>be me, 45 yo Bisexual(straight) guy
>wife(43 yo) opens up my laptop for some reason(she has her own)
>finds gay porn on drive including my tapes with other men, and saw my profile on silverdaddies(I hook up with dudes on there)
>she storms downstairs and starts screaming like crazy, me, my son(16) and daughter(14) didn’t know what the fuck was she talking about
>explains and now my son refuses to talk to me
>wife cries, hates me
>everything is silent and awkward
1 week past, in hopes it’s going to be all forgotten but it’s not over:
>my daughter told about this all to her friend who told everyone else
>my son finally opened up but the word got through in his highschool, everyone bullies him and calls him names
>he says I’m a sick faggot so I ground him by taking his phone(good decision?)
Can anyone advise me on what to do next with my family? I feel like it already fell apart but I don’t want to let that happen.. should I get the family therapist and take the things to extreme like moving my son to another school?
Be me, 45 yo Bisexual(straight) guy
That's what you get for being a degenerate scumbag. Hope your wife takes all your shit.
>be me, 45
>ask 4channel for advice
Gonna have to see some of them tapes for proof
I deleted everything. I thought of encrypting stuff in the future
We all have our kinks.
join the army, have your son join the army...go on active duty, fuck him in the asshole in front of desert guerillas. Dominance?
Becoming Gay...wew your Wife must Suck at being a Woman!
What can i say the Question is if you want to keep that Relation up or not!
Get your wife a BBC bull...she’ll forgive you
>>he says I’m a sick faggot so I ground him by taking his phone(good decision?)
You ruined his fucking high school life and you have the audacity to ground him for saying the truth? You should stick to a faggot life you worthless fucking fag.
Your son insults you because you cheated on your wife, so you punish him? Dunno about that, chief
Do you have any idea the effect that the bullying will have in your son in the long term?
I don’t want to just keep the relation but also the family! My son doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and knowing I can’t do anything about it right now hurts!
I’m an adult, doing adult things and I think he should learn to respect that..
Go suck your sons dick
Don’t worry, your wife will leave with your kids soon. If you ever have another family, try not being a sick faggot.
>my son's life turned to hell, and i know he's getting bulllied
>better ground him and take away his only way to get comfort from friends
??
That’s why I’m thinking about him moving schools, but i don’t know if I should take it to that level yet.
Cheating on your wife and kids isn't a "kink" you fucking moron. Hope you like your "kink" when you're broke and living in a shithole apartment by yourself.
You were keeping this secret from her for 16+years. It was gonna hit you in the back sooner or later
You cheated on your wife with dudes...stupid.
Your wife throws that shit up in front of the kids...equally stupid.
Good luck getting that shit straightened out. I'd say it's over.
If you think that it's gonna stop the bullying you're more delusional than the OP let on
To respect a man, who not only cheated on a woman, but did so with other men?
You wan’t my recommendation you fruitcake piece of shit?
Kill yourself, and don’t forget to livestream it.
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Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
yeah teach him to respect cheaters (?)
cheating is not in the list of 'doing adult things'
(OP)
>he says I’m a sick faggot so I ground him by taking his phone(good decision?)
I hope your son abandons you too. You fucked his high school up really good and you take away the only device that you have to contact him with. Just to punish him.
Man, thar must suck, I am bisexual myself but my wife knows and she has always known from the beginning (She is bi as well). My advice is: take a few steps back in life in general and start with the small things. Why dod it already come this far. How come you have been hiding something that is perfectly OK and normal? We don't get to "choose" our sexuality, or our "favorite" baseball team or the year we were born in. I understand some things are hard for your kids to take, especially when everyone is primed to be picture perfect but that is also a huge part of life. My mom's dad one day didn't come home from the war. She was made fun of for that. As fsr as your sexuality is concerned, I wouldn'y worry. What puzzles me a lot is the "hiding" part and that will probably need more than a few sessions of couples therapy or individual coaching...
Unfortunately
your wife is scum and should be prosecuted, why on earth would she tell your kids? move on and move out is what you need to do and she should have done. Fuck the world
I've scrolled by your thread a few times and think I have the solution.
Run away, and never return.
You've ruined their lives. I mean, ruined them. Your kids will always see you as a guy that has sucked cock. You'll never be respected again. Ever. The best thing you can do is abandon them.
I'm not even trolling by saying that. If you leave and your wife finds an actual man, your families reputation will recover. If you stay, they will always be the laughing stock of anywhere they go.
You are a piece of shit,faggot! Fuck off!
You created your own problems you dirty faggot. Your sinful perversion has caused your misery.
