In this day and age of anti-masculinity, how can one be a man and stay sane?

In this day and age of anti-masculinity, how can one be a man and stay sane?

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Gender reassignment surgery

Going cocoon mode is the only way

You don't give a fuck like most men. Holy shit you act like its so difficult.

Just be you.

>*tips fedora*

A lion doesn't need the approval of the gazelle to fuck shit up, a lion does his thing. Men need to not worry about the repurcusions of their own actions, women like decisive men who don't give a fuck. As soon as you show indecisiveness, you lose your manly advantage.

The issue isn't about the age of anti-masculinity.

The issue is that girls can now see hundreds of guys a day that have more money than your average guy and it makes them want a guy like that.

They don't want someone that's working a blue collar job or even a white collar job. They just want to leech of a man with a lot of disposable income so they can be brought shit.

Read books by men, lift, be a man.

After lurking on Sup Forums for many years you'll learn that you should act like a jew as per the elders of zion but your intent should be good

For more on this read Ride the Tiger by Evola

I sincerely hope you're not implying the man pictured is a good example of masculinity. An aging faggy hipster is still an aging faggy hipster, no matter how fashionably they dress and how bushy their beard.

that's only for when they're done fucking Chads. they feel their dating pool is shrinking due to their degrading looks, and scramble to find a nice submissive beta to fund their marriage/kids fantasy.

A true man can get women without dangling money in front of them. A true man can give tingles to a woman, something a beta never can. That's why women who are married to successful men still fuck the poolboy

You have to go up into the mountains and live away from the corrupting influence of society.

Be attractive.

What, you really thought there was more to it?

I don't think I'm the most masculine dude, but city people tell me that they think I'm "rugged and rough". I'll break down some things I do and some other things I've picked up:

>lift weights, just enough to have SOME muscle
>clothing that fits, not tight though
>neutral colors on clothing, I wear plaid
>No hair product, ever.
>If you're balding, just buzz it
>No beard unless you can seriously grow one
>Work very hard, no matter what you do. Be the hardest and fastest worker at your job
>Have an outdoors hobby. I hike/backpack, fish and do outdoors photography
>I also do live music performances
>Converting to fundamental Christianity and adhering to the standards of the Bible helped me as well. God is against "effeminate men"

Not sure what else. Sense of a humor is a big one. In the movies, manly men are always smirking and calm, but in real life I think it's good to be able to laugh.

Yes Pekka wearing a suit means you're a hipster

Masculinity per se is not being attacked, it is being REDEFINED. The harmful parts of masculinity known as "toxic masculinity" are being thrown out, while healthy parts of masculinity are being emphasized and celebrated.

Read these:

americablog.com/2015/11/redefining-masculinity.html

huffingtonpost.com/literally-darling/how-to-be-a-man-redefining-masculinity_b_5253905.html

apa.org/monitor/2012/06/masculinity.aspx

Get off the internet
TPBP

What's so great about being "a man" anyway? I'm not saying we should do sex changes but the traits that are generally associated with the male gender are base and undesirable in a modern world. I mean stuff like aggression, excessive competitiveness, violent behaviour etc.

Meanwhile feminine values include compassion, cooperation, forgiveness, sharing and the likes. Perhaps the traditional male role was better suited for when we used to live in caves but not anymore. It's just the natural next step for men to be less "manly".

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JUST

IMO it's easier to be viewed as masculine these days, since 80% of men are beta bitches. Tease grills, make fun of their views, challenge them, don't take them seriously. In other words, just do the opposite what a beta would do.

I really wish I could just be a gentleman and that chivalry wasn't dead, but truth is if you treat a women well she's going to turn you into her bitch. I'd say do whatever the fuck you want and stop caring about what women think of your actions. They never were the end goal anyway. The end goal is being content about the life you crafted for yourself. Bitches are welcome to join the ride, but they're not your primary focus. That would be you.

>women
>forgiveness
Surely you can't be serious

>compassion, cooperation, forgiveness
I'd like to you see build a house with those traits

That's simple be a man. Men don't give a fuck what others think about them. They are just men so act as such. Men are not feminists, men are not bothered about feminism, it's a women's thing.

lmao this. Woman have an elephant's memory when it comes to times you wronged them. Wouldn't be the first time a gf and I break up and I have to hear her moan about small shit I did six months ago

>tight pants
>scarf

>masculine

>compassion
>cooperation
>forgiveness
>sharing

Women only do this for their kids. Men are better at all of these things in the work place and in public. Every problem I have EVER had at work, has been with a woman. Women have problems at work CONSTANTLY, while men just go to work and quietly do their job.

