Hey Sup Forums, I don't think anyone will care about this thread but I just kinda wanted to put it out there
>Me, 21, download tinder because I'm lonely AF
>Match with a few people, none of which are interesting or particularly good looking
>Lose hope, keep tinder but never open it. One night randomly decide I'll check it out, first girl
>Black, very cute, short girl with funny bio. Swipe her only and then go about my day
>Few days later check tinder, holy shit I matched with her
>Talk to her on Tinder for a while, smoothly transitions into asking for her snapchat, we send snaps she says I'm cute and she's hot AF
>She asks to call, I don't have my phone on a plan so I facetime audio with her, talk for an hour and a half and agree we should meet up, she sounds cute AF
>At buddy's birthday at his place, notice I have to be about a block away from her by tinder distance
>Snap her, we're talking, she starts sending nudes, asks me to come over
>Ditch friends party (dick move), fairly drunk, walk to her place, she's waiting outside
>Sneaks me into her house, long story short we had sex but it was very passionate and sensual
>Meet her quite often over the next few weeks, we're laying in bed the morning after and she says "I'd really like to start dating, user, I think you're the sweetest guy I've met"
>We begin dating, she gives me her old iPhone 6 because she got a new one and wants me to get on a plan
>Don't have much money but do so, go on dates where she pays, we hang out and smoke weed, talk a lot about stuff, get to know her on a very personal level very quickly
>Little things like she watches lesbian porn (sometimes I'd throw it on while we had sex, or I'd put it on and I'd jerk off and she'd play with herself, it was really cute to see her embarrassed but turned on at the same time)
>Stuff about her family that even her best friend didn't know
Hey Sup Forums, I don't think anyone will care about this thread but I just kinda wanted to put it out there
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>Tell her stuff I didn't tell anyone
>Never felt so close to another human being before
>Get a job, life seems to be going well for me
>Unfortunately my bio dad (who I never even really knew that well) kills himself and I'm a total mess
>She helps me feel better but I'm still really sad, start drinking a lot secretively but it becomes obvious eventually
>3 month mark and we are having some troubles but I thought it was totally stuff that we could work through, stopped drinking so much
>She's going to college now, feel proud for her, she comes over and we address how we were having problems and have amazing sex then cuddle for a few hours
>She's going home to study, walk her out of my apartment but before she gets to her car she realizes she forgot her phone, asks me to get it
>Sure, walk upstairs, grab it, then tell myself it'd be funny if I sent myself a wacky text with her phone to me for when she goes to text me later
>In hindsight I think I just wanted to creep her messages, so I go to messages and she has one on no notifcation mode, with something like "Literally anytime" no name just a number
>Look at it, she's flirting with a guy at her college, heart begins racing, pace around while I read the messages in disbelief
>Go downstairs, hand her the phone and ask her to come upstairs to talk, she's like "user you're making me really worried what's going on"
>Once in my room I basically begin the breakup talk, tell her what I found, she replies "user... I wasn't sure if we were going to make it as a couple, you drank so much the last month... I have a problem. I don't like being alone, I get so depressed. I wasn't going to do anything with this guy unless we broke up"
>She's inching closer to me feeling my vulnerability, mumble something and then she starts bawling
>"user after tonight I know for a fact you're all I want, you're my best friend, I love you I love you (first time she said I love you to me)
>I start crying, have sex, she spends the night
Keep goin op
>Decide to stay with her (I know I'm retarded) and she deletes and blocks the guy
>Every now and then when I'm at her place and she falls asleep I look through her phone, through everything but never find anything suspicious
>Things are going well again, my job is great, my family loves my girlfriend, my girlfriend loves my family
>Happy as I can be, don't drink anymore, quit smoking, working on upgrading my highschool since I barely passed in math first time around and want to become an electrician
You're on shaky ground it sounds like. The distance will get to you eventually. Women meet all sorts of chads... even a few betas too. The fact is that there are just so many options and encounters. Happened to me. In hindsight I'm glad it did. You're in for a bit of a rough ride.
