Damn I missed it then. Oh well. Yea a muscle gf would be amazing, but so would a big mommy gf. Theres a new girl at work whose fucking cute, but shes a bit younger than I am, but I'm trying to talk to her. Doubt anything will come of it, but you never know unless you try
I just like women who can easily throw me around and dominate me tbh. Dude, you should totally go for it, and don't give up immediately if you don't get the response you initially hoped for because even friends can become friends with benefits with enough time and confidence. I made that mistake too many times.
I've got till September when she quits and goes to school. Right now I'm just trying to make an effort to just talk to her. Shes shy as all hell, and quit her last job because basically every guy older than her was hitting on her, even the old dudes
Thats what I'm doing, although its hard to make small talk when I've got nothing to talk about. I do nothing really with my free time so its hard to talk about much
Pacing was always my biggest struggle in conversation tbh, feeling awkward and not having enough confidence to speak even though I know how to do it. Even simple shit like, "yeah all this snow has been crazy recently, hopefully it lightens up soon because I hate shoveling that white bullshit" or something kinda works because it keeps it going. As long as it actually makes sense and is relevant to what's going on in the world at the time, it really doesn't matter. It's something you just have to get acclimated to, and don't be nervous because she's a woman, nor overconfident which can just get people in trouble. I was never good at talking to people because of my appearance, mostly my messed up teeth which really killed my confidence even if I had people give me their numbers and want to talk, and just didn't like the few basic white girls I was always around. You'll get the hang of it.
I've been fairly lucky since most of the awkward silences are broken by machines fucking up at work, or just using the excuse of needing to do our job. I've only been talking to her for like 2 weeks now, so I figure I'll just go slow and see what happens. Like I said, shes 5 years younger than I am, so I'm not expecting anything out of it, but it would be nice. I just want someone my age to talk to at work
Ask for her number when you feel ready, even just as friends. I feel like you have a pretty good shot at this. Even if it doesn't get very far, it still gives you the experience when you eventually do find a woman your age, or a big, sexy mommy :P
I'll probably wait a few months for that, since I think in the new year I'm getting trained at the other end of the plant from where she works. I'll only be able to talk to her if I walk down or catch her on breaks