Met this girl on tinder, i told her i was only interested in fwb arrangements...

met this girl on tinder, i told her i was only interested in fwb arrangements, she said we should try 'dating' and i said whatever, give it a try, so we went out once to a pub, i didn't order a drink, she pressured me to drink something so i just had a lemonade and she paid.

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sat there for 2 hours with her talking, kissing and cuddling on me while i felt awkward

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anyway fast forward to now and this is where we are, pic related. she keeps telling me to be 'alpha' as well but i just don't care about her enough to put that act on. in my head i am kinda thinking i am just being rude, but i am tired of girls thinking i am going to spend money on them, just to hang out with them, it's boring, they are boring.

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You sound like a broke beta bitch.

God you act like a precious little stingy shitcunt.

Unless you're doing this on purpose.

amazing alliteration user

stingy because i don't want to pay money to hang out with a girl? similar to paying money to hang out with a prostitute?
i have a fwb that i can meet up and have sex with, for free. i have friends that i can meet up and talk to and hang out with, for free.

Youre doing the right thing user. Dont listen to these fags. Theyre just upset that you turned down what they cant get. Theyre the reason pay to win gaming is allowed to exist.

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Autism

Take her to the car and whip you Dick out. This Bitch is obviously a sub and probably has daddy issues as well. Treat her like shit. That's what she is asking for.

damn mtx ruined my favourite online game

This is why you’re not getting laid right now you fucking idiot

Yeah pay to win gaming and this are totally the same thing
Anyways virgin alert here comparing video games to getting laid shut the Fuck up

While I think your response was an overreaction, that girl is a grade-A gold digging ass hoe. You didn’t miss anything.

Op is gay

This

got laid yesterday with my fwb and she cooked me breakfast and lunch before I went home

You are right she is a sub and has daddy issues, but also thinks she is entitled to more than I will ever give her

Overreaction why? I see a sign of where her intentions are so I’m putting an end to it bluntly, I see no point in softening it

You're correct. Autistic, but correct.
I'm pretty lucky in that my gf doesn't expect me to pay for much unless I have the money, and won't pressure me to do much that I don't want to do.

Look at the people seething in some replies. Great job OP. Do NOT let the women control you. Don't settle for the first girl who's willing to reply to you (like some would here)

Ye I’ve only learned that through experiencing it myself, so I understand why some guys reply in the way they do - it just reminds me of myself because I learned to stick up for myself and not be controlled by others

I wouldn’t call that lucky. If you have both talked about why you can’t afford to do that, then the reasoning enough is just part of the relationship dynamics - if one of you doesn’t want to do something, the other can either accept that or move on. She has chosen to accept that about you, because she wants the relationship to work.

I would agree if OP wasnt just larping on a message board.

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Good job self limiting yourself because of an assumption.

You went to a pub and sat there without a drink? How socially retarded are you?

He clearly said he told her from the start he wasn't looking to date, he just wanted a fwb.
You don't spend $150 on a movie and dinner with a fwb, thats called dating.

OP is a massive faggot

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Lucky in the sense that most people aren't that reasonable - it's not exclusive to girls, I mean.
So it's very nice to have landed a partner that's understanding - like most should be, but aren't.

They went to the pub for a drink. That probably costs £10.

You retard.

that chick probs got 7 other fwb in her cunt daily OP is confirmed a faggot

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Yeah, it’s pretty obvious OP is boy trying to play at being a man.

This girl is either a fat pig, mental case, or scammer.

Either way, op is a bit of a loser for thinking he has the upper-hand, particularly when it’s clear he’s socially retarded

As your lawyer, I'm going to advise you not to repeat that bullshit to your alpha girl if you want to get laid.

That will be $100.

I get that he doesn’t want to spend money on someone he has little interest in. She is trying to say she doesn’t mind paying but she won’t always pay. He should have just told her he wasn’t interested. Christ, be a fucking man and admit that you don’t want to date her.

That was clearly stated when I told her I have no interest in dating her as I only have fwbs - but she asked me to try dating with her. I know that it won’t work and I don’t care if it does.

