Guys, lots and lots of studies were done. Why are you still spanking your kids?

Guys, lots and lots of studies were done. Why are you still spanking your kids?

because muh bible

Because parents who pussyfoot around and don't scold their children when necessary raise fucking liberal cucks like you who are completely inept and unprepared for an adult life where criticism and punishment occur on a regular basis. People like you are the indoor plants of society that are one day moved outside, only to die an accelerated death due to a soft upbringing. Do us all a favor and fucking off yourself. 1/10 for making me reply you useless piece of shit.

I like the indoor plant analogy. Ill use that cheers

The main thing is to tell your children why they are getting punished, too many parents smack spontaneously or just don't keep the rules they set upheld.
Even worse is when there's a set of rules for each parent, the kid(s) feel as if rules are all liquid and become terrors for the more lax parent.

Never knew that you need to be abused as a child to take and work with criticism later on in life.
This doesn't fucking work that way, lad.

That shit only brings you some potential mental health issues and a shitty parent/child relationship, fucking sit down and have a nice talk with your parents about your traumatising childhood, matey.

I had a friend that wasn't spanked or hit as a child. All he received was being "grounded". He ended up being a heroin addicted junkie and ended up dying in a motorcycle accident. He was a little prick to his parents all the time

Not all kids need it but I believe some kids need to be hit. Everyone is different. I can tell you though there is a difference between beating the fuck out of your kids and disiplining them. It is a fine line.

>"I was not hit by my parents and turned out fine"

Why is this controversial?

Really makes you think why so many of the bum-bruised absolutely need to defend what happened to them as kids.

Because like most animals a physical reaction shocks the brain out of its current state of mind,such as an emotional outbreak and allows a "reset" to happen.
I'm not going to take any "papers" or "studies" from left wing associated cry babies.

Also my gf has a spanking fetish that derived from being spanked as a child. And i fucking love spanking her ass raw every night then fucking her as she crys

The thing is, why those kids turn out that way, that they should be hit?
That happens when parents fuck up, don't give any attention or love to their child or is overly controlling.

Spanking can be beneficial, or it can be traumatic, or it can be neutral. Depends on the kids, depends on the parents. People who demand absolutes are fucking idiots.

Because it's the best way to get an erection

>ignores science and hard facts because muh feelings

Enter the mind of the republican snowflake,

>>ignores science and hard facts because muh feelings
>Ignore liberal bleeding heart cry babies like ops pic
Show me a study of more then 10k kids from the 90's. lol
Show me a test with MILLIONS of children being studied

This

I believe they can’t/don’t want to admit they were abused, which can be a hard thing to come to terms with. Especially if they’re relatively normal despite it. Some people hear abuse and think the worse such as beatings and black eyes but it comes in all forms. Even emotional.

Spanking shouldnt be the first or only option, but if nothing else works, its an effective punishment as a last resort.

What are you left with if talking doesnt work, time outs dont work, grounding doesnt work, taking their stuff away doesnt work, taking everything away doesnt work therapy doesnt work, but then you spank them and they get their shit together?

Im liberal on most issues but not this, as I have a kid who is a huge defiant asshole.

>I don’t need “research” or “facts”
>my gfs childhood trauma turned into a fetish I like so it’s ok

The irony here is my stepdad was brought up this way. He will lie, cheat, and abuse to avoid even the smallest critcisms from ANYONE. moved to the woods to avoid people and yet thinks he is one of the most functional people in the world. All getting hit does is make the kid rationalize being stepped on and lower their personal value within themselves, people who wre spanked as a kid CANNOT handle criticisms.

Well, considering they're advocating child abuse, they didn't really turn out fine.

because peer-reviewed journal articles about the harmful effects of my go-to punishment aren't nearly as scary to 10-year-olds as my go-to punishment

You're going to let your kid act out in the middle of a grocery store because he didn't get the candy he wants? Are you going to teach him that it's ok to act that way in public?

Good luck with that.

Because you are a shitty father.

See I think it is at the discretion of parents on whether to hit kids or not. No matter what you do you can't force that child to be good or bad at the end of the day. You can only teach. That child has to decide on their own if they want to grow up to be a good or bad person. Let's face it, there are good and bad parents out there with totally different methods of teaching. As well, there are good and bad children that will decide their own destiny....
So just choose abortion.

lol retard

So its my fault the child is denied ice cream for breakfast and is now throwing a tantrum and stomping around the house throwing things?
You issue verbal warnings but the child is emotionally deadlocked on having ice cream for breakfast and cant be reasoned with.
You take the child and apply swift pressure to their buttocks(which are very resilient to external force). You now have a child that has been brought out of the emotional tantrum and can be talked too. You again give verbal commands and walk the child to the kitchen and put them on their chair and give them cherrios.