I care. Good story, OP. Been through stuff with my girl too. It feels great looking at her and knowing I’m marrying my best friend. Hell, I trust her 100%.
Sorry about that short post, I didn't want the thread to die
>At about the 6 month mark I lose my job, get kinda bummed but I saved up a lot of money at my last job and figure I'll bounce right back
>Girlfriend calls me every day on lunch break at college because she has no friends there despite being super popular in general (like 900 friends on Facebook and 500 insta followers, her core group all moved away from our town)
>Don't mind really, talk to her, give her emotional support almost every day, tell her I'm in her corner and I love her so much etc
>Her car's battery keeps dying because she needs a new one and also a lot of the time she leaves her lights on
>I drive up to the college like 10 times over a month and a half to boost her, she hardly seems that appreciative
>Don't see her too much because she's studying for finals, even before that she's busy doing homework/studying because she wants to get all A's
>It's fine, we talk on the phone every day for hours, I'm looking for work but not finding much, start getting sad
>She keeps saying "when break comes we'll hang out all the time OK user?"
>Break comes, she has a month off, she's working a lot, I call her and sometimes she doesn't answer/get back to me for hours
>"user you're being really clingy I'm busy a lot right now" Okay but you're the one who called me everyday for an hour at lunch break so I just got used to it
>She says I'm right and she's being bitchy, I tell her I'll give her some space, we hang out a few times but things seem different
>One night she comes over, I make her some kickass butter chicken with naan bread, we watch our favourite show, have sex, fall asleep in each others arms
>Wake up in the middle of the night and my hand is over her phone, creep on it (this is like the sixth time at that point I'd done it)
Fuck! The cliffhanger hurts
>Look at her instagram (forgot to mention this dude, Steve, it's important to the story so I'll explain now)
>When girlfriend gave me her old phone at the beginning of our relationship she didn't remove anything so I looked through her photos, she had screencapped a conversation with a guy Steve
>He lives in the other side of the country, she met him when she went to visit her friend, he was a friend of her friend. Steve and her hooked up and the screencaps were basically about them having sex (I know red flag)
>Steve added her on insta a week ago and they're chatting, mild flirting, but thinking "Hey he lives across the country that's okay and it's not heavy flirting"
>Look at other convos, most normal but her waitressing job coworkers and her are talking
>Girlfriend says she's about to break up with me because I've been cheating on her, coworker talking mad shit about me
>Wake her up, ask her WTF? She says "user everyone at my work is SO involved in each others lives, these two coworkers kept asking why you never show up to my work. I just lied about it so they'd leave me alone, their boyfriends come into our work like 2-3 times a week and they were judging me for it"
>Wtf still seems like a weakass excuse, think she wants to break up
>Things smooth over a bit (I know, ignoring another red flag)
>Christmas, I'm the first boyfriend to go to her family gathering, her family is chill so it was cool, and visa versa about her and my family
>For my birthday she wrote me this AWESOME card that was so heartwarming with a cute card of a little black kitten which had an arrow and said ME and a little white puppy on top of the kitten licking the kitten, arrow to the puppy saying "YOU"
>For christmas she gave me a generic card that was somewhat sweet but miles different than my birthday card
>We keep dating, things OK not bad but not great like they were, until about year and a half mark (a month ago)
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>At this point I'm pretty suspicious about my girlfriend not really being invested in our relationship, we still hang out and have sex and confide in each other with our deepest darkest secrets and stuff but things feel different
>Kinda feels like she keeps me around for emotional support and because I make her cum like 10 times everytime we have sex (I don't care about nutting myself for some reason, my main source of pleasure in bed is making people cum multiple times)
>Girlfriend is going to go to big city 4 hours away for a week to demo the college there, there's a program where you can do that on break
