Do men actually want kids?

All of my buddies secretly admit they regret doing it. My sister's husband is a miserable fucking prick after their two kids. My neighbor just had his third daughter and his drinking has become worse and worse ever since. My uncle who came to visit last Easter with his two kids whispered me to never get married and to especially never have kids.

It seems men really do not enjoy having kids like women do.

(This is a repost, the earlier one archived, but it was one of the most fascinating threads I've seen on pol and want to hear more about your opinions, threw in some new tits for the samefaggery)

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I want kids because I have to carry on my family line, it's not for fine, it's for duty.

Yea dude changing diapers and babysitting retards is fun dude!

Men love kids when they get old enough to be interesting.

Most men don't know how to properly train their wife these days, and that makes a family a double burden on the man.

>fine
fun*

I love my kids. I don't understand these fools.

She looks shit even with a ton of make up on.

This tbqhfam. Redpilled wife is absolutely key to happiness.

Dunno about others, but it's the main reason I won't get married. Kids really cut down on life opportunities.

I feel like if you don't have kids, eventually you and your wife may get sick of each other's company. My friends and family are all starting to have kids right now (mid to late 20s), while my wife and I have no interest in it, and we're getting bored more often.

The problem we're finding is that more and more we don't have other couples or friends to do things with. Nobody wants to go camping or hiking anymore, they can't afford to come kayaking and canoeing, or on a motorcycle trip with us -- all the things we're used to doing. Instead, our friends are spending all their time on their kids (as they should be).

So my wife and I do all these fun things on our own. We just got back from a long backpacking trip, for example. But how long will this keep the two of us entertained?

I'm starting to feel like you need to raise a family with your partner in order to make the relationship last. Once you are raising children, you have a common goal to work towards with your wife, and you always have other people to spend time with.

I'm not sure what to do. I'm 26, and have never wanted children. I still don't. But I'm getting bored. I love my wife, but I think we need more social interaction that isn't just the two of us. And if I'm going to ever have kids, I need to do it now. I don't want to wait too long causing a huge age gap between myself and my children.

Anyone else feel this way?

dont have kids if you are a kike, animal, or a leftist
kids are too much work. There are more important things to do like send angry emails to the man and fight for womyns rights!

This. Though also for creating more versions of myself. If cloning were an option, i'd just do that.

It becomes great once they are seven or eight.

Men want kids.
Boys don't.

Do your life and have kids at 35

kids are great, saged 1 post from this ID

>look at thumbnail
That looks like a decent looking woman
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Jesus fuggin Christ.

Find your wife a nice bull. That will keep both of you entertained.

>Do men actually want kids?

No

I like kids. Little kids. Boy, girl, it don't matter.

>That pic
Fucking gross
East Asians are supreme

Not having kids.

Can't find work and, when I do, I probably won't like it. And I'm not going to piss away my free time to reproduce.

Regardless I'm unfit to have children.

What's wrong with little kids?

If you had a kid that came out as gay or trap would you regret having kids? The current state of the state (common core, sexual liberation, patriarchy, etc) is a recipe for disaster for raising children. Nevermind the hell you could face in divorce court.

All of my friends that have kids bitch about it, but they actually like it. It's called venting, autismo.

I bitch about my job, but I don't regret taking it.

>kid that came out as gay or trap
I'd say you have failed as parent.

fatherhood is the biggest regret of my life

What the frick did you just freaking say about Mormons, you little bully? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at BYU, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret religious rituals, and I have over 300 confirmed molestations. I am trained in selling essential oils and I’m the top leader in my ward. You are nothing to me but just another devil worshipper. I will wipe you the frick out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my frickin words. You think you can get away with saying that shiz to me over the Internet? Think again, freaker. As we speak I am contacting my bishop of my ward of the LDS and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re freaking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over sixty-nine ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in selling essential oils, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the LDS church and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable rear-end off the face of the continent, you little shiz. If only you could have known what holy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your frickin tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you darn idiot. I will shiz fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re frckin dead, kiddo

Trap I'd regret. Gay I wouldn't like, but could work with. I hate butchism and effeminate flammers though. I'd wish he was a masculine or she a feminine gay.

