okay user, since you seem okay.
personally i love it, and think it's a hell of a lot better than drinking. i'm going to speak from personal experience for a second: i don't black out from weed, i don't make stupid decisions on weed, my motor functions are impaired by weed (at least the amount i do).
the thing with weed, however, is that it can be VERY different for different people. with alcohol you have basically 4 groups: those who don't drink, those that drink a little, those that are starting to drink too much, and alcoholics.
when it comes to weeds, it's harder to say. since it's illegal, a lot of people are less vocal about it. the most vocal are what Sup Forums is used to, "smoke weed e'er day" sorta people. but there are so many more.
one of my friends can't smoke it because they don't know how to stop, another one gets anxiety issues from it, another one gets weird physical hallucinogenic tactile feelings, etc. etc.
for me, it's very chill. i like doing boring maths while high, and lose all creative ability as well. like i said, very different for different people. i have no trouble stopping as well. some people have trouble sleeping, but i'm an insomniac, so that could explain it.
like all drugs, walk in with a clear and logical mind. do some, and be honest with yourself about your experience. from what i've seen, drug users are general of a certain personality type, no matter what their drug of choice is.