>Supportive of her, she gets an AirBnB, she wants me to come with but I can't take the time off work. She's somewhat disappointed but not as much as I'd expect
>A week before she goes to the big city, her computer starts fucking up hard and she's having a breakdown since she has a project due the next day
>Offer her to drop off her laptop at my place before she goes to work, I'd fix it, then she can pick it up after work, she brings the laptop to my place
>Since I'm okay with computers I fix the laptop in like 15 minutes, put it away, go about my day but a few hours in I get this overwhelming curiosity
>Grab laptop, find out all her passwords, install Android emulator on my computer and sign into facebook, her insta, tinder, anything that came to mind
>First look through facebook, there's a dude she told me about a LONG time ago that lives in England, they met on like omegle or some shit when she was 16 and he convinced her to get nude then he got a girlfriend and talked about how black girls are ugly and they "never talked again"
>They talked recently, he was drunk and facebook facetime whatever the fuck it's called and then she sent him a message the next day saying it's cool that they're friends but never call her again since he was just trying to bust a nut
>Respect her for that, move onto instagram
Bumping
not that i don’t like watching a car wreck in slow motion; but why don’t you just mind your own business and stop snooping her shit you fucking delusional psychopath? or maybe move onto someone you trust, which is probably no one ever
Don't fuck Nigger monkeys you disgusting depraved degenerate. You'll catch aids. They are a sub race. Leave Sup Forums faggot
you are beyond retardation
What a fag. Your fear of the black man is so fucking obvious, you insecure degenerate.
New here, I see.
>Steve and I are on silent no notifications, wtf
>Look at convo with Steve, in disbelief, the conversation is SO SO SO SEXUAL
>Read further, find out Steve is going out of his way to go to the same big city my girlfriend is, they are counting down the days and talking about how nasty they're gonna be, fucking everyday
>"I'm struggling on what I'll do first when I wake up, fuck you or smoke weed" - GF "Why not both, you can smoke a joint while you ride me" -- Steve
>Other shit, counting down days until they meet, talking about going to a sex shop to get some toys, etc
>Look at another conversation with this dude my girlfriend mentioned a few times before
>A week before he sent her a message "Hey I'm just going to shower and I'll come over? ;)" at 9:30PM
>In a fit of rage, pacing around my apartment, almost crying from being so mad
>Text girlfriend "I HOPE STEVE IS WORTH IT, FUCK YOU"
>She calls me, she's still at work, at first like "OMG I KNEW YOU WOULD LOOK THROUGH MY SHIT HOW DARE YOU, OF COURSE I'M GONNA SEE MY FRIEND WHILE I'M IN (big city) user WHAT THE FUCK
>Hold my ground, bitch it's obvious you are more than friends, not to mention other guy, she begins bawling
>"GET THE FUCK OFF MY LAPTOP I'M LEAVING WORK RIGHT NOW I CAN'T WORK ANYMORE IM FUCKING BAWLING"
>Okay come pick up your laptop, fuck you for doing this to me
>Go to my sisters house, tell her what happened, get drunk (like 12 beers), girlfriend still hasn't messaged me to come get her laptop it's been hours
>Go home, look at Tinder, girlfriend is already on tinder lol haven't even had our break up talk
>Matched with a guy, "Im only in town tonight and have surgery tomorrow so we can't eat, drink, or do anything interesting but you can come over if you want" (obviously wants to fuck her)
>She tells him she's getting drunk at a bar, gives him her number
>He says "wow can't believe you're moving to (big city) as well that's so cool xox" so they talked on the phone
cont
>going in for serious discussions with the kind of women that are on Tinder
I didn't even read the rest of your story; what were you thinking? It's a meat market for attractive women to inflate their egos. It's all visual. If you're not just looking for a fuck use other means.
Go to the church or just get out of Sup Forums newfags.
Says the nigger monkey lover
Yeah.. No. Nigresses are the least desirable women on the planet. Not even niggers want them. There's a reason; they're trash and smell like shit. They're also stupid as fuck and loud. Go back to tumblr faggot and move to Africa so your genes aren't passed on here
Bump. I wanna hear the rest of this
Must keep reading. Much interest
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So... not being a racist degenerate automatically makes you a newfag?