Was it worth it?
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I agree with this guy user. You're not family guy material. You need to go about your gay business away from the people you fucked over with your faggotry. You're never going to be a good husband to any woman unless you get a green haired libtard, and they suck with children so youre fucked no matter what. Just fuck off with your fags and rebuild your life as a single bi guy.
OP here, world is cruel man... I’ll try and book us a family therapist and if that doesn’t help I’m just saying fuck it and moving out
Your wife sucks for not having the parental ability to fuck your shit up away from the kids, doing it in front of them is really messed up.
Literally everything else is your fault. You cheat on your wife with multiple men and wonder if this is save-able? It's not. Your wife has every right to be angry as fuck - not only are you cheating, you're cheating in a community that is known for STD's, she's probably scared to death of what you brought home.
Not only that but you fucked your children's lives up by cheating... and again, it's made much worse by the fact that you're doing it with men.
There's literally nothing wrong with being gay, but instead of being honest with yourself you chose to marry a woman, lie to her, have kids with her, lie to them, and then wonder how this all blew up in your face when you kept slurping cock on the side for however long you've been at it?
Honestly you should just leave. Tell them you're sorry. Pack up your shit and never return. The best hope you have is that maybe your kids will grow up and someday understand why you felt the way you did (since their generation will be much more progressive/understanding) but you know what, you also can't blame them if they hate you forever.
You have no one to blame but yourself. You should have told your wife from the beginning that you were bi and had interest in bringing guys into your relationship in some form. For all you know, if you were just honest you might have been able to live that life AND have a family. Instead you lied like an asshole.
That's probably your only reasonable option.
Agreed. It got fucked up when OP decided to reproduce and fuck dudes.
raging faggot... kill yourself. your degeneracy has ruined one too many lives
This is your opportunity to go Heisenberg
>Hope
...is for children, and the feeble-minded.
i lold
Got what you deserve, ngl
>Bisexual(straight)
L0Lno fgt pls
Glad I'm not you
don't take his phone, communicate like a grown fucking man
Porn is one thing, but you wanted cock so bad that you cheated. I don't know what else to say. I am with a guy who is bi but he still wouldn't cheat, we just like to check guys out together if an opportunity presents itself. You might have been comfortable with this situation but you couldn't have been happy with it if you were willing to do something this risky and selfish.
I’m a straight acting BI man.
>Can anyone advise me on what to do next with my family?
hand a gun to your son, he will know what to do
Ok boomer
Don't marry someone who doesn't know you.
/thread
This one's done. While you're still young enough and have the energy, get a divorce but don't settle for lifelong payments. You want out, completely.
Then start over and do it right. The way you wanted it all along.
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T'aint a kink to cheat on your wife, family, and ultimately your dignity. If you "kink" means more to you than these, you do deserve the hell that is unleashed on you.
Number 1. Don't be a silly faggot.
Number 2. ????
Number 3. Assrape your son to assert dominance
>bisexual
>straight
pick one, you literal faggot.
How is your son 16? You are supposed to kill your father at age 15.
find out where this nigger loving faggot is, brutally murder him and the shitposting bbc threads will stop.
Don’t be a faggot, it’s simple
Hope your wife divorces you. You're a fucking father yet have a bunch of gay porn on your PC. If I found that shit out about my father, I would disown the fuck out of him.
Your son's role model for masculinity is nothing more than a faggot. He's learned a valueable lesson, and now he can grow up knowing not to be a degenerate like yourself.
I applaud you punishing him for calling you a faggot. Now he is even more conditioned to know that fags are bad.
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White face is just as racist as black face. Equality, bitch.
Get your wife alone and talk with her. If you are genuinely sorry, then tell her so and work together to fix this shit. If you are not sorry, then give her a divorce and go on your merry, cock-sucking way.
Talk to your children. Tell them the 100% truth and offer to answer any question completely honestly. THEN DO SO!
Then fuck right off, you worthless cheating scum.
You're a shitty person with a shitty family, hope everything turns out well for you, you have to fix your mistake
Also punish your son by making him go to church
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This makes me feel better about any shameful or stupid thing i ever did...
That being said,so sorry for you,sounds like a really crappy situation
I'm not sure, but you seem to imply you were cheating on her?
If that's the case, fuck you.
Hey there moralfag
Sucks to be you
Repent sinner
hope your wife gets a divorce from you and takes kids and all your stuff, you degenerate faggot, frankly, she deserves better
You probably shouldn't have cheated on your wife.
This is going to take a lot more time than effort. You're fucked.
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