Dealing with Degeneracy at Home

I have an honest problem, Sup Forums.

My wife, who died of breast cancer several years ago, was VERY promiscuous around our three girls. I used to try to confront her about it, but she was so thoughtless about it to the point of bordering on "innocence" that it didn't seem to make much difference.

She would always walk around nude and try to have sex with me in front of the girls. My wife had Haitian heritage in her family on her Father's side, and Afro-Brazilian on her Mother's side. She says nudity and sexuality weren't taboo among "her people" and always detested my modest "Western/Protestant" sense of restraint, often berating me as being a stuck-up prude.

Unfortunately, this rubbed-off on my daughters in the worst kind of way. They are obnoxiously lewd and have no respect for my personal space nor my sense of decency. I live alone now, but my house has a guest wing with three spare bedrooms. Aggravatingly, when my girls visit me, they will always crowd me in my bed. They also run around the house with no shame whatsoever, and spend very little time fully clothed. Worse, they invite their friends to do the same.

I love my girls to no end, and I know what sick thoughts you are thinking, but if you were in my position you would understand that there's nothing "cute" about it. I don't know what sane man lusts after his own. But I find their shenanigans unacceptable and aggravating to the point of making me physically ill. I don't deserve this!

>more

I don't believe you.

...

So here's the thing: My girls are frighteningly intelligent. All of them excel in math and science. The oldest manages the personal wealth of athletes and celebrities. The middle girl is a senior architect at a tech startup. And the youngest is still in college getting dual masters in math and computer science. The two older girls graduated with honors. Their GPA's are consistently over 4.0.

Also all of them seem to be not interested in "normal", loving relationships. All seem to be more promiscuous around girls. This saddens me and breaks my heart because a selfish part of me would love being a "traditional" grandfather. I don't believe they are lesbians, but they often will have several girlfriends that they keep around. From what I know they aren't sexually active. I am at a total loss.

This wouldn't be so bad if it weren't for the fact that my girls do this thing where they'll text me lascivious photos of themselves and their friends. And before you ask, NO: I am NOT sharing photos of my girls on Sup Forums!

They also hack my computers and my phone and use them to download lesbian porn and animal torture videos. I can't tell you how many times I've been embarrassed professionally when an associate or client of mine finds hardcore lesbian porn tabs and links on my machines.

I'm at a loss and was hoping you guys could advise me on how to deal with this situation objectively. Thanks in advance!

Years ago when I was in college, I had a male buddy of mine suffer from spousal abuse. He couldn't get people to understand him. He wasn't by means a small, faggoty guy! He was a beefy football-loving meathead. It's just that his wife was a crackhead and would throw violent fits, often injuring him to the point of fracturing bones and requiring stitches.

The thing is, he couldn't get anyone to sympathize with his situation. And now I understand why.

Places like these are my last resort. I come here because my girls frequent boards like these to find loli porn.

I'm just trying to understand the culture. But I get it that you wouldn't believe me. If someone could at least give me some perspective, however--even if you think I'm full of shit--I would appreciate it.

Are you just here to opine on your kids? I'm sorry for your loss, but we don't care.

I guess I'm just going to vent at this point.

One time, I threatened the girls to take them on one of those notorious daytime talk shows. The plan actually backfired, though, unfortunately, as they all got excited and couldn't wait to start trolling the audience.

After a while of being heckled by them, I caved. I sent a letter to Oprah's producers and to my surprise I actually got a response!

We were all packed and set to go but at the last minute Oprah's team called and declined. That was several years ago when Oprah was still hosting her own show on mainstream television. My girls heckle me to this day about it.

Are you black OP? If you're not, kill yourself you racemixing faggot.

>all this text
>no fresh prince
ya blew it

I'm your average black American male.

My wife was very fair-skinned, even though everyone else in her family on both sides are black as tar. She is the only one her color.

Our girls have a golden complexion like their mother. All of them are astonishingly gorgeous. They could have any man of any race they pleased. But no. They would rather make me miserable and download gigabytes worth of lesbian porn on my laptop.

>pic related
One of the few picture of my oldest wearing clothes like an actual civilized human being. Her eyes have been masked, of course.

You're full of bullshit and is just using an excuse to attention whoring your sick fantasy on here.
Honestly if you're just looking for otherkins like you to sympathize with this narrative fiction of yours I would highly recommend you go to .

