How often do most married couples fuck? Does the sex slow down fast, slow, or not at all?

How often do most married couples fuck? Does the sex slow down fast, slow, or not at all?

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I've been married just over 21 years and we fuck 3-5 times per week and the sex has does nothing but improve by the day.

Granted, she is still hot, so that helps :)

My wife and i fuck about 2 times a week. Sometimes more. Sometimes less. Depends what is going on.

This. But 19 years married.

21 years married guy here. I assume you guys still getting along great as well?

Not married yet but been together 6 years

Sex evolves, frequency is the same. 3-5 times per week.

Sex in some ways is a lot better now, but in some ways worse. Better because we're so in tune with each other we know what the other person likes and how to do it. Also, nothing is "off limits" (anal, toys, fantasies, etc) and since there's no judgement or shame we can talk to each other about any of that stuff.

Overall a net gain.

However, some of the stuff that faded is mostly related to stuff like her dressing in sexy lingerie, costumes, that sort of thing. She did it a lot more when we were earlier on in the relationship and it faded over time. Don't get me wrong she still does it, but it's like a few times a year rather than more of a regular part of our routine. So I miss things like that, but overall I guess I'd prefer frequent and good sex without limits.

Plus if I buy her a costume or lingerie she'll wear it, so I guess it's not really "gone" so much as she decided over time she'd rather I spent the money on it than her having to do it. So give and take I suppose.

Married 8 years, 34 now. We have a 5 year old kid. I usually have sex with my wife 1-2 times a week and it's still good. I work a busy job too.

Idk, but the couple that lives above me fucks 1-3 times per day. The bed creaks and slams into the wall with the dude's glorious thrusting, I'm estimating he has a below average size due to the thrust frequency. And the woman has some odd moaning, she just makes a very high pitched noise, i don't think it comes out naturally.

It comes and goes. I’ve been married for 8 years and sometimes we’ll fuck 7 times a week for a couple of months and then we’ll slow down and go through a period where we fuck like once a week. It really all depends on what’s going on. Not watching porn definitely helps though.

Yep. "Married my best friend" kinda relationship.
I got super lucky, brethren. Hope you did too.

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I'm a fag. I fuck randoms plus my boyfriend about 10+ times per week if I also count dickgirls. Cisfags are such losers

Absolutely did as well. Good on you, man. We are few and far between.

Married 13 yrs with 3 kids. Fuck on average once a week, if lucky twice. Sex is still amazing. Before we had kids, we fucked 5-6 times a week.

Not married but been together 8 years. Haven't had any sexual contact at all for about a year now. So bored.

OP here, I was asking because I'm getting ready to marry someone and wanted to know what I might expect in that area. Sounds good so far, but its definitely a case by case thing. I just hear so many people say the sec falls off or stops or sucks, and im worried it might happen to us based on the way things have happened before, but I guess it's an ebb and flow, just like you all said.

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>no sex for a year

How does this happen user? You said you're bored so I assume it isn't your choice; how the hell do you allow this?

If my gf and I don't fuck more than once a week I have "the talk" with her to set the ship right once again, and figure out what factors are preventing us from doing it more and whats going on if there's more to it. It's happened a few times, and each time we went back to 3-5 times a week after solving the issue or whatever.

How the hell do you go 1 year? If it's not a medical thing it sounds like the relationship is long over.

>I'm getting ready to marry someone
Being married isn't the deciding factor. It's life-stresses... kids.... shit like that. She ain't going to change suddenly because there's a ring on her/his finger.

My wife's libido went way downhill after kids. She's starting to get it back now, but she's got to be drunk, and it's once a week at best. We have two kids... a maybe-failing business.. and a dying mother in law... so that can make intimacy difficult.

Enjoy your dick cancer faggot.

I suppose because there are much bigger problems in my life, so the lack of sex is a very minor issue by comparison.

We still love each other, but it does feel like it's over.

Married for 3 years, together for 10 years. 1 or 2 per month, basic vanilla sex, goddamn boring but I have to do it. For me it could be no sex at all, it bores me to hell, waste of time.

My girlfriend is super catholic and won't have sex with me until we get married. She won't even use tampons due to the fact that they go inside you.
We touch each other sexually a lot and I give her head but she won't give me head.
Should I not worry about this?
She really loves me and does a lot for me.
She's fucking banging and I get hard just by touching her or thinking about doing the stuff we do in bed.

U are getting cucked dude, when u give head she should also blow u... Trust me this only get worse

She's made me cum and she really enjoyed it. Does that matter at all?

Yeah, that's right I guess. I don't know, maybe just the idea of marriage conjure up my inner social expectations or something

Married 11 years. No sex in about 4 years. My choice. She stopped asking. Sex is a chore. Not into it like I was 30 years ago. Age 53 now.

