I dont know why I'm posting this here. Maybe because you guys are my only friends. Or maybe you can relate but...
>White single guy
>33
>Have a home and good job
>No drugs or vices
>Just want a wife and some kids of my own
>Can't even get a gf
>Haven't had one in 10 years
>I'm lonely
>I just want to help the white race
I think it's cause my height (5'6").
Is there any legit thing I can do? I'm running out of time.
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>I think it's cause my height (5'6").
It's not.
Women, largely, don't care about appearance at all. Sure, that's a massive generalisation but look at all those stunning women with old guys/fatties etc.
It's because they provide security (wealth). You're simply not portraying yourself right. You on tinder or anything? How do you meet women? Are you upfront with your views?
>he thinks he can find a wife on tinder
I was on tinder but rarely got matches and when I did it never went anywhere.
I've actually started "putting myself out there" like everyone says...no luck.
I go out to cafe's/lounges/dinner bars etc.
I usually don't even get to a point to talk about views.
In the past year I've really been trying, one girl at a coffeehouse talked to me. But I sperged out and kept walking.
No reason you can't.
That's divide and conquer talk. All this talk about finding a sweet virgin to marry is an ideal that is unobtainable by most. It is what people should strive towards, certainly (not least of all because of that research showing the more partners a woman has had the more likely her relationships are to faulter) but we are not living in the Garden of Eden, we are not living in perfect times.
There has to be a realisation of: "If I want to do my part and continue the European stock, I'm going to have to make some concessions".
Think of it this way, one of Hitlers biggest mistakes was his total adherence to his ideology and his policy of no-retreats. Strategic retreats are enormously effective in certain circumstances.
You can either dream about finding the ideal or, accept reality, and make the best of a shitty hand.
Have you tried joining a church or anything? Thought about going after older woman who are fearing the ticking of their body clock?
Had a friend bragging that he got laid last weekend. He fucked some random sloot he didn't know and never heard from again.
He was absolutely perplexed when I told him that come back bragging to me when she cooks for you and calls you honey when you come home from work.
That is literally my dream, I want a girl who cooks for me and ebraces me with unconditional love when I come home.
Is that really too much to ask? ; _ ;
>no reason you can't
There's plenty of reasons. Mainly because 99% of people using tinder is only there to fuck and forget, and even if you somehow find someone that actually wants a relationship, could you really respect her knowing she's probably fucked a million dudes before she got around to you?
Best bet is your local church.
This. Go to church. Get involved.
Sign up for eharmony (hookup app isnt where you find a wife)
Join 2 or 3 real dating websites. Many people meet online now. If youre a spurg its your better bet.
talk to women and they will love you for your money
You don't need to talk to women if you have money, you simply need to flaunt it.
>unconditional love
>too much to ask
Yes.
My wife cooked for me the last two nights. How did I get here? Well, for one thing, I never believed in bullshit like 'unconditional love.'
Love is never unconditional with women kohai
Different in my town at least. No girl wants to hook up for a night only, they all want something serious. Don't know what's better really.
>married since 2011
> 3rd kid came 4 weeks ago
Living the dream
In the cucked Union of Scandinavian Socialist Republics (no offense) – maybe. In US many chicks still have patriarchal views on relationship and are pissed that many Tinder guys are only looking to increase their score and to never be heard from again. If you can get a first date I’d say there’s some 20% chance you can have a relationship after that.
>Is that really too much to ask? ; _ ;
No it's not but, because of what's been pushed for years, girls fight against wanting to do that. They actually struggle with it. I see it all the time.
We have to be men and show then it's ok to be homely like that. Even now, all those hair-dyed fat SJW like what? Baking, chicks still lose their shit about baking, crafts, home decorating etc. Even fucking lesbos like it. Why? Because it's engrained in them.
A big issue is the expectation from a lot of males that they deserve it. It's a two way street. You have to give your woman what she needs in order to do it. What does she need? Attention. Woman fucking love attention (one of the issues with/for SJWs is the lack of attention). As faggy as it might sound to us if you text some chick you're going out with/married to/whatever "I'm at work and I can't stop thinking how fucking pretty you are". It'll make her fucking day and she will return the favour. That's not to say let her walk voer you and get away with stuff, fuck no, but you have to get to give.
>could you really respect her knowing she's probably fucked a million dudes before she got around to you?
But that's an issue with society largely. Can you blame people for acting that way when we've had it programmed into us for decades that it's ok to behave that way? Like I said you cans earch for the ideal all you want but the sad reality is it doesn't exsist in the quantities it once did.
