How the fuck do i last longer in bed?

how the fuck do i last longer in bed?
ive tried thinking of other things, pinching myself (on my sides not the tip of my dick like jewgle suggests). if i wear a condom my dick just goes limp. it’s embarrassing.

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why does it go limp?
do you press the blood out, while putting it on?
then you need bigger sized condoms. they should roll of easily without pushing the blood out.

I have the same problem. The effort to put it on, the lack of feeling whilst using it, plus the way it hurts some girls (at first) just causes me to lose interest.

Wait, I had this problem, I don't have it anymore. I just upgraded to bigger sizes. It's rolled over in 5 seconds now. I also don't rub off the lube on it, because I don't have to finger a way too tight balloon over my dick. And I still use additional lube. more lube, more nice

Take some kratom. You'll last much longer. You are welcome.

How do I know? Experience :)

Practice edging, jerk off for the entirety of a 30min porn but don't cum until the end. You may need to space out your fapping sessions to days apart to achieve a full sustained erection for that long. Increase length of vids till you reach an hour or more.
I once fucked a girl for 6 hours straight, came 4 times, she rolled joints while I kept fucking her, have water to hand, plenty of lube for anal, toys if she's into that.
You'll get there user but it takes practice and discipline on your own first.

condom just feels unnatural. i know they are supposed to be tight but it does feel like its choking my dick. im average (6”) but its thick.
i went out last night to bang this girl and there was plenty of foreplay and she was enjoying it but as soon as i started fucking her she was WAY too tight and i felt like i was going to bust after maybe 6 or 7 pumps. i stopped and left and it was awkward

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i know i can jerk off for a long ass time and control it that way but as soon as its pussy i just wanna bust. when im with a girl in a relationship for a long time its easier and most times i can last a good amount of time but these one night stand things are the bane of my existence

i’m white and educated i don’t really do those kinds of things

Okay the "condom feels bad" thing is something I never understood. It feel exactliy the same for me, but those different experiences are obvious, since every human has an individual nerve densitiy on his body and might be mutilated (circumsized) so they might feel less. I am still telling you to get bigger condoms. they are wider in diameter and you can easily put them on, without them sabotaging your erction. If you feel less, I am sorry for you, but on the otherhand, you achieved the goal and last longer in bed.

When you feel like busting, change positions, go down on her, finger her, go back to fucking, repeat. You basically gotta use her to edge yourself

Had to show my Gf this pic, we both could swear it's hrr, and she just quit dominos. Had to convince her it wasn't a shopped version of her lol. No mole on ass

Jerk off about an hour before I did this my first time and lasted about 90 minutes

Buy magnum condoms. Used to have this problem til I tried these

i meme’d out and got the magnums maybe i should try the “xl” ones for the girth. i mean it still feels good with a condom but not AS good and there is no kike witchery going on down there i’m intact.

i appreciate all your guys’ advice
i’ll have to try and switch it up a bunch

it’s not like i photoshop out what i perceive to be imperfections or anything dw

Yes it may be not as good as raw, but I think this is in many cases a placebo thing. I need friction and pressure to cum, not soft fondling. If your d needs soft stroking, then yeh, condoms are quite the erectionkiller. If you need hard compression and friction, a condom doesn't really matter.

All sorts of drugs like caffeine/alcohol/weed
Obv masturbate prior to sex
Edge when you masturbate, aim for longer sessions
If that dont work you could always just accept it and show the girl you are more than willing to pleasure her after you finish, if you cant smash with a half chub then eat her out while you recover

Just relax and breathe normally.

those drugs do what??
i drink 1 coffee a day - black
i sometimes drink beer daily, it’s a real problem lately
i don’t smoke weed.

i’m going to practice edging that seems to be the general consensus. just wish there was a miracle pill that could mentally control when to cum lol

And don't clench your asshole.

It's this chick

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Yeah this too, dont flex the muscles around your dick and ass.

Those drugs tend to make it slightly more difficult to reach orgasm, moreso with serotonin related ones like antidepressants or psychedelics

I always have a drink before sex pretty much. Makes me last longer for sure.

Yea, paxil and other ssris are the best. I took that for a while when I first met my wife. Probably how I bagged her, lol. Rock hard cock that could literally fuck her as long as she wanted. Shit makes you almost super human.

Little did she know it was the drugs I was taking.

Downside was I had to work my ass off to cum.

Yeah, I know that life. Upside for me was the euphoria of sex itself was better

Try taking some heroin or percs. You will fuck for hours bro.

I dont really remember. Prob was for me too. Some of the best sex I, and apparently she ever had.

You can get it prescribed for "ED" now through online pharmacies. I havent done that, although I do by generic viagra from an online pharmacy.

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weird you guys say that cause i was on citrolpram or whatever its called for a couple years and sometimes it would take me forever to bust or i just couldn’t at all. never ever had a problem getting it up and staying hard on or off the meds. now that i recently (4 or 5 months) stopped taking them it seems i bust quick and now also have night terrors every night but thats another issue

Best advice in this thread..
1: use a cock ring. I like to use a vibrating cock ring that way you can tell the girl it's for her pleasure without arriving suspicion. They also feel amazing for you too.

2:Use desentizising cream there are plenty of different kinds out there. Visist you local sex shop and try a few out by tapping till you find the one that feels best.

3: use some boner pills. You can pick these up at a sex shop as well. You can do a Google search and find the ones that use the same ingredient as Viagra and buy wo a pescription.

If you use all 3 methods you WILL last longer for sure

Excercise, specifically cardio. This is literally the best answer.

Wait, really?

Put more effort into foreplay. It relaxes you mentally and takes the pressure off your dick to do all the work.

Stop thinking about the fact that you might be cumming too fast or what she might think about it. Just enjoy sex and don't think about anything else. All those worries just make you tense up and will ruin the experience. Just be there in the moment. This happened to me as well..the first couple of times I had sex with a new chick. It was with a new person, I was too excited...wanted to last longer and prove something to that chick...but this leads to stress and random thoughts, and you only sabotage yourself. Relax and be there during the act.

Yep 100 bro. Not even the same guy who suggested it but its the key to control in so many different ways. Start running every morning

> 1: use a cock ring.
I like a cock ring, but for some women its a turnoff. Makes ur dick about as thick and hard as it can be, especially when combined with pharmaceuticals, but I can tell my wife doesnt like it. I have heard the same thing for other women, they see it as cheating to stay hard basically and not a reflection of you as a healthy ass breeder.

>2:Use desentizising cream

Also numbs her cunt. unless ur are inside a condom.

>3: use some boner pills. You can pick these up at a sex shop as well. You can do a Google search and find the ones that use the same ingredient as Viagra and buy wo a pescription

no you cant, at least not in america. you can easily get it online very cheaply though.

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Has nothing to do with holding in your cum, but you will be able to vigorously fuck her in all positions.

Fair enough

I find Viagra actually makes me cum faster. But it definitely gives extra confidence during the session.

Lose weight, get in shape

Nah, I have more sexual stamina as a fat ass dad than I did when I was ultra fit.

That would be a solution if he was tiring out, not cumming to fast.

I find like pulling down on my balls when I am close to losing control helps me go a little longer.

I think I saw thats what porn dudes do.

Fuck somebody who isn't part of your family

Google kegels.
Train them (and don't forget reverse kegels).
If you get in a serious relationship tell her to work her kegels aswell.
I found out that reducing porn helps, but that might be just for me.
Gl

>use a cock ring
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