The topic here is degeneracy. I see this topic often on Sup Forums. I figure here you will get the most harsh but honest opinions on degeneracy.

Sup Forums would demand I deliver tits or GTFO. Not gonna happen.

Besides, these are the kinds of message boards my kids frequent. I'm only trying to understand, not fit-in.

I think any concerned parent these days would try to understand more about what their kids are getting themselves into. I wish my girls were into shit like Pokemon Go, but alas. You guys provide them with an endless supply of loli porn to take-up hard drive space on my computers.

If you ask us what can yoy do... How the fuck can we know! I have a daughter too but my wife is a conservative woman. What else can you do? The best thing you can do i guess is try that they dont have daddy issues.

I think they took the loss of their mother very hard. I'm doing my best as a Father to provide for them. I admit, I often do spoil them, but you must understand that these girls did so well in school and in their careers that I almost feel compelled to reward them in some way.

That's the main thing, too: They know I love them so much and am so proud of their academic and career achievements that they prey on my gullible sentiments towards my wife and use that to aggravate the shit out of me. They get a sick pleasure from it knowing that I have no choice but to always love them.

Worse still, any time I try to bring a woman in my life, they get jealous of them and turn them against me. They pretend to be the woman's friend then make her behave just as degenerate as they do. It doesn't take long for them to snap nude photos of my GF's in the shower, changing, bending over, etc. And my GF's don't realize they are being played and typically go along with it thinking it's "cute".

I've been hoping for years that they'd just grow out of it but I don't think it's ever going to happen.

As much as they aggravate the ever-loving shit out of me, I guess I can say that I'm overall happy with my girls, and thankful they aren't sluts "out in the streets" bringing home bastard children and riddled with STD's.

OK op I've read enough, and if you are a troll 4/10 for getting my reply. I'm a psych major and I do a lot of work for Family and Children's Services.

Your girls are using their sexuality to bargain with you for your love, affection, and attention. I can tell you now that you are probably very busy and don't even realize it. You probably don't pay attention to them in a more nurturing sort of way. In essence you see them more like a projection of your dead wife and therefore they have grown to emulate her to please you. This explains why all of them exhibit the same morbid behaviour you described.

You cannot bargain for love. You have to spend actual time communicating effectively, not just listening for what you want to hear then rewarding them fit it.

Also, when you disciplined them for being lewd, it only makes them try harder to get your attention.

Now reward us with some delicious OC tits unless you're a lying faggot.

I guess this is the nicest most civil response I'll get here on Sup Forums so I guess I'll take it.

I will not lie: I am often very busy. I'm trying to do better, I swear! But what you're suggesting does make sense and gives me a lot to think about. I kinda feel worse now, though.

I appreciate the advice, but there's no way in all of creation that I'm going to post nude pics of my kids on here. Call me what you will. Any decent father here would agree with me.

I wish there was some other way I could thank you but that's going too far I'm afraid.

>She says nudity and sexuality weren't taboo among "her people"

pfft

Gonna need some picture proof for science.

Here's the best that I can do, fellas. Found a pic of the middle girl and her friend when they were trolling Sup Forums a while back.

>don't die on me thread
Is that your girl, the over laying down? And who took the pic? Was it you?

You now have the full attention of my cock, sir.

>black

Dropped

>cigarettes
>in the fucking house
>in the fucking bed

10/10, you got me.

Don't need to hear about your cock, user. As far as who is who it's your guess. And no I didn't take the pic you horny bastard.

You gotta fuck them dude. It's the only way.

Fucking disgusting and obnoxious. But to each his own. I think it's gross and unflattering of a woman to smoke.

>They also hack my computers and my phone and use them to download lesbian porn and animal torture videos.

Why wouldn't they do it on their phones, and how do they 'hack' them? They don't look very hacker type.

t. This is really bad trollin man
Pretty girls though

Oh Fuck. I just saw the images.
Don't fuck them. You got some ugly daughters.
I'd be disgusted too if these things ran around naked, or otherwise.

What part of obnoxious trolls do you guys not comprehend? And what's a hacker supposed to fucking look like anyway?

Chill man I just told them they're trolls.

Disown them.

>implying Indian women are the epitome of natural beauty
Go squat and take a shit on a public beach and STFU.

