Nobody can seem to give me some type of advice

Nobody can seem to give me some type of advice

>I'm turning 30 soon
>Make roughly six figures and govt takes a big chunk
>Moved half way across the country for my career
>Ended up becoming successful and finally finding happiness
>After a few years of having a lot of money you see that I'm still alone
>I have nothing but a career
>I'm a workaholic
>I work a lot, and have dedicated my life to a career
>I just want a gf, or a friend again
>But these days I find reasons for not making friends
>I have no idea what to do anymore
>The nightly /kino/ nights aren't helping either
>Just cant take my mind off of being alone anymore

In Japan people like me are called salary men. These are men who spend their whole life working for a company

Practice making online friends, then make real life friends

Be wary of "buy me things" """friends"""

I'll be your friend, if you tell me your employment occupation.

gimme your bank account details I will fix everything to you mah email is

[email protected].

Thanka u in advance.

IT engineer

order a russian trap online

Your unconcious seemas to be signaling you want to move to the Netherlands. Give it all up, cash out your assets and start a new life.

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If you buy me a ps4 i will be your friend forever.

Ping me your digits


I'll send you mine....

I'm afraid to put my personal info on Sup Forums, how would I get around this?

Temp email

OP, you like tanks?

I'm autistic in the IT field

Frankly, I like everything from vehicles to technology

I have just never spent time building relationships with people. I'm in a high up role btw and people look up to me, but they don't know about my isssues

I've been called a prodigy since I was young, but people just didn't understand I was autistic

I have been told to go seek therapy......

I have to be honest, I might talk to you for one day but I am a very cold person. I'm not capable of making friends, just socialize normal but no friends and everyone who meets me understand

Yes, but do you LIKE tanks? Could you hold a conversation about tanks? Would you be willing to play a shitty game if it was tank based?

Same, I hate talking to people

You misunderstand, I like people I can't make friends..

I even talk to people who are strangers when I am in a good mood...

Hit the gym

You like anime, op?

No, I'm a different type of nerd..

did someone say aquafresh?
i say go traveling
talk to people
if you meet me i'll buy you a coffee
we'll have conversations about trivial stuff
then you go to your next destination and something similar will happen
just don't go to tourist traps

>dit is wat normaaltjes denken

Was meant for

Well I tried

so a beer for you then?

Therapy may not be bad idea, to talk through how you got this isolated. It's odd for this to happen even with an autist.

Get off here and meet people outside work so you can fail in low stakes places. Making friends is just common interests and progressively sharing more. Your biggest risk will be over sharing or over thinking things.

Good luck

Make friends at work

Go out to the bar with co-workers and talk shop. It's a start.

What state?

Colorado...

Ebin, we'll have to tell stories and shoot the shit at my favorite bar if you get the chance, I got a few friends here in Salt Lake, so it'll be a good time