What ruined your last Relationship? Weird fetish, caught cheating, threesome gone wrong etc

What ruined your last Relationship? Weird fetish, caught cheating, threesome gone wrong etc

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she had a personality disorder (borderline + histrionic), and i had a messianic complex (wanted to save her). it was hot-n-cold for over three years, ended with me catching her cheating.

Every single time it's been something different, but this time it was an attraction issue. Might be willing to greentext if there is some interest. Over all I think I'm just straight up incapable of being intimate with someone long term.

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I just get bored and break up with them

i was a hothead alcoholic/stoner with fucked up self image who couldnt take responsibility or stand his ground for shit, so i just left one day

Childhood sweet hearts. She cheated on me once in college and I forgave her. I left to go to university and I kept getting told of rumours of cheating. Confronted her about it and she admitted to all 4 occasions. Again I stayed with her for another 6 months when more rumours surrounding the original guy emerged. She ended up leaving me lol. I was 20 and heartbroken

Lol cuck

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she was from another country and i could never figure out how she really felt about me

While I wouldn’t agree I was a cuck lol, it has certainly affected my new relationship in that kind of way haha.

Distance, both physical and age. Was a senior in college about to go to grad school, she was a freshman. When i tried long distance going high school to college it made me miserable and ended up with her cheating on me. So refused to deal with that again and ended it.

I accidentally banged her sister and she never forgave me for that

She had kid
I would not commit
2 years of my life wasted

Truth is she was really good to me and I treated her like shit.

How do you accidentally bang her sister? Are they twins and you got them mixed up?

She tough she was lesbian ! Went to pussy for a year or two then came back to Dick !!!

Brought it on yourself bud, sorry. Once she knows she can get away with cheating, there's no reason for her not to keep doing it. Soon as they cheat, the relationship is over. Only way to be safe. Same applies to guys btw.

All the three of us got wasted to alcohol and pot, gf went to sleep and I thought she was still the girl on the sofa with me (although they are not twins, I got confused) so we fucked like animals on the said sofa
Worst part of that is her sister was realy bad at sex

She loved me.

I'm 19, no way I'm going to be trapped in a single relationship my entire life. She was already talking about marriage and kids ffs. She was also very manipulative, although her feelings were honest. I ended it two months ago and then we've been friends with benefits another month before I realized I hate her so much for making almost a year of my life miserable that I don't even want to fuck her.

Literally I just stopped accepting her shit. I realised 3 years in that i was thinking of her as another job; thinking about how to keep her happy, making sure she had no reason to be mad or to criticise me, holding back on my hobbies and my own friends so she wouldn't feel "neglected" etc.

I went away for a week for work and i was just so relaxed, and the most stressful part of my day was calling her in the evening to say goodnight. Started taking more time for myself after that, doing more things that made me happy, and she just got more and more pissed off. Broke my heart but i finally ended it and after the initial shock i just felt relieved. Im a girl btw.

tl;dr dont let a bitch run your life

So now you watch a fatter girl fuck guys in front of you so you can pretend you’re in control now? She totally can’t cheat on you this way right? lol dude come one

I was 23, she 20

She let some 28 yr old fellow student grope her (naked) ass in an empty classroom. I forgave her, got an apartmenr together. Six months after living together she breaks up, tells me the same 28 yr old dude fingerbanged her on his bed.

There were a few red flags I choose to ignore at the start of our relationship. The most important ones:
- she cheated in previous relationship
- she had no ambition except being a mom
- her family was fucked up

Now I'm the guy who's 28 and has a nice, fun relationship with a 21 yr old gurl

She went to a class reunion and some guy she had a crush on in high school was freshly divorced.
He hit that target hard. She moved out. Changed her social media status to single. Pretty much that was it.

Yeah I agree. Shouldn’t have let her have free reign once she got away with it. She just acted single after that lol

More curves - wouldn’t call her fatter. But no not quite like that lol

wise words

She was a fat lazy bitch who kept crashing her car and landing me with bills and then going out fucking her old school friends while I was working all day every day to pay for some shit hole apartment in some shit hole town I didn't even want to live in.

A week after I left she told me she was pregnant with my child and refused to allow me to have a dna test so I told her to go fuck herself.

