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Tfw you realize she isnt coming back
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Nathaniel Perez
if she isn't coming back it's obviously for a reason. Who cares
Adrian Cruz
Stalk her, past creepy but not into the depths requiring a restraining order
Logan Sullivan
Jaxson Richardson
it might not be for any strong and irreparable reason though. i'm in a "she isn't coming back" situation that was the result of personal issues, my bad/selfish interpretation of things, and circumstances out of both of our control. we never fought or fell out of love, i ended it just because i hadn't heard from her for quite a while and i took it too personally. it's complicated but basically it's been impossible to contact her since, again as a result of circumstances and upset decisions that were made during that time.
that was a long time ago so i guess i could take it as a cue that she doesn't care anymore but idk, we were extremely close and i don't think it would be that easy for her to just forget about me. it sure as fuck hasn't been easy for me to forget about her.
Jason Baker
also i'm sorry for being this soppy and self indulgent in a fuckin meme thread
David Watson
move on user, that's all you can do. it isn't healthy to wait for something that will never be. move on and find someone that suits you better
Leo Walker
>it isn't healthy to wait for something that never will be
but what if
also i don't think there's anyone that suits me better. at least i haven't found them yet. i know this is a destructive attitude to have but i can't lie to myself.
Luke Murphy
there's definitely someone that suits you better. you have nothing with this girl. move on and don't be a coward. if it makes you feel better, girls want guys that don't want them. find a new girl and start again.
Wyatt Collins
i don't really want to and i don't think i can. if i was really to move on i feel like it would take being alone for a long time and reaching some higher consciousness shit.
Ayden Carter
twenty one pilots. Oh my god she loved twenty one pilots. :(
Adrian Hall
take your time, but work towards yourself being independent. you don't have to change everything today. just work for a better future for yourself. this shouldn't be something you beat yourself with everyday, it should be a learning experience. when you do meet the girl that is an even better fit for yourself, you'll have these learning experiences go reinforce your path together. I know it sounds impossible right now, but it isn't and will not be.
James Barnes
well thank you
Michael Robinson
let her go, she has awful taste and is probably fake deep
David White
I got you bruv
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Also while I do actually like this music, it is sort of memey here. I hope it works out for you, and there is nothing wrong with being alone for a bit dude.
Jackson Harris
best wishes man
Benjamin Myers
>She was never my gf
>We never met in person
>We only talked for six months before she ghosted me without provocation
>A year later I still think of her every day
Music pls
Dominic Harris
Don't worry fellas, things might look bad right now but you just gotta put yourselves out there and talk to new and exciting people ! :)
Bentley Myers
this is also true. she was adorable though
Robert Sanchez
we all been there my guy. keep your head up. but if you're feeling some sad tunes...
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Jacob Stewart
Landon Clark
Hey pal, It's okay to cry sometimes. Just don't get used to being alone too much, but you are going to need some time.
Thomas Powell
Kill yourself whiny normalfag.
Gavin King
In life we find a lot of people that are almost perfect for us.
Aiden Sanchez
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That should get you started, if you need more ask for more. Don't listen to these morons telling you to do your best to move on.
Let the pain engulf you. Feel the emotion of pain and misery, for Bukowski once said that you have to die once or twice before you really get to live.
Dylan Rogers
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people associate this with a certain movie or with charles manson, but it's really just a simple breakup song
Jordan Rogers
Didn't think I would recommend another 1975 song but here:
The 1976 - Somebody Else also Alt-j - Adeline and Breezeblocks
David Miller
This is great advice. Time is the keyword. I myself am preparing for the worst as I think I may have ruined my relationship with my fiance due to my dumb insecurities getting in the way of just loving her. It's okay user, we all go through these things, and I know l, or likely will know, soon what you're feeling. Already am to an extent.
Brayden Myers
you're probably a fair bit older than me, or much more outgoing and socially experienced. i know she's not the only person in the world i could ever be able to bond with but she was still special and i don't think i'm going to meet more than a handful of people in my life who i'm able to bond that well with. i'm a pretty unusual guy, most people i think get the impression that i'm antisocial or have my head up my own ass because i'm so detached and in my own head. but then the few people i've been really close with have seen those traits in a positive light and kind of loved me for it.
i don't know where i'm going here. i shouldn't be using Sup Forums feels threads for therapy but it's all i got right now.
