To people who are married or have "found the one", i have a few questions

To people who are married or have "found the one", i have a few questions.

Are you happy?
Do you believe in true love?
Should i give up?

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Yes I am happy, I do believe in true love, and you shouldn't give up.

Pretty happy. It's not like I'm being idealistic about things.

I'm not sure if I believe in true love because I'm not really sure what that's supposed to mean.

I wouldn't give up but I wouldn't make it a massive deal. I think you should ask yourself what matters to you and also consider why finding the one matters to you the most. Weigh your interests. Evaluate and if you come to the conclusion that its something you really want then don't give up and just be kinda natural and not too forward in the search. If you feel like you really do need it for more practical reasons, then I'd evaluate what those "reasons" might be. Whatever they might be I'd reconsider or pursuit.

Very happy.
No, you find someone that's a good person that loves you. You can get that from lots of ppl.
You shouldn't be trying to find anyone. You should have a life with lots of shit going on. Youll meet lots of girls along the way

Yes, I'm happy.
True love is a made up concept, anyone who thinks it's real thinks with their dick.
No need to give up, but first find out if you really want a partner and more importantly; why. Then look for someone that can fulfill those reasons.

I'm not married, but probably because I fucked up.

I had 2 great girls and we were head over heels for each other.

First one, I was too shy and had anxiety problems. I didn't know what to do around her and got sick every time we hung out. She waited for me for years, but I was a mess.

Second one: I dated her off and on 2-3 years. She was great, but because we never did anything sexual, I broke it off. I was a young guy who was always horny...

I believe there are people out there that are meant for you, but you have to be on your A game. Don't be retarded, try to dress well, take care of your body, be funny if you're ugly (like me).
Also don't dwell on the past. Don't get hurt from every girls that rejects you. Learn from your interactions and success/failures.

Good luck bud

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>Are you happy?
With my partner? Yes. In general? Not always.
>Do you believe in true love?
It's hard to distinguish what true love could mean. Personally, I see it as being with somebody 5+ years and having no signs of wanting anything more from your partner. To be able to spend a lot of time with them and not get sick of it, and to want them around for almost everything you experience. They become a part of you, regardless of how cliche that is.
>Should i give up?
Yes. Because you're setting expectations and desires that take organic growth, but because you're actively seeking this you'll either begin forcing it or you'll feel disheartened because it isn't happening sooner. I didn't want to be with my partner for the first year of our relationship, and 8 years later I couldn't imagine doing anything without her.

Live a life you enjoy, and you may be fortunate enough to find somebody along the way. Stay true to yourself during this and it'll likely ensure the other person is compatible with you, but you also have to make sacrifices. If the life you enjoy separates you from socialising, make an effort to find somewhere you can be social.

What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Yeah
I don't know why you're not fair
I give you my love, but you don't care
So what is right and what is wrong?
Gimme a sign
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more

No
Yes
Yes

What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Oh, I don't know, what can I do?
What else can I say, it's up to you
I know we're one, just me and you
I can't go on
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?

Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
What is love?
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
I want no other, no other lover
This is our life, our time
We are together I need you forever
Is it love?
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Yeah, yeah, (woah-woah-woah, oh, oh)
(Woah-woah-woah, oh, oh)
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love?

I'd probably be happier if she looked like her. For a little while. Then I'd want something else. Truth hurts.

Giving up will never stop the pain

Yes. Yes. No. I absolutely am so happy with my SO.

Things are not perfect and we have had rough times but the best part of my day is when I get to hang out and talk with him. He is my best friend and I am so happy with him.

I wouldn't give up user!

Yeah I am.
I don't think true love exists. You will love people and you will lose them and you will love others.
Nah, even those of us who have found love might have to look again.
So it's a never ending quest really.

>yes
>not really
>yes

didn't read the whole post, i haven't found "the one" yet

Bro just chill about such deep questions everyone in a serious relationship still asks those questions because we are alive too. You will basically wonder such things for all your life and you know what it’s not apparent until you have lived it. So just get out there some of us people in serious and long term relationships dream of being single but sometimes when you are in love and know you got something good you have people relying on you so you can’t really doubt what you have...that’s true love.

>Are you happy?
No
>Do you believe in true love?
No
>Should i give up?
You literally shouldn't have even tried to begin with.

Why not just ruin all chances of good things happening !1

The best advice I can give is love is not an overnight thing. It takes time, you also can't change people, they have to it themselves. Learn to accept little flaws in people, at the end if the day, that's the petty shit that doesn't matter

just start fucking married men.

>yes
>hesitant to but if I did it'd be because of her
>don't give up but don't try so hard. If true love does exist you may never find it for your soul mate might be on the opposite side of the world. Also not the end of things if you never find it, just be happy with yourself first

>eporner.com
I met my one and only at 3am in a random dungeon in gw2 not even thinking about it, just making friends feeling happy doing what I enjoy. So: Yes, Yes, YES. Stop fucking trying to find the one it makes you come across as needy and desperate. Just do what you wanna do in life and don't let yourself feel like finding love is some kinda hobby. That's not the way to find it. Easier said that done but it's the only way.

And dont give me that oh im too much of a loser shit. Dude no 3/4 of hot girls think they're fucking disgusting and fat with low self esteem the only reason youd ever be turned down is because you came off desperate or creepy. Unless you were like so fucking ugly like 1 in a million.. which you're probably not. I've seen a lot of guys who I think look better than me makes threads like this (They posted pics in the past).

finding "the one" really doesn't matter if you are happy already.

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Yes. Maybe? Do it. When I have up and decided to live and not worry about finding any one I found my wife. 10 years strong. You need to be social thou. Goto the bar the store YMCA church whatever. You need to be active with what the prior you find attractive

As happy as shit.

There is no such thing as true love, except perhaps the love that a parent can feel for their children.

Yes, you should give up. There are a million "the one's" out there. Billions in fact. Biology and propinquity will mean you could end up attracted to pretty much anyone you spend enough time with.

Aim for "good enough" and get on with things.

>Are you happy?
>Do you believe in true love?
>Should i give up?
Yes i'm happy.
True love changes, you change, You both have to change in the same direction or you grow apart. Takes work, most people are too lazy.
No, never give up.

Yes, yes, and no dont give up. As long as youre not hopelessly autistic and decent looking you can find someone. But i believe not everyone is meant to fall in love and have someone to share their life with. Im 26 and with someone I truly feel I was meant to meet and stay with for life.

She is based as fuck, my ideal body type (very curvy, huge ass), great sex, and we have the exact same taste in everything (music, humor, political beliefs)

However my uncle is 51 and will most likely die alone because hes so fucking weird and particular about shit. On paper hes a great catch: amazing cook, great job, well travelled, in shape and active. But he can never make a connection.

"true love" is a psyop it's not real dude

yes

i'm happy being with her, she's essentially my best friend.... we avoid being affectionate unless we're drunk but truthfully i do love her. I didnt really think we'd end up together we work together and she had a boyfriend when we first met. I was interested in her from the start

if youre looking for a story book love story than yes. Our love story goes she called me drunk saying i was hot eventually fucked then dated no love story just real

There comes a point where intangible things like that do become real. All it takes is the idea to gestate, now there's no point in trying to disprove it. But there's also no point in trying to find it.