Also her brother tried to come at me with a baseball bat so I nearly killed the little shit.

Are you me?

Been married for 7 years have 2 kids. Wife is a lesbian.
We watch lesbian porn together and such. Never spoke about divorce or anything. May never happen. This may be a 3 year phase. I still love her and she loves me. In fact I guess we both have more in common now as we both enjoy big titties. Hope it works out. Family is still happy.

Her little sister had a crush on me and visited us a lot. I let her sleep in the double bed with my GF and used to sleep on the couch myself. One night, she came over because her sister snored so loud. I woke up in the middle of the night because she fucked me. Somehow my GF found out.

Technically, I was raped and took the blame for it.

prob not, but if you found yourself in my post, you are one shitty person and should kys

That would be wonderful. Also and more so for the kids.

so who do you fuck? sounds ideal af

Also being a late 20s guy here. The younger girls are fun and always up for whatever which is nice. The problem is they have no idea what they actually want so don't act like they're anything more than a distraction. Get someone solid around 25, gives you a few years to really know them and then you can move forward building a family if you'd like. I've been through a lot like you and I currently have the best version of a partner I could ever want.

>Im a girl
An image of your breasts are required in accordance with the law of "tits or gtfo"

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Op here

My last long term relationship ended with a few weeks ago due to a drunken unplanned threesome. I visited my ex who had an attractive roommate. We all got super drunken and her roommate left the room for a little bit. My ex got on her knees and started sucking me off. Before I knew it her roommate was back on the couch across the room watching us. Told my Ex to stop her roommate was right there she said so what. Then her roommate came and sat next to us. Ex laughed and asked if she liked my dick, how I probably loved that she was watching us, and then to my surprise asked if she wanted to touch it. Her roommate had a boyfriend and declined but then after a bit longer asked if she could touch it. Ex let her stroke it while she took off her pants. So my ex sits on my cock and her roommate got naked. I thought well my ex let her stroke my cock I guess this is happening so I have my girl get off me and I bend her friend over and start fucking her. After a bit I turn to find my ex and she had gone to her room. So I finish and find her crying in her room because she didn’t want me to fuck her friend

>Technically, I was raped and took the blame for it.
Keked

Had a gf want to be a throuple found a third we both liked gf just worked and never really hung out in the group so me and the new bitch dumped her and found a new toy to play with but I have to say she did have a good idea

>larping

Weird fetish. I wanted to have a threesome with her and his brother, MFM action, double penetrate her and such. She was freaked out when I told her about it and nothing happened. But at one party all three were completely wasted, very very drunk-coke wasted, and I and her brother fucked her for hours. All her holes, cum everywhere. Fuck, what I wonderful night. Nothing that seeing brother and sister wild fucking, she riding him like a porn-star.
Next day she went totally ballistic and broke up with me. Never talked again.

The ex I had before that relationship kept stalking and harassing me and it super stressed me out because of how much I loved who i was currently with and they left me because of it, i've been alone since, been maybe a year now.
Still cry daily because of it, miss them a lot.
I guess it was kind of my fault too, I hope you find happiness fede

Plan on ending my life around xmas time, don't know how anyone could go on living with apart of them gone

I haven't had sex in like 2 years "Penis in the ol vagina" I get a good tit fuck from time to time and she will blow me a bit. But really we just fell into a groove of masturbating next to eachother either watching lesbian porn or just kinda rubbing on each other I guess. We've talked about her having a go with a girl and I get to hop in but were honestly not that exciting of a couple and I dont know if it will ever happen. Still fun to talk about.

Was only my second relationship and so I was somewhatunexperienced, been in a few since then. Just was not the same, whoever I hold I still love them and they are gone

Interested as I may be in a similar situation.

What a load of bullshit. I've been drunk to the point of overdose many times and not once did I not know exactly what I was doing. The whole "I dinnu I wuz drunk lulz" is a total copout for people who can't own up to how shitty the really are

Long distance and how she wanted me to be on a phone call or face time with her at all times. I wasnt allowed to have friends come to my house because she'd get mad and argue with me about it. And I was a pushover and let her act this way. I broke up with her but I'm happier now.

finding these on my gf's old phone

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I saw my gf talking to another guy and thought it was hot because I have a cuckold fetish. They were exchanging nudes and she even went out with him a few times. I found out they fucked a few times and would jerk off thinking about it but it went on so long she eventually chose him and dumped me

After 3 years my exgf found out that I was also fucking her sis on the side

Virgin liar fantasies the thread.

