"We didn't immigrate to this country so that you could be a loser, user"

>"We didn't immigrate to this country so that you could be a loser, user"


T-thanks mum...

Where did they emigrate from, anyway? Lebanon?

Where did you come from?

Ukraine

...

Tell your parents you're better off being a loser in Canada than a chad in Ukraine

damn that's brutal, but as reply you should just say:
>"The moment we entered this country we became the losers mom"
proceed then to acquire a Chinese boyfriend to prove your point.

I want to fuck her silly

I don't see how that would help. They keep bringing up the fact that people work very hard there to have a small fraction of what I can achieve here with effort.

Well what are your parents doing? They have the same opportunities as you. Canada is way more competitive than Ukraine. A college degree won't even secure you a job nowadays

They're making okay money

Why does your mother call you loser? No job or education?

Yes. Well I've worked but only shitty slave jobs.

>i left behind everything i knew, came here without knowing a word of english, and managed to get a bachelors degree and a well paying job to support this family and you decide to spend your time talking with stangers on the internet on an anime website about which country is whitest?
sorry mom

Wow this is like a direct quote from my parents

Honestly I wouldn't listen to your parents then. If you don't feel the need to get an education and work long hours then don't. Like I said you're probably in a better situation now than you would be in Ukraine

But they have a good point. I could be working hard and getting somewhere in life.

If it doesn't make you happy then there's no point in it. When I was 15 I planned it all out on how to become rich but today I'm 19 and fine with a small apartment and some job that doesn't require much of my energy or give me stress

It would make me much happier than what I'm doing now though. A mediocre life isn't really worth living.

>be a loser
"So why didn't you rather stay there and kept fighting back Russia!? You haven't shown me how you fight! You worse than loser! You escaper!! betrayer!!"
What would likely to happen if you shout back to your respectable mother like above?

They left many years before the habbenings in Ukraine started so she'd probably ask me if I'm retarded.

>parents are supportive but you can see in their eyes the disappointment and frustration at you being a loser

Didn't they feel any premonition there?

and honestly I don't get the precise nuance of
>>could be a loser.
It sounds little bit excessive.
Dose it mean
>>"didn't immigrate so that you could be a lazy young in wealthy country" ?

Listen to them then. Clearly you matter to them and if you were actually incapable of being successful they wouldn't nag you to be.
You're in a self fufilling prophesy: you are a loser because you think that you are, and you don't have to be.

You betrayed our Ukraine? I understand moving to neighbour country for sometime like Pooland. But then return after sometime is natural. Like I will do after earning money to take care of my family. You betrayed us. You betrayed Ukraine.

Yeah, that's pretty much what they mean.

I'm afraid it's over for me user. The ship has unfortunately sailed and unless I get an addiction to stimulants I will not be able to recover.

I wouldn't fit in, Canada is my new home now.

Pavel, what have you done?

Say something in Ukranian

I got a criminal record for fraud over $5000 and can't find anything besides a cucked job

Some of us have it easy. Like you living in comfy West or me working in peace in slightly less poor country. But some people SACRIFICE THEIR LIVES FOR UKRAINE. I'm not worthy but when I return I will donate money to monuments of our heroes. It's all I can do, I'm too weak "autistic" for combat" I have tears in m y eyes right now. I wish I could be man enough to hold gun in battlefield to defend my country.

See if you can't get it expunged, otherwise you might be interested in, no joke, the Canadian Forces if you're a citizen. Join the Forces, then get them to pay for schooling for your service. I heard they offer something like that but I don't know that many details as I'm not in it.

We can't all be heroes, try to cheer up and consider what you can contribute instead.

Greatly considering it. Might be my last hope honestly.

Children don't owe their parents anything just for being born and raised by them. You shouldn't have children if you can't handle them not living up to your expectations.

>I got a criminal record for fraud over $5000
Lmao what the fuck

What did you do

Well, you do the best you can with what you got, so best of luck to you in your future endeavours!

>khokhol
>criminal record for fraud
color me surpised

Yeah yeah very funny thanks for contributing

They were already losers to begin with for leaving their country.

Because getting bombed is a preferable alternative to emigrating legally, right Abdul Abdullah al Mehicani?

Get a degree in like Welding, Plumbing or HVAC

Not sure how it works in canada but over here most bosses will know you're trying to turn your life around and as long as you're a hard working they'll probably look the other way.

Everybody thinks it's weak or autistic for combat in the beggining but if you don't go to the fight you will never know how strong you could be, shoot an rifle isn't that dificullt

>left many years before the habbenings
Different you what you said!!
You cheated on me!!

Different posters

Sorry

>A mediocre life isn't really worth living.
But a happy and comfortable style of life is worth living.

Enjoy the little things in life that makes you happy, my leaf friend.

Conquering challenges and looking back on something admirable that you've accomplished is what makes people happy though, or at least me.

You deserve to be cucked, moving to a country and then trying to shit up the place!

What is this?

What difference does it make? Everyone does the same thing in every country. Capitalism is just who cucks who harder, it's a hierarchy of cucking.

My family reunion.

That is the extact mentality why Ukraine is a shit hole. You will never fit in if you keep hold of that.

