It's not your fault

It's not your fault.

Look at me, son.
It's not your fault.

It's not your fault.

But it is my fault. As children we're products of our environment. As adults we're products of our decisions and choices. It's very much my fault.

Listen to me. No one chooses their environment.
It's not your fault.

Yep. That's my point. While I didn't choose my environment as a child, as an adult I make my own choices and I haven't done a great job in my choosing. So it is my fault.

I chose to believe people had my interesrs at heart like i did theirs. Thats was my mistake. My fault.

Tough crowd op, keep trying though

my gf says its my fault :(

don't do this

people abused as kids end up being abusers themselves
the stats don't lie

we could have saved him...

I know

I know!

What the fuck are you doing ;___;

>don't fuck with me , don't fuck with me OP not you

It's not your fault.

Yes it actually is mostly tbqhwy m8

It is, though. I never talked about my depression or any of my problems and now I'm 32 and neet and an alcoholic.

It's not your fault.

It's not your fault.
You got that, chief?
It's not your fault.

I live alone

It's not your fault.

I feel like this is some of that counter-productive "feel good" pop psychology crap, isn't it?

It is absolutely my own fault, and the onus is on me to correct my course so as to avoid being lost at sea.

It's not your fault.

this film was SHIT.
So fucking cheesy and corny

he’s right ita actually all genetics, by the time you’re an adult your behavior is 80% genetically influenced at that point. you are what you are

What's not my fault?

You're right. I blame my parents entirely.

Fuck off man

This was actually in the movie. It plays like it's written by me when I was an edgy 16yo

"So if I asked you about art, you’d probably give me the skinny on every art book ever written. Michelangelo, you know a lot about him. Life’s work, political aspirations, him and the pope, sexual orientations, the whole works, right? But I’ll bet you can’t tell me what it smells like in the Sistine Chapel. You’ve never actually stood there and looked up at that beautiful ceiling; seen that. If I ask you about women, you’d probably give me a syllabus about your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you can’t tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman and feel truly happy. You’re a tough kid. And I’d ask you about war, you’d probably throw Shakespeare at me, right, “once more unto the breach dear friends.” But you’ve never been near one. You’ve never held your best friend’s head in your lap, watch him gasp his last breath looking to you for help. I’d ask you about love, you’d probably quote me a sonnet.
But you’ve never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone that could level you with her eyes, feeling like God put an angel on earth just for you. Who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldn’t know what it’s like to be her angel, to have that love for her, be there forever, through anything, through cancer. And you wouldn’t know about sleeping sitting up in the hospital room for two months, holding her hand, because the doctors could see in your eyes, that the terms “visiting hours” don’t apply to you. You don’t know about real loss, ’cause it only occurs when you’ve loved something more than you love yourself. And I doubt you’ve ever dared to love anybody that much. And look at you… I don’t see an intelligent, confident man… I see a cocky, scared kid.

Fuck, it was bad

Only edgy 20-year-old contrarians get their jimmies rustled for a passage like that. The whole point of that was to deflate Will's edginess and arrogance.

You're embarrassing yourself

So? It still sounds like a writer wanking himself off. This is the drama equivalent of quips.
Nobody talks like that, nobody is that smart of an ass except when they're reliving their power fantasies under the shower.

Its not your fault,Dillon

Its one of those movies where every line delivered has to be so smart and intellectual, almost like a little speech. Just like V for Vendetta.
It is, as you say, cheesy and campy.

It was clearly stated in that scene that he thought about what Will said the day before. It was never implied that he made that rant up on the spot.

>Thought about what you said to me the other day, about my painting. Stayed up half the night thinking about it. Something occurred to me... fell into a deep peaceful sleep, and haven't thought about you since. Do you know what occurred to me?
this was said before this:

Holy shit you're a faggot

YOU SUNNAVAH BITCH!

As someone who's actually been in that situation I had no issue with how they approached the dynamic between Williams and Damon's characters, hell the conclusion felt very sincere and I still cry whenever I watch that shit

Watch out everyone. We got a kiko man in the house. A real estro-gen Z'er here.

I live in fear of anyone actually doing this to me the same way it happened in the movie because I think it may honestly break me down and I'd feel like a jackass because I know it so well from the movie

What do you all have so much guilt for? What is it you've done that you feel is "your fault"?

i dont rly remember that scene
watched it a long time ago
was matt raped?

I still miss him, bros.

No, just a tough upbringing, he was an orphan

its not your fault

>by the time you’re an adult your behavior is 80% genetically influenced at that point

Yeah cool. Did you know that you share 90% of your DNA with a banana?

It's shame/guilt for not being good enough. The innate feeling that nothing I'm doing is right and it's all because of something deeply wrong with me and it's always going to be that way.
No matter how old I become, I can't shake the feeling that I'm a broken individual and I outright write off and positive comments from other people.
The notion that I'm not at fault shakes me up because it's such a deep-seated belief in my head, and, as much as I'd like to believe it, I'm not sure that I ever can

Did you know that you share 100% of your DNA with yourself?

that scene is fucking great. you are a dumb

I do too.

Maybe it's stupid, but the part in Hook where he discovers his "happy thought," makes me tear up. Just how happy he is describing being a parent and he ended up leaving his real daughter in life... Fuck

it is implied that he was sexually abused

Then kill yourself, faggot.

I missed this, when was that implied?

>Thought about what you said to me the other day, about my painting. Stayed up half the night thinking about it. Something occurred to me... fell into a deep peaceful sleep, and haven't thought about you since. Do you know what occurred to me?

implying this isn't just as bad

What's the matter? CIA got you pulling too many heartstrings?

Not every movie tries to be 100% realistic with dialogue. One of the strengths of theatre has always been that it's scripted, it doesn't need to be realistic

whoa

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that scene as this user perfectly summerised

But your decisions and choices are influenced by your personality, values, and the people you’ve been surrounded with, which is also a product of your environment

4 words every socialist loves to hear.