Problem solved
I dont have 5 hours to talk down a child, i have work i have to get done.

Nice dubs.

Let them embarrass themselves. Or are you worried people will think you’re a bad parent if you have a kid crying in the store with you? There are other punishments that don’t include hitting.

If you need to yell or hit to correct this, you don't deserve children, period. You're not a suitable parent. Having cum in your balls doesnt make you father materiel.

>no such thing as a shitty kid

I see you are a bleeding heart cry baby liberal

I truly don't believe it is because he is a shitty father. His kid is an asshole and he admits it. Some kids just are shitty.

My word, matey.

Just from the pic you posted I see the reason you think like you do. You’re ill son.

And you've never had children either cause you're a cuck liberal who has never had pussy and will never have children outside of IV

Found the childless user with all the answers to raising children.

Yes, it IS your fault. You never have time to connect with them. When you aren't working your playing video games, on the internet or getting high.

Simple fact is that you just don't deserve to have kids. Hopefully they get taken from you.

Lazy uncaring parenting.

Not at the discretion of parents to abuse their child. Human rights bruh

spanking teaches that there are real world sometimes painful consequences for ones actions. there is nothing wrong with that if done properly

If the kid is shitty it’s the parents or home life of the kid. Sorry you raised a shit

Spanking teaches you that it's ok for the people who "love" them to treat you like a dog.

With kids I totally don't think they deserve automatic respect or deference. They're not capable of making many decisions yet and need to be taught. So you fucking teach them and set an example of how people deal with people.

Hitting them, however, is just like beating a dog. It doesn't prepare them to be a thinking, independent person. It prepares them to be a obedient pup or a bitter mutt later in life. But at least they stopped [insert benign child behavior].

Found the retard who will never have a relationship with their children.

Itt people defending child abuse because muh feelings

I raise my children as I would raise myself.
Children make mistakes and are met with punishment, this does not teach them the inherent reason of why something is wrong, just that it will be met with an authority figure's foot.

>IQ of 150+ parents
>Average American
>(You)
>Cucks
>Commies

Your parenting style is mid tier.

>is over 40 years old and a virgin who will never have kids

Whatever helps you win the argument. In stead of caring you react. Thats how you treat your kids too.

>abuse their child
You must have never had any contact from your parents.
You dont beat them to death you fucking retard, a swift pat on the ass is enough to shake out a temper tantrum

obvious bait is obvious

this

No, it teachs that your mom or dad has a limited amount of patience for you, even though THEY created you but couldnt be fucked to find the patience in their own heart to tend to you to help you develop.

When you don't have time for your child, why have a child at all.

You're not bringing your child out of an emotional tantrum, you're furthering yourself on the path of being a shitty parent and destabilize your parent/child relationship even more, resulting in a fucked up kid.

Read up on humans basic instincts

It is a good life lesson. If you fuck up later in life someone will beat your ass. Only much worse.

Are you realy asking b/tards why they are hitting kids? Do you really want to hear the horrible answers they will have for that question?

Oi oi m8, jevohas witness here complaining about porn?
Fuck off, cunt

>no better than a mindless animal

>assuming they do imaginary shit to then criticize them for
that's called a strawman argument, and its childish to make since its so clearly wrong.

ITT: people with no kids talking about how good they are at parenting.

Just because you have kids, dosent mean both parents instantly stop working and stop supporting their family.
I'm not black, my wife isnt popping out a kid every 9 months.
Real adults work for their keep, coming from a libreal like you, you probly have made up mental illnesses that you get disability from and still live with your parents spending it all on weed and mooching from your 60 yr + parents who wanted to be retired but your dumb fucking ass is still living at home

100%

It's laziness and lack of mental fortitude on the behalf of the "adult."

Being hit made me a sociopath. I just learned at 6 that if I manipulate EVERYONE and everything THAT I WILL ALWAYS GET MY WAY.

This is because I was never taught WHY my behavior was wrong. I was just being hurt because someone told me it was.

Citations needed.

Humans at a base level are the same as other feral animals.
Humans in an emotional state are rarely ever talked down without some intervention
This goes for child,teenagers,adults,geriatrics

>People who demand absolutes are fucking idiots.

I was spanked not by my parents but by my babysitters. And I don't give a fuck about it. It didn't affect my emotional health at all. People that claim that spankings left them emotionally abused are fucking pussies.

We hit our friends when they say or do something we don't like. Giving a kid a spanking because they are being an absolute shithead isn't the end of the world.

I'm a liberal but fuck some of you losers are snowflakes.

thats literally the same argument as if you defend yourself the terrorists win

Spanking? I hit my kids above the belt.

