What is the longest age gap in a relationship that you are agree with, /b? Mine would be 3-2 years
I'm 19 (20 in a few months) and there's this girl that is 14, soon to be 15, and I really like her, I've trying to convince myself that it would be wrong making a move on her and that it could actually mean I'm a pedophile or something, but the thing is that I don't like 'cause she's a minor, but because she's is a wonderful person... Also my godmother's daughter. Any advice is welcome.
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well if you think shes a nice person then don't fuck her.
ls the formula I like is:
let x be the minimum age of your partner
let n be your age
x = (1/2 * n) + 7
16.5 = (1/2 * 19) + 7
so.... maybe not a good idea mayne...
That's just an arbitrary equation
Nah fuck that OP just ask her out
It's not that big of a deal if you are already friends with her, and you are sure that also has feelings for you (or you at least feel chemistry from her) and you know that your godmother and other family would be ok with it.
If any of those conditions arent satisfied, I wouldnt do it.
> That's just an arbitrary equation
implying age is just a number...
>just do what your heart tells you op
fuck you pussyfaggot
yes do it op and ruin everything
fpbp
Biggest age gap i ever had was when i was 16 and this girl was 21 met her in a game she sent nudes was a good time wish i still had them
Go ahead.
What the fuck. Is this even a question? If you like her then there's no fucking problem. Just do it. Maximum age gap 50 years ago was 20... 3? wtf. Also, 15 is not that far from 19. Also, she's probably more mature than you.
Being attracted to a sexually mature girl doesn't make you a pedo, but still a bad idea my man.
ten years give or take
Dated an 18 year old when I was 36 so I'm gonna say 18 years.
Don't commit statutory rape.
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There are todler kids getting raped currently user. You wont adequate other wise.Just go for it its nothing in comparison to normality.
Hello, OP here.
Well some of you, well in fact, all of you are right in some sort of way.
Yeah, for those telling me that I should go for it I have to say that she (let's call her Vicky) and me are not so close friends, we both know each other since she was practically born, and her mother loves me, but we don't talk a lot. We've had some pretty pretty short conversations online (like only 3). I know that she don't dislikes me but also she doesn't like me, like I'm just there, an acquaintance more. I've starting feeling this way for a year now, and I don't know how to get close to her without looking like a creep.
Fort those who are telling me to don't go for it you may be right, I'd ruin it and people could see me as a weirdo who likes minors, anyway that made me think about a time when Vicky's mom and mine hanged out to see one of Vicky's dance performance and after that they went to have dinner and my mother sent me a lot of pics of Vicky in her outfit without me even asking for them (That happened when I didn't like her that much btw), so yeah, I don't know what to think, probably she thinks that me dating her best friend's daughter would be nice and it's tryin to subliminally convince to do it.
Anyway, probably the only thing that I will do for now is to try getting close to her.
Also, sorry if my engurish is a little bit broke.
Is op shannon?
When you get to be older (30+), 11 years younger seems to be ideal.
14 at 19 .. done that, and I love her to this very day. But it's not going to last. Take her out, have fun and enjoy the moment.
Op if you need wingmen us anons are here to help you i mean this is somewhat in pedo territory no matter how you look at it but keep us up to date and stsy away from the cops
As long as she is old enough to take the penis without too much discomfort it is all good.
autists like op need formulas or else they will convince themselves that unspeakable things are ok.
Lol cool stuff where u got that. Is that official?
I hope that wasn't me. I also 18
Thats why you impregnate her lol.
I don't think you can date a 36 year old without knowing...
Everybody that told you yes is retarded and will get you arrested. If the cops get called you'll get fucked for entering a relationship with a minor
May not be dubs but user speaks the truth
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So funny, this formula works! When I was 12, I remember being attracted to one girl who was 13, and no one else. Ok now back to when I was 16 = 8+7=15 hmmm it seems that 14 is the middle of this equation. After fourteen, girls start needing older and older guys the further along the line. Strange, because I remember having a really. Hmm 21/2=10.5+7=17.5 uhm she was 20 years older. This equation is wrong.
Lol I love how useless this post is. It should be in an art gallery that is themed "useless"
If you arnt larping tell her you want to go out. And about your feewees and etc. If she says no well yea dont. If she says yea. Then eventually at one point you're gonna have to tell her too keep your relationship hidden for now. Just make sure too keep a figureative colar on her and satisfy her.
>People get away with raping kids and babies everyday without punishment.
Lol how come, that is exactly what I thought, maybe I should start running really hard now xD Tho I dont know which way.
great advice for how to get to jail asap
(OP)
Well yeah, you're right. That's what probably holding me back, but also I don't want her to do only the sex, I would love to start a relationship.
I've even tried to convince myself to be in a relationship with her holding back the urge to make her love until she's 18, but who am I trying to fool. Flesh is weak.
Don't worry dude, I knew from the first time that this is not 100% ok.