Have to face the harsh reality. You have to be the change you want to be in the world.
>Is there any legit thing I can do?
Yeah mate, get a girlfriend.
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You must be a real dropkick if ya can't get a girlfriend mate, I know some geuinely dopey cunts that have a missus. get fucked.
Here's a pic. Yes that's a Vader mask
>Best bet is your local church.
Fucking lmao, church girls are insatiable
This, but also do Tinder and get laid. All women love a guy who can get sex from other women. There is nothing less attractive to a woman than a guy who is waiting for her to fix his lack of sex.
Women are different than men.
>cuckshed included in pic
Noice
plot twist
>you're a nigger
Keep doing god's work user
I hope you get cucked and will have to pay 70% of your paycheck for childsupport and alimony
^this, church worked for my friend he found a dime who could cook like a pro pity he fukt it up
Yes they do.
Cute user, keep them safe. The world's not a good place for our kind right now and it's not getting any better.
Numbers game, lad. Talk to ten women and you're bound to be compatible with one. Talk to 30 and you're like to have your pick of a few women.
It's not yours, swedecuck
She will hook up with Chad, you just don't know about it.
t. Somalian Immigrant
>wanting marriage and kids in the year of our lord 2016
What so great about a meaningless family? When u die everything ends. Why does a family make your life happy?? holyshit some people just can't see the whole point of life but muh family. What waste of time.
thaiairways.com
Enjoy
So where do you live, and do you accept Finnish refugees?
quit alt right (trump, anime, gay porn, etc) get a job and stop making excuses.
>be a shut-in full of hate because you spend all your time on a board that finds reasons to hate everyone who is different from them
>wonder why you have no one in your life
Nice proxy America
We all know chinks aren't allowed to use the internet
Become a serial rapist, one of those cunts is bound to get pregnant and not abort the manlet fetus
Hope you keep them safe and raise them well user. Good luck
>uploading pics of your kids to Sup Forums
tribute when?
This.
I am happily married with kids, and do quite well for myself. Not bad looking either, but women didn't bat an eye at me, not that I gave a shit, until I bought an expensive car. Most women are materialistic whores quite apt to be impressed by trinkets.
>but you have to get to give.
Implying this isn't a crystal clear consept for me.
I fucking know this, but what does being a fucking white knight get you? Fucking nothing. Single moms over 30 who got pregnant at 17 will be all over you once you hit 25, but fucking imblying that is anything I would like to be a part of.
One of the problems with this whole thing is that it is always a base assumption that I just want a woman to be my household slave, who I get to beat once in a while if everything isn't spotless and perfect. Meanwhile I do absolutely nothing, exept drink beer while sitting on the couch.
In reality it's not like that. What I really want is to strike such a good deal with a woman that she will realize that her staying at home, taking care of shit is such a great deal that will benefit first of all, both of us, and second of all, our kids. If she has an actual desire to do work, then she is completely free to do so too, but I'm still offering her the chance to be a housewife.
There are no abuse fanatsies buried here. I just wan't a relationship with mutual understanding, where both of us do our part and be as equal as possible.
I don't have things in my ego preventing me from doing household work or caring for children. After all, I have been taking care of my own household ALONE for almost 10 years, doing absolutely all the chores myself.
Wow, that's depressing. You just described me perfectly. Like, down to the last detail. Except for the height thing, I'm 6'0. Fat and bald, though.
Its coz ur a weird cunt obsessed with the white race
/pole/ is a board of peace
Travel cunt.
Sure as shit you can find a qt3.141.
Save money and travel. Fuck people and find a wife.
Just get out there.
My wife is Greek. Im an Underground miner. In Western Australia.
She says "We need house in Australia", I say, No for 600KAUD We can buy many farms in greece because the economy is collapsed.
I buy her a house here $300KAUD "Hef bebbies". She is fine.
Meanwhile hes cousins in greece have bought 800 Acres in her name and are now growing dope and poppies on the properties...
I made a sound investment. Dont rip on me like her family, junkies needs drugs. I can supply them. Simple as that.
>One of the problems with this whole thing is that it is always a base assumption that I just want a woman to be my household slave
Right.
But, as you explain, that's not what you want. Women, and society in general, do think that because of the rotten eggs but also because it's what (((they))) are saying happens all the time.
The entire point is to be straight up with this:
>What I really want is to strike such a good deal with a woman
You explain it like this and it'll make things much much easier.
>My wife is Greek.