Sorry. NP.

As far as their hacking goes, no matter what security measures I use to lock my devices they always find a way to breach it. I'm no cyber security expert, but I'm no slouch, either. They're experts at computer hacking. Far better at it than I'll ever be, at least. They even got into my phone and it requires my fingerprint to unlock.

They hack everything from game consoles to cable boxes to cars. Alarm systems, highway signs, vending machines. You name it.

That's why I'm here on Sup Forums: To learn more about your guys's culture and how and why you do the shit you guys do. I obviously don't fit in, and I'm not trying to.

>kek
Sometimes I feel like I could, but never!

There's no "Indian women" nigger. There are a hundred kind. And yes, they're all better than the average nigger woman.

And none of this is relevant to the fact that your daughters are ugly.
It seems your wife's mom fucked some white man, since their family is full coal.

Don't blame me. I'm just being honest. I've seen some ugly women here, and yet black women are the most repelling things I've seen.

Don't know about the technical stuff.

Even if you wouldn't never disown them you can always threaten to do so if they don't clean up their act. If they get bored of the threat start spending like crazy and they'll see you mean it. Also demand from them to take STD tests at least twice a year if they want to come in your house on the basis that you are microphobic. Do some counter attacks on their lives.

I enjoy this nigger pasta OP

I hope it doesn't end in you sucking dicks.

Not a bad idea. Like I said: I tend to be a softie with them and give them anything they want.

My family says I don't show them enough "tough love". But outside of the sexual deviancy, obnoxious trolling, and computer hacking, they are model citizens. I've never had so much as a call from a school principal or a police report. Like, everyone other than their closest friends think they are perfect angels. They even have mine and my wife's family fooled!

I guess their torture only applies to me, specifically. Outside of that, they are upstanding, tax-paying, hard-working adults.

I've also really never seen them interact with boys other than to lead them on. I hate to admit it but the last thing I'm worried about is them getting pregnant or STD's, because they are not shy about bringing home their lady friends and sleeping in the same bed with them, sometimes in groups.

It's all the pornographic texts they send to me and the "paper trails" they leave on my computer equipment that vexes me.

So if I start rejecting them, it's because of my own inability to tolerate their nonsense. And according to user above, it's probably my subconscious rejection that's driving them to vie for my attention in the first place. Plus I can admit that I'm still not emotionally over the loss of my wife. I suffer a lot of self-blame over it.

But anyway, time stamp with your hand OP.
It's part of >Sup Forums culture.

>inb4lotion

I'm not new here. I just don't pretend to fit-in.

I apologise for being rude.
It's true that I don't find your girls attractive, but there was no reason to be rude.
You seem genuine.
Let me think about this issue.

Pics or didn't happen

You have to do it though because your softness enables them. Put some structure and discipline in your relationship with them. Otherwise you're just another of their boy toys and in the long run it will affect your own psyche.

About the softness, maybe you are replacing your wife with them and don't go hard because of your guilt?

Alternatively if you want to go with 4chin culture you could become an even bigger perv than them. Freak them out.

Thanks.

Here is an example
>pic related
This is an ex GF of mine, a professional dancer and mode, grinding on top of my daughter. I masked my daughter's eyes but not my ex'es bc I don't give two shits if you doxed her.

Meanwhile, the middle daughter snapped these pics only a few short weeks after my whore of a GF and I started dating! Imagine how I felt with pics like these blowing-up my phone while I'm at work.

I can see how this might be some of you guys's sexual fantasy, but believe me--if you were in my shoes it would not be so fun. Just seeing this pic aggravates me to the point I want to puke.

Is.. is one of their names Victoria?

>About the softness, maybe you are replacing your wife with them and don't go hard because of your guilt?
You hit the nail on the head, user.

I honestly don't know what to do. This shit is a nightmare.

>a professional dancer and model

Fucking makes me dry heave every time.

No.

I'm sorry user but this pic and your story are excellent fapping material. I'm screencapping this but please keep posting.

Also, I have a serious proposition for you. Let me start taking to your daughters. I get told by black chicks all the tiem that I'm one of those likable white boys. I can be a challenge to them that they need, and I'd be happy to give you the grandkids you do desire.

