How do I stop being gay? Is there something in the water or air that makes you gay? I can't remember the last time I've been attracted to a woman. I was dating a woman a few months back and eventually dumped her just out of sexual disinterest. That being said despite how much of a raging homosexual I am I've never gone all the way with a man because I'm ashamed of my degenerate sexuality.
How do I fix myself? Suicide or leaving Canada is off the table.
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Just embrace the gay, but don't be a promiscuous faggot
Become a woman
There is literally nothing wrong with being a respecful, normal gay.
Be gay, love your man, but don't act like a flaming annoying faggot, just as nobody wants to see a straight couple acting like fucking faggots.
You can still be happy, man. I want you to be happy.
Just let the faggotness in. You only get one life to enjoy, don't waste it trying not to be a faggot when all it does is just change what gender you fuck
>How do I stop being gay?
Can't really choose what you're attracted to, but you can choose whether to act on it.
>Is there something in the water or air that makes you gay?
No you fucking retard. Even straight up estrogen doesn't do that.
> I can't remember the last time I've been attracted to a woman. I was dating a woman a few months back and eventually dumped her just out of sexual disinterest. That being said despite how much of a raging homosexual I am I've never gone all the way with a man because I'm ashamed of my degenerate sexuality.
Sounds to me like your real issue is an underlying problem with depression or an anxiety syndrome desu senpai
Pray the gay away. The Bible says no homosex allowed.
all gays are promiscuous faggots
no pls, I don't want to be a woman, I'm very happy being a man. I just wish I wasn't a gay.
I've always found the "gay subculture" to be disgusting. I sometimes try to imagine what living a gay life would be like, it just seems so wrong. I've always considered myself a normal, conservative person so my sexuality has always been a source of frustration.
maybe, but I feel like my homoness is the source of anxiety
conversion therapy
You should see a therapist.
But realize your sewuality isn't going to change. You can only be more comfortable with it.
You've got one life to live. Avoid the gay subculture (It's cancer, I've seen it), and you can live a quiet, relatively "normal life" if you wish. Lots of gays like the idea of a straight-acting, masculine man. You could be that, user.
Stop looking at trap and gay porn online, and start looking at bewbbs and vagina again.
Sexualty and fetishs can be easily created or changed by seeing too much porn, doesn't mean you are gay, just easily brainwashed.
You could take a normal person, show them horse cunt for a month and at the end they will be jacking it to mlp, people are easily molded.
Psychologist here (psychoanalyst). For Freud there is no cure, since its not a sickness. He does not belive you are born gay for freud everyone is born bisexual and the path makes you what you are. there is so much small variables to blame that there is no point of blaming anything. You have room to deal with it. Embrace it, turn the urge into art(sublimation), just dont try to stop the desire. It will just fuck your life for good.
>maybe, but I feel like my homoness is the source of anxiety
Low levels of sex hormones can cause mood issues yes. But you shouldn't "feel" anything about your biochemistry because that's what hippies and women do, you should see a fucking doctor you gay retard
what are ya, fuckin' gay?
idk how true this is man. I think sexuality is just hardwired. I remember being turned on by other guys right when puberty hit around high school, and even though I dated girls and even had sex with some, at the end of the day I think I've always been primarily attracted to men. I will try to fap to hetero porn and eventually give up and fap to the gay stuff. It's been this way for years. I find I am pretty much immune to female charms, I'm only charmed by women who share a lot of my points of views (which is to say, few).
I agree the gay subculture is really disgusting. I've always been a "straight acting" man, even when I tell my friends I am gay sometimes they don't believe me.
turn it into art? what does that mean exactly?
the truth is I haven't had sex in too long, and the last time was with a woman. I really don't feel comfortable with my sexuality at all, let alone talking to a doctor about it.
90% of therapists will just prescribe you take a daily dose of vitamin cawk, either orally or as a supposatory. Its an awful expensive way to spend a couple hours a week, just to have someone tell you it's OK to be a faggot.
Many people find therapy to be really useful. I was saying he should go for his depression and anxiety issues, especially if they relate to his struggling sexuality.
desu therapists don't care really what you do, so long as you feel happy and comfortable doing it (obviously barring things like suicide, murder etc).
I have a lot of respect for them.
>I really don't feel comfortable with my sexuality at all, let alone talking to a doctor about it.
"doctor shekelberg, I have problems with anxiety and low libido."
