My life is miserable. Im stuck in the 9 to 5. Never married and no kids. Just got in a fight with the girl im talking to. Its my ex that came back to me after divorcing her husband. I feel like a literal cuck for taking her back but i probably cant get any better now. Ive literally stopped talking to girls since she came back in my life.
My life is now limited to thinking about the past glory days. I advise the young whipper snappers on b to live it up. Dont be a middle aged single childless cuck cunt like me.
Op here. Not really sure where all the anti kid sentiment comes from.
Kids might be a huge pain in the ass but the alternative, the childless forced loneliness lifestyle that im living, is excruciatingly empty and hollow.
i just turned 36, about to start my third postdoc in another city. spent all my life in school and didn't really have any glory days, dated a great girl but she got a job in silicon valley and is now happily married. didn't get the dream girl, didn't get the dream job, i've been on my own for 5 years now. don't fall for the STEM meme, h1b will fucking kill you. my only constructive advice is to worry more about making people like you, even in a technical field that's all that matters.
Hey 35yr old faggot here. No kids no girl. When i want pussy i just call an escort. Life is perfect i feel sorry for you. Dont listen to him kids women will ruin your life and kids will put you into an early grave.
Robert Gomez
Take what you can get and stop whining about what you can't. Change what you can change accept what you can't. Start looking for another job if the one you have does not make you happy. I'm 35 and I still have no idea what I want to do with my life but that's alright for me. As long as I can provide for my family.
Chase Adams
OP here. Ive done the escort route. Started when i was 17. Been using them ever since. I probably fucked or got head from over 100 hookers in my lifetime. Thats a conservative estimate.
Theres a point where even that gets old. You realize its not sexual anymore and its merely a dopamine inducing coping mechanism for the pain in your life.
Hi there, be me 35 No kids No slim Secure job 2 long relationships failure now with a girl that meet in tinder Almost 1 year in the new relationship Life is hard, but still enjoyable
Op, don't stop doing the things you enjoy in life and you will be fine.
Benjamin Nelson
hey man, same here.
my ex left me for the cock carousel, she kept me on a backburner because she knew I couldnt do better than her and she's hot so enough guys on tinder and in the bar.
I am 29. my life sucks too
I am in a career I hate and cant seem to get out of debt no matter how hard I try. also no social life and depressed and miserable as fuck.
just writing so you know you know you're not alone.
Robert King
this.
wish I had a family.
Owen Scott
Any hobbies?
Jordan Parker
Thank you for the comment brother. My comment back to you would be, your quite a bit younger.
If i think about my life, 28-29 were the best years. I went back to school, made some changes. Things went downhill at 35, but 30 to 35 were some of the best years and i hope they will be for you too.
You should see a shrink bro its over for you. Get medicated for your depression or let it spiral to your suicide
Connor Hughes
If you have no kids, try to get a job out of state. If you live in Ohio, don't move to Michigan, move to fucking Arizona. Go big and go far. You will be amazed at whats out there beyond 1500 miles.
Now at 41 I have a pretty young thang, who will literally eat off my shitty draws. Also have a stripper gf that will wash my shitty draws.
How? During my lonely years I made a point of visiting 3 places/clubs/museum when I went out. Then I either go home or to the best of the 3 for the rest of the night. I've made a few "friends" that actually turned out to be real friends.
I worked out, joined the museum's and volunteer.
Life at 30 to 35 fucking sucked. Life at 40+ is better than college. Women your age throw pussy at you, young girls love you, your money should be coming in at a nice clip.
Good luck, faggot. Stop being sad and start being awesome by working on yourself
26 no job again forced to move back in with father and stepmother or else live on the street since the one 'real' group of friends I had decided to show their true colors when shit went south cant find any job remotely near me and have to constantly hear about how I'm not part of this house no career, no friends, no girl, tired of videos/games, tired of only ever having nothing
I've been spending the last month or so trying to learn asm/c++ but haven't really gotten anywhere with it. Had I been able to learn it when I wanted to as a kid maybe I'd be farther in life. idk
Yeah people have advised me to do that. Dont really want to get on psych pills. I contemplate or mention suicide basically every day now. Most of the time ill say something like im done, or im gonna jump off a cliff or something like that. I dont say im going to kill myself and mean it. But suicide is pervasive now.
Become a Big Brother. Volunteer and become a hero for someone that needs one
Daniel Morgan
I was in a similar situation as you, down to the programming, but i fliped it around, started working out, A lot, signed up in school again to learn welding. Boredom is the true enemy just keep your self busy with what ever, i like to go down to the gym to the point where it's torture
Eli Parker
Op here. Man that is one of the most encouraging posts ive ever read on here.
I used to go out and socialize more. But since my ex came back i lost those skills. I also lost my dad two years had a heart attack and died in my arms as i tried to do cpr. Life has been in a tailspin ever since really. Much of my depression probably also stems from unresolved sadness over losing my dad.
Being married and having kids is not a proof of success dude. I know ppl aged 24-26 paying child support for kids they barely see, while their ex wifes are going around getting dicked by random dudes. Look at the silver lining.
Brody Bailey
never give up we all die eventually, better to try all options to happiness before you die naturally.
Parker Cox
Dude, you have the "if you built it, they will come" mentality right now. I see that when dudes build "man caves" hoping that their buddies come around and hang out, but it ends up that ppl still can't/won't come. Having a wife and kids will not automatically grant you the happiness that you want. Your wife/kids could come out/become disabled, die young, or straight up dislike you. Chill out with these thoughts and work out/meditate. Do something to better yourself.
Luis Rivera
I find ways to move around, and I'll go ride my only mode of transportation (bmx bike) when I'm really bored, but unless I've eaten decently within a couple days it'll not feel too good afterwards. Or just kungfu movies and imitation.
I have literally zero monies to my name tho so I'm fairly limited as to what I can do. To be honest, if I wanted to talk about my life like this it'd take about 100 or so lines just to make a point as to what lead to where I am now. Every time I think about what lead to it all.. who/what/why, I wonder what the point of any of this is. What's the point of staying around?