Someone who can't get laid so retorts in the threads ^^^^^

Addiction issues.

Dude you need to do it, what the fuck kind of relationship is that?

She was on a downward spiral with depression. I tried to be there with her but she decided shed rather be alone in that time and it just ended.

Deal with it you ginger fuck, are you a food or are you contsruction material? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Took mdma with gf and a friend of her in my room. Ended up in threesome. Fucking drugs changed everything

I never had any relationships user. I am not a filthy norman like you

Don't you know how to read? She's lesbion

this is my fear

She was sending nudes to close friends of mine.
Stupidly forgave everyone involved because it was less hassle.
I don't really have anything to do with any of them anymore.

she wanted a father, I wanted a butler

Maybe because I've had 2 kids and I dont want another. Maybe because I'm nutting on the regular and still doing it with her takes its place. It's just not a primal driving urge like it used to be. Me cumming still is just not through sex.

I guess your body gets poisoned by alcohol easier than others, the rest of us are able to down enough to affect decision making before we reach the point of alcohol poisoning, but I guess you're different.

Then ur a weak faggot cant drink for shit lmao

Effecting decision making isn’t the same as not knowing what you’re doing.
Not the user you were responding too but
Casual alcoholic about 600ml of vodka a day

This, I've been fall down drunk, wasted on drugs and always known just what I'm doing. Thats not to say the alcohol and drugs didn't lower my inhibitions so I did the bad thing, But I knew what I was douing and made the choice to do so...

We were together for like 3 and a half years. He cheated on me with my kids brothers mom. (Father of my kids other baby mama). I hate small towns.

elaborate

My job. No time

She looked in a tablet I had (no clue how she knew the passcode) and it had texts with my ex talking about how I was gonna fist her the next weekend. Broke up after the fisting weirdly enough. then lived together for another 5 weeks, best sex ever, got to tie her up, took her to some islands and made her squirt in an Air BnB, fucked her mouth more than ever before, haven't met up since we moved though

She went gay.
>Was bi prior but admitted she always preferred women to men
>Admitted I was good enough in bed to keep her straight

Wanna k/ms

She dumped you for her brother, he must have been a far better fuck.

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kill her

She was a horse girl

I did drugs behind her and she left me. After a few months she wanted to go back together but I was already meeting other girls. I said yes anyway because I figured it'd be one extra pussy and I felt like using her as a revenge because she left me in a rough spot. So far I've not stopped cheating even after she found out, I convinced her I'd be faithful and that same night I was fucking a japanese exchange student.

I kind of feel bad for being a fucking asshole but it feels so nice to have a harem and use girls like this.

Inb4 I'm still a loser that spends his day on Sup Forums, I just have a good degree and job and I'm six feet so I can get girls.

I'm emotionally damaged. Had a 20yr marriage. I put up with shit and ignored even more. She divorce me. I have breakdown. Feel deep shame. Have relationship after. Ok but just sex. Find different woman. V nice. Things ok. I panic and dump her because of feelings. Can't get close. That was 10 years ago. Single ever since. Happier than I've ever been. Don't miss sex. Don't miss arguments. Don't miss all the bullshit.

I didn't have any self love so I ended up abusing and manipulating her emotionally to try and get her to stay because I didn't want to be alone