So many assumptions padded out to make a point, yet you still fail trying to same something of worth.

Sociopath much?

I’d rather have £10 in my pocket and meet in a different location to talk, like at home in the warmth, under a blanket with a coffee.

You're gonna need to restate that you're not interested in dating (maybe don't specify "her").
Tell her if that she really wants a relationship that you're not interested in providing that - you just want a fwb.
Maybe try to phrase it a little nicer than your last textwall to her.

If I wasn’t upfront and honest from the start then you might have a point, but you don’t, because I wasn’t.

Then why did you go out? Why respond at all? Obviously she doesn’t want fwb despite what she said. I shouldn’t have said you aren’t being a man, but you aren’t acting logically (so, like a man does and a woman doesn’t have to).

The fact you don't care is highly sociopathic my dude

I’ve told her once, she needs to learn to listen to what a guy says instead of ignoring it and hoping he will change. She can learn through her own mistakes, I am not her dad, here to mentor her.

Dude, you don't even need to reply. Just don't answer her and she can fuck off. Your reply to her was full autism, but she's gold digging, and wants something you don't, to date. Fuck it and talk to other women. Why the fuck are you even wasting time?

You’re a social retard with no disposable income.

I know that isn’t worth much to you, but that’s what you are

You should have just said “nah fuck that noise” or similar instead of this wall of garbage.

You need to learn to not be retarded. Fuck off OP. why even do this shit if she doesn't want to be fwb?

You don’t have a car, you don’t know any places for socialising, you don’t have £10 for frivolous spending.

Loser confirmed.

Because she asked me to try “dating” instead of “fwb” and I said yes just to try it out, because I am not scared of failing. I am well aware that she doesn’t want to be fwb. I am acting perfectly logical, you just aren’t aware of the situation because you haven’t read all my other replies and/or know all the information. You are making judgements more than asking questions.

No, you need to repeat yourself. It's reasonable to assume that people's opinions change, especially when you're hoping for the change. She wants to date you, so she wants you to want to date her, therefore she is going to persist unless you shut that shit down properly.
You're not blameless. You need to make yourself crystal clear more than once. Because, surprisingly, people can change their minds.

Explain to me what I should be caring about

Idgaf about the money shit
That first image is the cringiest shit I have seen in a while.

Because I am open to learning and it’s quick and easy to reply, I would feel guilty for ignoring someone completely.

op, you may be Jewish

You say that like it’s a bad thing.

Not interested in dating
Goes out on date.

Not logical.

You gonna post her nudes or just keep bitching?

Op, losers need to stick together. This girl sounds ideal for you.

Probably another 18 month dry spell for you now, you fucking creep

>me and my penis winked
me and my penis winked
>me and my penis winked

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This guy has never bought someone a gift, or sent a card. He’s clearly got zero friendships or relationships

ur a fucking beta lmao

Op has no self-awareness, so he’s not aware of his cringe-level

Op is manchild 200%

Not OP.
Why the fuck are gifts and cards standard? It's bullshit. Why waste money on giving them on shit that they're not gonna use? A card is fucking pointless - just text, email or talk to them in person.
Only give a gift if that person means enough to you that you want to spend a decent amount of money on them, and if they're actually likely to get some use out of the gift.

Y'all are fucking retarded. No wonder you're exploited.

Social norms, retard

Girls like chocolates and flowers. You don’t give them a charger for a Galaxy 3, if that’s what you think I mean by a gift

If you don’t have any money that’s fine. Just don’t be dishonest with your explanations

I don’t understand why a card is pointless but a txt isn’t.

So it sounds like you have no job, no money, no car, no game and no social skills

>me and my penis winked

>that huge text justifying being cheap on dates and going out in general

Pic related

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Why are you even responding to her. If you really only want a fwb then ignore her until next time. You’re already dealing with relationship shit

You don't owe her shit, drop her and stop wasting time. Stop complicating your life with pussy. Also the next time you text pussy, don't send walls of text. You made a good point, but making good points doesn't matter to pussy. Better to be more laconic and a bit of a dick.

