Those are good hobbies. But they should be social hobbies. I actually reccomend airsoft all you have to be good at is running and not being a pussy about being shot. You can also make a ton of friends naturally if you just play well and aren't a tacticool douche.
And if you want to change how people view you in a social aspect then it doesn't matter what your interests are. You can have them just don't bring them up, if she brings them up fine but if she disagrees with you don't argue with her, it's pointless, it just leaves you both angry and impedes your goals.
You don't necessarily have to be polite all the time either. It could make you seem like a pushover.
To put all of it simply get a neat or interesting social hobby. Airsoft, Teams Sport, Painting, RC car racing, Motorcycling, anything that is remotely cool. And say the first thing that comes to mind in a conversation as long as you avoid RAPE. And say it with confidence.
"Hey Jen, would you like to have lunch with me this afternoon?"
"Sure, where do you want to eat?"
This is the part where you don't say, "I don't know, what do you want, you pick, what do you like?"
Simply say "Okay, how about blah blah blah on 14th Ave?"
We could all go on for hours about this shit giving you directions but you need to find some Red Pill literature. Specifically making you a more valuable sexual partner and social friend to your peers.
After that you need to actually put it in action the worst thing they can say to you is No. In which case who gives a fuck. Your mother told you no when you asked for ice cream at 8am and you cried when you were a child. Are you going to cry and hide in your own depression now that you're an adult? Or will you take action and turn yourself into a man.