Explain?

My wife's son has enriched my life so yes

Yes, but I want kids with a woman I wouldn't be ashamed to tell the kids "That is your mom". Just imaging what whores do now I just don't think I could do it.

Nothing, it's just when they are a little bit older they comprehend a little better.

Anyone here with kids ever suckle their wives? How's that experience?

>Do men actually want kids?
i do, i just don't want to raise them.
>inb4 Tyron

Too sweet, like melted ice cream.

I live above the apartment pool and want to murder all these screaming kids and their single whore mothers. That being said, no, I do not want kids.

>T. Swinger

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MAYBE YOU SHOULD STOP RAISING YOUR KID LIKE A BABY BACK BITCH.

Two kids, here. They're terrific, no complaints. Sure, there's lots of effort involved, but that's true of most anything worthwhile. Not suggesting you should all go out and have kids, of course. Just happy with my own situation.

You might not like kids, but you will like yours. The best time of my life was holding my kid and him looking into my eyes hours after he was born. It was magical.

I actually think MFF polyamory is the best system for kids. They have a sibling the exact same age, the women share work load and have a companion at home. Man can concentrate on work and then come home to a threesome.

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HEY OP YOUR FRIENDS STILL RAISING THEIR KIDS LIKE BITCH? MAYBE THEY SHOULD TEACH KIDS TO GROW UP AND BE TRUE MURRICANS.

I didn't get that instant connection with my first. He grew on me over the following weeks, though.

Kids make lustful degenerate relationships worse, but strengthen loving, pure relationships.

My wife is 22 and I'm 25. We married two years ago after being together for 3. We bought a house last year and had our first child and now have another on the way now. Never been happier, more fulfilled, or exhausted.

We have less sex and we're always tired - she's at home, pregnant and looking after my baby and I work about 70hrs a week. I haven't been able to drink beers and watch sport in over a year, let alone play video games. My one social activity is making time to go to the gym 3 times a week with my best bud. There is nothing more satisfying than knowing that all of your pain, hardship and sacrifice has a meaning.

Yes but still, the women will be catty with each other. Watch the show big love.

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THAT FEEL WHEN YOUR KID IS BASED REPUBLICAN BADASS AND CAN PROTECT YOUR SHIT WHILE YOUR AWAY AT WORK.

yes.

my dirty whore of a friend is a single mother.

her daughter is awesome. she's really cute and it's fun to teach her about things like dinosaurs and build Legos and shit.

>women's completedisinterest in me is actually an advantage
nice

Ya I bet that's all you're teaching her.

You guys are fools to have wives, just get a host woman to carry your child. Soon the technology will come out to where we can literally breed test tube babies in artificial wombs. Women are proving their uselessness every single day with feminism and open borders shit. Day of the rope soon?

Well, try again if you can.

Whitey going extinct. Mhhm.

t. Chaim Goldblumblatt

I live and work in NYC. Only people who have kids here are immigrants who have real families here are immigrants. A white liberal couple may have one child, spoil them, send them to private schools where they become sjws.

It's the norm to meet liberals in their 40s and 50s here with no children. Super common. On the other hand, in my hometown in Missouri, it's largely Republican and everyone has kids.

Makes me happy knowing conservatives are outbreeding white leftist rats.

It's only torture if you suck as a parent. Your children are a reflection of you.

t. Best Dad Ever

I've thought about having kids, but I've had such utterly shit fathers in my own life that I don't even know if I would even make a half decent one. I think I only dated one girl that gave me that "I want to make babies with you" feeling

There's also the whole overpopulation issue to consider

Look up the podcast called "Fatherland", it's about being a Sup Forums Dad. It is on Google Play. I like it. The subject is being a Shitlord Dad.

I'm black you pygmies groid

Again, flavour is pretty bad.

What is more fun is doing some fucking, grabbing those big milky titties and squeezing them so bits of milk start dripping, squinting out. It's pretty hot.

Well I think more than two women is a problem. Also in Big Love, the man is soley in charge of adding another wife.

In pic related the two women were lesbian loves and then brought in a man. I think that's a good scenario.

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confirmation bias, you aren't talking to the dads who say ''seeing him be like me is amazing''.

