Anyone else here over 20 y/o and still a virgin?

Anyone else here over 20 y/o and still a virgin?

Yeah

What do you plan on doing about it?

22 y/o

if your still a virgin at 18 you need to rethink your life.if your over 20 just fucking end your life ya sad cunt.

nah

I had sex a handful of times in highschool when I was 16-17 haven't got laid since (I'm 24). Starting to think it might be better to be a virgin; at least I wouldn't know what I was missing out on.

Any wizards on here? Asking for a friend.

20 y/o virgin but I managed to get a gf recently so hopefully it will be a matter of a few weeks if I don't fuck it up.

i was but i lost it recently. it was pretty disappointing, i think i hyped sex up too much and reality didnt live up to my fantasy. it was the only thing left in life that i still looked forward to and now it feels empty.

sex is like cooking, the first times will always be shit

Whats the microwaving of sex?

wanking

jerking off obv

How are you westerners still virgin after the age of 18? At least I have the sharia law excuse, what's yours?

For me, it's autism

you still need to put yourself out there to get laid even with easy women, and a lot of guys arent capable of doing that

24yo hkv here

level 43 wizard here

Nah, but I lost it at only 19

I'm now in the phase of my life (I'm 26) where I'm starting to get a bit bored by sex, at least by normal sex with average looking women.

I've also been single for almost 3 years now and only had sex occassionally during that time, yet I don't have any motivation to change that.

27 here just lost mine on the 23rd, had a pretty good experience, was nervous as fuck but she came buckets so I did good, don't give up hope

I was emotionally abused by my mother and many other women in my life so I developed massive trust issues I had to get therapy recently to work through, I had many chances to lose it along the way (and had done everything but actual sex) but would avoid really getting intimate with girls out of resentment and distrust

>tfw recently snatched off tinder a little qt that likes both to cuddle a lot, cook with me, and to get cummed on her face while getting slapped and called a little cumslut
living the dream

depends who is asking

24 years old and just lost it this year. My gf I lost it to and I fuck like rabbits now. I have no regrets in life. Virgins out there, get out of your fucking houses as often as you can, focus on improving yourself, and stop thinking about your virginity so often. Agree to social invitations and force yourself to not feel awkward even if you have to sit at a fucking party alone.

being shy which leads to having few friends which leads to rarely meeting new people which means having a very small pool of girls to try your luck on. Also I'm terrible at casual chit-chat so I will rarely keep up a relationship if there are no mutual interests.

Anyone else here owe over $500 to a bookie?

PS I'm not a virgin at least lol

>tfw porn addiction

every waking hour i think about tiddies and asses and women getting fucked. Can I be helped?

Back in the 80s i owed over 400k to a bookie in Vegas
Currently living innawoods btw

Start having actual sex, then porn won't seem so attractive anymore (it's perfectly normal to still watch it occasionally)

If you're a NEET yeah that can be fixed super easily. When I was a NEET and I had absolutely nothing to do all day I would fap 3-5 times per day, then as soon as I got a job and had something to focus on I instantly cut down to fapping once every couple days.

If you're not a NEET then it might be harder to fix.

You watched too many porn, you're both deranged

go to prostitutes

>matter of a few weeks
>gf

Hmmm

>Weeks
>Hasn't had sex while dating her
user...

Prostitutes dont count

says you

>gf of 2.5 years got fat
>cant run because no leg cartilage
>doesnt do exercise anyway
>used to be a thin ballarina

still love her but shit her body is terrible

are you in hiding?

das it mane

Drop her, it's only going to be worse from this point on (pregnancy etc.)

You ideally want a woman that you still find somewhat attractive at 40 and that's not going to happen if that's not the case even now.

How can u be virgin at 19+ age?

Literally there is always some girls that wanna dick so bad that she will fuck anyone.

Yes

shes actually already in her mid 30s and shes reasonably attractive, would just be nice if she lost 20 kilos, cant see it happening though and we already live together

>back in the 80s

come on, that bookie most likely already forgot, is dead or in prison by now

you can come out of the woods lad

>used to be a thin ballarina
See girls that do sports and are thin as a result are going to expand massively once they drop said sport.
Get yourself a girl that is thin by good eating habits alone.

My first gf made me wait for 4 months before we start having sex, some girls are just like that. Doesn't mean anything special

Even if, that's what I like now. I wont gimp my enjoyment for your hangups on sexuality

How old are you then, do you have or want to have children with her yet?

>this arbitrary 19+ age
I don't even need to ask when it was the first time you got laid, eh. I actually agree with you though, but it's pretty hard to pick up your first girl when you live your whole life playing videogames and using the internet inside your room. I kissed for the first time in my life at 26 and only after that I realized how easy is to deal with girls, most of them are craving for the D and even moving blobs like me can have fun with them.

Yeah (replying for a friend)

Im shy

Im 25, shes not keen on the idea, so ive always got an easy out if i want it

Lost it at 15 to my first gf in high school. Had 3 girlfriends since that. Fucked 50-60 random girls in between gfs (stopped counting at around 50 because I realized how pathetic I was).

Sex with random girls is rarely anything special. My average wanks are just as good. With the right gf though you can have some great experiences, and in that case you're missing out big time OP. It's about not having unrealistic expectations and standards imo.

I agree about sex with random girls being a letdown most of the time, but having a regular fuck buddy can be quite exciting and almost as good as sex with a girl that you truly love.

Especially if that girl lives only a few blocks down the street and calls you for sex spontaneous and unexpectedly.

this, less drama for the girl and the dildo can be dumped quicker while still coming back next week.

Have you got feelings for said girls though?

Getting there, 19
Not even ugly, autistic or socially inept, I just rarely get to meet grills and when I do I don't have enough confidence to go after them

honest to god cant take that chance
and where i live is comfy af

>sex with random girls being a letdown most of the time
Granted I still had less than 10 casual encounters, but that's not my experience. What kind of girls are we talking about here?

my friend is haha what a faggot HAHA

A little bit.

It did bother me for like a month when she got into a serious relationship (the funny thing is that I think she still had sex with me for the first few weeks she met the other guy), but at the end I knew she wasn't the girl for me.

It starts with the fact that she was a hardcore raver and constantly spent tons of money for music festivals all over Europe. She was hot, but other than that also high maintenance, with lots of problems in her life and just not the calm girl I'm looking for in a girlfriend.

Reminder that if you haven't had sex in over 7 years then you are a virgin again

Anyone that isn't butt ugly nor fat and who is interested in casual sex.

In Germany, that unfortunately eliminates the pool of available girls drastically, since over here attractive girls usually aren't up for that.
So you'll have to settle for a bunch of 5s and 6s and that is more stress than rewarding fun over time.

This is why bars and clubs in student towns are so popular over here, because there you'll find lots of student exchange qts who are more often down for some adventures.

You should kys if you haven't gotten laid by 17

haha I'm less of a loser than some of you

Being shy and anxious, went to an all-boys school, mostly associate with other blokes

I should also add that I'm not handholdless or kissless, just haven't had sex desu

>haven't had a conversation with a girl in 8 years
>balding
>biology kicking in so i just want to fuck all the retarded girls i didn't look at twice when i was younger
>tfw no companionship
at least i'm not kissless and handholdless so there's that

I actually lost my virginity when I was 20. There's hope for everyone user, especially in modern day where meeting a girl online and manipulating her is easy as fuck