Thank you! Anyway probably there won't be a lot of updates, probably there won't be any for the next weeks since I'm on vacation in another city doing stuff. But if I do give an update I'll do it under the nickname of "Sheepanon" (my hair is curly, and a lot of friends called sheep), so stay tuned! lol
Also, if any of you worries that your dear OP becomes a pedo and gets arrested, well, don't worry, I've decided to not to make a serious move until she is 16 or so, so again, if I do give updates those won't be any special, probably just small thread that with luck some of you will find and probable get 404'd quick.
Well how could he go to jail. Its all up the the girl if she really does and doesnt like him. She would have his back if she actually did.
user listen. Girls, as well as boys, are unpredictable during breakups. You don't want her making up lies about you to her parents and getting you in massive trouble. Find a girl your own age and forget about her. It really isn't worth it.
(OP)
But I have to admit, if a chance comes where she does like me and her parents approve or so, I'm definitely making a move, oh yeah.
read the post above me
Shes not a stranger op. She'll prob be a roastie by then who knows.
whatever is legal where you are, but only because it's not worth the trouble. otherwise 'old enough to bleed old enough to breed' is the rule.
OP GIVW US SOME SOCIAL MEDIA IM GENUANLLY CURIOUS TO HOW THISLL PLAY OUT
wtf no it isnt. definitely not the rule
Love makes blind, its bright like a flame. The stronger it burns the more uncontrollable it becomes. A small flame, will always burn at a steady rate, comfortable and pleasing and soothing all along the way. But if you block its way, then it can either burn in a torrent, and find a way out, or die out.
it's natures rule and the only rule that should matter.
Why is op raping a cat ?
It wouldn't go in!! Much too tight .. one finger girl. She was sooo cute! We both wanted it..
Thats why you control it. But if you cant dont bother thinking about it.
if you have a 11 year old daughter you want a 56 year old man having sex with her because she happened to have her period early?
7 years is pretty reasonable if you are both in your 20s
As to how our society aught to operate considering reproductive age, population decline and general social disorder I think men should be taking much much younger wives and that we should be separating the sexes by age 7 in school. Menarche plus one year should be marital eligibility for girls, for boys I would like to see us draw the reasonable age a young man could support himself and a wife without sacrificing an education but I'm not seeing it yet. I'm for enforcing adultery laws btw so no boinking 11 year old girls randomly, you need permission from the primary guardian, and the girl and 3 checks over two years from a CPS worker or court appointed stand in.
Laugh it up but Europeans aren't going to make it past next century if we don't change the rules to better work with the tools we've got.
Yea well since you probably live in a country where the age limit is 13. Idk what the problem is here?
>Look. at this offers, guys!!
do i want it? no. would i raise my daughter to not do that? to the best of my ability. would i tell the guy to fuck off? sure.
but once a girl is of reproductive age it's just that, a parenting issue, that can't be dictated to everyone and shouldn't be enforced by armed state actors at gunpoint. save that for people who molest actual children.
my point is having a period is not the same thing as being sexually mature
I disagree that a 13 year old can be a mother. Simply not possible. But, I can't dispute with the laws of nature tho xD If a 13 year old can have a baby, god bless that baby with a caring mother preferrably the mother of her mother, lol.
No rly, is that true? if it can bleed it can breed?
I fucked a 15yo when I was 19.
Her mom knew that, she let me sleep in her daughter's bed and even made her take her birth control pills in front of me during breakfast.
In what country do you live?
nor is any other arbitrary point.
It would make you a hebephile user.
the user was talking saying that if you have a girl has a period, you should be allowed to have sex with her. he wasnt talking about her ability to have a baby
10 is the ethical limit for me. Unless the girl's 10 and the guy's 20. Or anything below that. In any other situation, 10 years.
technically speaking, a 6 year old can be a mother (world record for youngest mother of live birth)
I will go 10 younger or 10 older. No more, no less. I'm 40 btw. I'd date a 30 or a 50 year old. Either way is fine with me.
i dont think adults should be allowed to have sex with sexually immature children. that leaves the door open for predatory behavior
Well its the state itself using sexual subliminal and pornographic propaganda. Its not the fact of the age its the fact that they turn into a roastie in a instant.
I perfer a fully developed body (healthy mind) but roasties are pic related.
Wait if they cant have a baby then who the fk cares. Its like putting your finger in your noes. "OH GOD HE PLACED HIS FINGER IN HER NOSE WE'RE ALL GOING TO DIE OH GOD WHY?!"
except you're defining "sexually mature" as some arbitrary, nebulous concept that can't be pinned down to a rule that can be applied to the general population. i'd argue plenty of 18 year olds, even some 21 year olds, don't meet any definition of sexually mature that couldn't be applied to any arbitrary post-pubescent age
i'd agree if you were using the actual definition, i.e. biologically capable of bearing children (no, that doesn't make it socially appropriate to actually have one)
the person I like is 38, I'm 18. So I'd say I'm fine with as much as a 20 year age difference.
I'm confused... did you just equate child rape to finger picking?
