25 year old virgin autist here. I've been jacking off to internet porn since I was like 10. Never developed any social skills with girls and thus no pussy.
Just curious... how did you feel after having sex for the first time? Is it basically the same as masturbating or do you develop a stronger libido? A stronger sexual instinct? Awakening of the beast maybe?
What are your observations?
First time is usually fumbling and awkwardness.
Second time makes you see how overrated it is.
It’s fine, and you can have great sex, but it’s not the end all be all.
Maybe stop putting it on a pedestal and you might convince another autist to let you rub your helmet across her asshole.
I was like you. Well too much porn made erections difficult, simply saying a naked woman was not enough to maintain it, which made her sad. I managed to make my dong hard again my masturbating her and watching her tits move in rythm. Then we fucked, it was bland and I didn't feel anything at all thanks to years of masturbation and the condom.
Quit masturbation and porn or don't abuse it. It will destroy real sex. I had to stop for MONTHS to gain libido and sensitivity back to normal levels. Now it's all fine and fun.
But my first was pathetic.
I can only dream fren
>Awakening of the beast maybe?
definitely this if i havent gotten laid in a while. sometimes after months or years of not getting laid you just get lazy and complacent.
overall though, once you start getting it regularly actual sex isn't that great and it's overrated. blowjobs are far better, as is just playing with boobs or having a woman walk around the house half-naked or just affectionate things like cuddles/kisses.
anyone who doesn't think blowjobs are better than sex straight up hasn't had a good blowjob yet.
a properly good bj feels like your soul is being sucked out of your dick by a succubus as your mind is wiped clean.
First time, masturbation felt better, second time kinda seeing the good in it, after around 3-5 times it gets more enjoyable than just masturbating.
Part of the reason it didn't feel so good is that I masturbate everyday
Good advice much appreciated. Need to keep up the NoFap streak!
That sounds like an exquisite experience. Hoping that if I can find some random girl to fuck that will help develop instincts to stay away from porn and back to real women.
the most noticeable feeling for me was the freedom, i did NOT use my hands on my dick and i did NOT have to worry about my cum making a mess. hard to explain but thoose two things are on your mind when you fap, when you fuck it isnt and thats a weird feeling if you are a professional fapper like me.
you have not missed the boat yet, just lower your limit enough. it is better to fuck used up sluts with 3 kids than to die a virgin.
Good to know man! Gotta get myself out there and get it done I guess.
Bunch of faggot virgin LARPers in this thread
its not my thing so i have not tried it, but there are milfs out there who would drag you home from the pub and fuck the living shit out of you if you tell them you are a virgin. women get really horny once they pass 30-40 and they might find virgin men as much fun as boys age 20 find younger virgin girls.
All it is a highly anticipated and somehow overly satisfactory release till you feel the need to do it again..... like jacking off in the perfect setting with the perfect porn and it all ends to quickly
Different virgin user here... and I actually like this idea. Don't know if that's how I will lose it, but I'll keep it in mind. Thanks!
After having sex for first time I craved more. I ended up getting with a prostitute I met on the street and fucked the ever living shit out of her. I did notice an "awakening of the beast". You start being more bold and start talking to women more in hopes of punani. "No" just becomes another word with no meaning. You get used to being rejected, but you also start noticing youre more attractive than you thought. That builds confidence and you just say fuck it and live life. Sex is just like a drug you just gain pleasure for no purpose. Then you get over that phase and stop chasing pussy and you start chasing that cheese, that money. Then the pussy chases you. Its all a big meme, dont worry about it. Focus on yourself, build character, work out, etc. Pussy will always come to you once youve mastered your Self.
this about BJs. I used to think they're "meh" and was kinda disappointed until like 25 because I always expected them to be the best thing ever and they were not so good, lot of times didn't even cum. Then I hooked up with this chick who did super sloppy deepthroat BJs and I had the sickest orgasms of my life.
TL;DR: BJs rule. Sloppy ones are best. I'm talking "her salilva is running down my dick in streams" sloppy.
this 100%. just shoving my cock down a cute girls throat as deep as it could go turns me on more than anything. I agree.
First time was pretty cool, pussy is dope.
Second time is better, since you're getting a hang of it. After that it becomes better and better, until you hit a stalemate, where it's just good but nothing really exciting.
As another user said, don't put it on a pedestal, but that's easy to say, hard to do.
You don't develop a stronger libido, I'd say. But it all depends on what girl you're with. 2nd girl I dated back then, was a nympho and she was down to do anything really, which my young brain couldn't handle, I was a monster for a few months.
If you're really autistic good luck, If you're just rusty in social skills you got a shot.
user is right, a deepthroat is probably the best thing ever. But too much of one thing etc etc.
Sex is just alright, but getting used to it is a huge mistake. It is a drug, as much as any action can be. Understand masturbation is the same.
it works, just be prepared for some really sloppy cunts, you are not fishing for 10/10s after all, that might come with time and practice. and dont brag about your virginity but dont hide it either. just be honest if the conversation turnes that way.
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