Getting older is really sad

Getting older is really sad.
Im 27 now, i have a gf want to build a house and have kids. Over time only few good friends left. I have a job but alltime looking for a better one with better payment. The old days are gone with many cool friend moments. Everybodys going his own way. But somethings missing in my life. What are your opinions

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Turning 32 this weekend. I have realized self improvement is a meme. Once you reach your peak there is no way up.

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Same boat user. Feels like I already missed some sort of milestone deadline

i just turned 28 and i feel like my anger that has always been apart of me is now starting to take control of my actions and the things i say. it has set in. dont let it happen to you

50y/o here.
You'll see your friends marry off one by one. Most will no longer be allowed to maintain any meaningful friendships outside the accepted couples of her choice. Single friends will be verboten, and once Tey have kids your friends will be gone from your life.
We didn't have kids and all our regular socialising friends are mostly older and now kid free, or younger and unmarried or as yet unburdened by kids.
Getting older isn't a problem unless you fail to move with your age group, or make provision to socialise outside your age group.

Turning 23 soon. Any tipps what I should do on my way to 30?

Maintain good health.

I wonder how much this will hold up. You had no internet after all. Today my childhood friends are all elsewhere, some even in different countries but we still can keep in contact over the net and ocasionally play online-games with voice-chat to keep up with what's happening in everyones lives. It's not the same as childhood of course but still better than nothing.

But what can i do?
Party with my friends is only few times possible over the year. We have a friend couple but i think they are boring. My enemy is the time. I just dont have it. Has everyone that Problem in the mid 20s

Everyone feels this way, it's a part of getting older.

Well it sounds like you have a boring job and a shit life. You should quit them and smoke some weed on the beach. Thank me later.

If you can imagine things being better then they can be better. Your friends might choose a more boring depressing lifestyle, but you don't have to. Don't let the bastards bring you down.

Yes. Literally everyone provided you aren't rich enough to do whatever you want, whenever you want. Make plans and try to stick to them

Got few back problems allready, but am in a good condition.
What else? I mean more mental things, like happiness or some shit like that

You're 27 you faggot. You're still a child and do/can do the exact same things you did a fucking decade go.

Burn your hull to a crisp on this glorious ride that is life
Meet the struggle head on
Dont stay in places you dont like, dont have friends who arent real, dont do things you dont want to do

So is it the only solution to get rich?
Then i had a lot of time an money and could do everything. But how to start kek. Im a wageslave btw

sounds like you use people/friends to feel better about yourself.
Stop being so damn insecure.
You don't need anyone to lead a great fullfilling life, other people just add to things.

This.

hey guys turning 25 I have traveled, partied tried a bunch of drugs, clubs and fuck my fair share of sluts. When is it time to stop and find a nice girl and settle down?

40 here, internet friends keep in contact but IRL ones don't, even over Facebook etc. They still get absorbed in their empty lives. Only the weeb is left. Ymmv.

You can try something now but more or less you should have been planning to start this shit when you were just out of school.

What are you qualifications and what do you do for a job at the moment?

When you get bored of it, or when it effects your health too much.

When you find her. Kinda of up for her to decide

Dude I'm 50 not 500. I've had email since '94 and a mobile since '95.

You're experiencing the same change as every other person on the planet has experienced since prehistory. Nothing lasts forever, people grow up, they move on, they go their own way. You'll do the same. You'll make (and lose) new friends, you'll make new memories, you'll have new experiences. You'll look back fondly on certain memories but they will become less and less important to you as your life progresses.
Your problem is you have limited life experience and no concept of what a full life is. That's not a criticism, so don't have your period, it's simply a statement of fact

I work in german IT at the moment as a network administrator (certified)
Before you ask: i dont have any programming skills. I just dont get this shit. Makes me mad i know the possibilities.

Connection to society is missing. Find the higher power to serve.

LOL yeah another 50 year old here I was using computers in 1980 and was online in the mid 80s.

In a lot of ways the internet has gotten smaller since the 80s and 90s, there are more users but fewer decent sites to visit. Everything has been turned into Facebook.

OP is still young and should value his youth but get ready for getting older. Once you're not young and cute anymore you'll find out who your real friends are. Keep those guys but realize just because you grew up seeing the same group of idiots who you were forced to be around from kindergarten to high school doesn't mean you have to put up with them now you're grown up. Lose that mind set.

Start saving money now too. Get a 401K going or an IRA, that's like getting a 30% raise on your income for your retirement because you don't pay tax on the income. Seriously don't wait sit down and take ten minutes to set one up!

Point was your school time was over before internet became a thing. While every kid past 2000 had been playing online-games with irl friends, so the transition to pure online-friends when everyone moved apart is smooth now. This is why i though it might be easier now to keep in touch compared to before as you already got the irl friends all connected online to you and a common hobby if you still can play games together.

Yeah we used to go outside and do stuff with our friends in person. How is sitting on your ass talking to strangers through a headset better? It's probably why your generation is so fat and autistic.

I understand u. I have 27, no girlfriend and kid, live with my mom, just have a notebook tv and 2000 in my account, no friends (need to leave then). work from sunday to friday for payng bills and food... is the worst feels.

