I keep posting about this and few people take heed.
Men are wired to find multiple partners.
We have the potential to sire thousands of children in our lifetimes and it is an evolutionary advantage to achieve as many as possible.
Conversely women have a limited stock, as they eventually undergo menopause. Women are also burdened with pregnancy and recovery time which reduces the number, as well as menstruation times reducing it even further.
When men have sex hormones surge and the brain is incredibly receptive toward stimuli, particularly visually, meaning that the brain essentially becomes more malleable or re-writable during sex.
This is what drives us to find other mates. We plateau in terms of enjoyment when we have the same partner for a period of time, mostly when we are younger, its the same reason you no longer find softcore porn exciting, like you did as a teenager.
When a man masturbates to porn using high speed internet, he has access to millions of women, and the brain sees these as potential mates.
Overtime, the brain becomes we-written so that it finds normal sexual interaction to be boring, and most people go on to watch very perverse porn and develop extreme fetishes.
Coupled with the negative sensations of masturbating to porn, eg, searching for long periods, frustration when videos don't load or are boring, stopping and starting, isolation, becoming associated with being a third party and voyeurism, feelings of regret, the decline away from normal sexuality becomes very rapid.
Most people end up watching things that they don't identify with at all like gay porn or bestiality, things they would never do in real life and would be embarrassed to admit to.
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