At this point you are just denying yourself for no reason. If you need to convince yourself that it's a bad thing and not to do it, then something is wrong with you. Either do it or don't. If she's "illegal" so to speak, then stay away from the sexual part of the relationship until she is. Lest someone related to either of you either familial or not get salty and report it to the police. Granted they probably won't charge you with anything if she is a few months away from being "legal".
It should also be noted that the only time "age gap" really becomes picky like this is early in life. You see people together all the time with much larger gaps than "2-3 years" like you are convincing yourself. Give it 10 years and neither of you would actually give a fuck. 24/25 year old with a 30 year old, literally everyday shit.
What in the actual mother fuck. Did she survive? And if so, then why does the law state sex 18+? birth control?
Allot of children go mad with sexual desire and go into depression for not being allowed to have sex. Tho most atleast lash out in fapping sessions.
No, not all 18 or 21 year olds are sexually mature, however we as a society have come to realize that at that point the vast majority are capable of making their own decisions. 11 year olds are not capable of making their own decisions, especially ones that have life changing consequences.
she got puberty super early and her uncle fucked her or something. she survived
No can you actually fucking read. A 6 year old just had a baby. A BABY! Sex is not about making decisions, and being a mother is not about sex.
well no, you said they cant have babies, so I thought you ment putting ur dick in their noes or whatever.
been there dude. her parents will freak when they find out you been fucking her. Also, society doesn't give a fuck that you actually treat people as human beings, ONLY THAT YOU ARE BREAKING A SOCIETAL RULE AND MUST BE PUNISHED
holy mother fucking crap.
If she wanted sex, would it have been ok for her uncle to fuck her?
No, before puberty girls don't make eggs. So cumming in them wouldn't make a baby.
I was in the same exact situation as you, and I didn't do it because "muh age".
5 years later, I deeply regret that decision.
yes she survived.
and what law says 18? in the US, 31 states instead say 16. italy and germany say 14. south korea says 13. the phillippines and parts of mexico say 12.
bullshit they can't make those decisions in tons of areas besides sports.
they can operate 4 wheelers on private land, they can play contact sports that can cause brain damage or paralysis. shit, even swimming in the ocean is more risky than sex. kids can opt, of their own accord (parental prohibitions and corporate liability rules are not law), to do all of those.
restricting sex to after puberty is *already* more draconian than it should be given the lack of consequences for most sex in comparison to other activities, where the type of sex involved isn't legal based on age alone (i.e. coercion and withholding std status are crimes regardless of age)
>as besides sports.
should be sex*
I cant say for sure, if both enjoy it, then why not, appearantly it is normal for a 5 year old to have a baby and still live today to tell about it.
Lina Medina, was actually 5 years old when she gave birth
OP, age is just a number. Dont know where its you live but here age of consent is 16 so wait untill she is of age and clear it with her parents. I am 11 years older than my now wife, never any issues . She was 17, i 28. Never an issue.
id enjoy it
Ok thats really interesting I thought it was 18+ all over the world. Hmmm weeeeiiiiiiird. Like just huge wake up call for me.
why are you conflating when it's ok to have sex for pleasure and when it's socially responsible to have a baby? 18 year olds shouldn't fucking have babies that young either, not going to try to raise age of consent to 21 are you?
Old fag here. We used to have a saying. "The younger the tighter, the tighter the better"
Chicks are going fuck you over your whole life, so enjoy whatever you can, while you can. You will regret it if you don't
Vatican City is 12 lololol
I personally dont enjoy childbirth
mfw I'm 25 and gf is 20...
id pull out duh
>Fort those who are telling me to don't go for it you may be right, I'd ruin it
>ruin it
Glad to see you have the thought process of that one girl who "friend zones" everyone and is afraid of relationships all the way up until Chad™ comes along and swoops her off her feet. Problem is that don't happen to fukbois, let alone men in general, my dude. It hasn't even been a thing for women in decades and is a literal meme at this point.
Enjoy being cucked by Chad™ and then trying to convince yourself for 10 years that "It's okay, I'm happy for her" as depression creeps into every facet of your life. As her relationship with Chad™ turns sour as it turns out he's cheating on her for Stacey™(for this 3rd time), but he promises to stop so her Stockholm-Syndrome kicks in and tells her everything's "Fine" so she doesn't have to worry about finding a new father for their 2 or more bastard children.
What's sad about it? That you could be fucking a 19 year old right now?
yesss, the fresher the better
Me no, I dont do politics, but I always thought 18+ is the minimum age for sex because they consider u mature then to be a mother, and that actually 21 is the minimum age for actual maturity. But now that you say people are allowed to have sex at whatage in what country?
Well a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
Thats cheating. Life hacker xD
lol or i'd get her a year younger before puberty
it varies all over the world from puberty/12 to 18 to never unless married (where age of marriage dips as low as 6)
16 is most US states
This
My girlfriend was 16 when I first fucked her. I was 26. I'm gonna marry her in August.
Dude you just explained my life, except I don't have a depression, currently atleast. I mean I used to, but I don't take it all so personally anymore. But thats pretty interesting that I'm a meme now xD eheh.