Aight, cool. You are part of the sad mass that made Sup Forums what it is today.
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If the pussy ain't yours then it's everyone other guys.
GL OP
type faster faggot
I mean yeah I shouldn't have done that but I'm not sorry I did now, I would've still been dating her now dude. None the wiser that she was hooking up
>She texts me finally, "My tire got flat so I had to get a new one put on"
>Texts tinder guy, "Sorry I almost got pulled over by a cop, not gonna make it tonight"
>Shows up at my place, my plan was to walk out, hand her the laptop, and walk back into my apartment since I was so mad/drunk I'd probably say something I regret
>Hand her the laptop, start walking away "user! user WAIT" she runs after me, runs in front of lobby door blocking me from going inside
>Talk to her for a bit, tell her we need to go upstairs to my room because I don't want everyone in apartment hearing
>Break up talk, "user I don't think you know what love is, the previous longest relationship was like 6 months" how is that relevant to us
>"user Steve isn't ever going to not be part of my life I'm sorry" blah blah blah spare you the details, lots of yelling at each other and crying
>Walk her to the lobby, she's saying something and I walk up to her face and say "No, fuck this. I'm tired of fighting for something you don't believe in"
>Speed walk away, hear her say "my keys", walk back to my sisters house and have another beer, she called me and then texts me saying she can't find her keys
>Fuck, walk back to apartment, try and help her find her keys, we can't find them (it was snowing), eventually come to the conclusion she can stay the night
>We have break up sex, she keeps saying "I'm going to miss this so much" as we make out, bittersweet
>Wake up in the morning, she's complaining about a headache (hangover) ask her if she was drunk last night, she says she wasn't but know she was
>Find her keys, she says she wants to skip college and spend the day with me, tell her to go to class
>She goes to the big city, ask her not to text me since we've been keeping in contact while she's there because obvious reasons
thats what /s4s/ is for (the true Sup Forums)
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The problem is that this is Sup Forums and if you get mad you lose
hugo?
true
btw sick dubs
i aint mad just disappointed, but i'll give you that because youre right
I'd go further to say it means you aren't paying attention to the world around you, are probably a bit obtuse, and the shear strain of the cognitive dissonance required keeps you up at night.
>She calls me when she gets there (the roads to that city from our town are REALLY bad in the winter so I was kind of relieved)
>Talk to her for a few minutes, make up an excuse and say I have to go
>She texts me, "Are you okay you sounded sad on the phone"
>Tell her I am sad, why wouldn't I be, I know she's still gonna hook up with Steve while she's there
>She tells me that I never deserved what she did to me and she's sorry, adds a heart at the end
>Too much, go and get drunk, that night she sends me a provocative snap
>Drunkenly blow up on her, delete her off all social media, block her number
>Get drunk every day she's in the big city
>Unblock her a week later and ask if she made it home okay
>She did, slowly begin talking to her again
>We are kind of friends now, talk every now and then and I added her back on a few social media things
>See she's on Tinder all the time, know she got over me pretty much right after we stopped dating
>Still get drunk and remember the good times
>Especially one memory of us spending the whole day together, it was amazing, went for a hike to a beautiful waterfall, had sex there, went to dinner, went back to her place, watched our favourite show and cuddled
>Had really passionate sex, after sex she puts her head on my chest, starts gently rubbing my arms
>Without warning she puts this song on youtube.com
>Never heard it before, hauntingly beautiful, she strokes my arm while singing gently along to that song
I'm sort of over her now, I stopped drinking every night at least. I know she spends most nights with another guy, but it doesn't bother me as much. We still talk every now and then, it's been about two months since we broke up. I've had sex with a girl since, but it was overly disappointing, and whenever I watch porn I usually think of her and it ruins the mood. But yeah, that's my story anons. It helped to get it out there, thanks to anyone who read it.
