Want your opinions Sup Forums on this small debate I've been having. With a friend who is a Chad. The long and short of it is that so long as you talk to girls and be there friend eventually the opportunity will come where sex can occur (i.e. your both drunk at a party, or she needs a place to stay. Blah blah etc etc)
But my opinion is that being their friend straight up gets you friend zoned. Cus shit ain't ever happened like that to me. And I'm normie looking. (Even after getting in shape people have told me that my face is just "plain")
So what's your take on this debate. How would you approach a scenario like this.
If he is a Chad then he can enter into a complete non-sexual relationship with a girl and be friends since they already want to fuck him and still do throughout the friendship. It's like the reverse of the beta guy situation where he is willing to be friends with any girl just because he wants to fuck them. I'd say unless you are true chad tier then you at least have to flirt/hint with the girl so she knows whats up and can then reject you or keep things going. It's worked decently for me and I'm probably a 7/10 at best.
Jaxson Hughes
Hmm good advice for him being a Chad can have it's curses. His slightly autistic nature makes him want to be friends with everyone.
The other day he was telling me that he was having laughs and banter with a girl at uni and invited out for coffee to bond more. Then she tried to escalate things to more then that and he had to tell her that he sincerely thought they were just friends. (Friendzoned out of autism rather then the way women do it to have an orbiter)
So that kind of adds to the point of being friends and getting laid is only something someone as good looking as him can do
i got in great shape and had a chad era, tinder rampage, talking to girls at parties or in class just so i can fuck them.
it's more personality and hygiene from my experience. you need to be out going and don't take rejection too hard. after i let go of trying to look a certain way or act someway or another i got laid way more often.
now i have a big tubby belly and my dick shrunk to 5in. from the fat (lost an inch) and i can still get laid. dont get me wrong it's not as easy, but sluts are just as easy.
if you really want to get laid look at it like a numbers game. if you spit game at every girl eventually you will find some girl horny enough to put out.
if you want a relationship, work on yourself and it will come basically effortlessly
It boils down to this: Mutual attraction (attraction in women is SOO much more than just physical) And connection. If a woman is attracted to you in any way and feels close to you, a moment of weakness will eventually occur and bang boom zippidty zoop.
Honestly it sounds like your Chad friend is outgoing and naturally physical attractive as well. Chicks dig men who let them see their vulnerable side. That doesn't mean be a pussy and break down crying, it means they want to see your raw passion.
Christopher Evans
Being attractive helps. Distance helps. If it's a girl you haven't seen in years, you have a better chance than with a girl you see every other day. Confidence helps. Drugs/alcohol helps. Sometimes it is all timing. Neither of you are wrong. It really depends on who you are and who they are. Theres no guarantee it could or wont happen. People are complicated lol
What you say is absolutely the truth. I cannot think of a single female friendship I've ever had (and I've had many) where the option to have sex wasn't there for at least some length of time. I honestly believe that sex is just part of the way women form connections. I guess it just boils down to what you want. If you get the chance, fuck her, unless you're really just not interested. Women are easy to befriend (and by extension, have sex with, due to how loose they are.) Take care you don't wait too long though, if you don't show interest within a certain time-frame, she will lose interest as well and the opportunity will be gone forever.
Asher Martinez
>>Your both right, its based on how you carry yourself, bitches sense youre a pussy they wont respect you enough to fuck you. If they like you they will let you fuck
Aaron Nelson
He is correct user, the friendzone is a myth created by girls to get guys to do stuff for them. You just have to get the right time and place and not to be a pussy about it and try. Its better to be in the friendzone makes it easy.