Can't tell if bait. GTFO of this relationship of real.

If she really loves you, she’ll let you fuck some strange.

Three times per week,
is commonly assumed to be the average,
according to most sources.

36, married 10 years with 4 kids, we fuck almost every day. Usually when we wake up since we tend to wake before the kids. When she wakes before me she almost always wakes me up with a blowjob which is great except for the having to take a morning piss thing. Weekends, at least once in the morning and usually once during the day and then after the kids go to bed. Sex life has only gotten better with time.

Yeah I'm not baiting. I've got severe depression and was literally weeks away from suicide when her and I fell in love.
I love this girl for real. She gives really good handjobs and we grind.

I'm worried if I get too impatient and sick of it and end up dumpong her for someone that actually has sex with me, that I'll regret it for the rest of my life.

She's a really good girl. She's super embarrassed about sex since she's almost 30 and still a virgin.

I can see the love in her eyes when she looks at me.

Correction. She saved me from my depression and those thoughts.
Never met a girl like her. She puts up with my shit and I put up with hers.
I feel like I should keep her and marry her

This happens with wife of 19 years. For awhile we will both be on the same page and are horny more often and we flirt or get quickies in the shower or at lunch on tge days the 5 year old goes to school 3 times a week.
Then we will both have a dry spell where I won't FAP for a week. But then there is a 80% chance of doggy style if we hurry before a kid comes looking for the ipad or snuggles or whatever.

Why not marry her right now then?

I gotta become catholic first and we've been dating for 2 months. We live together too if that matters

I was telling 2 women (one of which is my aunt) the other day that you have to ignore a girl to a point. I said "Think about it. Do you remember when you found a dude you liked and were into? You'd wear your nicest clothes, spend an hour looking in the mirror trying to make sure you looked PERFECT, and you practically rushed out the door to go see him? You wanted his attention, right? You did everything to make yourself stand out and make yourself look cute, right? Well what happened when you finally got him and you guess ended up in a relationship? You started wearing your hair up, you started wearing sweatpants in front of him, no makeup, the whole thing. You felt comfortable not looking your best in front of him at some point, didn't you. And you know why? Because you already knew you "had him". NOW when you guys go out to a restaurant or on the town, you are putting on your nice clothes and your makeup for OTHERS. You know your boyfriend is already yours, so you get ready for the public. There comes a point when you aren't doing it for him anymore."
If you leave her on "Read"? She will continue trying for your attention. DON'T GIVE IT TO HER. YOU are the prize mate, not her. She is gonna threaten you too. She might say "I'm gonna leave!" or tell you she's gonna stop trying or she'll casually drop the "I'm looking around" line. She wants you to think that she's got dudes lined up and that you may have "competition". It's all a shit test. She's bluffing to get your attention. If there is one thing you need to learn about women if you want to navigate the dating scene? It's that women are fucking con artists. They are bullshitters all day. They're so full of shit that it's coming out of their ears. And NEVER take dating advice about women FROM women. Awful idea. You're bound to fail if you do that. You want her coming back? Ignore her for days. She'll come back.

Guys*

been married 21 years. used to have sex almost every single day for over 15 years. wife had a hysterectomy since then.. maybe 2-3 a week.

I've been ignoring a few girls for 5 whole years now, any minute now they'll break and crawl to me so hard they'll agree to all be my fuck toy cum slaves. Right guys? Right?

This is true if you're just tryin to smash. If you're trying to have a girl who is LTR or wife material then don't play these games. You don't want a woman as a long term partner who thinks like this or plays these games.

Some guys will say "it's all women!" but it's not. I'll fully admit the women who aren't like this are VERY few and far between. So good luck.

Not if you're a Quasimodo lookin' guy, no. Otherwise what I said is true.

ok im not married, but with gf almost 10 years now (30yo atm). We do it a lot less then at the start, from 4 times per week to 1-2 per month now.

I can agree to a point. I wanted to say "But know your limits if you actually want her to stick around. Push TOO hard and she surely will leave." But, my post was already too long. Had to cut that part out. And yes, those girls are very rare indeed. A "good girl" is like a rare gem. I'll stumble across a million dollars on the street before I find one I'd wife.

Married 5 years, together for 7. It’s gone up and down. We have two young children 3 and 6, it was rough for a while but my wife always put out. Now that the kids are growing and becoming more independent we have been fucking at least 3-5 times a week. She shed her baby weight and I swear this pussy just gets better and better. She’s hotter now then when I met her.

Already living together, wow

Why not married yet?

This is a fuckin disaster, are you trapped bruh?

Don't wana end it. I really enjoj spending time with her. But sex is just not there... I guess not everything is about sex

Married 19 years
Once or twice a week
BJs during period

Been told I can have her any way and any time, but she's fat so I prefer fapping usually.

Stop jerking off.