I lift and I make music, why can't I make friends or get laid

I lift and I make music, why can't I make friends or get laid

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You're ugly and your music is shite.

Because you are probably a long haired soy boy fag who lifts about 0.5 kg

>soy boy
insecure virgin spotted.

Look up “neuroticism”

You didn't tell us any quantities data here. If you lift 20 pounds, you're weak as shit. If 20 people listen to your music, your music is either shit or you ain't shit or both.

Because you don't put enough effort into accomplishing either.
Or you're failing to acknowledge a flaw in your personality that prevents them from happening.

Just be gay nigga

autism

I deadlift 315+, bench 165 for reps (haven't checked my true PR yet), and I front squat 185

I've gotten over 400 likes on one of my instagram videos lmao

Ur weak, smol, and your music must be shit

Post your IG and let B judge

You're doing alright on working out, but Instagram ain't shit unless you're modeling clothes or selling your own pictures in some sort of way. 400 IG likes is comparable to a demonetized YouTube vid.

see

Saw, I stand by my words

Probably because all you do is talk about how much you can lift or how many likes you got on ig or sound cloud or whatever dumb shit. Nobody fucking cares. How about asking someone else a question for once in your fucking life you egotistical short sighted dumb fuck.

You probably use 60 hashtags so random spam bots will like it lol.

Can you even rep 225? If so I stand by my words even more

Meant if not*

Likes on social media aren't always acts of friendship, believe it or not. Nor are they indicative of sexual attraction. They're exactly what they are: likes.
True friendship is something you don't compromise on a whim. Sexual attraction is often beyond appearance.

why you are getting angry lmao

Damn dude, I don't have to be perfect to get laid wtf

Yeah I'm aware, those numbers are just a reflection of the kind progress I have made

ikr, otherwise id only get like 50-70 likes, deadass no friends

Didn't you say you have to, but if you want these 2 features to have the highest chance of being liked, you'd work on your social media a bit and get more known. Get some brands to throw you clothes and rep them on IG then show the bands you made from repping Gucci shit on IG as well.

I only mentioned that I make music and lift to show that I'm still being productive. I actually don't think I gotta do anything special to get laid in the first place.

cuz you have beta tendencies, lifting and have a good body is just a fraction of an alpha

Right. Keep in mind that Instagram is a social medium. The consequences of you tending to your account are entirely in your control.
Whatever doesn't happen correlates to your neglicence, at the very least.

Attending a forum alone does not make a student a genius, put one way.

Dude, when I used to practice PUA, I was completely aware of the alpha/beta dynamics. Most of my lays were in late high school/ early college when I practiced it. I stopped PUA because I didn't like the person I was becoming and now that I'm near the end of college, my entire social life is merely a fraction of what it once was.

stop doing PUA and listening to retarded idiots like this dude Go MGTOW and stop worrying why people dont like you or why you cant fuck bitches.
Just keep lifting, making money, and making music, who the fuck cares what other people think. Pump and dump chicks from tinder, don't pursue relationshits.

Yeah that makes sense

I gave MGTOW a try, but they sound like they really dislike women. I can't vibe with that. Maybe this might be one of my downfalls- respecting women like a nice guy lmao

mgtow has nothing to do with the disliking of women. Some mgtows has red pill rage still from recent breakups, divorce rapes, heartbreaks, losing their children etc. Most of us are indifferent though.

you also seem to have this idea that MGTOW is the same form of mindset as PUA or Red pill threads on reddit. It is not something you "try".
Not even the same.
Its the literal realization that society is sick, and the dynamics between female and male relationshits have been totally turned on us. Theres no benefit to being in a relationship with a woman. At all.

If you're a buff good looking dude, that makes music, and is intelligent and makes good money and cant find love. You should come to the realization that something is wrong with women, and not you.

I'm a buff dude who writes black metal,reads a lot of books etc, i get laid quite often, but only because i never give attention to women anymore.

I simply pump them and dump them, and they keep coming back for me. This isnt a sort of "technique" to help me get laid, i just genuinely dont give a rats ass about women anymore and focus on myself.

Dont put them on a pedestal, ignore feelings of "love", focus on lifting, reading books, bettering yourself, engage in difficult activities to grow as a person, expand your career, never give money to women. And you will become a succesful dude who can get any hot escort or bitch he wants any time of the day.

some mgtows have*

yea, that's where mgtow fail, you cannot 'dislike' womens, you need to understand how they moves in the world, accept it and work that shit on your favour.

