Does a woman's previous sexual partner count matter to you and why?
And even though we know that all women lie about/reduce their partner count number when asked, what do you think is the best way to ask that is most likely to receive an answer close to the truth
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I've sleapt withOver 20 woman. Most girls I've been with I was actually below 5 for them I've been with a few girls who were over 15 and most that told me where somewhere in the middle. Haven't met a girl I've wanted to date seriously in a while but the number of dudes shed been with really doesn't matter all that much. If I meet an amazing girl that's not going to deter me. I'm 20 years old
>25 y/o
>majored in data analytics, minored in American history
>outdoorsman, Eagle scout for what it's worth
>decently /fit/
>currently applying to be a Marine infantry officer, putting grad school on hold for a while
>still a virgin
It doesn't really bother me. Hopefully when I'm 35 and bald and rich, I'll be able to find a decent modest girl in her 20s willing to start a family. Until then, I'll put up with my friends being confused by my lifestyle.
how tall are you and what do you look like?
My girlfriend and I are both still virgins and will remain so for a while longer.
wouldn't want it any other way desu. I'm not insecure about anything, but I don't have to worry about not satisfying her for quite a while as she has no way to compare anything.
Apart from that, there are all the factors that are regularily posted here (happier, longer marriages etc.)
That being said, If she had had sex with other dudes before, I would probably still be with her, but wouldn't be as sure about her wanting to stay with me, she did, after all, leave all those other guys as well.
forgot to add, I am 22, she is 21
NoHymenNoDiamond
All non-virgins that aren't married or widow/er are trashy people, men or women.
OP, I think you want a different board. The board for bitter virgins and manchildren is called "ROBOT9001" Here's a link:
Please direct all of your pathetic woman hate and incel rage at this board. Here on Sup Forums we are not bitter virgins who blame all of society's problems on our inability to score pussy.
The autistic delusions and bland woman hating are poisoning this board and turning men into snivelling babies so preoccupied with sex (that they aren't getting) they completely fall out of life. You're all essentially putting pussy on a pedestal which is pathetic, but worse still you're putting virgin pussy on a pedestal which is even sadder and more pathetic.
Sorry to give you such a hard bitch-slap back to reality but no one here gives a damn about this stupid incel bullshit. Please head over to the sad manchild board:
If you would like to continue these rants about how you deserve fresh virgin pussy while not earning it in the slightest.
>t. woman/cuck
>Does a woman's previous sexual partner count matter to you and why?
If a girl has sex with any man but her father before she's married she's a useless disgusting slut.
you don't need to ask, you can shes a ho if shes a ho.
Just go fuck escorts.
That's what they are there for.
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DNA from previous fucks remains in the woman's spinal fluid for some time.
There is no setting a whore straight. once a slut always a slut.
>but her father
Bwahahahahaha
As pong as your not fucking nigs and beaners or dirty fuckers I dont care. Most on here are neckbeards though who never talk tom bitches.
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Of course it does. General rule of thumb is that lower is better, but anything up to what I've done is fine. After all, if you're that gross, you can't rightly fault someone else for it.
Since women lie about everything, if she admits to 3 or more dicks I assume that's 15-20 and therefore beats me out.
For just getting it in on a one night stand though, these rules obviously do not apply.
This desu famalam
>what do you think is the best way to ask that is most likely to receive an answer close to the truth
The best way to ask is when you are somewhat advanced in your relationship and then in a talk you pass the idea that you are a liberal, that you don't care about the past and so on, so she will reveal to you.
>Does a woman's previous sexual partner count matter to you and why?
Of course it counts, high partners numbers = promiscuity = less chance that she will actually get pregnant from you and not of someone else. Also I don't want to be a beta cuck who will assume some whore in their low sexual market value (30s), if the woman had lots of partners and now wants to settle down it means that now she want some idiot to establish with her to give gibs to her.
What's so funny? It's okay if a girls dad does her when she's little. It's not like he's just some guy, he's her dad. So she's a still a pure maiden if he does her.
What?
Yes of course it matters. But everyone has different levels of tolerance, which I can respect whether it's more or less. For me I draw the line around 15. No more than 20.
That being said I agree with . A lot of fags here overestimate their worth thinking they deserve virgins to suck their cock as they play league of legends.
For the most part just find a girl you're compatible with on a personal/sexual level and don't worry about their sexual history. You're better off not torturing yourself with that knowledge.
This is misinformation. Fuck off.
>starting a family with a 20 year old
She's gonna take you to the cleaners.
Yes, because I can personally confirm it. I was an extreme manwhore from my teens to mid twenties, and I would sometimes date virgin girls. They were always more pure and prone to wanting an actual relationship. Eventually I found one I liked enough to marry.