I'm not normally cucked for black chicks but if your girls are anything like you're describing then I'm game. Don't be a pussy, user. Do this for me!

Wow dude this over the top. Haha great stuff even if it's a prank.
Anyway, seems to me they do that in your face stuff only with you? Would you say they actually fear males even if they behave disrespectfully to you because you are a familiar they can control?
Ever actually told them that this shit bothers you in a calm but assertive way?

>implying this isn't at all creepy or anything
>implying put the lotion in the basket type shit

Post more pics op

>Anyway, seems to me they do that in your face stuff only with you?
Precisely. You get it! Then *I'm* the one who looks like an asshole when I get mad at them!

>Would you say they actually fear males even if they behave disrespectfully to you because you are a familiar they can control?
Excellent question, user. I hadn't considered it. But I wouldn't doubt it at all. They have to this day never brought a male to my doorstep except for when they were kids and would play with other kids from school or in the neighborhood. As soon as they got into puberty, all I would get night after night are gaggles of obnoxious teenaged girls romping around like wild savages.

>Ever actually told them that this shit bothers you in a calm but assertive way?
>All
>The
>Time
I once took their cell phones away as a punishment, and they were able to seduce my wife's side of the family to replace them like right away! I was livid!

They are deadly smart and criminally sharp-minded girls. They know exactly what they're putting me through. They just don't care one iota.

I think you're overreacting. (Yes, I know it sounds absurd to you, as a father. And yes, in my culture they'd be thrashed.)

They're smart enough to protect themselves. They're smart enough to be independent. They're smart.
The only issue is their sexual behaviour towards you. They simply got it from their mother. "Lol. Your dad is such a prude. We should make him normal."
The American society goes soft on this behaviour. According to these girls, they're just having fun, trolling you.

You need to accept that they'll probably never change.
Thankfully(!) your society won't abandon them over it.
So tell them how you feel, and tell them you'll always be there to protect and support them if need be, but that from here on you need to keep your distance for the sake of your sanity.
Spend some time alone. Take a vacation alone.
And spend more time away from home daily until they realise how much they're hurting you.

>So tell them how you feel, and tell them you'll always be there to protect and support them if need be, but that from here on you need to keep your distance for the sake of your sanity.
Spend some time alone. Take a vacation alone.
And spend more time away from home daily until they realise how much they're hurting you.

I agree with IndiAnon. By your tone it seems it has already taken a toll on your psychological well being. It's time to look after your self.

Was their mother dead when they hit puberty and that behavior started?

Thanks, user! I take back my insults to you earlier.

I appreciate your advice to the point where I'm admittedly becoming emotional. I'm truly humbled, guys.

I honestly don't have many of them as adults with their clothes on and/or not performing sexual acts with other girls. It's like trying to sift through PornHub for a G-rated video.
>pic related
Middle daughter texted me a pic of her sister hacking into my laptop after I had the hard drive fully encrypted and had the entire system undergo military-grade hardening for high-level government security clearance purposes. I needed a key fob to get a rotating access code. She still hacked into it before I could get back home from work that day.

They even picked the lock to my equipment closet and the lock I had on the laptop bag itself.

>Was their mother dead when they hit puberty and that behavior started?
Just before the oldest hit puberty. Daughter was 11 at the time.

As ugly as it seems, part of me feels that they blame me for their mother's death. I did everything I could. When the cancer took hold, it was all over. Part of me died with her that I will never get back. I'm doing my best to raise her girls the best way I can. I'm only glad that I seem to be the only target of their mischief other than Sup Forums occasionally. I need to find a way to be satisfied with what I have and just deal with it.

>bump
MOAR! Get in here, faggots! This is literally the most impossible thing to happen here evar.

You might be able to bring the youngest girl your way by doing this.
But make sure she isn't too separated from her sisters.
Or else, maybe just separate her so that you'll have someone with you in old age, in case you piss off the other two forever.

Not a bad idea. I need a vacation like you and Kosherbro suggested. Maybe I take at least the youngest girl with me. I don't know. But these are all good suggestions, and I appreciate the insight.

>As ugly as it seems, part of me feels that they blame me for their mother's death.

Jackpot

I think they do blame you and they also sense your guilt which reinforces their animosity towards you. That's why they harass your gfs. They don't want you to move on. You should tell them and make it very clear that cancer is a grave condition and you are not to blame. You did and provided everything that was possible.