But it's true. Government officials regularly embezzle money, tradespeople make up shit wrong to fool old boomers, surgeons make up problems for money(tons of examples of this in recent years, insurance pays a pretty penny for some procedures), the entire field of marketing is mostly just manipulating emotions to sell shit... I could go on and on.

Why don't you set up small challenges then?
Come on dude, you live in Canada, not in a fucking shithole like argentina, why don't you try to make little steps, like getting a job to pay the university, a good hobby like playing tennis or something that you enjoy and things like that, i'm pretty sure that the style of living is way better there than the one of my fucking ugly country. There is no way that you don't have any chance at all to improve in life.

Unless I get my conviction pardoned I will probably never be able to get a decent job plus I have a slew of other problems to fix

Go back to Ukraine and fight for your mother country. You can an hero in a glorious battle with Russian militia and have a hero's death.

I don't have any interest in that, not huge on politics desu I don't think it's my battle.

Just a suggestion. It's an alternative to languishing away as a NEET. :^)

Are you a Canadian citizen? If you are just join the military. It's a good career and you won't look pathetic anymore

Of course. I was born here. Would they really take someone like me?

Probably. All you can do is try.

You can either go full time in which you'll be sent to a random base somewhere across Canada and it'll be a normal 9-5 job, or you can do it part time and join a local Reserve unit if there is one near you. Reserves don't give you much money though since you'll only be working like 1 day a week but it's still something to do

Do you have any personal experience?

No. I just know all about the process of joining because I've been considering joining for years now but never actually do.

Probably gonna just join my local reserve artillery unit soon

Oh that's too bad. Im reading through the Canadian forces subreddit, has a lot of info to read you should check it out too.

Yeah I've been there. I really want to join but I'm just shitty at committing to stuff. I keep telling myself I'll wait until the time is right but I don't even know when that will be, if ever. It's basically my last resort option if my life goes to complete shit and all my friends are gone and I have nothing to keep me going.

>A mediocre life isn't really worth living.

You might change your views once the wagecucking begins.

My parents are immigrants and don't have any qualifications. My father works in a factory and my mother is a cleaning lady. When I was young, I had interests in jobs that don't pay well at all, if you even get a job (Baker, graphic designer). So
I studied for years and now have a master's in engineering. I wanted to make them proud, have better chances at earning money, and prove myself something.

Work life as an engineer sucks in a lot of cases. You either get low paying positions or positions with a lot of responsibility and uncountable hours of overtime. Higher education is a scam in this rat race.

Don't think that's the case in Canada. Starting salaries (and progression) is high for STEM/business majors here. I've heard situations like yours are rather common in Europe but in Canada/US it seems a lot different.

In any case, a life of being a NEET or unskilled wagecucking is not even comparable, being a NEET isn't sustainable unless you get lucky and get away with crime or get buttpounded by a pack of Somalis in prison eventually. And unskilled wagecucking... well for obvious reasons.

"I know, you run away from your home country because you were losers back there"
You're welcome. You're also free to leave Canada and start your life over the same as your loser parents did. Worked for them.

where are your parents from anyway?

How would me leaving Canada "start my life over"? It only fixed their lives because they moved from a corrupt and impoverished shithole to a first world country.

Also I don't really meet any requirements to move to a new country (first world), it likely would just be about the same as here in terms of economic opportunities. Not sure what you mean exactly.

don't know your parents' story, but starting your life over in a faraway country isn't a difficult or new concept. if you're unfamiliar, the premise is if you failed in one society, you can be put in a completely different set of circumstances and do better

that's why people with meh degrees from Western countries can for example move to China or Korea or Singpore and tech language to rich kids and be reasonably successful.


first world countries don't have "more opportunities", only different ones. if I was a say a reasonably skilled welder or auto mechanic with savings of about $10000, I'd be more succesful starting a car workshop business in Russia than in Germany. because, no shit, there's more opportynity and a better market for low-skiiled labor in a poorer country

so depending on your skills and ability to socialize and learn a language, and how much of a failure you are in your country, you can move to another and start over

Moving to any country worth living in requires an education, desirable skills, language knowledge, job offer etc though.

I can't just decide Okay I'm moving to Norway now and simply book a flight and move there. Canada has a pretty high HDI and I don't think there's very many better opportunities for me in another part of the world. It's not the country that's the problem it's me.

This is what happens to our society when we let Slavs and Wogs in. It all began with the Irish, we lowered the bar of what was human from then onwards.

Anglos only. Everyone else should get out of Canada.

You do not belong in my country. Please leave.

Make me lmao

Why do you have to be so mean to us slavs? How did eastern europeans even get to Australia?

>not investing in buttcoin instead

shame on you

My situation is not really similar but I'm in my second year of electrical engineering studies and even though I'm decent at it I'm gravely unhappy. I never liked electrical engineering and I only enrolled it for money/greater job opportunity (there's a serious lack of engineers because 90% of them fuck off to Germany). I always, like since 1st year of high school knew I wanted to study philosophy but didn't go through it because everyone bashes philosophy as worthless degree and jobs ate scarce. My point is that you shouldn't succumb to social pressure and live your life the way you want to, just don't wake up one day in your 40ies regretting everything you've done

>Australia
なんでやねん

>slav working slave jobs

What's the problem?