So my boyfriend and I are considering trying out BDSM. Before we start, we want to know if BDSM is actually degenerate behavior or not.
As long as the Male is the dominant - couldn't one say that BDSM is just a natural expression of gender roles?
If not, why is BDSM degenerate behavior that should be discouraged by society?
These answers would be helpful sooner, rather than later. Thanks in advance Sup Forums, I love you guys.
I don't know, why don't you show us exactly what you're doing and then we can decide?
Degeneracy is a meme, do what you want.
Isn't this the trump cosplayer slut? she's in my rape list
Timestamp or we assume you are a man
I'm not a slut.
Adam Lanza yourself.
>being an insecure little shit
>asking losers on a malayan tapestry weaving board
kill yourself immediately
reeddddddddddddittttttttt
No its a sign of sophistication. All the cool perverts like Fascism.
I'll shove up my lance up your ass.
Who fucking cares?
Not degenerate
Trust me
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There is nothing new, edgy, or degenerate about beating your woman and physically dominating her. Every man should be doing this in all relationships.
Edge play beyond this is 100% acceptable if it satisfies the man's desires and is kept entirely behind closed doors.
Not memeing, BDSM, in moderation, can be an effective counterweight to the SJW-ism of daily life. No doubt, you probably come home from a cushy office job (or wherever) where all day you likely receive passive preferential treatment. Putting on a collar and being actively reminded about nature's hierarchy is a good thing, and I would argue, helps make for a more enjoyable relationship.
Look up service submission, stay away from the more fetish/degenerate aspects of BDSM (humiliation play, diapers, pegging, blood play, age play, puppy play, etc.) And focus on the parts of BDSM which relate exclusively to power exchange. Domestic discipline is another avenue to explore, but stay away from Christian domestic discipline unless you have a priest fetish (which is also degenerate). Rope/bondage can be fun, but I wouldn't bother getting too involved in suspensions and artistic shit unless you're an autist.
Obviously he will top you, but he will need to go through extensive training to be able to 'dom' you the way you want, so be patient.
Do not go to BDSM play parties, go to munches if anything.
t. Sup Forumsack in Edmonton scene
Mexico bringing the bantz, good man
Based wall builder strikes again
Fuck off, faggot
>yfw it's two boys
He hasn't mentioned the ops gender.
I believe as long as you don't start doing BDSM pride marches in public, demandinng "BDSM rights", separate bathrooms with chains on walls and so on, then I don't think anyone cares, or should care
I'm a female, kiwi.
Cool story
>females on Sup Forums
see OP is always a faggot
Who the fuck cares what you do behind closed doors? Just do it away from the streets and post pics on Sup Forums. Quit asking if shits degenerate or not too, because that's fucking retarded
Degeneracy is anything that degrades the human spirit.
>tfw into women dominating me
>know it would inevitably lead to being cucked
Did NOT want this feel right now.
Lad or lass, I'd hit that ass.
grow up, control yourself.
What's this trump guy's name anyway?
kek
let this guy through the wall
Post tits. Feminine hands+nails also acceptable.
It's degenerate if it's something you wouldn't want your family to know.
It promotes a shameful double life that's absolutely degenerate and maladaptive to living a decent life.
Also, avoid FetLife for the most part. The SJW-ism is strong there, and scene players can be veeeeeery touchey about having their pronouns and bullshit genders respected.
Not to say there aren't very important things about consent which you can learn on there, as well as scene dynamics + safety procedures. BDSM is psychologically intense, so be aware that playing can stir up some unexpected and powerful emotions, just make sure you are prepared for them, and it can be an effective means to come to terms with things.
Ur a cheeki cunt ther Pablo.
There are dominant, non-degenerate women. They're just so incredibly rare it's probably not even worth it to pursue anything like that in a relationship.
Leave that shit to flings and porn.
Women aren't real
Sup Forums is a huge offender in this regard as evidenced by thsi thread
Tits then, whore
Can I dominate your ass Trump girl?
I am certainly better at fucking than your boyfriend. Especially if it comes to bdsm.
Fuck off moralburger
> Implying not ashamed to be posting on a Sudanese watchmaking bulletin board
Having normie friends you don't want to share details of your intimate time with your spouse =/= immoral or degenerate
again, Sup Forums.
your parents would be fucking ashamed.
He's right.
4channers don't get what he's saying because they're amoral degenerates and this place promotes the exact thing he mentioned via the obsession with anonymity
>human spirit.
"Experiencing Christ and to live a normal Christian life." Enjoy no sex before marriage, drugs, or alcohol as well because that degrades it. Your hummus spirit will surely have a fun time on this planet being a pure snowflake
I'd rather not risk having that image circulate and get me banned from church.
OP is asking. It's a question of morality... Sorry to offend you.
Everybody here knows that Sup Forums is degenerate.
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The principles of how to know if something is degenerate are:
1. Am I in control of what I'm doing. Are my actions deliberate?
2. Can I tell everybody that I'm proud of what I'm doing.
If you answer no to either, it's degenerate.
>hummus spirit
kek'd
get off Sup Forums now and look in the fucking mirror, it's taking you away from God
K-Kayla w-what are you doing?
if you dont discipline your girl sexually, mentally and socially you're gonna get left behind
its just facts
BOYFRIEND? BUT I WAS GOING TO BE YOUR BOYFRIEND! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
do it for your aussie bros.
just paper bag the face, we dont give a fuck.
Of course it is. My ex was into it and she was a whore. All her friends that were into it are degenerates and whores too.
You have to be fundamentally damaged to enjoy it.
Why does Sup Forums pretend to be a girl. I thought this place was anti-trans ?
Holy fuck, looks like a slightly better version if my ex.
