How do you deal with the crippling loneliness Sup Forums?

how do you deal with the crippling loneliness Sup Forums?

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Are you lonely or horny? Your picture implies the latter, and that is solved by masturbating.

Stop being bitch. You're never alone and if you are, it's by choice. I haven't had a friend in 10 years now and honestly not too bad. Haven't had sex in 7, and I still don't give a fuck.

I'd like to think I'd enjoy that image in any state of mind

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That wasn't the question, you dingus.

drugs

being that alone is not good for you user

just lonely. I've become less interested in all forms of porn lately. It's depressing

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Then find friends to hang out with.

This. So long as you understand you make your own prisons and take responsibility for your situation, it get's easier to deal with. Because this way if you want you can make things better. Me I don't have the social skills I need to maintain friendships, so to save myself and others a hard time I don't reach out any more. I'm happier as a result. I'll occasionally chase tail, but I know I can't keep her for long and I understand that's just the way it is.

dont u get lonely?
dont u ever want someone to have fun with and goof off and just talk?

this

yes but acceptance of loneliness isn't an answer one should settle for

Funnily, I have the strongest mental states of my entire family.
Exactly, I have the social skills but find the whole thing arduous.
Not really, go read a book or something.

I don't understand how someone could not have the social skills to be friends with me. Just literally don't be an asshole.

Hell I had a friend who was a Sup Forums tard degenerate. He told me a story of how he lost his shit, pissed in a bag, and then threw it out of a 10 story window.

I thought this was amazing. He was also the type that nobody would ever let talk and just in general he didn't know how to socialize, but that never bothered me. I just be straight with people.

If someone can't read your emotions? I just told him. I taught him social cues too, introduced him to my other friends at the time, and eventually he met his girlfriend like that.

I don't think not having social skills is a reason. Maybe if someone is an asshole then sure. But I'm alone now too so who knows. I just don't try enough I think

It's just the situation I'm in. I was abused as a kid, I never got a chance to develop the social skills you need in life to make friends. Through my teen years it didn't get better. I can talk to people and I'm generally well liked, but I don't get how to make friends. I wouldn't really say I was lonely, haven't had a true friend in almost 15 years. I've learned how to take care of myself and survive in life without outside help.

>Exactly, I have the social skills but find the whole thing arduous.

I can find it tiring too, but I'm just too stressed out and anxious and it wears me out. I have my work and hobbies which keep me distracted. I'm quite established in my trade.

If you're suicidal then whatever you wanna do whether its leap, cut, or shoot, do it, no one will stop you.
If you're lonely then just make acquaintances with people you see day to day and over time you can get friends and then they will introduce you to their friends and all of a sudden you got 100+ people that know you and like you and 1-3 people that really care about you.

>I'm generally well liked but I don't know how to make friends

1000× this. I just can't seem to bridge that gap.

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I have a well developed disdain for most people so I enjoy the solitude.
Not meaning to sound edgy, im ust not a people person.
That having been said, if you have a problem with loneliness, go out and be you. Most will think you are weired. Thats fine. To you THEY are weired. Eventually you'll find peeps that dig you for you. To all the rest, fuck 'em.

I practice staring at my wall for 6 hours at a time. I sleep 6 hours. That’s 1/2 day gone and 1/2 the loneliness. I guess I’m a mathematician genius in a way. A true reality hacker in the flesh.

>Just literally don't be an asshole.

I'm not an asshole to people, generally the opposite. It's hard to explain, but I can't relate to people, I find it hard and this can fustrate myself and others because it's kind like for some people talking to a wall. I also don't really have much of a concept of fun. I cannot relax for long enough. I've being told I can be standoffish and distant.

I'd go out for a beer with you and chat. But I'd just feed back at you. If that makes sense.

You're an introvert that's to be expected. I was just tired of everyone and everything that everyone was doing. Just said fuck the whole thing.

by fapping a whole bunch

how do you cripple loneliness ?

It's fustrating. I usually go over board with being helpful and nice to the point I once helped my friend move a sofa and got caught up in a hostage situation. Kinda funny looking back on it, but I give too much, or too little and I just have no idea what I am going.

this might be my favorite thing I've heard in a while. You'd probably be quite interesting because that's some innovative ass logic.

It's like when I figured out if you can manage to never orgasm you can masturbate endlessly. Which is normally impossible but if you orgasm enough times it gets progressively harder. Very easy way to spend 6 hours

You don't "make" friends, you become friends. The easiest way is to talk to people who share interests and hobbies and ask them to hang out with you. Not for the goal of making friends, but just to hang out.
You do have hobbies and interest that aren't related to sitting in front of your computer, right?

always remember that most everyone you see on the streets will feel the same. Find solice in that or just try and find some other people you just vibe well with

ahh. All listening but no talking? As in... you don't share on your own?

I've caught myself just being people's therapists. Because I never told them anything but they'd tell me things. So therapist was the best I could get, which isn't much better than being alone

Yeah that's it. I can relate to people, but then I just run out of stuff to say. People tell me all sorts of shit I just wish they hadn't. Usually when I try open up to others they just don't want to know or care. I just keep it surface chatter.

I always thought I'd make for a good spook interrogator or some shit. After 15 minutes of being with someone sometimes they tell me shit they'd never tell anyone else. I've never abused this trust of anyone mind you.

You seem like a legit guy. I hope you find happiness, but I have to go. Fixing my collogues saw for beers.

You’re assuming people here have normal interests and hobbies or are interested in normal interests and hobbies. For example, if you aren’t interested in sportsball competitions, you have nothing to talk about with people at work.

lonliness is for beta soy cucks

if you cant enjoy your own company no one else will enjoy it either. people like you get desperate and push yourself on others at first glimps of what could possibly become a friendship so you scare people away.

fill your life with fun shit.

Work hard to forget life.

Use that money to go out and do cool shit. Different adventure every weekend. Post fucking photos of everything you do on facebook.

Do indoor skydiving one weekend, vr game session another weekend, camping another weekend, etc.

Before you know it, people will knock a path to your door.

May take a year, but what a fucking year!