You're using sex as a means to get away from something. Consult a psychologist.
David Gray
I'm currently in therapy for major depressive disorder along with taking the third antidepressant I've been prescribed, because the first two didn't help sadly, it's not working life isn't as simple as you seem to believe yes, you turned your shitty situation around and fixed things congrats, the only thing wrong with you was your shitty attitude when you then come on here and tell people that their only problem is a shitty attitude however, you sound like an ignorant cunt
Josiah Nelson
Pretty well. I live on myself and plan on studying next year.
Communicating your needs with people that care doesn't mean you're magically helped. If your issues are real, then people should take it seriously and your friends are not professionals, per se. Consider the impact your "advice" will have on others before giving it.
Hudson Richardson
The person with the "shitty attitude" here. If you believe that your problems are real, communicate them. Not with your mom and dad, not with your online friend or buddy at school. Go to professionals who can help you with your specific issue. You don't need to starve yourself to lose weight, you don't need to figure shit out on your own. Get help. Insurances cover it, if not parents.
Self-help bullshit will get you as far as your dial-up can bring you lol, not very far away from the internet
Now, I'm gonna go finish my chemistry homowork and I hope that whoever is reading this, no matter the shit you're in, just know that I cannot measure the bullshit you've been in. I know I've had a pretty shit life and I've gotten out of it by doing something about it. You can be helped too, only if you want. Be open to it.
Daniel Powell
I said you need to communicate your needs with those that love you. It's not all done by yourself. No one is successful on their own.
I saw a therapist, he said I'm fine I'm just too hard on myself. Pretty sure sex addiction is just something in my genes relating to dopamine. Don't take antidepressants. Your attitude is shitty and subscribing to emotion numbing drugs is not the solution. You need to become comfortable with your mind in its natural state. They have no idea what those ssris are doing, that's why you're on your third. I hope you get better. Also calling me a cunt for trying to help just confirms my assertion.
Psychology is a social science with highly variable results, but sure go ahead and try it if nothing else is working.
Benjamin Cook
Op here Goodnight.
Best regards guys.
Jaxson Stewart
>You need to become comfortable with your mind in its natural state how >Your attitude is shitty and subscribing to emotion numbing drugs is not the solution that's not what the doctors say >Also calling me a cunt for trying to help just confirms my assertion right, I forgot you americans are thin skinned I'm a kiwi, pretend I said 'mate' instead if it makes you feel better, cunt