Word, all the guys I know that get laid all the time say the same thing. I don't know why I can't get my mind off women, but I guess I'll just put more focus on myself and shit. I'll probably give MGTOW another try and see what they have to say.

Also it's cool that you write black metal, that's kvlt as fuck \m/

if ur OP let me hear your music i am interested in what shit Sup Forumstards make

k hold up

you can dislike and like women as a mgtow. you can hate them, and go incel, or you can get married and have 10 children if you want.

it is not a technique used to get laid. and nothing to do with "attracting women"
read my comment above.
dude i feel you, i used to be like you. i've cried about girls that broke my heart, or girls that i loved.
you see though...women don't love the same as men, it is hard to admit but women love our resources, and not who we are as people.
a woman would drop you for a strong alpha type dude that has money any time of the day.

stop focusing on them, nobody will make you happy but yourself. no instagram likes, no social media validation, not even attention from women. YOU are the only person that understands you the most.
And let me tell you something, i'm a poor ass college student, but i know one thing for sure.

Money is the only thing that will bring happiness for me.

Money is the only way i will be able to enjoy the things i like. You and i both know that making music gives nothing to us, its simply a creative process we enjoy. We waste money on it, yet theres nothing in it for us at all. I will never love a woman as much as i love music, videogames, philosophy. A woman will never offer me anything other than her orifice or a fleeting "emotional support" for 5 minutes, until she starts thinking youre a "weak male" for having emotions and bouncing on the next cock she finds.


Godspeed you you great faggot.

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well thats just not gunna happen is it

gief soundcloud or clyp

its legit

hopefully no viruses tho lmao

also holy shit fam that wasnt bad.

thanks bro lmao, I don't think it's a virus because it's literally just my IG video converted to mp3

i dont care enough to follow that link soz
im sure your music sucks dick tho most people on Sup Forums are terrible producers
gl with the women tho

I don't want to put my identity here

he plays good guitar, youre a fucking autist.
>im sure your music sucks dick tho most people on Sup Forums are terrible producers.

yeah because music takes shitloads of money to do and is hard work, but what the fuck would you know about it.

oh btw i forgot to add

DONT make music for picking up chicks for fucks sake. just do it for yourself. use it as a spiritual/meditative exercise to understand yourself.

thats how i see music atleast.

That was very insightful thanks bro

i can totally empathise with that i would never, ever associate my work with Sup Forums
i am indeed an autist.
music takes a pair of monitors or headphones, a DAW and some creativity.
feel free to tell me why it takes a lot of money
protip: it doesnt and everything you can possibly imagine can be cracked

Yeah true, that's what is, but like i said before, I only mentioned it to make it clear that I'm still productive

>music takes a pair of monitors or headphones, a DAW and some creativity.

what type of music do you listen to?

lets break it down will we?

>monitors
>good pc
>daw
>headphones
>guitars
>bass
>drums
>keyboards
>mixing
>mastering
>cables
>album covers/album art
>marketing
>tshirt printing
>travelling to venues.


theres literally no return for musicians
z e r o
you only get out as much money you put in to music.
if you do it DIY at home, it wont sound as good as paying a studio to do it for you. Also you need decent instruments and not 200$ cheap second hand guitars for decent recordings.

I've been in metal bands for years now, so i know what im on about.

That's not a very impressive dead, I'm a super casual lifter and can show up at the gym hungover and still rep 315 with a straight back. And your bench is significantly less than impressive.

to add to my post
it takes a good 1000-2000 dollars to make a decent well mastered studio album.

you also need to include rehearsal room costs. unless you own your own place.
this shit all adds up over time.
also you need to think about gas for your van if you are touring in your own country, accomodation, food et cetera

people who dont make music literally think its "oooooh ill just plug in my shitty Epiphone guitar and strum a bunch of cords with a mic against the amplifier and then put that into cubase that i torrented"

I dunno, anyway. Is my bf cute?