Things are going well but if they ever fell through I would still want a virgin girl. I wouldn't care if I was 40 years old, I would still try to get a young virgin girl. If I felt it was too difficult to find at that age then I would simply get a mail order bride, as I have two friends who've had good experiences with it in my business circle.
There's a big difference between 20 and 28.
Can someone explain to me why there are so many people who go to websites that are notorious for their neckbeard and virgin population, and then proceed to bitch at guys who are neckbeards and virgins? Like, do they think they're on ifunny right now? Or Facebook?
I'm not even asking rhetorically, I am 100% sincere, I cannot fathom who these people are or what they're doing here
It'd be like going to a car forum and freaking out when ricers show up, like okay I get you don't like them but where do you think you are?
>wanting to be a betabux provider.
A lot of people these days dont feel satisfied about something unless they can feel above someone else or watch someone else "losing" just look at elitist mentalities in all your online vidya.
Same shit goes for here
Just how you're lying about how many girls you've been with to some degree, they are also lying.
What, you though they were going to say "I've lost count" to your face?
>inb4 damage control
"T-trust m-me they were inexperienced"
"I-I'm an alpha I swear pls believe me Sup Forums"
If i cant count them on one hand she belongs in the trash.
I prefer none but one or two is reasonable since you usually do a bit of experimenting in your teens and whatnot.
Never more than five though. From personnel experience thats a good cut off point.
>sleapt
this fucking nigger man. i can tell your dick is really big, because there is no blood in your brain at all.
I see developing romantic feelings for a woman with previous sexual partners the same as letting your wife cheat.
I mean, it's just sex right? It doesn't mean they don't love you now... right? They weren't with you at the very specific time of it happening so it doesn't make a difference... right?
A lot of the things I believe have pretty much made me incompatible with normal life. I'll most likely never have a relationship.
>For me I draw the line around 15. No more than 20.
KEK
Just accept the bull at that point. Fuck.
If you start dating a girl who's fucked 100 other guys, what are the odds you'll be the last?
>implying age makes a difference
It's American women in general who will take you to the cleaners.
This is why if I want to date a white girl I only date foreign ones.
Last chick I fucked was 17. She had 15 partners. I simply asked. At the same time most woman never lie to me because I tell them to embrace there sexuality whitch in turn makes them extremely loyal to me. Its basic psychology. Tell a woman to go fuck a bunch of guys but seem honest about it. If you press her for an open relationship thats the last thing she'll want. Just need to be confident in your delivery and if she does sleep with someone else, brush it off dont seem effected and then go sleep with another girl. If a woman ever lies to me though I drop her. All it takes is one lie. Dump her on the spot. They'll leech on to you. This approach to females always works but you need to look good amd be confidant. Never show weakness ever.
Yes it completely matters and I don't intend to ever date
nice one Hans, I'm in the same boat
>I'll most likely never have a relationship.
Ofcourse you will user. Get /fit/ and put yourself out there.
Hoist your flag and see who salutes or whatever the saying is. There are still good girls out there contrary to popular belief.
>17 years old
>15 previous partners
Anyone who's had sex with that many men that young has clearly been through emotional or sexual trauma. You may as well fuck a deer that's been hit by a car.
Its insanely common though. Back in my highschool days most of the good looking girls openly talked about having fucked 10-15 guys and they were only 18-19 at the time.
Its disgusting.
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If you want to just fuck her then it doesn't matter.
But if you want something meaningful, then we have a problem.
It only happens because they're vulnerable to men with the same predatory mindset. Treating that kind of exploitation as cool or normal just creates more men and women who get sucked into the cycle.
If a woman has had another partner before we get married, I feel that I am justified to have an affair with the same number of people as she had slept with. I think that's reasonably fair.
They always lie about it though.
Sounds like a great way to erode any possible trust you have with each other.
Typically the formula is
Man's number = divide by 3
Woman's number = multiply by 4
That should put you in the ballpark.
Indeed. We are in a sad state.
Not a virgin myself so I don't care too much about it. That said, I'd be dissuaded if she was a turboslut.
Yes
They are not vulnerable, they are just whores. These men you talked about are the alphas, and women tend to only fuck with them.
Most woman convience themselves there a victum when in reality there normal. They have this need for being a victum though. So you could say that about all woman. Also, any woman who is older then 18 and says shes only had sex with 2 or less people is lying to you or is ugly. Get over it.
>"Lena Dunham is an obvious disgusting pedophile, probably because she grew up with a fruitcake for a father, who was obsessed with paintaing vaginas. He probably thought it was "healthy" for his baby daughters to grow up around giant paintings of cartoon vaginas in nasty sex positions, and maybe thats why she stuffed her little sister full of gravel. I don't care, I'm not here to make an apology for pedophilia, thats your job, but my hatred for Lena Dunham is multi-faceted, and mainly about how she is trampling femininity and making it cool to be an abomination (the pedo shit is just icing on the cake). Also, I don't like fat people. No offense, I don't think its a coincidence that she's big and fat. I hope that one day she challenges me to a street fight, and maybe I will accidentally kill her with my bare hands. I don't know, I just don't know..."