Racism is a Jewish lie to destroy the white race. Niggers commit more crime and aren't functioning members of society. They are less intelligent on average and cost the country billions just to keep them here. The economy would be much better without niggers and Mexicans (they have a negative impact as well despite what you may think). They should all be deported and then America would have much less crime and poverty
so you're saying its okay to be racist just because its common in the world today? if so, stop existing please
and i sleep just fine at night tyvm
Man, she really ran you through the spin cycle.
I hope you are able to find someone who cares enough about you to make you forget about this girl.
This is obvious bait, Im not even gonna try
bitches and ho's man ...
i know exactly what went wrong OP. This happened to me too except i was the guy that did it in the relationship. Holy shit what an i opener
well?
Hahaha I knew mentioning she was black was gonna get some responses like that, ain't even mad.
Thanks for the bumps guys :)
I mean yeah, I went in with the intention to just fuck. But we had a lot in common, spent a lot of time together, liked each other's company so it kind of progressed naturally into dating.
She's a bad person. Period.
It'll get better over time user, not all women are that way. You'll find whos right for you, and this hoe will be erased from your memories
Not OP but this chick just responded to my message exactly 48 hours after my message, to the fucking minute basically. Has the gall to send me some flirty text back.. Should I take 4 days to respond just to fuck with her? Actually fuck playing those games, I'm not joining in.
I was like you are one point in my life user dated this girl that was living with her ex i knew right then and there that that was a major red flag but I kept going at it dating her while living with her ex it sucked at nights knowing they were sleeping under the same roof she told me they were just room mates I don't know how I went on with it but I did i knew nothing was going on cause every time we fucked she was tight all the time time went on she moved to texas moved back again and now we are married with 2 kids she's perfect but point being I was like you at one point worrying on who she's with or who she's fucking but it was all mind games she is a unique one and I hope you find your unique one too
Yeah man, in retrospect she was very selfish. I remember one time she was gassing up on the phone with me, left her wallet on the roof of her car, drove home, realized she left her wallet and completely mentally broke down. I drove to the gas station (like 25 minute drive) and scoured all over the place for it, it was about a 4 minute walk from the gas station in the road. Brought it to her and she was blown away that I did that, told me she didn't think anyone else would've done it for her and that she loves me so much.
I mean yeah, she also has a lot of problems. That became more evident later into the relationship, self-image problems which she remedied by working out for hours every day, she had really fuckin nice abs and a huge butt because of it, self-love problems. She felt like her friends had abandoned her by moving on and leaving the city, her adoptive dad was really absent during the time I was dating her, she had clear father issues. She also was kind of depressed. A deep need for attention, when I broke up with her she started posting fairly provocative pictures on her instagram
Yeah I know, I'm willing to open up my heart for another woman. I'll have to re-learn to trust another person though, I learned a lot from this relationship. One thing I'll take from it is if you don't trust someone enough to not look through their phone you probably shouldn't be with them.
>not a conkers bad fur day thread
ops a faggot didnt read
well what? pretty much the same as OPs story excalt i was the dude texting other chicks even though she loved me unconditionally. But whenever i was with her i always forgot about everybody else and made love to her like she was the only person that mattered. It was fine when we were together but when it become long distance (she moved overseas for abit) i would just talk and flirt with other people and whatever happened happened. I never really felt guilty just viewed it as seizing opportunities. Maybe i am fucked in the head. I know she loved me no matter what, but i just didnt the same way. I really tried too, but the emotions kind of only stayed when i was with her and all the other times i was just looking for something else. Just spooky to read what OP wrote knowing what i already knew how she must have felt i guess.
Oh I forgot to say, she was very selfish and in retrospect I don't think she would've done the same for me at all
Meh. I feel like she probably did the exact same thing as you. I feel like when she was with me she was 100% with me, like when we were there in person I got her undivided attention and love. But I think she's just filling the void of a lack of self-love with attention from guys, so she wants to seem attractive or someone to be wanted even when she's dating someone. But I'm no psychologist so who knows.
interesting. And you didn't feel guilty? I would probably break up with a partner or push for open relationship in your position ... seems logical, no?
seems right. People have issues ...
You're a beta bitchboi niggerlover.