I've been doxxed before on Sup Forums. Not happening.
You are literally retarded. By that logic, if you are being kept alive in a coma after a car accident, because you aren't in control of what you're doing (receiving food via involuntary intubation) would be degenerate because you aren't in control.
Nice blog faggot
Fucking Sup Forumstards ruining everything.
This little bitch only dresses as Trump because he wants a mexican to erect the qt wall between his tender legs.
>By that logic, if you are being kept alive in a coma after a car accident, because you aren't in control of what you're doing (receiving food via involuntary intubation) would be degenerate because you aren't in control.
Yes, willingly allowing yourself into that situation would be degeneracy.
Oh, and it's just a bunch of terrible acting. It's pathetic. "ohh that really hurts, ohh no donnnn't!!!".
If I really hurt her she like she wanted, she would have known about it. It's all acting, and most people are bad actors. It's so fucking lame.
Why do you faggots constantly bitch about how you want more redpilled women, but deny every one that comes to Sup Forums as being a woman? Pick one.
>4channers
Second time I've called you out on this today. C'mon man.
I mean, are you suggesting that we should aim to get into car accidents and go into comas?
Everything besides sex for reproduction should be considered degenerate, but what do you live for if you can't enjoy your sick fetishes?
Keep being an autistic trap fetishist Pablo, I'm not a man.
FINGER NAILS
The message BDSM sends to the authorities is: Now that we sexually enjoy being punished, enslaved and tortured, what can you do to submit us to your order(s) ?
I would rather not have Sup Forums filled with attention whores like kayla tbqh.
Why is feminism so prevalent in BDSM?
>them hamplanet hands
Let me spell this out for you.
T I T S
O R
G T F O
Now show us your udders if you want to talk. Otherwise get on with your life and let us shitpost in peace. Do whatever you want, I don't care unless I see some melons
>eyes: green
>look at photo
>clearly brown
Yeah it's not like you can LIE on your license or anything...
>California
Your ass literally belongs to us to already.
It's a dadcore fetish. Pathetic. It's only for couples who need to "reignite" that initial spark they used to have in bed when they first met 25 years ago. If you're already thinking of it and your still this young, just end the relationship (and your life you ugly degenerate 3D bitch).
Bondage is the highest form of sexual activity.
> Prove me wrong.
> You can't.
This is why our country is filled with faggots
I'm in Edmonton too
ASL
bdsm is degenerate
Sup Forums is degenerate
having fun is degenerate
turn off your computer and go to church
Wait, are you actually THAT kayla from the infowars video?
Sup Forums was debating for weeks whether you were a man, you're clearly not.
Catholic here,
There's nothing wrong with exploring your sexual preferences if it's between a man and a woman who love eachother very much and are in an approved relationship by God.
I spend a lot of time exploring and enjoying my fetishes with my girlfriend and she does the same, it's a lot of fun bonding this way and it greatly enhances your love for eachother and how much you trust the other person.
Why is your picture a trap queen faggot
I hate you Sup Forums and here's why:
Kayla is a girl. She's a poor, unhappy, defeated girl. She's got a history of violent and abusive relationships that have really fucked her up. She's a 10/10. Fucking beautiful girl that will never be able to see it. She doesn't know how to see herself as worth anything or see how pretty she really is. That's what all the pics and attention whoring is about. She's looking for the assurance and love she never deserved. She finally found a place where she fit in... here on POL. Her views and feelings are legitimate and not fake. She is one of us. She's perfect. But all you fucking losers had to push her over the edge. SHE IS NOT A TRAP. Her ex BF posted underage nudes, in a desperate attempt to save him from being charged she faked being a trap to try and deflect criminal charges. So fuck all of you who are destroying her for nothing. What's wrong is you would rather her have a dick because you're all complete degenerate cock loving losers. She is too good for you faggots anyways. I hope she finds happiness soon.
Source: I know her IRL and I love her.
Please leave her alone.
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Didn't read the thread, but BDSM is fucking awesome.
Switch master race.
I don't need you to vouch for me in front of these losers.
>tfw shorter than kayla
>Sup Forums was debating for weeks whether you were a man
Why can't Sup Forums just enjoy the best of both worlds?
it's not like girls of spanish descent aren't mongrels already
How retarded are you that you cannot tell that I'm not a man. Have you ever been with a girl in real life?
If he's right, you're probably cool. Please don't kill yourself or something over Sup Forumstards.
Yes try BDSM out with your BF. No it's not really degenerate. Good luck to you, stay safe and have fun.
the fuck is wrong with your hair at the top. tell your boyfriend to go jump in a batch of acid and take my load to brighten up the top of the hair. you don't even need to do anything, I just want to color your hair up.
Fuck off KIDF. All I ever asked was to see the dick.
Why the hell does it matter to you on what two consenting adults are doing in their bedrooms?
I'm 40
You down for age play?
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>People actually believe OP is Kayla.
Do you niggers even look at filenames anymore? Fuck.
How much of a spastic do you have to be to come to Sup Forums and ask to make life decisions for you?
Kill yourself bitch
Fuck off leaf.
Are you too autistic to read the OP?
So, seems you are real.
I'm curious why you publicly acknowledged the nudes are of you, when you could have just quietly filed a case against anyone stupid enough to send them to you on their public facebook accounts.
Why are you such an attention whore tranny?
Why do you need the approval of strangers?
The only thing degenerate here is your faggy desperation to have a few moments in the sun while people either call you a tranny or ask to see your tits.
How do people like you go day to day without killing yourself?
Fuck off op or show us your tits with timestamp.
Christ how pathetically ugly you are, man or woman.
Yeah but I don't care about your bf