Still though, I'm not into buying used merchandise. You wouldn't buy used bed sheets, why "buy" a used woman?
I would feel extremely uncomfortable knowing some other bloke engaged in such an emotional and intimate act with her.
Then is there a way to get an honest answer? Probably not.
I couldn't trust her if she had had over 2 partners.
That eroded away a long time ago
The surreal thing to me is that feminists are arguing that fucking dozens of men is healthy and normal, rather than trying to demonstrate how damaging it can be to anyone, men and women both.
>these men you talked about are the alphas
Picking roadkill off the highway doesn't make you a hunter. Alphas can get anyone they want, they don't settle for used up braincases. They can get quality and quantity, they don't have to choose.
You probably shouldn't get married to her then.
kill me
>"I fucked 50 guys and now I can't find a decent man" - The post.
Sounds like you're the one who is bitter.
Is the female version of "bitter virgin" "bitter whore"?
I'd be bitter too if I were a used up piece of meat that no one cares about. If only your whore mother kept your dad around, he could have taught you some self esteem.
A good phrase that men should listen to is, no hymen to diomend. I jokingly say that to girls I have dated who I knew had a lot of partners. Always made them mad. Sorry babe you dont get everything in this world, my world.
I literally don't care if a girl has burned 100 coals while weighing 500 pounds so long as she is just like me in terms of personality, interests, and beliefs. However, a girl like that probably wouldn't have that kind of sexual history, and unfortunately no girl of my tastes exists.
Yea haha get'm man haha
you fuckin owned that loser with your intelectuality and shit bro haha
He's probably so pathetic and lame too haha
let's go bang that retarded 19 year old white girl down the street.
She's to stupid to realize that she's ruining her life.
Cmon we can take my moms dodge dart.
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You'll come to learn all girls are the same. They all are robots programmed by tv.
Frankly, I probably wouldn't.
Women with dicks exist out there, user. you're not looking hard enough.
>The surreal thing to me is that feminists are arguing that fucking dozens of men is healthy and normal, rather than trying to demonstrate how damaging it can be to anyone, men and women both.
You know, I was reading about different literary periods in Denmark and when i came to what we call "the modern breakthrough" I started to see things going very wrong. One of the major topics Womens rights and sexual freedom. At the time it was apparently a problem that the men would cheat on their wives with whores and such and the women were tired of this. They started a movement which gathered alot of support in order to restrain men aswell so that both sexes would adhere to the same morals. But right at the end (((Georg Brandes))) the father of the modern breakthrough in Denmark came in and ruined it all, saying that no no this is not the problem! None of the sexes should be restrained! None of the sexes should adhere to any morals! Both should be free to have multiple sexual partners. And the womens fight for equal responsibility between the sexes was swept aside and people followed Georg Brandes idea instead.
I couldent believe it when i was reading it. Might aswell have been a meme on Sup Forums
So you don't care if the woman tasted like 100 men's dicks? Is that the mother you want for your children?
>24 years old
>well-paying job
>fit, and not just some pussy ottermode shit. lmao5plate deadlift
>10/10 hair and good looking
>still a gf-less virgin
It's completely my fault. I don't want to go all external locus of control, but I blame the jew media instilling this idea since I was a fucking kid that if you weren't getting nookie, you were a freak. I remember as young as 13 or 14 being embarrassed that I never had a girlfriend. And this sort of thing just snowballs in a vicious cycle as you grow older. Your lack of experience makes you shy away from these sorts of situations, which results in a further lack of experience. It was normal in the beginning of highschool. It was a little odd by the end of highschool. It was weird by the time of college. And in the mid-twenties, it's at a point where I have no good explanation for why I'm a >tfwnogf virgin, and thus am implicitly abnormal. At this point, it becomes pretty much impossible to break the vicious cycle.
And it's all my fucking fault. I've always been a perfectionist, and perfection is the enemy of good. I became immobilized because I wasn't able to be fucking Don Juan right from the get-go.
I just wouldn't fuck her if she did that. I'd just have her for companionship. However, I wouldn't bother with her if she had children, I'm not going to say "My wife's son" unironically.
OP, you're asking this question to a bunch of guys who are sitting in on Saturday night shitposting on here when every other normal person is out socializing.
Take that into consideration when you're reading the replies.
no, but i'm what /r9k/ would call a chad. I don't know how many women I've had sex with and I keep any girlfriends i get invested in on a tight leash.
a large part of it is attitude though, I'm a spooky skeleton manlet (albeit with a pretty face) but end of the day it's all about how you treat them.
which is basically, as children, otherwise they'll think you're boring.
