Listen dudes

listen dudes
>37 years old
>don't want a kid
>wife is completely adamant
>have a kid or divorce
>this is not the life I wanted
>scared
>afraid im going to kill myself

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Have a kid, user. Kids are good.

at 37 the kid will turn out to be retarted... look at this picture, its your future.

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Why don’t you want a kid?

divorce and then do whatever you want to do with your life

Google MGTOW, you will find near instant release of your anxieties.

You take some responsibility as you married her. Before you get married kids is one of the many things that you talk about. And if it was never really discussed or it was a maybe, it's a given for a woman. Especially when their clock starts ticking. Not all but most go baby crazy. I dated a mature woman when I was in my 20s and she went baby crazy early on so it didn't last. But that wasn't the only reason.

Go on a week long 'business trip' to a town over and get a vasectomy, pay cash, its about 2000-2500, don't tell her.

"Oh well honey, not sure what's going on, maybe your ovaries are rotten"

Be a fucking man. I'm 25, first kid is coming in June. Shed your selfish ways and step into maturity.

Chop your dick off and let the chips fall where they may.

let someone else impregnate her

haha you only have months left before your life will turn to shit.... enjoy buddy.

I work to hard to, kids are not worth it

Having kids is a life changing decision that nobody should ever force you into making. If you don't want them, don't have them

>>don't want a kid
>>wife is completely adamant
>>have a kid or divorce
Then have divorce. You will resent your life if you have the kid just so she won’t leave you. You will hate the kid, you will hate her, you will hate being alive. I won’t say “just” get a divorce, because I know it’s not easy, pleasant, or simple. But it really is the only thing you can do. If you are that mature in your life span and still vehemently KNOW you don’t want one, then don’t have one. Not everyone was instilled with that nurturing instinct, and you, a relic of the OG internet era like myself, are most certainly autism incarnate and therefore simply not even capable of loving a child.

You were probably going to waste the next 18 years anyways may as well carry on your genes, only the first few years are rough then they start doing things on their own and you start to get small amounts of "you" time back and by the time they are teens they want nothing to do with you and you are usually crushed because lo and behold having kids wasn't so bad.

This!

When my wife went baby crazy, i convinced her that she was depressed. We take her to a psych and the over medicated her so bad she gained 100 pounds and sleeps 14 h a day. The now thinks she got on meds just in time because these side effe....um...symptoms got real bad real quick and now she needs the meds to live. Shes way to dysfunctional and self loathing to even think about kids anymore, isnt even an after thought.

With her pacified, Im free to do what I want.

just leave her

make a kid, and educate him to be one of us user, he will be the chosen one user, do it user

36yo here, dude whyd you get married? im assuming you had a good job and a place to live before you got married right? wtf would you give that up. long term gf, sure hell ya. wife? half? thats gonna be a no from me dog.

the question is if she is the right woman for you

have the kid or do not have the kid, either way, this is your future girlfriend

but generally, not having the kid because is generally selfishness, not having the kid is an ultimate regret

get on that ride son

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>I don't want a kid but my wife does, now I need to kill myself :'(

You sound like a faggot do us all a favor, an Hero!

Based!

Quickly yet quietly remove your name from all joint accounts. Immediately file for divorce. Have somewhere to crash for the night because you prob don't want to be at home. Do all of this in one day. Can you see her taking out her anger on your favourite items? .. get those moved to safety first.

Good luck. Never be scared, that's no relationship. I'm surprised she hasn't sabotaged her birth control and got "accidentally" pregnant yet. Had an ex-wife pull that stunt on the guy she lived with about 5 yrs after we split.

You think it's a good idea to bring a kid into this world?

>make an irreversable choice user it's a good choice
>be a man user
please tell me you're pretending to be retarded

Don't kill yourself
realize that you and her aren't going to work out together if your life views are this incompatible and bite the bullet of divorce with some respect. You don't have to be a dick about it, just say "I'm sorry but I don't want children so if that's how you feel then we should get divorced and find other people".