Start with that, then you can try to pray the gay away or whatever once you're physically healthy.
am I really unhealthy? it feels strange to admit I have a low libido, but I guess it must be true. I'm 24 and yet I've barely had any sex my entire life, thinking about sex in general just makes me feel upset. And it's always been with women, and yet after all this time I can't even put my finger on whether or not I'm really attracted to them. I wish I could just stop feeling lonely.
to be honest I've had multiple therapists tell me I should just start dating men. I've just always been too afraid to do it.
>canadian theorapists encourage Sodomy
how horrorifyng
i agree with this. exercise and eat right first. make a strict routine out of it. and if you're One Of Those take some supplements or herbal shit to stave off depression/anxiety. you might be surprised how gay you aren't; maybe you're just fucking up your body with mtn dew or something.
but if that all changes nothing then see a (((therapist))) and go back to Casual Mode eating and exercise, cause you prolly are gay but just need some meds.
Yes that's the problem with therapists, they basically just tell you to "do what makes you happy" Facebook and email spam does the same thing for free. Its almost impossible to find a truthful therapist who will tell you to get your ahit together, which is what most people need.
I used to see a therapist, and he did a good job for the first six months talking me of the suicidal ledge. But once I got "normal" it became weekly chat sessions of him reaffirming what I was already doing. Which is their norm apparently. They are great for talking down jumpers, but 90% of their business is telling white middle aged housewives "yeah that's a good idea, you should make a plan to do that"
look into dietary and environmental sources of xenoestrogens, start lifting weights, and get your serum testosterone checked. If you have done all this and you still prefer the pestle to the mortar then accept your gayness and be happy that you will be revered more than heteros in large Canadian cities (until the NWO culls all the faggots along with everyone else)
You should get your testosterone levels checked before you do something you will later great, like ass spelunking.
Lots of guys your age have low T,
>Therapist
>Meds
Top lel
I don't think that's the problem. Every time I see a doctor I generally get the same results, "You're physical health is fantastic, but I'm really concerned about your mental health." So it goes. I pretty much eat full meals, exercise regularly and such.
>serum testosterone checked
maybe this will help, I don't know. I do like lifting weights at least.
I don't want to be revered for being gay, I want to be respected for being a decent person.
I have heard of this myself, like my generation has been over exposed to the xenoestrogens that guy was talking about. I really don't feel like I'm enjoying my youth the way I'm supposed to be.
What is your height and weight OP, overweight, and a bad diet is a recipe for jacked up hormones.
>is there something in the water or air that makes you gay?
Close... The drug "ecstasy" turns you gay.
5'8" 165lbs. I've always been pretty skinny (parents have insane metabolism), only in recent years I've started putting on muscle mass.
Have you ever had a girlfriend? A woman that you loved? Sex means nothing without love.
I guess casual girlfriend but I can't say I've ever been "in love" with anyone. To me girlfriend/boyfriend is just someone you fuck.
For any usfags that want to do this, there are companies that allow you to order lab tests directly without doing to a doctor. In getting my test checked today, shit's only costing me 29 bucks.
You should definitely find a woman that you fall in love with her. When you are in love sex doesn't matter at all, you just want to stay with that person.
100 years ago, gays married women and they could live happily, because they fell in love with that person.
The only option for you is suicide, unless you want to commit an abomination against almighty God.
whenever I think about dicks, I always hope Jesus forgives me.
It's easy.
Watch gay porn and every time you get aroused, flick your self on the nuts until it hurts.
Masturbate to straight porn. Every time you focus on the guy, pinch the head of your dick so it hurts.
Very few women seem worth dating though, don't you think? I mean, when you take a woman's looks out of the equation, what do most of them really have to offer you? Most women seem to simply expect you to provide everything, be able to deal with any of their problems, dependent on you for entertainment. They basically always need you to be in the driver's seat, that's how it feels with women. Even sex with women mostly equates to them lying there waiting for you to do the work. The truth is if two men could make the baby I have absolutely zero doubt that the human race as a species would be better today than it is now. It's an anthropological fact that 2/3 of all women who lived reproduced, while only 1/3 of men did. This is because women would rather fight among themselves for 1/3 (or a lower fraction) of men than give the other 2/3 a chance.