Sup Forums never used to be filled with virgins. If anything, Sup Forums had more in common with /fit/ than /r9k/
The problem was the losers of /r9k/ became politicized - they used to accept that being weirdo shut-ins was their own fault but in the last year, have come to believe that there are political and societal reasons for it. This removes the onus on them to improve their lives - they can just blame it on feminism or whatever. And then they come on ere looking for vindication.
What I'm saying is they should fuck off back to /r9k/
Congrats on being the male equivalent of a white woman. It's okay for you to fuck anyone you want, but if your partner wants someone else, oh no, we can't let them do that.
Sup Forums has always been redpilled about women, you pussy worshiping cuck. Philanderers contribute just as much to the death of Western civilization as sluts do, because they enable them.
Fornication is degeneracy.
Confirmed for never having been to /fit/.
/fit/ is /r9k/ with more muscles. Just as autismo and >tfwnogf.
Id say we still have alot in common with /fit/ and while you do see people blaming the world for their problems you also see alot of people rising to the challenge to change their lives.
Sup Forums has certainly improved my life. I have become /fit/ and I have started to read books and really observe the world i live in.
Normies aren't interesting to socialize with so I don't consider this a bad thing
i'm a (kissless, dateless etc.) virgin but i think i'd probably avoid men who valued me higher for it, that just kind of reeks of insecurity and a gross attitude towards women. i don't personally get the appeal of casual sex and don't plan on having any, but people fall in love and form relationships that don't end up working out sometimes, i'm not going to fault them for having sex in those situations. idk, its probably a good thing "no hymen no diamond" exists anyway, because it gives you a nice big warning sign on dudes to avoid, even if you are a virgin
FTW you don't know where to find friends in your neighborhood
This.
I don't want to know gossips, what happens in the last chapter of an irrelevant serie, why do we need to eat more often salad to fart less and so on.
>i'd probably avoid men who valued me higher for it, that just kind of reeks of insecurity and a gross attitude towards women
In other words, you're a fat fedora cunt. No loss to us, desu
>Does a woman's previous sexual partner count matter to you and why?
Of course it matters, it should matter to everyone.
A woman can have multiple sexual partners, that's not a problem. The problem is from a statistical and logical standpoint, disease, mental disorders, and various other things coincide with how many sexual partners she has had.
I mean would you eat a burrito that everybody on Sup Forums has stuck their dick in?
Chad is going to break your heart then you're going to wind up raising Tyrone's baby alone and wishing you went with one of those "dudes to avoid"
Roastie bitch
>tfw no friends
>permavirgin
>never been out on a Saturday night
Yeah, who wants a guy that wants to minimize risk, and won't settle for used goods?
bait/10
Sociopolitical discussion is relevant, you dumb faggot.
I'm a monk, so I don't plan to settle with a woman. I have no sexual activity.
Despite what propaganda tells you it's not impossible. I'm living like this for 6 years.
>never been out on a Saturday night
You're not missing anything, unless you like chatting it up with smelly, drunk bar sluts that want you to spend money on them. Staying home and drinking is a hell of a lot better.
I've found there is also an issue with an IQ disparity. While I seek enjoyment out of abstract conversations, with mental challenges, normies talk about bland social trends that are generally counterfactual. Most people respond to me with nodding their head and making some dull or predicted comment.
>sexual marketplace
Fucking capitalists, isn't there anything you won't commodify!
>i'm a (kissless, dateless etc.) virgin but i think i'd probably avoid men who valued me higher for it,
So you are not proud when you should be because of feminism lies.
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Ouch
I know, just wish I had a gf so that I might feel less suicidal and motivated to do anything in life.
NOW IS OUR CHANCE!. SEIZE THE MEANS OF PROCREATION, FELLOW COMRADE
Yes, I have never and will never date a non-virgin.
Due to the stats (some user already kindly linked them) on the effect of sexual promiscuity on a number of things, taken in conjunction with Oxytocin and diminishing returns, it'd be absolutely stupid to date anything else.
Premarital sex is sinful.
Pray jesus, be virgin until marriage, marry (a virgin) and reproduce! Those are the words of god.
You cant ask in any way that will result in truth and yes it matters.
If you were going to buy a car wouldnt you want to know how much that car sells for? In order to judge a fair price?
Same with women why put a bunch of effort in for something that was being given away for free yesterday.
AMEN
nice projection my dude, but i have a healthy bmi and......are you seriously just using "fedora" as a generic insult for someone you dislike now? are you even aware of the origin of that term or
kek no thanks, i'm not sleeping with any tyrones under any circumstances, i just want dudes who aren't insecure whiny man children. generally you don't find any academic type dudes spewing this stuff anyways, its just lower/working class guys, so i probably won't run into it irl much anyways
>refers to human beings as "used goods"
what a loss
I've never had sex, or had a gf. I dated one girl. I don't know how much it matters because of that.