I'm alone

Story time I guess. Don't read if you don't wanna get the big sad.
>meet GF for first time some 20 years ago (yes I'm a boomer sort of)
>fall in love, great sex, anal, blowjobs, light sm, just my thing
>she's head over heels for me
>we get an appartment together, we both work our day jobs, we both earn salary we both cover expenses
>everything works just fine
>fast forward 15 years
>wanna marry?
>get married
>move into house
>pregante
>babby is formed
>wife is in depresso mode ever since birth
>meanwhile I try to keep my sanity while working a shitty 9 to 5, doing groceries, cooking meals, essentially caring for two kids at home
>have to deal with her emotional outbursts
>one day decide to no-u
>tell her how I feel in this entire situation, how I'm tired, how I'm the only one not allowed to take a break or god forbid get sick meanwhile she has her weekends off and I get to take care of the kid by myself while she binges netflix in the livingroom
>oh user I had no idea
>starting next day super friendly about everything
>tells me how she wants to revamp her life and help me out so I don't have to carry the burden by myself
>is this happening
>two weeks go by very well, everything works out perfectly
>come home from work one day
>baby cries
>honey?
>hear water running
>move towards the bathroom with a really creeping suspicion as I hear no replies
>open the door
>get on the floor
>everybody walk the dinosaur

Fairly certain i have BPD. She accepted my tendencies but i knew it wasn't healthy for either of us and had to end it

I'm married, she always has boyfriends

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She caught me crossdressing in her clothes.

the inability to discuss, accept, and or communicate feelings of my own or to hear others. this problem has plagued me for 35 years of my life, cost me numerous relationships and i can barely keep my career afloat. probably should just kms

>Every single time it's been something different, but this time it was an attraction issue. Might be willing to greentext if there is some interest. Over all I think I'm just straight up incapable of being intimate with someone long term.

Yeah this sounds like you could be me.

i have tried to date women i'm not actually attracted to for various reasons, interested in your take on it / greentext, user

same exact thing here, but more like 3 years. She was hot as fuck with giant fake tits though, that I miss.

fuckin got me good lad

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>This, I've been fall down drunk, wasted on drugs and always known just what I'm doing. Thats not to say the alcohol and drugs didn't lower my inhibitions so I did the bad thing, But I knew what I was douing and made the choice to do so...

You've literally never actually been really drunk. Jesus Christ.

Based user

>I've been drunk to the point of overdose many times
>not once did I not know exactly what I was doing.

You are a fool.

CP
She found it. Took the kids and the house. No criminal conviction, instead seize 40% of my net income. Pension gone.
Basically fucked my whole life leaving me as a financial slave

Wow man

based dinolad

deserved it

I had an ex with which we'd play a game at bars: on turns we had to flirt with whomever the other chose. Usually that would last 10-15 minutes. One night she choses a girl across the bar who seemed a bit young but whatever. I go there and appartenly her divorced dad worked nearby and she was waiting for him. She was 16 years old. I was drunk and talked with her for about an hour and a half, got her instagram and number. My then gf said it was a bit weird that I seemed so interested in basically a child (we were 24). I said I had a thing for younger girls, which is true, but I guess she thought I was a pedo, which I'm not. We kind of stopped talking and meeting after that night.

Every /b truth thread ends in pedo

my last GF was bi polar. I thought I could save her or something. People talk more openly about mental illness and how much they struggle with it and just need people to be patient with them because theyre trying and some support goes a long way, but its fucking tabboo about how bullshit that can be for other people to deal with. Im not a fucking therapist or a punching bag, and Im tired of you having an episode every other day and think saying
>im mentally ill lol, its not my fault :)
would give you a pass each time. especially when you refuse to work on it and at least try to be better. In the end I relaized I was doing the equivalent of raising a spoiled child instead of a mutual relationship and I end it. No cheating, no weird fetishes, I was slowly ground down until it got spiteful. I wish we ended on good terms but it got ugly at the end and I told her there was no fixing her and she was a waste, dragging everyone down around her. Felt great at the time, letting out almost 3 years of anger, but I hate myself for doing that. If its any consolation I know what youre going through

/blog

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Same story but my ex is bi-polar. Suspected she was cheating on me and called her out, threw a tantrum and broke up with me. Weeks later i found out from her sister i was right.

>Worst part of that is her sister was realy bad at sex
I'm sure. If you were so blackout drunk you weren't even aware WHO you were fucking.. I'm sure you were at the top of your game. And.... you could remember enough to remember how bad she was. Interdasting.

Recession

Turns out getting laid off and collecting unemployment doesn’t turn on modern stronk womyn

Nigger lover detected

Violence.
I was not violent towards her, but she witnessed a few things that I shouldn't have let her see. She was genuinely afraid after that.