I think being a gay man offers you a rare perspective, you aren't trapped in the perspective of being a woman and living in the reality where people readily offer you steps ahead in life based on your sexuality (if there's one thing my mother has taught me, it's that a woman who doesn't take advantage of her sexuality is, quite simply, stupid). At the same time, you're not trapped by the blindness of a heterosexual man who fails to see how disadvantageous dealing with women is to his day to day life. I'm not saying I think everyone should be gay, but the fact is that's how our species operates. I really don't know if I could ever come to love a woman, I find them so void of empathy I doubt I could ever come to "love" a woman who wasn't say, my own mother, aunt, cousin or sister. Call me a misogynist, but I've rarely ever formed friendships with women like that. Even with men I feel no attraction to at all I've felt closer kinship with.
This sort of Pavlovian conditioning sounds like it might work, but I don't like the idea of purposely injuring my own dick.
the bible is for cucks
therapists normally just tell you to 'do whatever makes you happy' then charge a shit ton for useless advice.
think of it the same way a straight person would if they become a monk
just reject ALL sexuality and become fully celibate.
I believe the reason for the "gay people are smarter" Statistic is because they're not tempted by women, and have potential to be celibate sages and accomplish so much more and faggotry is how the devil tempts them away from their real gift
don't.
This will make it worse by fixating on sex at all.
Instead, reject ALL sexual thoughts completely, and realize what you face is no different than a straight man who wants to become celibate.
just stop fapping entirely, and stop thinking of yourself as gay or sexual at all.
Think of yourself as celibate and asexual for the rest of your life and use the power of semen retention. Don't even marry or think about it, you can be better this way
Real answer
It's pretty much biological or environmental, we can't study it more so we don't know how much of each or how many in each category if they are separate.
However, Master's and Johnson ran a study on foot fetishes that has some possible insights.
They hypothesized that all or most sexual preferences were learned through association, including fetishes. Feet, not directly being involved in sex, must be one such learned fetish.
So they took guys that only liked normal solo girl porn, and validated this with devices that could measure arousal of an erection and they were to come into the study periodically to masturbate to a defined picture set.
For a group of them they slowly made the porn more about legs and whole body and then showing feet, then including ones that had closeups of feet and so on.
By the end of the study, everyone in the treatment category had developed a foot fetish. Most thought they just liked feet and denied the study having such an impact despite foot fetishes being rare at the time.
One guy even got to the point where he masturbated exclusively to photographs only containing a shoe. Despite being told why this happened and how to undo it, he said he just liked shoes.
Science can create a shoesexual.
It stands to reason that if you are really into gay porn, then start going backwards to bi, orgy, or pegging porn until you can jack it to girls. It's possibly all learned associations.
I think this theory also explains the massive rise in trap porn. Couples porn and blow jobs were very common porn types, people started associating dicks with orgasm and feminine features. Traps are the embodiment of that.
Healthy heterosexuals should stick to solo girl or lesbian porn as to not create any degenerate attractions.
sometimes I look at Tim Cook and wonder if this is true.
Become a trap
i would say this is true but even when I was very young there were just so many times I did "gay things" that upset my parents. like kissing male friends, rubbing a friend's genitals, even from a young age I had a predilection towards boys who were older and more dominant than me. that's continued well into adulthood.
You're right. Embrace your destiny.
Look at people like Evola.
He was most likely a celibate "gay"
I believe people who could otherwise be faggots who overcome sex entirely produce some of the world's greatest thinkers
You don't. I think gay culture is fucking disgusting but there are advantages to liking boys. Women are horrible creatures. Be glad you don't have to deal with them. Find yourself a nice guy, love him and be happy. Just because you're into dudes doesn't mean you have to subscribe to shit like pride parades and wearing strap-ons in public just to be edgy.
that's why you can overcome that and like neither.
A lot of faggots become that way because modern culture pressures sex and "Sexual release" and shuns celibates
I mean if you have the willpower to become a celibate, all the power to you.
You need to analyze why people think homosexuality is degenerate, and do your best to compensate for these issues. For example ditching the faggy lifestyle that makes everyone hate the gays and living a normal life (even if it's with another guy), trying to find some way to contribute to raising kids (I know gay adoption is also looked down on but it's a grey area in my opinion), or just dedicating your life to doing something of incredible benefit for society or the right wing.
Or also "traps" as some other user said kek.
What part of Canada do you live in user?
Take a look at your diet. Are you getting enough zinc? Cholesterol? Cholesterol is the starting material for testosterone production. You also need active vitamin A. This isn't the kind found in vegetables. It's in butter, cream, and liver.
Is this degenerate behavior Sup Forums?
start at @11:25
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Stop watching anime.