Your bf looks like a cuck ngl

I don't need to be the biggest dude at the gym to get laid brah

>monitors
yamaha HS series, £300
>good pc
if you are tracking the live instruments you are describing, you do not need a "good PC".
>headphones
sennheisers, £80
>guitars
£50 second hand, cracked plugins can easily make a great tone from a low quality guitar, the main factor is BY A LONG WAY the quality of the guitarist
>bass
exactly the same
>drums
programming in a DAW
>keyboards
easily get a controller for less than £100
>mixing
literally git good
>mastering
£40 for radio standard mastering
>cables
wat
>album covers / album art
literally git good
>marketing
what is social media?
>tshirt printing
merch is probably the biggest earner in the industry (besides performance) and if you arnt going to commit then you should get into another profession
>travelling to venues
this should be paid for by the promoter

almost every single thing you said is false and can literally be redeemed by getting better at your trade.
if you think that a decent recording cannot be made with a bad guitar then you obviously dont understand the process of proper gain staging, tracking and micing.

if it is taking you 1000-2000 dollars to make a decent well mastered studio album then your returns should be higher than 1 - 2k. if they arnt then your band either sucks dick or doesnt have an audience.

why do you consider the mastering to be so important when a mastering agents job should be to make an album sound like it comes from the same sonic folder?
if you are giving your mixes to mastering agents and expecting them to fix anything other than solidarity between each song and meta data then you need to git gd

>OP it's your fault
>someone else has the same problem
>without knowing them say this
>"dude its your fault!"
>someone else has the same problem
>without knowing them say it's their fault
>just keep repeating this to every single person who has the same exact problem and pretend it isn't deeper than that

also, i ran out of words but if you have been in a metal band for years but are complaining about the money involved to make music then maybe you should get better or get out of the industry lol

if it's deeper than that, what's the issue?

>by a long way the quality of the guitarist

fucking hell kill me
bro i'm looking to make quality albums. not shitty stuff.
also to your replies about album covers telling me to get good.

i cant draw decent shit, most artists in underground metal charge around 300-400 euros/dollars per each decent album cover.

if you think you can recreate the quality of this album with shitty tech, and diy home mastering/mixing, then be my guest.

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i give no fucks about the idea of an "industry" in metal. im only seeking to do music for my own benefit and joy.
im not complaining at all abotu the money, you're the fucking autistic retard constantly saying "oh its cheap and easy hur dur".

i'm trying to tell you that it truly isnt.you're far off your mark and you never listened to truly good metal.

>metal bands
this is why you don't make any money, your music is shit and your audience consists of broke autists. I made plenty of money touring and playing locally in my old band.

yeah keep telling yourself that.
i have no interest in making money out of music.
saying our music is shit and our audience consists of broke autists makes you seem ignorant, and you're not acknowledging the dedication and skill some albums took to be produced.

go listen to some of your normie shit like fucking tiesto, or nigger rap will you.
go play 2 chords over and over for drunk people in bars and pretend you know how to play or even have a soul for making music.

All the people falling for your bait

Look in the mirror.
If it’s not that, autism.

i concede about the album covers and that you are always going to have to either do it yourself or pay someone i just had nothing to say - probably because it isnt really related to the music at all and if anything is to do with marketing.
it is undoubtably mostly defined by the quality of the player and the fact that you think otherwise is probably a signal to why your band sucks dick.
>shitty tech
what do you define as shitty tech?
>diy mastering/mixing

why do you think that mixing at home is a problem? the aim of a mix is to be as close to perfect BEFORE it is sent to a mastering agent.
the largest issue is by a LONG way room acoustics however this can be mitigated by headphones ENTIRELY. Andrew Schepps mixes on shit headphones, or on monitors, never both (depending on where he is), and still is considered an industry leader of mixing.

i never said it was cheap and easy, i said you need headphones a daw and some creativity, clearly this triggered the ever living fuck out of you.
again, i never said it was easy - in fact i told you many times to get good, because from what you are saying its CLEAR that you suck dick at mixing and think its because of gear.

i have listened and worked with all avenues of music and continue too, but your claims are entirely false. good music is not made from money, in fact it is very commonly the opposite but feel free to blame the money for your shit music.
there is a world of music between nigger rap, tiesto and metal and the fact that you just assume that someone who opposes your thought process is only interested in that stuff just solidifies why you are an absolute retard.
i could probably make better music than your garbage with only one chord and a drum machine, because music is creative work, not a competition for complexity or speed.

you are the worst kind of musician and you give metal a bad name because there are many very talented metalheads who are tarred with your retarded brush.