>In a lot of ways the internet has gotten smaller since the 80s and 90s, there are more users but fewer decent sites to visit. Everything has been turned into Facebook.

The main thing is every search engine is filled with adds nowadays. During modem times you could find mostly organic usercontent while today everything is dominated by bussiness trying to make money and user sites are hard to find. Those old sites still exist and some are amazing but it's much harder to find wich keeps the comunity small while aggregating everyone to the main websites that rank at the top of search engines.

Well yeah of course it's shit you're still living like a child, you're just going to work now instead of school.

"The greatest punishment for man is old age"

Through early morning fog I see
visions of the things to be
the pains that are withheld for me
I realize and I can see...

[REFRAIN]
That suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please.

I try to find a way to make
all our little joys relate
without that ever-present hate
but now I know that it's too late, and...

[REFRAIN]

The game of life is hard to play
I'm going to lose it anyway
the losing card I'll someday lay
so this is all I have to say

[REFRAIN]

The only way to win is cheat
and lay it down before I'm beat
and to another give my seat
for that's the only painless feat

[REFRAIN]

The sword of time will pierce our skins
it doesn't hurt when it begins
but as it works its way on in
the pain grows stronger...watch it grin but...

[REFRAIN]

A brave man once requested me
to answer questions that are key
is it to be or not to be
and I replied "oh why ask me?"

[REFRAIN]

'Cause suicide is painless
it brings on many changes
and I can take or leave it if I please

...and you can do the same thing if you please.

Thats also my life (op)
I have 5k on the bank account.my gf 10. but if we buy a house the slave life goes on.
What do you do to make you feel better?

basically, the only difference is in school i had friends.

Ready for the hard truth mate?

LIFE IS SUFFERING...

Deal with it pussy

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You have no idea how good you have it.

lift weights freak, and stand at parade rest with your mouth shut in front of the mirror and learn to have an orgasm by looking at your godly figure

Just wait until you actually get "old" and start having health problems and the things you used love doing, you can no longer do.

i just have 2k5 in my account...

To feel better... Internet, Music, and some jobs that i like to make example eletronics...

Why? I cant buy time and i work my ass off for little money and 2 holidays a year. The rest is only wageslave living

Reading comprehension. We did go outside. We did both. That's why i'm saying the irl childhood friend we used to play outside with are now online-friends we who occassionally play together and talk to keep in touch (though less so as we got older).

We might turn slowly into strangers as we drift farther away with time but it's still interesting to occasionally keep up how everyone progresses in their life.

You live with your mother. Go look for a new job.

Well, there's always Jesus.

if you're sure that you want to partner with your girlfriend, and you're sure to be her partner, I'll tell you to move on. The cost of living in the future will increase, if you do not split it will get very heavy. Imagine you coming home after work and having to do laundry, clean dishes, shopping, and so on.

No my gf is not my mother lol.
But sometimes she reminds me off her.. clean up take the garbage out etc. I wish i could live like george young from blow. Smoking weed on the beach with gf and friends and dont have to worry bout bills.

Dump her and go be a drug addict then. It's really not that hard

Like user said get a better job, negotiate your salary and benefits, and if you're not insane, ugly or a nigger you'll do well. I have no problem with living with your family it is how the rest of the world does it outside the US. Here's a tip, dress like a square and smile a lot and don't take shit from anyone and you'll make bank.

So do it. Beach bums have it easy.

What you say is true. but it seems like age pushes us to have certain things when you look at your good life friends with great jobs and you're just there.

Im 42. Left leg chopped off above the knee years ago. Never ran before in my life. Just got a running leg and starting c25k. Self improvement is possible.

My step brother is a master in IT salary around 4k. Im a bit jealous.
Its hard do finde a good job with good salary here without moving in other state

My biggest wish is to sell everything and buy a farm. Install a solar panel and a power generator, use river water, plant and raise animals. Living away from society, taxes.

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Im 23, kinda went opposite direction.

Dumped gf on boxing day, quit all drugs on the same day, moved back in with parents and I am now saving money, plan on buying a house next year.

I think I am going to enjoy doing it alone rather than having a girlfriend tbh.

Then MOVE. I moved across America to get a sweet IT job with Microsoft in 2000. I still see my family but now am not poor and living in a shithole.

Lots of wealthy people never lived in poverty or were homeless or had to work shit service jobs. I was dirt fucking poor and now make decent cash, have a nice place and all the toys. I never forget where I came from, never. And I could go back in an instant.

my son is turning 27 this week and I think he feels like you do as he sees friends getting married, buying houses, having kids

been there, too
so long ago

just do what you think is right, what feels right

it's called life for a reason

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29 this year, thing is building a house and family is way more important than being young, naive and an ideologue, (idiot). You had more friends when you where an idiot, because there are far more idiots in this world than people who are aware, wise, and jaded. Life is what you make of it and there is always room to improve or be productive. Get a hobby and stop dwelling on the past.

today u no need to marrie a girl before 30. The right thing is what u do. save money, and think in the future.

Why'd you break up with her then?