Tips on maintaining erections during sex?

Tips on maintaining erections during sex?

Can get an erection normally but only able to maintain it during a blow job. Penetration makes me go soft.

>already quit cigarettes
>barely drink anymore
>work-out regularly & eating healthier

halp

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Bait

but you really are gay

> penetration makes me go soft

You doing it wrong m8. Stop sticking dicks up your bungholes

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internet porn as already fucked you up. it's too late. there is no cure.

> (OP)
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Been with gf for a couple months. Doing it with and without condom. Problem still occurs.

Any fix for that? I've already reduced the quantity of porn I watch and I don't fap as often anymore.

How is your sleeping? Do you get enough REM sleep?

you must have missed the part where I said there is no cure.

Insomnia keeps me up at a fairly irregular sleep schedule. Gf says I do weird stuff in my sleep, if that qualifies as REM sleep then maybe.

try kinky shit like getting blindfolded
or have your lazy bitch work on kegels

have you tried fucking dudes in the ass you faggot?

Serious answer from someone who got over this with his new girlfriend.

Avoid any fapping at all. No porn. Retrain your dick so that a horny naked girl in your bed gets you hard, not a pasty English lady boi on a Himalayan frog farming forum.

Kegel exercises.

Talk to your girl about it, let her know that it's nerves and not her. And until you can get it up on the regular, eat her pussy like the world is ending as often as possible.

Just think about something that turns you off mid fuck, or just make sure your dick doesnt make contact with anything then makesure you work her pussy into the ground and try to match her speed of orgasm

Happened to me my whole life. Since I had stable relations I never used condom, which made me go limp.
I get softer when I stick it in, missionary position. That's why I started doing it from behind only, they like it more and so do I. I'm not really fit, have a thick bent cock (tip goes down), sometimes suffer from anxiety but generally a successful person. I overthink a lot. If you think we have something in common, try doing the same thing, do it from behind, possibly while laying on your side because straight doggy style will kill her pussy and it's only good for hook ups to be honest.
Also notice that I don't go full limp, but it gets softer and I notice, she notices, so I overthink it and fuck it up. It's a downward spiral, I think anxiety and over thinking is the biggest issue here

I think you are a closet homo.

Seriously, have you tried a guy yet?

>pasty English lady boi on a Himalayan frog farming forum
Kek

That's helpful.

I haven't fap in a week or two, hoping to see if that changes anything next time I see her.

Does kegel exercises actually work?

She already knows. We've had many talks about it.

Will definitely try that position. I do overthink when I see it happening. Does it still occur for you? Anything else to suggest?

Nope, never tried but I'm not interested in it. Women in general turn me on a lot more than they should, and have a high sex drive. I never had such problems during one night stands tho
Also most married man experience the same, that's why they recur to pills. Routine is bad in general, especially in sex, that's my idea

Smoke some weed, it will make your head spin less and relax your body

water user
drink a shitload of water especially right b4 sex
works 4 me

> I'm not interested in it
fucking faggot kys

cont.
i can even cum, drink 64oz, and fuck her again
and im 44yo

I've been single for like 15 months, and have had occasional sex only during this period but not a relation. As said, the problem only occurs with regular gfs, even though my exes were quite kinky and liked sex a lot.
Try to like her pussy as long as you can, i.e. until it hurts. If you make them cum via clitoris stimulation, they won't care about penetration because the "outside" orgasm is much stronger. Also girls like being eaten out even on the first night, it's probably not as common as it seems to do so. They'll be surprised and will love it

Stop fucking fat smelly sheep...

Stopping porn and fapping plus tincture of time will honestly make a big difference.

I think kegel's have made some difference for me, but honestly it was just getting comfortable with my girl, laughing, having fun in bed, and realizing that we still had a blast together even when "little user" was not being cooperative.

I was lucky in that my girl was super, super awesome about it. I'm a pretty anxious guy and now my focus in bed is having fun and fucking our brains out, not getting hard.

>Also most married man experience the same, that's why they recur to pills. Routine is bad in general, especially in sex, that's my idea


This. My last relationship was 2 and a half years long, and after about 18 months she didn't turn me on anymore and I just resorted to fapping to porn. We didn't have sex for like 3 months despite me beating off everyday.

I think watching/seeing too much porn also does fuck with you because now, half the time porn can't even get me hard. I'm starting to worry a bit. Last time I had sex about a year ago, it was kind of difficult to get and maintain an erection.

Yeah that's because your dick will get stiff because it has to hold piss in, together with the rest of the apparatus, it happens for the same reason you get morning wood. It's a nice trick but I think OP may be more interested in the long term solution

I used to fap up to three times a day and still fuck basically everyday, most times twice in a row. Once I learned which positions to use I started feeling more secure about myself and never went limo again. Her body got worse after three years though, so I started thinking about other women more. That is also bad

>Can get an erection normally but only able to maintain it during a blow job. Penetration makes me go soft.

kek, son, you're either afraid of pussy, or the distraction of putting on a rubber (if you use them, that is) is going you the wilt. Or perhaps, all you really want is blow jobs.

If all you want is BJs, find a gal that likes to suck in exchange for a few bucks--there's more than you think out there. A simple money for BJ relationship is far cheaper than having a girlfriend or wife, and there's no chance of knocking her up.

cock ring.

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You didn't read any of the thread before shitposting, did you?

>You didn't read any of the thread before shitposting, did you?

What's your excuse for this shitpost?

Porn trains you, and any kind of fapping numbs you. This has actually been studied, you can look it up. You get trained to be horny from looking at a screen, not being close to someone who may not be a 10/10. Once again: stop fapping. The testosterone from this should give you enough confidence you don't even think about bullshit. It sucks for me, I get so damn horny thinking about how I'm gonna get laid that I fap and fuck it up.

>This has actually been studied
All real studies have shown that normal fapping does not reduce testosterone.