Stop reading doujins and hentai.
Watch 3DPD.
You'll readjust.
If you're a straightup faggot that's too bad but if you're a brainwashed autogynephilic faggot dropping porn would cure it.
>implying porn with dude's dicks in it is any less gay
the answer is to quit all porn of any kind. Reminder that "3d" porn is still 2d, you are still staring at a screen and not a real person
you realistically need to undertake a spirit vision quest and get your head sorted out, by yourself. Find someone who can get you on a DMT trip and that should clear your head right up. You are in dire need of a psychadelic experience.
You shouldn't listen to these guys telling you to repress your sexuality.. They are all fat losers that are celibate by choice, just not their choice.
Seeing as you've admitted to being submissive there are two roads you can take. 1: Find a guy older/bigger than you to date. Or 2: find a guy younger and smaller to date so you can live bi-curiously through him.
The great thing about being a man is that as you age you get sexier to the young boys, that means even as you get older you can always hook up or date a young guy. If it's the anxiety you're worried about you can do it completely anonymous. Once you fuck a cute boy you'll be sexually liberated in no time :)
And once that anxiety goes away you'll be happier to have boy candy hanging off your arm and the looks you'll get from people will be jealousy not disgust.
Question; how much porn do you watch? Fap?
Every time you ejaculate your body releases estrogen and prolactin into your bloodstream. As a caveman, this would help you avoid literally fucking cave women to death.
As a nu-male, this makes you gay/less masculine.
Just ask the /fit/, not jacking off raises your testosterone levels and helps you gain muscle mass much faster than without.
>3DPD
lol, i had to google that
kill yourself, oxygene waster
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>this would help you avoid literally fucking cave women to death
Source?
Also yes, faggotry is an illness, and it was only removed due to political reasons.
I don't really watch porn as much as I masturbate myself. I would say I masturbate 2 times a day max, but I rarely go a day without doing it.
>anime
I don't watch anime or anything like that, this thread is about being gay. weird you would think anime changes that.
I don't really like effeminate men. I also dislike the idea of being effeminate myself, the gay subculture seems to focus on emasculating gay men. This is disgusting: whether a top, bottom or versatile a man should be masculine and proud to be a man. Being gay should simply be about being a man who likes men, not about being a massive faggot. That's why I'm glad to hear so many more gay people buying guns. I'd rather date a manly stud who knows how to use a gun and votes Conservative.
>They are all fat losers that are celibate by choice, just not their choice.
Lol, nice projections
OP do you feel attracted to men or did you just lost your libido so you "conclude" you are gay?
I know this is a traditional troll thread in Sup Forums, but if its the second you may just be stressed out of your mind
2 times a day?? that's way too much.
Try going 2 weeks without fapping or watching porn, see what happens.
Malvinas?
Also releasing once a day is excessive. Fapping or even having sex too often leads to weakness, loss of masculinity, etc. It's a natural reality, related to survival and reproduction before the modern age.
If at all possible, spend some time the wilderness or some place with lots of nature that is isolated. That generally puts things in perspective and separates you from the oversexed society we live in.
THIS THIS THIS
this. really even more so than porn, it's abstaining from the Internet and technology as a whole that's the real redpill.
hell I almost fully quit porn and fap once a week at most but I'm still addicted to Sup Forums and Internet
Damn dude there's your fucking problem. Just go for a week without, see what happens.
You can't. You have something called the xq28 gene. Straights can occasionally diddle the odd peen but they rarely become exclusive with anything. Besides. We're not the tiny minority we used to be. There is NO Biblical argument to hate yourself for this and fuck any people in this nation who can't deal with you. They are just Mateens
it's more like I try to be attracted to women but I always find myself going back to men.
I'm really skeptical of this. The article says most men age 18 have a period of 15 minutes, for men in their 70s it's more like 20 hours cause they're so old. I'm only 24 and healthy, masturbating or having sex multiple times shouldn't be a health problem.
I mean it's your life, but what's to lose by not spanking the monkey for a few days?
I did that. Didn't work. Take the holy grail of cum. Is beddur
Just try it ffs, it's not like your balls will explode or anything. Anyway, it's your life I guess.
You should be concerned by this OP.