Thanks for sharing dude. I bet you feel better with that shit off your chest, eh?
Of course the sex with a random ho wasn't as good. That black bitch knew your body and you knew hers. Gonna be some time before you have sex like that again.
Get over it, get out there, and find someone worth having sex like that with. You got this.
Hey guys, consider this:
OP is a faggot.
Hahaha whatever helps you feel better, user. I could get defensive but I don't really care what you think, believe it or not.
Yeah it does feel a lot better. It doesn't help that she was a freak in the sack, we had some wild sex. The chick I had sex with since we broke up was extremely vanilla and boring, and basically screamed when I made her cum which was kind of a turnoff. Didn't even nut, just fucked her for like half an hour and then stopped. There will definitely be another girl where the sex is just as awesome.
how do you make them cum? Full disclosure: I can't do it.
I didn't feel guilty. I know its fucked up for me to say that but i just didn't. it was like a part of my brain never fully gave myself up to her. Maybe in my mind i always thought i could find somebody better or try something different and i knew that once i flicked that 'switch' and gave myself over to her i would lose that freedom. Maybe in the long run i will come to regret my decision though, maybe i already am especially after reading OPs post it feels like an eye opener and i feel like i should do something like text her. But i know I probably wont, just know that the story you said makes me see it from a different side and makes me question things, i would wager if your ex comes across a story like this in the future like i have she will think back to what she did and might come to regret it. Im sorry man.
i forgot to mention that she was also black, not that it makes much of a difference, just thought it was worth mentioning.
When is OP not a faggot?
seems to be not out of the order with people. Only few people got that "morale compass" from birth ... for most it is learned. I just find it fascinating because I was never able to not feel guilty ... kinda envy you.
i like this thread ... it's real.
I let my nigger gf shove a kfc drumstick up my ass, and the minute I started squealing like porky pig she would nut and spurt gonorrhea discharge all over my mom's egyptian cotton sheets.
sounds lovely.
Well if you know what gets the girl off it helps. I'm not really sure what I do that's so special exactly, I've always lasted a long time (30 minutes to hours) which helps, I can go to pound town without stopping since I'm in decent shape. Dirty talk if the chick is into it, foreplay to get her wet, I'm not afraid of the clit so I'll rub it a lot, I eat pussy really well. I also know where the G-spot is so if you use your tongue on their clit while fingering their G-spot that gets the job done.
Thanks man. I hung out with my ex one time in person, she was having a really shit day and wanted to quit her job so she came over after work. I was high as FUCK on edibles that I accidentally consumed so I was chill, at one point though I went over calmly all the ways she hurt me and she cried and told me that I deserved better. Sorry if my story gave you feels man.
honestly, i've been through some similar (yet not the exact same experiences) with another blackie. Feels bad man. Hope you can find the one out there :)
Boy, some day you'll be perfectly fine. Not angry at any of the dumb bullshit whatever other dumbass is feeding you about race. You'd realize about half of all people, inluding Caucasians are worthless pieces of shit.
You know the difference between black and black trash. Mexican and Mexican trash. The big problem is you. Your fear. You fear these guys. You fear them because the media tells you to fear them.
Just forget that bitch user the fuck is wrong with you have some respect for yourself
I do have self-respect user. I'm not going to forget her or just shut that part of my emotions down. It's healthier to process, accept your feelings, and move past it. I'm keeping forward momentum, and I am moving past it, I don't think about her nearly as much.
Thanks man :) I don't have any bad blood against black women, I'd date another one but she'd have to be a lot more trustworthy than my ex.
The media tells us to fear blacks? The media tells us that blacks are great and law-abiding, photoshops criminals' photos to lighten their skin, and always jumps to show us the one-off instances where a white person commits a real scumbag crime or a black person actually does something altruistic.
Also something tells me you've never been in an over a year relationship where you really let down your guard completely, you don't just wake up the next day like "man that bitch is a bitch" I mean kind of you do but there's still feelings there for a bit.