Ugh. Fedora words. Jesus christ man. Yes, i do understand what you're saying but the phrasing is completely unnecessary. Dial it bag fedorafag. FFS.

>admits to being broken and crazy
>thinks that makes his opinion more worthwhile instead of completely untrustworthy

>>Feverishly defending child abuse
>>Can't accept his parents were abusive
>>has a SO but sleeps alone

>we hit our friends
Are you sure? You’re either not really hitting them or they aren’t your friend
Might want to double check. Make sure you’re not actually severely hated and tolerated

>>Feverishly defending child abuse
>>Can't accept his parents were abusive
>>has a SO but sleeps alone

I've had friends who weren't spanked and friends who were. Honestly I think the friends who were spanked as kids turned out a lot better than those who weren't. The friends who weren't spanked turn out to be so fucking sheltered that it's painful. They grew up to be dumbshit liberals that are absolutely terrified of feeling any other emotion besides comfort. The same people that want to give up all their rights for a false sense of security.

>getting spanked fucked me up

>hmmm, that guy's fucked up, better not listen to him

And thus, by definition, only good people have been spanked. If you came out sideways, you weren't actually part of the discussion.

thanks, i was confused

Oh, lemme guess, sweet old USA?
Fucking fix your society over there.

Get off from your high horse, you delusional cunt. Healthy, living on my own, and got my own small company. I'm doin fine.
But if you want the stereotypes:

Fucking off yourself, you obese, diabetic, sisterdiddling redneck.

>>We hit our friends when they say or do something we don't like.

Adults do this? Huh... Today I learned normal functioning adults without issues from being hit as children do this .

>This is because I was never taught WHY my behavior was wrong
>I was hit because I never listened to the people that told me why I was wrong.

You've never gotten in a tussle with one of your friends? A drunken fight or an argument? It happens to most people, and things usually come out better than they were.

Problem is, you need to actually have close friends to relate, so I understand why you can't comprehend.

Ikr? These people would rather kill themselves than to admit they wish their parent had actually loved them.

>We hit our friends when they say or do something we don't like

Why are your friends that shitty that hitting them is so common?

>projecting
wow you can't trust crazy people! who would have known?

Says lots and lots of studies.

> doesn't post one...

2nd this in all entirety.
Underrated post user

I know reading comprehension is your weakness so I'll point out again that I specifically said I was NOT taught WHY things were "said" to be "wrong" I was told "because I said so"

anecdotal evidence doesn't mean anything here, for both sides. Just because you have a friend that turned out addicted to heroin doesn't mean either side of the argument is inherently better overall. If you have a large variety of experiences where spanking or lack thereof makes kids dysfunctional then by all means use that as evidence. In this case it sounds like your friend could have just been an asshole, but you are implying the lack of spanking contributed to his drug problems or attitude.

Close friends

Tussles sure. Play wrestling yep.
Drunken fighting? Hitting during an argument? You’ve got problems mate.
My close friends play strip games so maybe we do too but it’s better than beating each other

Most of you cucks are still virgins, yet arguing about spanking a child? If being spanked damaged you're emotional health, an hero please. Because you're a fucking pussy who will never make it in a world that shits on you every day. Also discipline is a fact of life. Since the time humans have existed so have spanking as displine, and just because now in 2018 most of you are snowflakes and all "muh feelings and emotional health" doesn't make it bad. It means my kid won't be a disrespectful shit.

>I was NOT taught WHY things were "said" to be "wrong" I was told "because I said so"
>I never listened to why, so I just took it as "because I said so".

Do I need to spank you?

Projecting much, m8?

Wow the topic is the cause wow using logic is hard!

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Being retarded is fun huh

He’s pointing out that you’ll never learn about a problem if you only listen to the people who turn out “good” you absolute coat hanger

Black plague and death from flus existed since dawn of man too but we don't accept that anymore do we retard?

Because I don't want my kids to be the pussies that grow up and feel the need to study this shit

It might work as a temporary fix, but in the long term this isn't going to be good for the relationship at all. If the only way you can get a child to listen to you is to hit them, you might have bigger problems than a kid that wants ice cream for breakfast.

Wrong again, faggot

1.You can teach a kid anything with enough patience
2.game
3.?????
4.Profit

I'd say sharing laughs and playing cards at a table and sharing some skin with eachither is fun adn cute , hitting my friend because I got slighted or he upset me?? Nah that's emotional issues there

I've had friends get hammered, put on boxing gloves and have organized brawls with other friends in their backyards.

You are all such pussies it's laughable. Bunch of weaklings that will raise weak children. My kids will fuck up you kids at school and I'll laugh.