Women aren't even wired to go to work. They're supposed to be at home.

the same way you ignore "internet bullying" you just dont give a fuck

beatdown hardcore and weight lifting

youtube.com/watch?v=qeRLCbUblDg

indifference.

staying away from liberals, specifically liberal women

taking care of yourself

taking care of a good woman

never, ever, ever talking about how something "makes you feel"

>walk all over everyone
>be as selfish as possible
>put your comfort first and everyone else's NEVER

Where is the virtue in this? Are these really values we should adhere to and pass on to our children?

If you're getting on the internet to ask it's already too late

That guy's just a bearded nu-male.

Haircut, beard, pose, suit, all the accessories. The whole faux-classy setting. Everything screams "trying too hard" and "I'm scared of growing old". I'm not saying he's dressed poorly, I'm saying he looks like a fruit and is a shit example of what a masculine man should be.

Picture related, a better model for a masculine man.

i am laughing

a woman with authority, now that's the definition of a loose cannon. Men just want to get shit done, but women will screw you over every chance they have. They're also great at manipulating higher ups.

Every day I thank nature for making me male. Sure there's more hardship but at least it's honourable

Ask, Japan. They've been anti-masculine since WWI.

>never, ever, ever talking about how something "makes you feel"

Suppressing your emotions can actually be harmful to your health.

jpsychores.com/article/S0022-3999(13)00303-6/abstract

>beatdown hardcore

Please tell me you are joking. I used to play in a touring metal band and we had to play with beatdown hardcore bands a lot. Beatdown Hardcore is one step above juggalos. It's a bunch of beta SJW faggots with two felonies on their record who work at a gas station punching each other in a basement.

Don't be like the guy in the OP pic.

>tfw quads of truth

be rich.

that's all there is to it.

hello Schlmo

Real men aren't afraid to throw like a girl.

you can't make the world a better place if you're unhappy yourself

furthermore for you, there's only one reality and that's your own. There's no virtue in becoming someone's utility.

He is trying way too hard yes but that doesnt mean that it's a poor example

Just be honest, completely, when asked about something. Limit what you say in terms of length, not content. Don't barrage people with conspiracy theories, speak with natural authority and you'll find that a lot of people tend to agree with you.

Forget gimmicks. You don't need to go to the gym or grow a beard or wear vintage clothing or follow some idiot on Facebook. Do what you like, look after yourself, stay healthy and make sure you're doing what you enjoy. Have a boring 9-5 job? Volunteer. Get involved in politics, animals, your local museum or whatever else.

Don't bang on about "masculinity" when you're on a website founded by a man who wanted somewhere to discuss anime pornography.

He is a model, you idiot. He does not decide what he wears.

Good evening, Jānis.

Obama is by far the most effeminate president we've ever had.

Stay off the internet, for starters

Being a model is NOT masculine.

These guys sit in a chair for 35 minutes with women putting subtle make up on their face. Then they get yelled at by photography and video directors, then go home to their faggot boyfriends.

>live music performances
>manly

You're not fooling anyone faggot.

Do the opposite of the guy in your picture.

But none of these do anything at all to actually help redefine masculinity.

All anyone ever says when trying to redefine masculinity is "oh, if its all about being a provider and breadwinner, then women can be masculine too!".

And thats fucking fine, but if men don't want to be feminine, and women can be masculine too, then whats the fucking god damn point of being a man? What is left? Whats the point?

And why do women think they should be the ones to redefine masculinity? I know that they have a stake in it, but what makes them think that men will want to accept their definition? Cause all it has done so far is included women, thats not redefining it.

What if a man doesn't WANT to be feminine? Is that sexist now? If masculinity is supposed to include women now but a man doesn't want to be feminine, then what the fuck does he do?

All these articles do is remove the idea that masculinity has mostly to do with men. I'm so asshurt right now.

Fuck this I'm gonna go work in my yard and run a couple miles.

>caring what other people do for a living
>caring what other people do with their time

Ok, here.

I've got a REDPILL book right here, for every guy here, who is actually a little boy inside. You're gonna thank me afterwards. Just remember me and my flag, so you can associate it with my nation.

amazon.com/King-Warrior-Magician-Lover-Rediscovering/dp/0062506064

Peace.