It's not some Jewish conspiracy, I'm white and everyone I've described in OP is white, I'm 27 and just find it fascinating how every woman is happy as a fucking clam with their kids while the man is a miserable sack of shit. I live in the middle of nowhere of Texas in a lower middle class area, so that may be a factor, but take my sister for example: Her husband confessed this to me in private "I totally see how men just leave it all behind and drive off into the sunset and never see their wives or kids again" and the next day, my sister was talking about how she wanted a third kid.

Based on a little research, I can say it has to do with the fact sex and procreation are two entirely different things. Women change neurochemically, mentally, and physically after birthing children, men don't. This is because men want sex and women want procreation, this is how we've evolved over the centuries. Men are meant to make children, women are meant to raise them, and when men are forced into something which is entirely against their nature, they become bitter and resentful.

A woman's blood flow and mental state will alter just by hearing her child cry, encouraging her to cuddle and nurse it. This is within their biological nature. Men don't have this. We're meant to make them, not raise them which is what I think leads to such misery among modern, married men. Yes, teaching them how to survive on their own is a man's job, but for the first few years? That's the mother's job.

Right, I want my kid to be better than me.

it's very easy: when my first kid was born, within 2 weeks I was thinking that I just threw my life away. the switch from a selfish, carefree life to a life where your partner and your child are very dependent and demanding of your time, nerves and money is the toughest bitch I ever encountered. not years of thinking or talking with every single person on earth about every pro and contra of having kids will ever prepare you for that challenge.

the chellenge: put someone else before your own needs and wishes. generation 2000+ will shatter on this task. people are selfish pricks, they care about their looks and likes on facebook and this way of thinking, forced onto the western white culture is the no1 reason why traditional backwater cultures are outbreeding us in our own countries.

We are all programmed with instincts by "God" to want to have sex, catch feelings for the person we had sex with, have children as a result thereof. Next is the warm fuzzy, feeling you get when having a child. "I'll do anything, I'd kill for my child. My child is the best child in the world". It's all programming senpai. The more you realize it the more advanced you are. I'm not saying it's all bad but it's only good because of the way we are wired.

Then a few years later an ungreatful teen that looks at you like your a problem after you sacrificed your life for them.

Yes. Of course people will gripe about having kids, it's not meant to be an easy task. Despite the link media telling people we've never been in a better age to raise kids there are still thousands of milestones you have to pass to become a parent. It's a responsibility that is taxing, but if you love your country having kids is the only option.

Stop broadcasting your opinion that your race is better than others, you finnish fuck.

I'd like to say that I want children, but the problem is that I don't want to provide another shitty iteration of a shitty experience for them.

I'd make a great dad. I'd die for my kid/s like I'd die for my younger sibling. But I'm not rich, nor do I have insurance or even a permanent job, which means having a kid would be irresponsible and stupid; I could do better for them. And I refuse to have a child with some random, ditzy, easy normie fuck who'd bank off of the benefits. Fuck that, I'd rather spread my awful genetics through someone who'll actually do the same (and hopefully cancel out some of the shit genes I inherited while helping express the better set)..

Essentially the sentiments of , especially because I've seen what people can be across the board.

>some people are still selfish pricks, some still only care about their looks, instant gratification, echo chambers, and fail to learn some good life skills,
FTFY, even though I'm unsure of what you mean by
>generation 2000+

Maybe what's going on now is part of natures plan. The world has become over populated.

So how do you feel now?

I want kids. The problem is females, who start to leech, hiding behind kids, while doing nothing for the kids, leaving them to TV or enforcing public school "education" on them.

only betas dont want kids

>b but this alpha guy i know doesnt want kids
hes not alpha

not wanting kids is the definition of beta

look at Bernie... he raised 3 kids that werent his, and has none of his own.... beta

Got to pass down the genes and hopefully the family name eventually.

They usually come around in the twenties or thirties. Then they understand.

Guys this was already posted this morning. Don't take the bait Sup Forums

TFW I want to have daughters so when they're teenagers I'll finally get the experience of having a teen girl love me.