This is taking a dark turn user. I think they do want to see you miserable maybe to the point of some kind of mental breakdown. It's like they're taking some kind of revenge on you. Create some barriers.

Maybe it's my paranoia but I think they want to see you dead or destroyed at least. Losing their mother was a big trauma but it's not your fault.

fuck, fuck em hard till they respect you..make them call you daddy.

This has been cathartic. This is one of the first times anyone has ever been able to understand my situation.

This is why I came to Sup Forums: Because I know my girls frequent Sup Forums and I figured if anyone could clue me in to their mentality it would be you guys.

Do they support Hillary and BLM?

>they invite their friends to do the same
Sounds good to me.

Also the flag surprised me; I would have guessed it'd have a fucking leaf on it.

This is serious shit. I mean group psychotherapy tier. All that anger must come to light.

I was hoping it wasn't that bad.

Finding the hacking thing a bit difficult to accept though. I mean, encrypted and all.

No. They are mostly apolitical like I was when I was their ages. John Kasich but when he dropped out they all wanted Bernie Sanders. We haven't discussed politics recently given Sanders' endorsement of Clinton.

Had Ohio Governor John Kasich stayed in the race I would have considered him. But now I'm at a loss.

My oldest daughter actually interned with Mr. Trump and he's personally hosted my family and I on several occasions for food and entertainment. He's a very nice guy--warm and funny--but he has a lot more to do to convince me he's Presidential material. You just don't give people access to our nuclear arsenal just because they are generous hosts, if that makes sense.

Well, the story seems genuine enough for a genuine reply.

Honestly, the paranoid viewpoint seems too extreme. I don't think they would blame you for their mother's death. It would take some pretty bizarre circumstances for that to an actual motive behind their behavior.

I believe their behavior stems from the normality they feel like they're lacking now that the household is broken (with their passed mother). To compensate, they act out in a way that brings the conditions of the household back to a state close to how it used to be.

Since they are struggling to reach that normal point in their lives once more, I would meet them halfway. Try to become a little more involved in their lives, but obviously don't cross those boundaries you have set for yourself.

I agree with the vacation idea. Secure your boundaries. I would buy a separate phone and/or computer and make devices your daughters have access to more secure (passwords) and less intrusive to you (silence your phone).

I also think you should try and meet them on an individual level and build a stronger one on one connection. You shouldn't bring any complaints up. Just enjoy your time together as much as possible.

But what do I know... I'm just a janitor.

Thanks for the advice, user. Your occupation isn't always a measure of your character.

Cool.
Regarding your problem, I think your first priority is take some time off, release some tention, distance your self from this torture. Your daughters want to see you suffer and your guilt makes you believe you deserve to suffer. All that work on a subconscious level. It's tricky stuff.

You should talk to a professional about it like the psychfag above. They are grown ass women. You don't owe them shit. They are not kids anymore.

I have to keep telling myself that. You're right: They aren't babies anymore! I did my best and sat by their mother until she passed. It was the best that I could do.

My girls will do fine without me.

You're right. I need to get some place far away and get a fresh, new perspective on life.

Holy shit did I just become enlightened on a Sup Forums board at my age????

Meh would give us so much credit but if it actually helps you get through it's a win.

Any more pics of the dancer ex?

You forgot to mention the part where your daughters can warp reality, kill anything with one punch and have sharingan eyes that can shoot bankais at people.

This is stupid.

Psych fag here. Pro tip: Your girls resent you and thereby resent other men. They obviously had a strong maternal bond. When you rejected their mother for her promiscuousness, it was like you were rejecting them as well. I agree with Indian on; you shouldn't have made such a big deal out of the situation. Now your wife is gone and it will be impossible for you to create that esam strong maternal bond with your girls.

They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. Hit the road, Jack. Maybe in time they will mature and realized that you weren't the bad guy after all. Shit, it might take years, even.

Sorry, niganon. Don't know how else to put it to you.

Unfortunately none without her sexually entangled with my daughter. My girls have dumped them on Sup Forums before. They're on here often enough. Just put out a request and see.

They're all on an old phone of mine that I haven't erased yet.

Fucking harsh. But I hear you.

If you won't share pics of your girls, at least share the animal torture videos.