It's a recipe of natural supplements to make you enjoy better sessions. What do you mean? Besides. If you don't cum you get ball cancer
This is true but you have to make sure to go for real women or imagination of women only if you ever do cave and cum after a few weeks or months. Otherwise you'll get conditioned even further into degeneracy because of the intensity of the new orgasm
Why don't you do that but in reverse? You're simply wrong
The orgasms are the same. The appeal of homosexuality is how fucking easy it is to get laid. Why do you think aids spread so fast in their community?
>clearly has immersed himself in faggot things going by all this shitty gay fanart
>why am i teh gay
You are mentally ill, but I believe it was mostly your own fault
No they're not. And blacks? What about Charlie Sheen? The appeal is the appeal because it's there. Don't be a whore. Use protection. Do other activities. Zika? Super gonorrhoea? We supposed to all become monks? I been a moderare fag for about 15 years. Perfect health
Gay culture usually manifests itself in such a way that one man is emasculated. It is like this because gay men try to conform to gender stereotypes. One man (the bottom) gives himself up to the the top, such a relinquish of control is considered in it of itself emasculating as you are basically saying "I am the woman in this situation"
But you should keep in mind that allowing a man to have sex with you does not make you any less of a man. In fact it can be argued that because you know what you want and are not afraid to get it that you are more manly than say... A man who knows what he wants but is too afraid to get it. It might be the porn you're watching that makes you think you need to be effeminate to take the D, try watching bear porn.... Doesn't get more manly than that.
If you're worried about being viewed as less of a man in public carry a gun, idk where you live but if your state is open carry that's the best way to feel manly. Maybe grown a beard. There's literally millions of ways to make your outward appearance more manly. And people looking at you and your bf will think you're just friends.
Sorry, but you'd have to leave canada, it produces a radiation field of gay so strong that it makes it's citizens gay until they leave for more conservative areas of the world, like Stephen Crowder for instance.
Accept yourself. Act like a normal person, don't go screaming with a skirt or something like that and enjoy your sexuality.
There's nothing wrong with fucking mans if you are a redpilled, reasonable person. Literally nothing, it's like another fetiche.
You're a fucking retard. Read ALL the replies in here. How are YOU not mentally ill? Mateen was mentally well? Where is your education? Psychiatry is a pseudo science. We find you gross literal mother fuckers too so don't get on the high horse of myths too quickly. Until these correlations are found with every single case then you don't have a point. So many straights act like halves of fags ince they get shitfaced anyways
2 times a day too much?
pfft, I do 7-8 times a day.
Not to porn, just imagination.
Cholesterol is synthesized by the body. Vitamin A is also synthesized from beta carotene, which is plentiful. Deficiency of vitamin A is extremely rare and mostly occurs in anorexic people or the seriously malnourished.
>How do I stop being gay?
Start fucking women and stop sucking cock and allowing men to stick their dicks up your pooper.
Simple enough. Being gay is a choice, you just need to choose not to be a faggot.
Like traps instead
Stop being a brown Hue and do it now
Calm down faggot, maybe if you weren't such a little bitch and didn't spend so much time looking at shitty fanart instead of making friends you wouldn't be this way
Hilarious your doublethink is too
>c-citation needed p-psuedoscience
>S-so many straights act like halves of fags ince they get shitfaced anyways
[citation needed] you worthless genetic dead end. Shuffle off into the night
Same goes for all of you queer apologists. What the fuck are you redditors doing on Sup Forums? Get the fuck out before I knock you out
How do you stop any addiction?
You're going to struggle with it the rest of your life. Whether you see that is merely a challenge to be overcome, or a condition of which you are condemned to be the victim is up to you.
God bless.
this
you have to see all sexual attraction as the addiction, instead of focusing on the gay part
celibacy is the answer, if you're truly not attracted to women you have a godly life ahead of you. If not you can get married
Speak for yourself. I'm not even the same user you accused of shitty porn viewing. Like you? I don't care about your niggers' views. If you were my friend you'd ask for a blowjob like they all do. If you wanna talk about having no friends. And i'd laugh at you because you're fat and ugly
This OP. If it's possible for you to kiss a girl and get an erection and fuck then just keep doing it.
If you're gay you probably have female friends. Tell them you aren't sure if you're gay and they'll probably drop panties and try to fuck you to help you
But the Bible says in many places how dangerous and retarded women are or to even touch them
Bad idea honestly for someone who has said they aren't attracted to women.
"testing" sexuality is the WORST way to deal with it, it's best to work on overcoming lust entirely and become celibate/asexual instead of straight. Then maybe after a long period of resetting, one may find themselves attracted to women, or may be able to be content celibate for life.