Yes, I want a lot of white kids with a wife who isn't a complete whore. A white wife who doesn't want to fuck niggers, waste her prime time in college or at work. A nice white German wife who isn't a completely useless piece of shit watching TV all day.

JUST FUCKING STAY AT HOME, COOK AND CLEAN. THAT'S ALL IT TAKES FOR YOU TO LIVE. IT IS THE EASIEST THING IN THE WHOLE HISTORY OF LIFE ITSELF. NO OTHER ORGANISM WAS CODDLED AS MUCH AS WHITE FEMALES, YET THEY DECIDE TO FUCK IT UP.


FUCK

That girl is such a piece of shit attention whore.

She's one of these self proclaimed Feminist SJW and she tried to rip off Katya Lischina's popularity. She's also very, very dumb.

She's known for being self loathing and constantly stuck into immature drama with other people. She's a fucking prick best forgotten.

Do you seriously like her? She's a known idiot.

He has one son that's his. Note that kid is never on the trail with his dad like Trump's kids are.

>hey goys, don't bother reproducing. You'll regret it, I swear.

I just want to spread my genes.

>teen girl
>loving her father

Men don't want kids because the benefits are outweighed by the losses and sacrifices.

What are you programmed to do by God and what are you programmed to do by (((daemons)))?

All this alpha-beta ethology shit is retarded.
Human does not have FAP, you can educate a human to do whatever he is physically capable of. To cut his dick, to cut out her breasts, to die for deceased socialist hitler. Anything.

Stop spreading this aplha-beta (((memes))).

You can't read

>(This is a repost, the earlier one archived, but it was one of the most fascinating threads I've seen on pol and want to hear more about your opinions, threw in some new tits for the samefaggery)

Refer to this post: Summer's fucking annoying.

sure.

but not with the women of today.

Listen to the "Fatherland" podcast. It is great, pure Sup Forums. Awesome.

shit you are right

>Levi Sanders is married to Raine Riggs, a clinical psychologist. They have three young children, all adopted from China.
JUST

Bernies lineage is done

Do I want kids? Absolutely. Do I think there's a chance of me ever having children? No.

>Germsn girl
>Not a whore

Which one will it be, Klauss?

You gonna fuck em too? Seems that's what your leaning towards.

As did I.

>it's all women, not me!!!

I bet you wonder why you can't find anyone with that shitpost attitude.

What do you have to offer your prospective mate? Wealth? Stable income? Physical strength? Physical beauty? Material goods? An appreciated skillset? Stellar social skills?

Protip: spending all your time "socializing" online is pretty much guaranteeing you will not find a woman, let alone a good one. And becoming prematurely bitter and adopting a sour grapes Sup Forums mentality towards women is just going to make you even more of a failure.

At least you have your complex defense mechanism to fall back on and comfort you... don't worry, you are smarter and better than everyone else, they are all jealous lol

>tfw i had my kids early, and now enjoying life at 35 whilst my friends are old and looking haggered and suffering with newborns.

It's a paradox for most men.

I love my kids infinity...literally.

But fuck all do I hate being married...but if I wouldn't have gotten married, I wouldn't have my kids...

I think most guys hate their wives to a degree and hate being married more...but also love their kids and WANT their kids growing up in a married family.

-If you could go back marry someone else and have kids would you?

NO...because they wouldn't be MY kids.

It's...hard to explain.

I think the problem with you though is that you also fuck children so it's probably better if you aren't anywhere near kids.

Haven't really decided yet and I'm in my early 30s and married. Wife is still mid 20s and doing a PhD and has indicated she's not really decided either.

Might end up having kids or might end up using the money to just have a comfy life seeing the world and doing what we want rather than having to become "settled".

Most parents I know will swear up and down that it's the greatest thing ever but the briefest perusal of their social media shows enough "great day out!" and "so proud of little jimmy/jenny" posts but also no shortage of meme-y "let me tell you why parenting is so tough/hard/crap/boring/soul-destroying" and how they can't afford to do fuck all any more because their kids take all their money, energy and willpower.

>2016
>not impregnating various 10/10 girls to carry on your surname, then leaving them to safely raise your offspring whilst you go and enjoy life

damn you fucking betas