OP said he wants white babies not niggers.
if you're a weeb you can try travelling there and see if you can meet someone, I'm sure your height won't be an issue in Asia
It's not too late for you. If what you're doing isn't working anyway, don't be embarrassed to throw caution to the wind and just after what you want.
Church is a good idea. Online is OK, but be sure not to misrepresent your height or looks... Tinder isn't really a good place, anons are giving solid advice here when they say eharmony.
Do you maintain your hygiene, dress moderately well, can you speak with confidence? Try focusing on these things, especially the confidence. Like a muscle, it will grow and feel natural the more you use it.
Are your standards unrealistically high for a girlfriend? There are diamonds in the rough who would make good wives and mothers without being supermodels or fashion plates.
You can do it, it sounds like it's you who are stopping yourself here.
27, in the same boat
Currently working like a slave in middle management and slowly but surely devolving into alcoholism
It's not even that I'm unattractive, I just freeze up when talking to women im actually interested in
Every time I've gotten laid I've treated the bitch with utter contempt and that just makes even more confused
>r9k
Go to CHURCH. Find nicest girl you see, talk to her, ask her out. Fixed.
If you want to meet people you want go where they are.
Trust this guy. He picksup a lot of sheilas down at the paddock.
Dont ever talk to me or my wifes son's ever again
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Fuck, that Aussie banter sure is amazing.
How do you come up with this stuff? Just off the top of your head?
>posting your kids on Sup Forums
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Heard you guys never shear them so you got plenty of wool to grip on.
op here
posting from work now
I wouldn't even know how to get into church. Besides, it's kinda crappy to go to church just to meet a girl.
I've already tried online dating. Nothing
Thanks that helps a lot
doubtful
at work now m8
at least you can lose weight.
not really
I am /fa/ capable. Been told I dress nice.
Speak with confidence? Not really, unless it's a girl I know already likes me.
I don't think my standards are extremely high.
I don't think church is the answer.
i wanna jizz in her eye
Get fit.
get off pol and go find a bird m8
dating sites or random add girls on fb or go in town with the lads
> 5'6
> white
either a slav or a "white" hispanic
you are out of time OP only thing you can do is find a young flip or viet chick that wants to be in US willing to have your kids
I've just started running. I wasn't fat anyways.
I tried adding random girls on FB but everyone told me that was a stalkerish idea so I stopped
nah. that would probably help me to be honest
i have no way of getting to them. and i dont really want one.
>5 foot 6 inches
When will they learn!
>I tried adding random girls on FB but everyone told me that was a stalkerish idea so I stopped
Oh, fuck.
Now the real problem comes out you sperg. Fucking hell...
they will you come to you. i work in tech field and a few of my older coworkers all did this
they are loaded tho
I'd say forget about having kids. If you have been single for 10 years you probably are not fit to have a happy or even workable marriage. And when you have short boys, what then? Who wants to raise a bunch of losers.
Find some sort of mentoring group or big brother organization, and try to find a young boy that has similar interests as you. You will probably realize quite quickly that most kids, like most adults, suck. My job involves being in people's houses, and believe me, there is (almost) no such thing as a happy family. The closest might be rich people who nearly never see each other, and when they do, it's on some kind of awesome trip, or going to excellent restaurants or shows.
Life is dull. If you have a good job, find a good hobby.
Like this?
Could be worse OP
>failing university
>no direction in life
>in fuckton of debt
>handholdless kissless virgin
>unemployed
>alcoholic
You will find someone, friend. I believe in you.
I'm in tech field too and it doesn't happen. I will get the occasional booty call but no one seems to be interested in having something serious with me. i think it's my manlet genes. girls dont want their children to have those.
thanks
thanks
but you're still young. plenty of time to change.
Thought about joining the military, but fuck Obama, and I can't risk signing 4 years for HRC before the end of the election. I have a lot riding on this, it's really my only way that I can see.
Go to church faggot
I'm a 5'10 king of manlets and will have a family in 2 weeks tops.
He's a big boy 4 u and by the looks of his kicks will be as strong as his dad. The first of many.
Stop being a club scavenger. Find a wife doing things you like to do or through friends of friends.
congrats user
Stay jealous
Thanks
Says the Muslim country
Stop being so afraid of everything
3edgy8me
Good girls are out there anons
You just gotta know where to look
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Sometimes height matters, but the fact that she has kids shouldn't
Sometimes beauty is a relative term
Sometimes they have fetal alcohol syndrome
But they are healthy at every size