I imagined you saying >“I’m a bad alpha!” In the same way Pinocchio says “I’m a real boy! Kek

He was honest about his aims, right out of the gate. That's not sociopathy. She's the one ignoring his openly stated desires and trying to manipulate him into something else. That's certainly more akin to sociopathy. It's fucking Tinder. No one is owed caring just by existing and being on there.
Good luck taking the 1950's approach in the 2019. I'm sure some guy will enjoy those chocolates you gave her while she swallows his load.

Not everyone drinks, asshole

Social norms are shaped by corporations and advertising. This is obviously exploitative, and willingly falling for things like this is why people have financial troubles.
If you know they'll enjoy it - such as chocolates, a gift is fine. But if you're guessing at what they'd like, it's a moot point. You also shouldn't be expected to purchase a gift for your friends/family/etc. for birthdays and commercial holidays. It's insane.

Because a text does not cost money, and if it does, it's far, far cheaper. Cards are far more expensive relatively. Why would I spend £1-3 on something I can do for free?

I'm not OP, by the way.

This guy gets it. Never spend money on a Ho.

True tho

Water, retard. You can drink water.

Go to a pub and sit there without a drink if that’s your thing. You’ll look like a retarded weasel

You sound like a guy who’s never received a gift.

As your sole motivation is cost , you can get cheap cards, 8 for £1 in the U.K.

Hint, it’s not so much the card, it’s the thought that it represents.

Sucks you don’t have any disposable income.

I have a car, I have a house, I have money to spend - but not to buy time with girls when I can get it for free in a better atmosphere.

Pubs sell coke, lemonade, orange juice, tea, coffee.

Get out a bit more, retard

No problem, tough guy.

Imagine not knowing girls like flowers. You’ve probably just lacking experience.

>I don't care
>wahhh Sup Forums this girl wants me to buy a drink, let me spew my personal drama on here becuase I care so little.

Get it for free in a better atmosphere? Why does it have to be free? You a poorfag?

I don’t believe you have a house or a car. Daddy might do, you don’t.

>You sound like a guy who’s never received a gift.
I have. They're almost all universally useless. I greatly appreciate the ones that actually make a difference to my life.
>Hint, it’s not so much the card, it’s the thought that it represents.
Then a text should suffice, then. If it's thought that counts, why do you need to spend money?
I'm not against spending money, but I'm not going to spend money without a good reason on asinine bullshit.

If you can get the same thing for cheaper while also being in a better environment, why in the everloving fuck would you decide to spend more money and spend your time in a worse environment?

God damn you retards will chuck money at literally anything.

My god you fucking cringe master!! Just play her games, smash..then dash.

Your a fuckin beta who needs to be spoon fed how to duck down a woman. Your a fuckin embarrassment user...

I’m guessing your fwb is a fuckin whale And your a total faggot as no self respecting dude passes up an opportunity to fuck something new.

A card is and written and can be given to someone in person.

It sounds like you’ve not got close friends, or you’ve just got no personality so nobody knows what to buy you

If you can’t see the difference then your retardation is bigger than I thought

ITT: OP has autism, doesn't know how real people works and gets defensive.

It’s £10, kid.

If £10 dictates what you can do, then it’s a bit desperate.

This

He’s clearly using this whale to perpetrate his revenge for being ignored by anyone remotely attractive

I know right, fucking cringe fest from the off...OP is beta fag personified.

>I'm a bad alpha

Girl must be desperate you come across as a cunt and a faggot.

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You just made her penis soft..

You're not wrong, some bitch thinks she can manipulate you to be a sugar daddy or whatever, she can fuck right off.

I have several close friends. We know what to buy each other, if anything. Most of the time we don't as we'd rather spend our money on the activities we do together.
I'm sorry you only have superficial relationships with those around you, user. I hope you find real friends someday.

Where are you? She thought about cucking/threesome?

>Why get it for free
They're just women, not fucking prostitutes, you shouldn't have to pay to be with someone you mongloid.
Nothing wrong with buying her a drink or something but her expecting you to just finance her so she'll stick around is bullshit.