Sebastian Lee
my advice is don't rush to form a positive perspective on it all. i really wish i'd spent the first month or two grieving and crying. instead i avoided it and it became an underlying unhappiness and bitterness. i think a lot of guys get like that and become unwilling to face upsetting things honestly. the sadness and regret eventually caught up with me a long time after and i have been going through that. it's helped me, if not to feel better then at least to be less angry and be nicer to people. although in saying that i've been feeling kinda depressed lately and that tends to make me really blunt and defensive and withdrawn.
Jonathan Brooks
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Kayden Lee
>tfw no gf ever
>tfw no friends
>tfw no hope
Samuel Sanchez
the last one isn't true and you know it too.
you can make it.
do it for us, user.
Aaron Sanchez
idk man i’ve had a pretty shit last few years, it was supposed to be easy to make friends in college but i’ve literally joined three clubs and gone through two and a half years and only made one friend, and he transferred to a different school
not really any point in trying anymore, i’m almost a senior and everyone in my classes and shit already have their friend groups
Tyler James
don't think about it that much, man, just let it happen if the time and situation is right. if there's people you know and you can make small talk with them every once in a while, that's a good start to base things on.
also, fuck clubs. go to gigs, get drunk and talk to other loners. good things will come to you.
Andrew Campbell
I relate, man. My girlfriend of three years left me the week of my birthday a month ago and I'm not over it at all.
My depression is fucking up everything else I had going for me in my life.
super edgy but still worth a listen:
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Jaxon Edwards
test
Hudson Rivera
grouper
Chase Brooks
NOT the US version but the int'l one is pretty solid
Leo Turner
Blue for ypu
William Collins
U said - lil peep
Getting high is my only way of coping, so this song hit real close home.
Elijah Foster
there’s not really any music scene here, I joined the radio and some people have bands and house parties with live music and shit but they’re all on the admin board and nobody’s really trying to make new friends
there’s a qt in my group for a class project but it’s not really a very involved project so we don’t really have to work together very often so idk how that would go
i just want to graduate desu, i’m over college
Levi Wood
graduation is close, innit?
how was it before college though, and are you as introverted as you come off from these posts?
Brandon Ross
grouper is my favorite artist and i have a sentimental love/hate for teen suicide as well. i'm not over my girlfriend about two and a half years removed. i think we're soul mates.
fwiw though man i hope you take care of yourself and that things improve for you soon. i know that's a lazy consolation but i do mean it.
Evan Lewis
i’m pretty introverted but i’m not like a robot autist or anything, i’m not even a virgin
i was pretty autistic in high school tho
Leo Russell
I listened to a lot of Elliott Smith after my last breakup. I was sad for a couple of weeks but it passes.
Evan Perry
>he didn’t take one of her thongs after fucking and put it in a zip lock bag to perserve her pheromones for times like these
literally what are you doing my g
Adrian Jenkins
have you ever had any summer jobs? I think squeezing a couple of months of blue collar work, like in a warehouse or something in between college and getting a "real" job might do wonders to your social skills.
Jack Howard
thank you dude. Depression sucks. I never really experienced it to this extent.
>i'm not over my girlfriend about two and a half years removed. i think we're soul mates.
Do you keep up with her? i used to check up on her on social media and stuff but I saw her being out there and crushing on people and I couldn't take it. Ended up deleting my social media accounts and stopped hanging out with our mutual friends. Maybe you should try getting rid of her in that sense, It has worked for me to an extent
Landon Martin
yeah i was an emt for a while
never have i ever seen so many unlikeable people in one place before
Julian Roberts
Ian Harris
>many unlikeable people in one place
BY FAR the best way to gain some serious social XP and become someone who can handle real life. cherish it if it comes around again.
Kayden Barnes
iktf
Just off a bender of smoking, drinking and listening to Lil Peep.
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Jeremiah Sullivan
no thanks dude, no offense but you try driving around in a van with some angry aging millennial for 12 hours and see how much that makes you want to go socialize
i’m fairly normal anyways, just quiet and i don’t get the chance to meet people outside of some shitty packed bar
Asher King
swans - coward
Levi Long
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If You Leave Me Now
These are oldish, gold songs
Jace Baker
wow, those lyrics are too accurate. Thanks user
Kevin Garcia
none taken. hang in there.
Noah Lee
ouch