I met a girl through online means. I could NEVER get her to stop talking to other guys online. Cheated on me as well. But man did I think we were 'passionately' in 'love' for 4 years. I don't think it's a matter of girls being shit, its just people are shit in general.
Said the 12 year old that's never touched a boobie.
Nigga I almost fall for it, 4 years in relation but she meet a guy in the fifth year and tried to cheat didn't fall for it and just lust broke with her if someone does one time something it would be a second time for sure
Ok user
Yeah man, there's actually a study where they found people between the ages 20-35 nowadays usually keep at least one "backburner". Like one person that they could jump into a relationship with if they broke up with who they are dating at that time. It's actually pretty fucked. After I was dating my ex I was totally locked in and didn't even think about hitting up other girls.
English your second language? Also yeah I realize that in hindsight, what can I say, I'm not the smartest individual. Plus I had rose-colored glasses on when it came to her, so it clouded my judgement. Obviously I should've broken up with her at the three month point when she was flirting with the college guy but I can't do anything about it now, and to be honest I have a lot of great memories in between that time and when I found out she was going to cheat on me. If I relived it I'm not sure if I'd give those memories up, plus this experience has made me grow as a person and learn a lot about myself and relationships in general. Obviously I broke up with her as soon as I found out she was actually going to cheat and not just some mild flirting.
Spoiler alert - you might have to go through this again.
It's a shame it wasn't the right one, but some things were worth it.
Moving on will be hard but you will eventually get over it, time heals everything
I know, and that's why I accept it. Just gotta hope for the best. I'm not planning on dating anytime soon anyways, I'm gonna focus on myself for the foreseeable future.
Thanks user :) I feel the same way. It's shitty I went through it but at the same time there was a LOT of good that came with the bad.
it's just to easy for women ... until they hit the thirties.
Not all women have it easy. I'm sure you've seen plenty of girls you weren't attracted to. Attractive people just have shit easy and are more likely to be given opportunities.
Was just about to say that.
All of this could've been avoided with communication and polyamory
I mean yeah, we agreed on monogamy though, and we both talked about how in a relationship you should communicate, especially if you don't feel like a relationship isn't working anymore. She told me she was cheated on and she felt like shit for a long time and had trust issues but was over it. We both agreed if we wanted to see other people then we'd talk about it and decide the next step for us, either breaking up or agreeing on an open relationship. The latter I wasn't really interested in, I didn't really look at other girls while I dated my ex. But that conversation never came up, she just wanted to have a fling with a guy behind my back unfortunately.
polyamory looks great on paper but humans are generally too jealous. I sorta think poly people are somewhat in denial. I don't understand why people back unrealistic ideas. Polyamory, communism, etc.
I met this older man, he helped me fix my car up when I was driving a complete beater. He talked a LOT and there was a lot of work to be done on my VW. He basically told me his life story. Really interesting guy, found out he was gay. His partner has basically zero sex drive and spends a lot of time away from home (hes a flight attendant), so they agreed to have an open relationship. It works really well for the dude who was fixing my car, apparently he has tons of sex and would otherwise be sexually frustrated because his boyfriend never ever wants to fuck. He invited me to his place after we fixed my car (about a month later) and I met his boyfriend. It was kinda awkward because I'd never really been around gay people before but it was a nice time, they're amazing cooks. They seemed like they're genuinely happy, so I think it works for some people.
Hope things get better user.
Forgot to mention that at the end of dinner he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, told him I was straight and he seemed disappointed but was okay with it. I wonder if I lead him on now, I mean I told him I was straight beforehand, came up when he said he was gay while fixing my car. But yeah, never talked to him again really except the occasional text from him about how my beater was running and if I needed help fixing anything with it.
No you know what fuck it you deserved it for sticking with her after you even got a hint that something was wrong. Fuck her though. Dump nudes OP.
Thanks for the read OP, I'm going through a breakup and this helped a bit
Thanks user I appreciate that. Things are slightly turning around, and I'm getting back into the groove of exercising and stuff which makes me feel better. Drinking and moping around less helps too