>>No hair product, ever.
Literally what is wrong with hair product? Without my hairspray I look like a doofus.

>toured with a 'metal' band
>judges others

Shut the fuck up you autist.

Metal isn't music, it's noise for teenage edgelords.

Go be a faggot elseware

desu I put on makeup sometimes.
I let my gfs do it too.

Nothing wrong with it.

>sweden
>suggesting to do the opposite of a man

go figure

i dont go outside

>being so fucking cucked that you get this insecure about your masculinity

buncha fags itt

t. a crossdresser

this 100%

Well I'm a solo classical musician. I make it masculine by being good and not being a 110 lbs autist like most classical musicians.

They are good looking, they earn shit ton of money, they fuck models all day, and women want them everywhere.

>don't go to gym
>work for free
>museums

kek

BritBongs are truly cucked

Then cut your hair

>going to the gym is an integral part of being a man
wew

It was my own tech metal band and we had hundreds of people coming to see us. I was 19 and it was fucking awesome... at the time.

darn, you really made me think about my existence as a man

...

>classical music

yeah, you're deluding yourself.

>America
>opposed to exercise

wew

>hes never felt the high of lifting

Hundred of edgelord autists does not mean you were any good faggot.

You're right, stay a weak little faggot!!

Fucking betas

They say asian women still love masculine men

Well I'm not a nazi or in the military and I wouldn't want to steal their look.

TBQH a true alpha wouldnt give a shit about how he looks like. True alphas like Hitler, Napoleon, Stalin, Churchill i.e. leaders never gave a fuck about their obesity or anything like that.

But as an average guy its easier to be insecure.

This whole working out meme is for insecure guys who wanna feel a bit above the rest in anything. This reminds me of the whole "manlet" meme, same shit different clothing.

I stopped working out a couple of years ago because every gym is full of these fags who always want the upper hand but they're in the end just all losers with insecurities.

If you're not naturally good looking then you're a loser anyway, and no amount of muscles can change that.

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>Why can't people leave me alone and let me live my life the way I want to?

>Hey look at this [pic related] guy not following strict masculine gender rules. Let's NOT leave him alone and let's shame him and try to police his life. How dare he tries to live his life the way we don't? He must CONFORM to strict traditional gender standards without question.

I'm not opposed to exercise. That guy was just implying that going to the gym is essential to being a man.

Feels no different squatting 2pl8 than it does to run a 5k in under 20 minutes.

Doesn't feel like anything except tiring, actually.

Here's your one and only reply.

It meant we were successful, and that's masculine. When's the last time hundreds of people came to see you publicly blow your boyfriend? You can't even get your dad to come watch

>it's ok to be fat
>it's ok to be a manlet

Kek.

I'm sorry you're a fat tiny loser

(YOU)

If you're not naturally good looking then you're a loser anyway, and no amount of muscles can change that.

Literally retarded

>If you're not naturally good looking then you're a loser anyway, and no amount of muscles can change that.
My poor cousin was forced to realize this when he spent the better part of 6 years camping in a gym only to stand by whilst girls crowd around me at social events.
I workout some 4 months per year and its mostly body weight exercises :^)

>Feels no different squatting 2pl8 than it does to run a 5k in under 20 minutes.

Doesn't feel like anything except tiring, actually.

Ill agree with you there. Memeing aside different strokes for different blokes

>this level of delusion

kek

Self improvement isn't a manly thing in America anymore?

I'm sorry you wasted all those years in the gym literally for nothing

This. These people ostensibly claim to be all about individual liberty until they see someone else practicing their individual liberty in a way they don't like.

It's not if you're a massive beta faggot

for real, nothing is more faggy and womanly than worrying about your appearance in terms of satisfying gender roles

Self improvement and self obsession are two different things

>Self improvement
This isn't something that is exclusive to lifting weights.

Learn to trust your gut feeling.

True but not everybody goes to a gym to impress girls with muscle.

This.
Also if youre male and have a fucking shoe collection.

Not going to the gym, but equivalent physical activity which, and (let's be honest) the majority of posters here are nowhere near.

stay dyel you weak, dumpy-bodied, skinnyfat faggot

i'm serious. stay dyel because gyms are clogged enough with you retards curling in the squat rack