How do we end social stigma around pre-mature ejaculation? It is almost entirely always out of the control of the guy...

How do we end social stigma around pre-mature ejaculation? It is almost entirely always out of the control of the guy, but the women get angry for the guy not 'trying'. They will shame him and ridicule him. How do we get society to accept that 1 out of 5 people suffer from ED and its OKAY. Women should work with the guy to get over anxiety and cure ED instead of worsening it.

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Haha fgt

>They will shame him and ridicule
I wish they did this! No woman ever naturally femdoms. All women are fucking submissive

I do not have that problem but they are all retards. They better lern how to use them hands and tongue.

Very true and sad, I wish I didnt have to pay to be pegged.

Look this awesome video of Johnny Sins (pornstar) youtube.com/watch?v=L2chG0gyzhA

His girl and friend say how much time they like in real sex and many things about finishing with the couple at the same time, it's a very instructive video...

They say, 5 or 10 minutes it's very OK... They don't like waste too much time, 30 seconds it's enough after she ends...

Premature ejaculation and ED are 2 different things. I've never had a problem with either. Most likely you're 12 and when a girl showed interest in your peepee, you blew your load because you, sir, are a faggot.

Are you saying it's okay to lack the most basic and vital organ function for your species?

KYS

uhm. No. It's your problem dude. You can work to fix it.

Well that's a new level of PC. Love it op

I just started having sex with my first gf but i cum as soon as i put it in usually.

Does it get better the more i have sex?

I think you can take pills that help premature ejaculation anybody have any suggestions cause im pretty bad off

Not really. You can do other things though. Eat her out, finger her.

This
My first time I was afraid of prematurely finishing. ate her out, used my hands, etc before the actual sex and she had a great time.
In the End I didn't cum at all due to much alcohol but still

Lol yeah.
Have you tried fapping soon before?
Think about random shit while sexorsing?
Also the pull out method also helps.
My wifes pussy is cash but she takes a while to cum.
When she’s riding me (her fav position to cum) I generally have to stop her at least once so I don’t nutt b4 her.
I find that if I stop her just before I nutt, I can last a lot longer once she starts grinding on me again.
Also alcohol helps a lot with stamina, just not too much.
And as always, practice makes perfect ;)
Hope this helps.

I tried a spray to desensitize, but don't work like I wish... You feel nothing with that thing numb...

OP here. Wish I could practice. Had sex with girl, she got super mad after sex, and told all her friends I was a "two pump chump". Fucking depressing

Yeah I recall I was so bad when I was young that I bought condoms with that gel inside.
It actually helps to last longer but doesn’t help for your own pleasure, so win/lose

How much did you last?

1.5-2 mins. I know it was pre-mature, but this was the first time we had sex. I am sure with practice I can bring it up to the normal range of 5-7 mins.

Two pumps :(
I tried to tell her it was my first time and American pie and I’d get better but she just cleaned out the cum and left.

I know that feel. The first time I had sex I lasted no more than 40 seconds. It was good that the girl was in love with me and didnt made fun of me.

The more you have sex the more you learn how to restrain yourself.

I lost my V Card when I was 22 and didnt have sex again till 27 years old so it was a bit hard to learn about how to please my partners.

Now I last more, pretty average tbh but its much better than some years ago. I still nut in a couple of pumps every now and then when Im way too horny but I dont think too much about it.

And as another anons have said, a bit of alcohol helps a lot.

When I first had sex I was 16 and it was a lot of fumbling around and as we were both virgins I had trouble finding the hole and I came before quite getting it in.
She literally cried in front of me after. I cried when I got home.
Im19 now and technically still on my v-card.
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>She literally cried in front of me after.

Thats sad af. I fucking hate overly reactive women.

Opioids and Kratom help me fuck like a champ. Just don't get addicted lol. Seriously addiction is no fun, try the Kratom first. Easier to kick then opioids.

You just have to stop or slow down when you feel like you're going to cum. Go down on the girl or something while you give your dick a break. Girls like it, it teases them. Also try going slow in general. Girls like a slow build up. Eat her out, finger her. Fuck her with your dick like a 70 year old man. Don't just shove it in and jack hammer her. That shit is only in porns in fantasy. When she's had her orgasm then you can fuck her fast and hard and finish in 20 seconds. If you follow this routine you'll gain more control of when you cum eventually

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This user gets it.
Pretty much exactly this.

don't listen, I've done this and now my gf has 2-3 orgasms but I rarely ever cum, I'm about to end my relationship because of that

>sir
Fuck off to 2005 you faggot.

It sounds like its your own problem.

how's that so? I would fix it if I could

I have one for you Sup Forums. Not my proudest moment.
>Be me
>be 2014
>arrange hotel with gf for ‘the night’
>she’s not a virgin and I haven’t told her that I am so I’m extra nervous
>have romantic dinner and a few drinks
>be at hotel and have a few more drinks before heading upstairs
>turns out to be a few too many drinks bc now I’m drunk af
>we kiss and grope and get all naked to do the deed. She sucks on my cock aaaaand nothing
>cantgetitup.gif
>she tries for a good 30 minutes
>embarassed I offer to lick her and fingerbang her (I think I even said the word ‘fingerbang) in conversation.
>she is clearly frustrated and says to sleep on the couch
>comply and pass out almost immediately
> wake up maybe several hours later to noises
>mfw she’s invited a guy over to fuck
>i shout at her and call her a slut and almost get in a fight with chad before getting my shit and leaving
Mfw, I paid for that ducking hotel room.

Your gf was a cheap, dirty, massive whore.

Yeah and I still had to see her almost everyday for almost an entire 2 years after that. I don’t think she told anyone about it and thank fuck chad didn’t go to our college so I’ve never seen him since.
I have a gf who loves me now and we do the deed pretty much every weekend so life is now good. I still cringe at that night thiugh.

That's how biology intended it. You should get in and cum fast to increase the odds of you passing on your genes to a mate. The longer it takes for you to ejaculate, the less chance you win and another male passes on his material. It's the same reason that sperm will attack other sperm for up to 5~7 days after you cum inside someone. It's to protect their chances.